It?s so easy to fall into the trap of thinking there has to be another, better way to keep the house under control. Unfortunately, there isn?t.

In this episode, we discuss:

Balance relaxing and keeping on top of thingsPurposefully changing the location of some things without ruining the ?where would I look first? to better utilize the space in my homeConquering the car clutter

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I'm answering some questions that were submitted at AskDanaKWhite.com. The general theme is that it's hard to declutter when circumstances aren't ideal. Lucky for us, the No Mess Decluttering Method works in any situation.

We live in an older home with zero closets, not for clothes, nothing for linens. I am struggling so hard with ?take it there now? when nothing seems to have a home that makes sense.Do you have any suggestions for preparing for a time when I know I?ll have a lower clutter threshold, but I also know will be not-forever?I've been stuck renovating, moving boxes from room to room, and living in a "war-zone". How do I declutter if I am stuck in the never-ending painting/sanding jobs with very little energy left?How do I give myself the advantage of having a decluttered home from the start with all the chaos that comes with a move?Ask Your Questions Here!Take Your House Back is on Sale! https://aslobcomesclean.com/take

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My Layers of a Clean House video (below) is my most watched video. It gets very different reactions from different people. Today, I'm talking about why it is so important to understand the layers of a clean house.

Watch my Layers of a Clean House video here.

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I know! It?s Thanksgiving Day here in the US when this releases! But this is the time of year when special events may happen in your house, even if they don?t happen very often the rest of the year. I?m sharing my own prep for hosting a large family gathering even in the midst of busy life.

https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/2024/11/faq-how-do-i-get-my-overwhelmingly-messy-house-ready-for-guests/

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Declutter my daughter's room and set her up with a routine for keeping it tidy.Successfully meal plan.Determine what to do with sentimental items.

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I'm answering some questions that were submitted at AskDanaKWhite.com. And, spoiler . . . the Container Concept is pretty much always the answer. Hearing how it applies to all of these different situations will help you apply it to your situation!

Mentioned: The Container Concept Explained video

The questions answered in this episode:

Help! My magazine clippings have invaded my clutter threshold. The clippings are images of homes, interiors, gardens, decor items, recipes, lifestyle, places I want to visit, and articles.In response to your decluttering for your current self, instead of keeping stuff for who you used to be, my struggle is unpublished manuscripts. How do you decide when to throw it all away. The research, the notes, the manuscript itself and the many idea boards?I am recovered from an eating disorder and having a range of clothing sizes to account for life's natural weight fluctuations has been key to my recovery. I have now been recovered long enough that my weight fluctuates minimally, which is different than the initial dramatic fluctuations. so there is no reason for the range of clothes i have. How do I declutter when I'm compelled to keep all these sizes?I?ve been doing some great decluttering but as soon as my hubby says ? I think we should declutter?? or ?our house is a mess we should get rid of stuff? I lose all motivation! How do I combat this?What do you do if your container for a type of item is perfectly filled but then you receive an unexpected gift that you could grow to love, but you don't want to donate a current favorite just to try it out?I want to declutter. I want to get rid of stuff. But since I was a kid I was kinda "shamed" for throwing stuff away.

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When you feel stretched thin, adding one more thing is painful! Even if it?s a little thing that normally wouldn?t feel like a big deal! I?m sharing ways to alleviate the pressure of feeling stretched thin.

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Those of us who struggle (big time) with clutter love to feel prepared for anything (and everything). The idea of decluttering can feel like giving up on that, and when worst-case scenarios actually happen, all those panicky feelings flare up and make it hard to let go of clutter.

The solution is not to pretend bad things can?t happen. It?s to accept reality. It?s reality that bad things happen. It?s also reality that keeping more stuff than my house can hold or that I can handle makes dealing with bad things (or even good things) more difficult.

 

 

 

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In this episode, we discuss:

Tackling a large project of sentimental items which will go into a new storage area.Balancing what I keep for myself with what I need to declutter for my family.Gaining strategies for efficiently working with a helper who can only come once.

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A kitchen that functions well makes the whole house function better! Today, I?m sharing four ways to make this key space in your home run more smoothly.

Below are the two videos I mentioned in the podcast.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/BJeQpR3UbXQ?si=BEd3n6AYSCDkQ85-

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In this episode, we discuss:

Letting go of your fantasy self as we move into a new phase of life.Gauging when to move past gentle encouragement over to doing most of the heavy lifting for my overwhelmed daughter.Solving the problem of all the equipment we need being in a hard-to-get-to place.

