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What if peace isn?t a place you find but a skill you practice every day? Mike sits down with joy empowerment coach and Neuroencoding specialist Marcus Weiss to unpack how stress becomes a default and how simple, repeatable tools can reset your mind and body toward calm, clarity, and connection. Marcus gets real about years spent waking to tension and going to bed in relief, and the moment a mentor?s practical guidance worked in real time. That spark led to a new baseline: choosing intention, interrupting patterns, and building reps that turn temporary relief into a steady way of being.

We dig into the nuts and bolts of emotional resilience: noticing your early warning signs, using breath to cue the nervous system, and speaking out loud to anchor a better state your brain can believe. Marcus shares why recognition comes first, how to ask what you?d rather feel, and how one-degree shifts?leaving a noisy room, turning off a trigger, smiling on purpose?can convert a spiral into traction. For veterans and families navigating post-deployment life, these tools foster connection where isolation once lived and help re-engage with relationships, community, and meaningful work.

You?ll also learn how to handle holiday pressure without losing yourself, why consistency beats intensity, and how gratitude at night plus a bold morning declaration can reset your default. We close with three field-tested tips: start the day with a promise you can keep, breathe with a long S exhale to calm the body, and bookend your evening with what went well. Ready to feel better on purpose and watch the world mirror it back? Press play, practice the reps, and then tell us the one habit you?re committing to this week. If this conversation helped, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help others find the show.

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The quiet of midlife can be loud. When the calendar eases and the chaos fades, old wounds often step forward, and for veterans and their families that shift can feel like a tidal pull. We sit down with healer and mentor Dianna Sullivan to unpack why trauma often resurfaces when life finally feels safe, how the nervous system signals it?s ready to process, and what practical steps actually move you from numbness to momentum.

Dianna shares her path from a controlling, abusive relationship to a purpose-led practice that blends coaching, Neuroencoding, and energy work. We dig into the science of habits and attention?how celebrating small daily wins creates clean dopamine, rewires expectation, and helps you spot progress instead of problems. We also talk about the human side: patience over perfection, choosing compassion when you?d rather push, and the honest truth that you can?t leap from despair to joy without sturdy rungs in between.

For couples navigating trauma?s aftershocks, we explore boundaries that respect both people, conversations that invite openness without blame, and the reality that you can?t change someone who isn?t ready. Dianna explains how modalities like Reiki, shamanic healing, and Access Bars can calm an overcharged system and make space for insight, even if the language feels new. The throughline is agency: your daily choices, your story of survival, your next small step. If you?ve been stuck in a ?season of suck,? this conversation offers tools to steady your footing and start climbing.

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What if your past stopped defining you and started refining you? Michael sits down with actor-turned-performance coach Arron Lloyd to explore how veterans and their families can reframe tough experiences, encode a stronger identity, and rebuild connection at home without walking on eggshells. Arron?s story?sleeping on a floor in the Bronx, making a decision in a blizzard, and choosing a new meaning for hardship?becomes a blueprint for anyone stuck between who they were and who they want to be.

We dig into the acting principle of ?given circumstances? and apply it to real life: you can?t change what happened, but you can change what it means. Arron shares concrete, brain-based tools from Neuroencoding, including changing personal history, daily identity statements, and a breath-linked repetition technique borrowed from Shakespeare training to move ideas from your head into your body. Mike highlights the power of presence to break autopilot and how celebration locks in progress?because your brain keeps what you reward.

For families navigating reintegration, words matter. Arron offers language that lifts without shame: ?I believe in you. I believe in who you?re becoming.? We talk love and respect, appreciation rituals that hit the heart, and simple connection practices like eye contact and synchronized breathing. You?ll learn how to polish shared memories to rekindle why you chose each other, and how military values?leadership, grit, loyalty?transfer powerfully into civilian life. Arron closes with three pillars to go further, faster: love as a daily practice, belief as a compass, and memories as fuel for who you are becoming.

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What if the smartest career move after service isn?t a perfect plan, but a bold restart? We sit down with retired Navy SEAL, CEO, and author Marty Strong to explore how veterans can trade the myth of linear success for a practical path that blends grit, creativity, and modern vocational skills. Marty opens up about leaving the Teams, entering finance with zero sales experience, and building a mentor network from scratch?then explains how poise under pressure turned market chaos into client trust and long-term growth.

We unpack the real barriers many veterans face during transition: narrow job expectations, a lack of sales and prospecting training, and the misconception that one wrong move means failure. Marty breaks these apart with field-tested advice on gap analysis, self-training, curiosity, and emotional intelligence. He shows how the very traits honed in uniform?discipline, adaptability, and calm in uncertainty?become a superpower in business, leadership, and entrepreneurship when applied with intention.

Then we dive into Warriors Haven USA, the nonprofit Marty co-founded to close the vocational gap with hands-on training and direct pathways to paid work. From a Florida wood-and-metal shop with lasers and 3D printers to a virtual business academy teaching AI, cybersecurity, and business planning, the program moves veterans through a three-level track: exposure, skill-building, and apprenticeship-to-onboarding. With employer partners that include Michelin-level kitchens and diverse manufacturers, Warriors Haven USA turns training into opportunity, and ambition into a job offer.

If you?re a veteran or family member seeking a meaningful civilian career, you?ll hear concrete steps to move further, faster: find mentors who have ?arrived,? embrace experimentation over perfection, and keep your creative edge alive at any age. Ready to rethink your path and build skills that pay? Listen now, then subscribe, share with a veteran who needs this, and leave a review to help more people find the show.