 

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Life is hard enough and "closure" isn't always possible in difficult situations. Decluttering doesn't have to be that way. It is absolutely possible to have closure with your stuff when you use the No Mess Decluttering Process.

https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/2021/02/285-my-5-step-decluttering-process-podcast/

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I'm so excited to be back after my summer break! In this episode, I'll go deep into what I learned by focusing hard on keeping dishes done (as opposed to just doing the dishes) and how to prevent dish piles from happening!

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Getting motivated to declutter (or just to get started on your house at all) can be really difficult! In today's episode, I'm sharing my best tips for getting motivated to start making real progress in your home. 

 

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I'm answering questions that you asked over on Instagram. I'm covering things like decluttering burnout, finding the right donation place, worrying about decluttering when money is tight, and many more!

 

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It's how to help other people, right? 

Summer's coming, so it's possible you'll have the "opportunity" to help other people declutter! Today, I'm sharing my best mindset shifts and strategies to make these situations go smoothly AND to produce great decluttering results.

 

 

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In this episode, we discuss:

 

Decluttering to have a working space for art.Finding common ?look for it here first? spaces with other adults in the home.Keeping up with outdoor and seasonal stuff.

 

 

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Knowing the doorbell is going to ring is the best motivation to get the house cleaned up. But those moments can be extremely stressful! Today, I?m talking about ideas for getting a party on the schedule and my method for making it an all-around positive experience you?ll want to do again!  Get 14 Days to Opening Your Front Door to Guests on Sale!

 

 

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https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/2017/11/145-2-week-plan-getting-ready-guests-podcast-part-one/

https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/2013/10/009-pt2-how-to-clean-a-messy-house/

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I'm talking with my friend Myquillyn Smith (The Nester) about her new book, House Rules. She's the queen of making decorating your home feel totally doable. I loved this conversation! Grab her book wherever books are sold. It's out now!

 

 

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In this episode, we discuss:

 

Defining the Craft Room while also using it for storage.Getting past the Doorbell Panic.Helping with parents' garage & shared storage unit.

 

 

 

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When I started my deslobification process, I realized quickly that I have what I call Slob Vision. Some people call it Clutter Blindness. In today's episode, I'm sharing things that I've realized cause Slob Vision and what I do to keep it from causing my home to fall into Disaster Status.

 

 

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I don't use emotions to make decluttering decisions. Today, though, I'm talking about the difference between enjoying things and holding onto things. If I have too many things, I can't enjoy them!

 

 

My 5-Step Decluttering Process Podcast

 

The Basics - Getting Started or Getting Back

 

Measuring Progress, Measuring Success

 

 

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Decluttering can be daunting, and if you find yourself stuck in "the Messy Middle," you might feel discouraged. Of course, with the No Mess Decluttering Process, there's no physical mess. But I'm sharing ways to get through the feelings of frustration you might experience in the middle of a decluttering project.

 

 

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In this episode, we discuss:

Help when you know your home is not your project, but your projects have a tendency to take over your home.Declutter the room that I named the ?Home Office? when more functions keep getting piled on.Deal with identity clutter.

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I?m answering some of your decluttering questions as quickly as I can. (Answering quickly is quite the challenge for me!)

 

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Learning to identify and use Awkward Pauses is so essential to making real change in your home. Knowing what to do in small amounts of time that will achieve real progress is key.

 

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I've been craving rest lately, so I've been thinking a lot about it. Specifically, how the No Mess Decluttering Process allows for rest in a way that the way I used to declutter did not.

 

 

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In this episode, we discuss:

Declutter my house when most of the stuff isn?t mine.Declutter the garage.Keep the Craffice( craft room/office ) decluttered when sharing it with my husband.

 

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In this episode, we discuss:

Ideas on getting past ?blocks? when it comes to moving to different parts of the house when decluttering.Worrying about the wrong thing.Tips and tricks on keeping up with everything when working from home.

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In this episode, we discuss:

Having children help - how to delegate and still follow the steps.How to keep up with cleaning and laundry when your schedule is always changing.Helping the kids decide what to keep.

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There are people out there who love decluttering. I am not one of those people. But I do see the value in it and am so glad I've decluttered (and keep decluttering). I used to think that once I got good at decluttering, I'd learn to love it, and that would make it easy. That never happened. And that's okay.

 

 

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This week, I am talking about Net Gains Decluttering, meaning that we move the whole house forward by making progress in one space at a time without making other spaces worse. Learn what to do when your "take it there now" place needs to be decluttered, and discover the power of doing it now.

 

 

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In this episode, we discuss:

Staying motivated and not getting overwhelmed.Providing loving guidance to your spouse and children.Deciding if lists are helpful.

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As has become the tradition for every hundredth episode, my husband joins me to answer questions from you! I always love these episodes!

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This week I'm talking with my friend Dawn about the importance and the reality of balancing daily stuff with the decluttering. Dawn and I do the Take Your House Back course together, and it's on sale now through January 10th! Grab it at aslobcomesclean.com/take.

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The biggest benefit for me of using my No Mess Decluttering Process is not needing to predict how much time I'll need to declutter. Not needing to assess the mess and guess how long it will take to deal with it means I'm much more likely to get started. I know that any amount of time I spend decluttering will make an impact.

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At this time of year, MANY of us are in survival mode. That's normal, and surviving is better than not. Today, I'm sharing ways I work to move forward on making progress in my house, even when I'm in the midst of a crazy time that once would have set my home back significantly. 

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I have removed emotions from my decluttering process, not because I don't have emotions, but because I do! I can't use emotions to declutter, so I stick with my fact and instinct based ways of dealing with things.

One of the biggest things that brings up lots of emotions is being asked (or asking myself) WHY?

Why didn't I take care of this before instead of letting it get so bad?

Why did I get this?

Why am I this way?

I'm talking about why I don't use "why" and why it helps to not use "why" in my decluttering process.

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I'm answering questions in this episode about piles of shoes, stress over deciding how many towels to keep, whether to stop decluttering to hang up a picture, and more. These are the kinds of things that stress declutterers out, so I hope I can take some of the stress away.

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I hope you enjoy this conversation! 

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The hardest thing about decluttering is making decisions. Decision after decision after decision. My five step decluttering process makes decision making easier/possible. Today, I'm talking about applying the decluttering strategies to decision making about more than just clutter.

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Terms like space-saving designs and storage solutions and such are very appealing, but even though I used to purchase organizing products labeled that way, my house didn't look any better. I've now come to a point where I'm turned off by those phrases. It's a mindset shift.

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I'm answering a few questions that were asked over at AskDanaKWhite.com. 

Question 1: My question is on the subject of toys. How do I go about starting (outside of your normal questions)? Like where do I start? My son is 3. Do I pick what to keep or does he? (We have tons of Hot Wheels, monster trucks, and small tractors.) How do I decide what to keep/donate? Is there a limit to how many of each?! HELP! Thank you!

Question 2: I am just starting my decluttering adventure. How do I create a home for items that I don't already have a place for?

Question 3: What do you do with items that you know you would have (Q2) but are not sure where you would look for that item? My "look for first" place changes. What if you haven't had a look for this item first space yet?

Part 2 of this question: What do you do for hope chest and heirloom items? I am saving for a home of my own. I have items that I would need for my future home. Right now I am living with a roommate and using her stuff (per her request as she owns the place that I am living). I have some of the same items i.e. dishes, furniture that I needed with different roommates and apartments in the past. When I have my own place will need these items again. How do I declutter items that I will still need when I'm wanting to declutter what I have and make it more manageable?

 

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This was a fun strategy session with two guests! I know that navigating the decluttering process with a spouse can present challenges, so it was good to talk to this couple together.

We discussed:

How to manage every day routines and still get to clean the house.Making progress when planning for a move.Dealing with sentimental clutter and feeling overwhelmed. 

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We all have (at least) one category of stuff that's extra hard to declutter. I'm addressing that today, inspired by this email: 

I am a teacher who, due to life circumstances, is leaving the profession shortly before I could be considered early retired. I am working part-time as a substitute teacher because I can not seem to let go entirely. My question for you is: how do I let go of all the teaching resources I have accumulated and created over the last twenty-plus years? As a substitute teacher, I would realistically only need some of the materials, but not 80 boxes worth. How did you deal with the process of letting go of your professional materials? I have been stuck with this issue for a long time. I have other clutter issues, but at the moment, the professional materials are one area I would like to conquer soon.

 

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