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The hardest battles aren?t always fought in combat?they often begin when the uniform comes off. We sit down with Marine Corps veteran and recovery coach Garrett Biss to trace the invisible journey many veterans face: the sudden loss of belonging, the narrowing focus that comes with chronic fight or flight, and the quiet urge to hide behind masks just to be accepted. Garrett offers a clear framework?connection, authenticity, and meaning?that helps explain the void and shows a practical way out.

Garrett?s own story flips the usual recovery script. With guidance from a mentor, he didn?t aim at cravings first; he aimed at the emptiness underneath them. By reconnecting with his whole self and giving equal weight to strengths and wins?not just mistakes?he reduced the need to numb. He shares simple tools you can use today: a 100 wins list to widen perspective, small daily gratitudes that shift attention from threats to truths, and brief self-regulation practices to calm the nervous system so real connection becomes possible. We also unpack why masks sabotage belonging, how identity gets split during service, and what it takes to rebuild confidence without rank or role.

Whether you?re a veteran, a family member, or a professional who supports the community, this conversation delivers practical steps and language you can use right away. You?ll learn how to spot patterns of isolation, invite safer authenticity, and help someone move from ?I used to be someone? to ?I still am someone.? Explore Garrett?s free resources at thewarriorreset.com, and share this episode with someone who needs a roadmap back to purpose. If this resonated, follow the show, leave a review, and tell us one small win you?re claiming today.

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What if the turning point you need isn?t a windfall or a miracle, but a series of small choices that compound into freedom? That?s the heartbeat of our conversation with business and finance mentor Angela Tipton, whose journey through Crohn?s disease, six-figure student debt, and a Fortune 500 career led her to rewire beliefs and redefine success on her terms.

We walk through the real mechanics of change: how to spot disabling beliefs before they stall your plans, and how to build enabling beliefs backed by simple systems. Angela shares the daily check-ins she uses to surface emotions, the framing questions that shrink stress, and the counter-habits that protect her from burnout. We dig into the psychology of money?scarcity scripts, investing fears, identity traps?and translate mindset shifts into practical moves like automating savings, breaking goals into tiny steps, and celebrating small wins to reinforce progress.

If you?ve felt stuck in a draining role, worried about debt, or unsure how to start, this episode offers a clear path forward. We unpack vision boards that drive action (not clutter), SMART goals that actually stick, and a weekly review that keeps your plan honest. Veterans and families will find tools tailored to transition stress and identity shifts, but the playbook serves anyone ready to claim agency over work, health, and finances. Freedom isn?t a lucky break; it?s a repeatable process you can start today.

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A homecoming can feel like a finish line, but for many veterans and partners it?s the moment everything shifts. Roles change, routines collide, and good intentions get lost in translation. We brought in David and Alexis ?Kiwi? to share the tools that helped them turn a painful communication breakdown?yes, including a hard?boiled egg in a birthday lasagna?into a marriage that?s resilient, connected, and aligned.

We explore how unspoken expectations sabotage closeness and why building a common language is the fastest way to sync meaning with message. You?ll learn the ?three businesses? framework that lowers anxiety on the spot: own what you think, feel, do, and create; influence but don?t control others; trust the timing and outcomes you can?t manage. We dig into mindset science too?how your reticular activating system filters reality to match your focus?and how a simple physiology reset can break the spin cycle of stress in seconds. Instead of command-and-control habits that backfire at home, we model curiosity, clear requests, and practical rituals.

Expect concrete steps you can use tonight: five to ten minutes of daily couch time with three prompts (best part, hardest part, how can I support you), the ?what?s in your cup? check to upgrade your inputs, and the same-team mindset that turns arguments into joint problem-solving. Whether you?re navigating reintegration, launching a business together, or simply trying to feel close again, these tools help you reclaim presence and rebuild trust without guesswork.

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When Joe Kramer received his medical discharge from the Army due to hearing issues, his decade-long dream of military service came crashing down. As a West Point graduate raised in a military family, the sudden transition left him experiencing what he calls "identity whiplash" - that jarring moment when the future you've envisioned disappears overnight.

What followed was a tumultuous journey through multiple civilian careers and layoffs, all while supporting a growing family including newborn twins. Rather than succumbing to bitterness or despair, Joe maintained a relentless optimism that ultimately guided him toward meaningful work aligned with his values. His story resonates with anyone facing unexpected career pivots or searching for purpose after a major life transition.

The conversation takes a fascinating turn when Joe reveals how he founded "Ruck On," an initiative that began as his personal fitness journey but evolved into a platform helping veterans reconnect with physical activity and personal development. By transforming military rucking into a civilian practice on his own terms, Joe rediscovered a piece of his military identity while reclaiming his personal agency. This became a powerful metaphor for his broader transition - taking familiar elements from military life but adapting them to serve his civilian goals.

Perhaps most valuable are Joe's three transformative practices for veterans in transition: reading ten pages daily, consistent journaling, and intentionally focusing on positives. His practical exercise of listing what you don't want and then flipping each item provides a roadmap for clarity when feeling lost. As Joe wisely notes, "People get hung up focusing on the negatives and what they don't want, and you just get more of that." His journey proves that with resilience and the right mindset, veterans can create fulfilling lives beyond service, choosing meaning over expectations.

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"The moment I handed over my M4?the weapon that kept me alive for a year through hell?I felt naked." These powerful words from US Army veteran Danny O'Neel capture the vulnerability many veterans experience when transitioning from combat to civilian life.

Danny's story begins with childhood trauma, continues through combat as a Fire Support Specialist, and transforms into a journey of healing that offers hope to struggling veterans everywhere. Scoring a 10/10 on the Adverse Childhood Experiences test before even entering military service, Danny carried psychological burdens that would later compound with combat trauma. After losing nine brothers during deployment and witnessing many more succumb to suicide afterward, Danny himself reached a breaking point.

"I didn't want to be an asshole anymore," Danny candidly shares, describing how pushing away loved ones and self-medicating with alcohol led him to attempt suicide. His awakening came with the realization that he needed to "unpack Pandora's box of trauma"?not just from war, but from his childhood as well. The process wasn't easy, but it transformed him.

Danny's approach to resilience draws from a powerful metaphor: when storms come, cows run and keep running, exhausting themselves as the storm follows. Buffalo, however, charge directly into the storm, getting wet and uncomfortable, but reaching sunshine much faster. This philosophy?facing challenges head-on rather than avoiding them?forms the cornerstone of Danny's recovery and his message to other veterans.

Today, Danny runs multiple businesses and nonprofits dedicated to veteran support, including Warfighter Overwatch. His journey from not wanting to live to helping others find their path demonstrates that healing is possible, even from the deepest trauma. His parting wisdom resonates with profound simplicity: "Resilience doesn't happen when it goes your way."

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Ever notice how easy it is to flip your lid when life gets overwhelming? In this powerful conversation, Mike Cole welcomes back retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel Tina Parker to explore the transformative shift from reactivity to creativity.

Tina vulnerably shares her journey through unimaginable challenges?losing her first child to stillbirth, facing cancer after her daughter's birth, and navigating divorce?and how these experiences taught her to choose creativity even in life's darkest moments. Rather than asking "why me?" she demonstrates how shifting the questions we ask ourselves can completely transform our experience.

The discussion reveals a simple yet profound framework anyone can use: Pause, Notice, Choose. Your breath becomes the bridge between reactivity and creativity, creating space for intentional responses rather than automatic reactions. This isn't about never experiencing difficult emotions?it's about recognizing we always have a choice in how we respond to them.

Perhaps most compelling is the understanding that our reactions send ripple effects?or as Mike puts it, "tidal waves"?affecting not just ourselves but everyone around us. When we react negatively to our children, partners, or colleagues, that energy spreads; when we respond consciously, that positive energy spreads instead.

For women in leadership particularly, this shift offers a powerful alternative to pushing against existing structures. Instead of exhausting ourselves fighting systems not designed with us in mind, we can create something new through a pull towards possibility rather than a push against resistance.

Ready to break free from reactivity and become the conscious creator of your life experience? This conversation offers practical wisdom for anyone seeking more balance, fulfillment, and authentic power in their daily life. Visit empowerperformancestrategies.com to continue your journey!

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Are your thoughts empowering or draining you? In this eye-opening conversation with Robert and Cathy Casteel, we explore the powerful State Trilogy that shapes your energy levels and determines your quality of life.

The Casteel's, drawing from their military backgrounds and coaching expertise, break down how focus, physiology, and language work together like a three-legged stool to create your mental and emotional state. When one element weakens, your entire foundation becomes unstable. Through practical examples and personal stories, they demonstrate how consciously managing these three elements can transform your energy from poor to rich, dramatically changing how you show up in the world.

We dive into the fascinating Hawaiian Ho'oponopono prayer?a simple yet profound healing practice that can repair relationships even when the other person isn't physically present. Robert and Cathy vulnerably demonstrate this prayer during our conversation, showing how four simple phrases?"I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you"?can create powerful energy shifts in yourself and others.

For veterans especially, who often struggle with the transition from military to civilian life, these tools provide a practical framework for managing challenging emotions and creating a new empowered reality. The Casteel's share their technique called "BOP" (Breathe, Open, Pause) to interrupt negative thought patterns, plus their advice to create a personal list of activities that "fill your tank" when energy runs low.

Whether you're battling negative self-talk, feeling disconnected from others, or simply wanting more energy and joy in your life, this episode offers concrete strategies to transform your thoughts and, ultimately, your reality. Listen now, then visit empowerperformancestrategies.com for more resources to support your journey.

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Anxiety isn't just "all in your head" ? it's a complex neurological process that can be understood, managed, and even rewired. Brain coach Dominika joins Michael Cole to explain exactly how anxiety works in your brain and provide practical tools that actually work to interrupt anxious patterns.

Dominika breaks down the science simply: anxiety occurs when your amygdala overreacts "like a Christmas tree," triggering your limbic system and taking your prefrontal cortex (the logical part of your brain) offline. The result? You're ruled by emotions, feeling paralyzed, struggling to breathe, and unable to think clearly. But understanding this process gives you power to change it.

Rather than generic advice to "just meditate" when you're anxious (which Dominika explains is nearly impossible in that state), she offers specific, science-backed techniques like mental rehearsal, pattern interrupts, and the counterintuitive but crucial practice of staying in anxiety-provoking situations rather than fleeing. This last point is particularly powerful ? when you leave, you reinforce your brain's belief that there was real danger.

What makes this conversation uniquely valuable is how Dominika connects psychology with biology. She explains why checking specific nutrient levels (ferritin, iron, magnesium, and D3) is essential for managing anxiety, why hormone fluctuations during perimenopause can trigger anxiety symptoms, and why taking random supplements without testing first can actually harm rather than help.

Most importantly, Dominika reminds us of neuroplasticity ? your brain's lifelong ability to change and adapt. No matter your age or how long you've struggled with anxiety, you can create new neural pathways and responses. With her three powerful tips for veterans and their families, she leaves listeners with both practical tools and renewed hope: who you've been until now has nothing to do with who you can become.

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Technology has woven itself into the fabric of our daily existence?from how we work to how we parent, communicate, and even think. In this enlightening conversation with Laura Ollinger, a certified digital wellbeing coach and founder of Positively Healthy Coaching, we unpack the hidden costs of our hyperconnected lives and discover practical paths toward healthier digital balance.

Laura shares her personal journey from tech-rule skeptic to digital wellness advocate, revealing how her experience parenting four teenagers transformed her understanding of screen time's profound impact. Rather than viewing digital wellbeing through a lens of restriction, she offers a refreshing perspective focused on what we can add to our lives instead of what we must take away.

The conversation dives deep into "technoference"?how our devices disrupt genuine human connection?and the neurological hooks deliberately engineered by app designers to keep us scrolling, checking, and engaged. Laura explains how these digital experiences trigger dopamine pathways similar to slot machines, creating powerful habit loops that hijack our attention and erode our presence.

Most valuable are the actionable strategies shared throughout: incorporating nature exposure to reset attention spans, establishing healthy work-life boundaries in a culture that expects constant availability, and cultivating what neuroscientists call the "default mode network"?the mental state where creativity and innovation flourish. Laura's approach meets us where we are, acknowledging technology's benefits while empowering us to reclaim control over how we engage with it.

Whether you're a parent concerned about your child's screen time, a professional struggling with digital boundaries, or simply seeking more meaningful connections in a distracted world, this episode offers both the understanding and practical tools to transform your relationship with technology. Laura reminds us that true digital wellbeing isn't about perfection?it's about intentional choices that align with our deeper values and authentic human needs.

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When resistance shows up in your life, are you quick to push through it, or do you pause to consider what it might be trying to tell you? This powerful conversation with retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel Tina Parker challenges everything we think we know about resistance and authentic leadership.

Tina, founder of Lead Outside the Lines and a certified neuro encoding specialist, draws from her 23 years of military service to unpack how resistance often signals growth rather than warning. She reveals the critical distinction between resistance that stems from fear of the unknown versus resistance that signals genuine misalignment with our values and purpose.

What makes this episode transformative is Tina's explanation of how our bodies physically respond to resistance ? shutting down creativity and higher thinking precisely when we need these resources most. You'll discover practical tools for replacing self-judgment with curiosity and learn how to regulate your nervous system to access your natural wisdom.

The conversation takes a fascinating turn when Tina shares research on gender differences in confidence: women typically need to feel 85% confident before pursuing opportunities, while men need only 15%. This "expectation gap" creates unique challenges for women in leadership positions ? challenges Tina herself navigated when requesting part-time work in the federal government during a personal crisis.

Whether you're facing internal doubts or external naysayers, this episode offers a revolutionary framework for discernment. Tina's three simple yet profound questions ? "Am I in alignment? Am I in integrity? Am I on my path?" ? provide a compass for navigating resistance authentically. When the answer to all three is yes, resistance becomes not an obstacle but a signpost of growth on your journey toward truly authentic leadership.

Connect with Tina at leadoutsidethelines.com and discover her upcoming Conscious Leadership Accelerator for visionary women. Your relationship with resistance will never be the same after listening to this episode.

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The heaviest burden you'll ever carry isn't physical ? it's emotional. Carolyn Ozuna returns to share how radical forgiveness transformed her from living in her sister's basement during a painful divorce to building a multimillion-dollar business and finding her soulmate.

"Forgiveness isn't condoning behavior," Carolyn explains, dispelling the most common misconception holding people back from healing. Instead, it's a powerful act of self-liberation. She reveals five core principles that form the foundation of radical forgiveness: nothing happens by accident, we are not victims, emotions should be fully felt (but only need 90 seconds to process), healing comes through acceptance not analysis, and forgiveness benefits you, not them.

The conversation takes a profound turn when addressing how to find gifts in seemingly unforgivable traumas. Carolyn doesn't shy away from difficult truths ? that victim consciousness perpetuates more victimization, while conscious awareness creates new possibility. She shares the story of a client who discovered his mother had been raped, resulting in his birth. While never condoning the violence, he ultimately recognized that without that terrible event, he wouldn't exist to impact countless lives today.

Perhaps most practical is the pattern-interrupt technique Carolyn offers. By choosing a silly word (hers is "pineapple") to break negative thought spirals, we can create space between our thoughts. "I find God in the space between my thoughts," she reveals, explaining how this practice opens us to higher consciousness and new perspectives.

Ready to break free from the prison of pain you've been decorating for years? This episode provides actionable steps to release what no longer serves you. As Carolyn beautifully states, "My destination in life is no longer a place?it's a new way of seeing the world, because through new eyes, I live a new life."

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What happens when you achieve everything you've ever wanted, yet find yourself driving past the same cliff everyday, contemplating suicide? Yolanda Ayala, a 25-year veteran nurse at UCLA, takes us on her raw, transformative journey from the depths of depression to discovering authentic purpose and joy.

Despite having the perfect life on paper?loving family, successful career, financial stability?Yolanda spent three years planning her suicide. The turning point came unexpectedly at a business conference where she encountered personal development concepts that planted seeds of hope. "That little glimpse of light in the darkest time," as she calls it, gradually expanded through intentional growth practices and a commitment to rediscovering her authentic self.

Yolanda's story illuminates a paradox many face: the emptiness that can follow achieving our goals when those goals don't align with our deeper purpose. After realizing nursing had become her identity rather than her passion, she courageously stepped into public speaking and coaching?discovering work that doesn't feel like work: "I come to life, no matter how hard it is."

This conversation delivers practical wisdom for anyone feeling unfulfilled or stuck. Yolanda shares her daily practices?morning routines, gratitude journaling, goal-setting?that create sustainable transformation. Most powerfully, she suggests asking yourself: "When you're on your last breath, are you proud of yourself?" This perspective helps separate genuine purpose from societal expectations.

For veterans navigating difficult transitions, Yolanda offers three transformative insights: meet people where they are, commit to personal growth, and never give up hope. As host Michael Cole emphasizes, "You cannot be depressed if you're grateful"?highlighting how mindset practices can literally rewire our neural pathways toward positivity and purpose.

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Can movement heal trauma? In this transformative conversation, Michael Cole welcomes Veronica Vasquez, an extraordinary practitioner who blends social-emotional learning, dance, and energy work to help people overcome their deepest challenges.

Veronica's journey from "failed dancer" to healing facilitator reveals the profound connection between our physical movements and emotional wellbeing. Once struggling with her own limitations?unable to remember choreography and feeling like an outsider in traditional dance?she discovered these perceived weaknesses were actually gateways to her unique gift: helping others process emotions through intuitive movement.

The discussion explores how our body posture and movement patterns reveal our internal emotional landscape. Veronica shares her revolutionary approach that begins each session with spoken affirmations before incorporating movement patterns that challenge the brain and release trapped emotions. This integration creates powerful breakthroughs, particularly for those with physical limitations or emotional trauma.

A mother's testimony about her daughter with cerebral palsy stands as powerful evidence: "Veronica talks to her about her abilities, not her disabilities." After months in Veronica's program, the child accomplished movements her mother never thought possible. Similar transformations happen for veterans processing PTSD, as movement creates new neural pathways that help redefine traumatic experiences.

For those seeking healing?whether from physical limitations, emotional wounds, or the invisible scars of military service?Veronica offers three practical steps: document your strengths alongside your challenges, take mindful walks to practice presence, and recognize recurring thoughts as signals of unprocessed trauma requiring attention.

Through her nonprofit JMM Dance Co. and mindset journal for children, Veronica continues expanding her impact. Ready to experience how movement might transform your emotional landscape? Connect with Veronica or explore the resources at empowerperformancestrategies.com to begin your journey toward embodied healing.

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What if your most powerful leadership tool isn't something you need to acquire, but something you already possess? In this illuminating conversation with Tina Parker, founder of Lead Outside the Lines, we explore the transformative concept of authentic power ? a leadership approach rooted not in external validation but in your own inner wisdom.

Tina shares how authentic power creates a profound energetic shift, allowing you to feel pulled toward your purpose rather than pushing against resistance. This magnetic quality not only makes leadership more sustainable but attracts exactly the right people and opportunities to support your vision. Drawing from her 23-year Air Force career and personal journey through life-threatening illness, Tina reveals how disconnection from our authentic selves can manifest in serious consequences, while alignment creates unprecedented possibilities.

We dive deep into recognizing the physical sensations of authenticity ? that grounding, calming presence that emerges when you're truly connected to your purpose. The conversation challenges conventional wisdom about confidence and courage, revealing that it's those small, brave steps forward that change your landscape and create clarity, not the other way around.

For leaders feeling exhausted by constant external demands and validation-seeking, this episode offers a refreshing alternative. Tina's practical wisdom about creating spaces where everyone can rise together by bringing their unique gifts provides actionable insights for immediate implementation. Whether you're leading a team, building a business, or simply seeking greater fulfillment, this conversation illuminates how authentic power might be the missing ingredient in your leadership journey.

Ready to trust your inner wisdom and take that first courageous step toward authentic leadership? Listen now and discover how your thoughts truly shape your reality.

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Dianna Sullivan takes us on a profound journey through trauma healing, sharing how unresolved past experiences subtly yet powerfully shape our present reality. As a shamanic healer, Reiki practitioner, and successful entrepreneur who sold her company for $2.5 million to pursue her passion for helping others heal, Dianna brings unique insight into breaking free from limiting patterns.

The conversation reveals powerful indicators that your past might be controlling your present?anxiety, reactivity, mental "spin cycles," and disconnection from joy serve as warning signs that something deeper needs addressing. Dianna explains that what we resist persists, and our attempts to block painful emotions inadvertently block positive ones too. This awareness opens the door to intentional healing.

Dianna shares practical, accessible techniques anyone can implement immediately. Box breathing, walking in nature, grounding practices, and prioritizing fun create space for healing. The STOP technique?feeling negative emotions purposefully, interrupting the pattern, and replacing with positive affirmation?provides a concrete method for rewiring neural pathways and weakening trauma's hold.

Perhaps most transformative is Dianna's perspective on reframing trauma. "Can I see how this trauma was somehow good in my life?" she asks. This powerful shift doesn't minimize suffering but honors how it shapes us into who we are today. Self-forgiveness emerges as the cornerstone of healing, suggesting we tell ourselves: "I was doing the best I could for who I was at the time."

Ready to transform your relationship with past trauma? Dianna's three keys?gentleness with yourself, letting go of judgment, and celebrating even tiny wins?create the foundation for moving from survival to truly thriving. Your past doesn't have to define your future.

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Danny O'Neel's journey from Army Forward Observer to successful entrepreneur and veteran advocate exemplifies resilience in the face of devastating challenges. After enlisting on 9/11 and serving through two intense tours in Iraq, Danny returned home carrying invisible wounds that nearly cost him his life. In this raw and enlightening conversation, he reveals how his family's history of veteran suicide?his grandfather after World War II and his father's contemplated suicide following Vietnam?created a pattern he was determined to break after his own suicide attempt.

The turning point came through connection?first with his wife who encouraged him to seek therapy, then through building businesses that created purpose and community. Danny now owns multiple successful ventures including Kinetic Ink Tattoo Company and Kinetic Threads, while chairing Warfighter Overwatch, the nonprofit he founded that provides free mental health services to veterans and first responders.

What makes this episode particularly valuable is Danny's practical wisdom about networking for veterans transitioning to civilian life. He shines a light on the courage it takes to ask for help, reframing it as strength rather than weakness. His perspective that "if you're the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong room" offers a powerful guide for personal and professional growth through intentional relationships. 

Danny's approach to life after service demonstrates how veterans can leverage their military discipline, leadership skills, and teamwork experience in civilian ventures while healing from combat experiences. His three essential tips for veterans?network purposefully, be visible in your community, and support fellow veterans?provide a roadmap for anyone navigating significant life transitions.

Have you built a network that elevates your standards and aspirations? Connect with Danny through Warfighter Overwatch or his businesses to see how community can transform trauma into triumph.

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"Making the main thing the main thing" sounds simple, but how many of us actually do it? In this deeply reflective conversation with Arron Lloyd - actor, director, and certified neuro encoding specialist - we explore what it truly means to prioritize what matters most in life.

Arron shares his journey from the inner city to discovering his purpose through acting and helping others. Drawing from his background and expertise in Neuroencoding, he offers profound insights into how we can cut through the noise of our "distraction economy" to focus on what genuinely matters.

We tackle the challenging question that many veterans face after service: how do you rediscover your purpose when the mission changes? Arron suggests practical approaches like asking trusted friends what they see as your gifts, noticing what activities make time fly by, and literally "breathing into your heart" to connect with your deeper wisdom.

The conversation takes unexpected turns as we explore the fine line between necessary self-care and procrastination (yes, we even discuss the importance of pedicures for well-being!), practical strategies for managing digital distractions, and the power of grounding in nature to reset your perspective.

Arron offers three transformative tips specifically for veterans: tap into your purpose, clarify what truly matters most today, and develop heart coherence by reconnecting with your emotions. His closing story about two monks powerfully illustrates how letting go of unnecessary burdens frees us to focus on what's truly important.

Whether you're a veteran transitioning to civilian life or anyone seeking greater clarity and purpose, this conversation offers both the inspiration and practical tools to make your main thing truly the main thing in your life. Visit empowerperformancestrategies.com to access free resources mentioned in this episode.

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What does it truly mean to "win the day"? In this energizing conversation with Michael Pope?International Maxwell Leadership Certified Speaker, trainer, and coach?we explore the profound mindset shifts that transform intention into action and hesitation into momentum.

For many veterans struggling with post-service transition, purpose can feel elusive. Michael Pope shares his powerful DORE system (Discipline, One Thing, Eliminating Excuses, Responsibility) that provides a practical framework for daily success anyone can implement. As someone who overcame his own struggles with self-image and introversion, Pope's journey resonates deeply with those who feel stuck or uncertain about their path forward.

"Your success is based on your daily routine," Pope emphasizes, offering actionable strategies for preparing tomorrow's wins today. By identifying just 1-3 key tasks that would make a day successful and eliminating the friction to completing them, listeners learn to build sustainable momentum toward larger goals. His approach to breaking down seemingly overwhelming objectives into manageable pieces?whether starting a business, launching a podcast, or finding new purpose?makes even the most ambitious aspirations feel accessible.

Perhaps most valuable is Pope's insight on fear's relationship with self-discipline. Whether it's fear of failure, success, or the unknown, acknowledging these barriers allows us to focus on what we truly control: our attitude and our actions. This perspective shift transforms how veterans and their families approach challenges, career transitions, and finding fulfillment in civilian life.

Ready to stop hesitating and start taking bold action that creates the life you want? Listen now and discover how winning each day builds the foundation for lasting success and meaningful purpose.

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What if the challenges you're facing aren't entirely your own? The burdens we carry?anxiety, anger, self-doubt?may actually be echoes from generations past, embedded in our very DNA.

In this profound conversation with transformation healing strategist Corrine Zuleger, we explore the hidden mechanisms of generational trauma and how it shapes veterans and their families. Corrine shares her own journey through mental health crises and family losses that led her to understand how trauma gets passed down like an unwanted inheritance, changing our nervous systems and creating patterns that feel impossible to break.

"What is brought to light can be healed," Corrine explains, highlighting that awareness is the first step toward transformation. Together, we dive into the neuroscience behind how traumatic experiences?both from our ancestors and our military service?create deep neural pathways that dictate our reactions and behaviors, often without our conscious awareness.

The most powerful moments come when we discuss practical healing modalities that work at both neurological and energetic levels. From breathwork that releases trapped energy to mirror exercises that build self-love, these techniques offer real pathways to breaking generational cycles. Particularly moving is the discussion about forgiveness?not of harmful actions, but of the people (including ourselves) who were simply doing the best they could with the awareness they had at the time.

You'll discover why isolation is your greatest enemy on the healing journey and how connection serves as medicine for the wounds you carry. Whether you're a veteran struggling with reintegration, someone carrying familial patterns you want to release, or simply seeking deeper understanding of how trauma works, this episode offers both compassionate insight and practical tools for transformation.

Ready to break the cycles that no longer serve you? Connect with our veteran community at empowerperformancestrategies.com and download Corrine's free workbook on reconnecting to love at corinnezuleger.com. Your journey toward healing starts here.

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What if you could trick your brain into creating positive memories and experiences? Join us for an enlightening conversation with Tina Parker, a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel and dual elite certified neuroencoding specialist, who unveils the transformative power of vision in leadership and personal growth. Tina's journey from military leadership to executive coaching offers a unique perspective, particularly for visionary and ambitious women seeking to lead from the heart. Together, we explore the significance of having a clear and compelling vision, drawing parallels to athletes who visualize success, and discuss how this practice can help transcend limitations and foster a mindset that supports one's goals.

We take a closer look at the fascinating Baader-Meinhof phenomenon to understand the role of heightened awareness and focus in manifesting opportunities. Through personal anecdotes, we reveal how channeling passion and emotion into your vision can attract the right energy and people into your life. By highlighting the dual nature of mental visualization, Tina emphasizes the importance of consciously directing focus and energy toward desired outcomes, warning against the trap of manifesting unwanted experiences. This chapter serves as a powerful reminder of the choice we hold in shaping the life we envision.

Conquer self-doubt and escape the "how hole" with actionable insights on mastering vision and taking steps toward your dreams. Tina shares practical strategies for starting small, taking risks, and viewing mistakes as valuable learning opportunities. As we explore the concept of rewiring your brain for success, we emphasize the importance of incremental progress and celebrating each step to reinforce positive neural pathways. Discover resources and support tailored especially for veterans and their families, empowering you to make the most of your time and efforts in creating your reality.

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What if the stories we tell ourselves could change our lives? Join us as we welcome back Marcus Weiss, a remarkable actor, director, and educator who illuminates the power of storytelling in fostering personal empowerment and transformation. Marcus delves into how embracing positive narratives and compliments can spark our inner light, especially for those grappling with self-worth challenges. Discover the profound impact of storytelling as a bridge to meaningful connections, particularly for veterans seeking to transition smoothly into civilian life. This episode promises to rekindle your belief in your inherent worth and potential.

Ever wondered how to recognize when you've reached your limits in life? Let's explore the nuanced art of fulfillment and the importance of self-forgiveness. By envisioning our bodies as balloons, we navigate the sensations of expansion and contraction as guides for accepting or rejecting life's opportunities. We tackle the tricky terrain of past regrets and the exhaustion that comes from overcommitment, offering insights into maintaining balance. Trust your instincts and learn to say no, avoiding burnout while embracing a more resourceful and intentional approach to life.

Finally, let's unlock the transformative power of self-love and forgiveness. Reconnect with your inner child and cultivate a deep sense of self-acceptance. Through simple yet profound daily rituals like self-reflection, discover how to shift from negative self-perceptions to nurturing positivity. Embrace every facet of yourself, even the less likable parts, as essential steps toward personal growth and fulfillment. This episode is a heartfelt invitation to celebrate your unique journey and find joy in every step.

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Unlock the secrets to transforming intimate relationships by tuning into this episode with Cathy and Robert Casteel. With over 54 years of combined military experience, Cathy and Robert offer a wealth of knowledge on overcoming personal struggles and embracing intentional self-development. Their story is a testament to the power of personal accountability and courage in nurturing a relationship filled with passion and devotion. They share valuable insights on how veterans and their families can heal from trauma and break generational cycles, encouraging listeners to take ownership of their actions for healthier relationships.

Communication and emotional safety take center stage as we explore how instinctual responses can hinder constructive dialogue, particularly during conflicts. Discover Cathy and Robert's strategies for addressing trauma, especially within the veteran community, and learn how creating new belief systems can disrupt negative patterns. The importance of seeking help and the bravery required to confront unresolved trauma are emphasized, offering listeners a pathway to healing and renewed connections.

The episode rounds off by introducing practical tools like the Covenant Conversation and the transformative Ho'oponopono prayer, which empowers partners to address past traumas and foster forgiveness. As we reflect on how thoughts shape our reality, we express heartfelt gratitude for your support and encourage you to consciously create the life you desire. Join us in this enlightening journey and gain access to empowering strategies that can profoundly impact your relationships.

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Reflecting on a milestone journey, we are thrilled to welcome back our mentor and dear friend, Joseph McClendon III, a distinguished neuropsychologist and ultimate performance specialist. With Joseph by my side, we celebrate the 100th episode of our podcast by sharing the invaluable lessons we've learned along the way. As we reminisce, we also express our heartfelt dedication to supporting military veterans and their families, inspired by the legacies of our fathers who served in the military. This episode promises to inspire and encourage those looking for ways to contribute to meaningful change in the lives of others.

Transitioning from military service to civilian life presents a complex set of challenges, and we tackle this topic head-on. Through a personal story of my father, a Vietnam War veteran, we highlight the enduring impact of military conditioning and the struggles veterans face when these ingrained responses clash with civilian life. We examine the critical importance of robust support systems to help veterans navigate these internal battles and avoid isolation. Our discussion aims to provide insights and tools for veterans and their families to foster reintegration and wellness.

Empowerment is key, and our conversation underscores the transformative power of self-belief, gratitude, and small daily actions. We explore practical techniques for overcoming limiting beliefs and celebrating personal victories as a way to foster a positive mindset. Joseph and I share strategies for recognizing and replacing unhelpful thoughts with productive ones, creating a ripple effect that strengthens family bonds and uplifts those around us. Join us in this heartfelt discussion as we explore the significance of celebrating success and the profound impact it can have on personal growth and community wellness.

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Imagine feeling alone in a room full of people, every smile a facade covering anxiety and panic lurking beneath the surface. Join me, Michael Cole, as I sit down with Annette Ramrattan, a renowned neuro-encoding specialist, who shares her deeply moving journey from corporate composure to internal chaos. Together, we unravel the universal struggle of wearing masks to conceal self-doubt and fear, and Annette's personal story serves as a powerful reminder that these internal battles are more common than we realize. Through heartfelt conversations, we aim to shed light on how feelings of isolation can permeate even the busiest environments, and how courageously facing these challenges can lead to personal breakthroughs.

You?ll gain insights into strategies for escaping the grip of anxiety and panic through personal development and self-awareness. We discuss transformative encounters with influential figures and the importance of vulnerability in understanding one's fears and past traumas. Annette offers practical tips?like practicing gratitude and setting attainable goals?that can be pivotal in your journey toward mental well-being. As we gear up for our milestone 100th episode celebration, we invite you to embrace community support and help shift the societal view of mental health, recognizing it with the compassion it deserves, much like physical health.

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What happens when a seasoned neuro strategist and the son of a Navy veteran shares his insights on the complexities of transitioning from military to civilian life? Join us as we welcome Chuck Hogan to "Your Thoughts, Your Reality with Michael Cole," where he shares personal stories of growing up in a military family. We navigate the intricate terrain of reintegration, emphasizing the significance of leadership skills, emotional mastery, and maintaining a personal structure post-deployment. Chuck's unique perspective shines a light on the resilience required to embrace newfound freedom while staying true to the values of honor, discipline, and commitment.

Passion and integrity aren't just buzzwords?they're the driving forces that shape our lives. In our conversation, we explore how these elements influence fulfillment and success. Chuck brings a fresh perspective on mindfulness, showing how slowing down and remaining present can prevent regrettable actions during heightened emotions. The warrior mindset isn't merely about confrontation; it can be an advocacy for love, intellect, and compassion. We reflect on the diverse definitions of success and fulfillment, considering how staying grounded and letting go of past pain are crucial for resilience, especially for those in elite military forces.

Finally, we uncover the transformative power of love and frequency, stressing the importance of self-love and the energy we emit. Chuck offers practical advice for veterans and their families, emphasizing patience, self-care, and community engagement. We discuss how dedicating time to meaningful causes can create a positive ripple effect, particularly in supporting veterans. As we close, we express our gratitude for your time and encourage continued inspiration and connection, inviting you to join future episodes to further empower your thoughts and shape your reality with purpose and love.

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Unlock the secrets of mastering tough conversations with insights from Neko Zairis, a seasoned law enforcement veteran with 30 years of experience. By tuning in, you'll discover how Neko's unique blend of life lessons and humor can transform your negotiation skills, whether you're navigating high-stakes scenarios or simply seeking to improve everyday interactions. Through insightful discussions, Neko emphasizes the power of active listening and empathy, offering practical strategies like using open-ended questions to uncover what truly matters in any conversation. Expect a touch of lightheartedness too, as Neko's love for dad jokes demonstrates the power of humor in breaking tension and fostering positive connections.

We journey through key strategies for maintaining integrity and clarity in negotiations, drawing on Neko's experiences from the FBI negotiator school to highlight the importance of honesty in building trust. The episode also explores how a positive mindset and proactive approach to mental and physical well-being can transform life's challenges into manageable tasks. With valuable tips for veterans and their families on resilience, kindness, and self-improvement, this episode promises to provide listeners with the tools to create more genuine connections at home, work, and within their communities. Whether seeking to improve your negotiation skills or foster a more resilient lifestyle, this episode offers a wealth of insights to enrich your journey.

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Unlock the secrets of self-mastery with Michael Cole and our esteemed guest, Evely Raudmets, a peak performance specialist and elite Neuroencoding coach. Evely's journey from engineering to transforming lives is not just fascinating but a testament to her relentless pursuit of understanding the "human machine." Discover how her personal battles with trauma and suppressed emotions have propelled her to empower others, especially veterans and their families, to achieve significant personal growth. Evely's story is a compelling exploration of how practical strategies can spark meaningful change, offering listeners a unique perspective on overcoming life's challenges through applied principles and trust in the transformative process.

Explore the fascinating concept of identity shift in this conversation, a key to building resilience and mastering one's mindset. Evely guides us through the art of adopting a growth mindset, which is crucial for navigating life's unpredictable hurdles, from everyday annoyances to profound personal transformations. Learn how observing and regulating your thoughts can help reshape your identity, allowing you to move beyond limiting beliefs. With compelling examples, including the journey of a veteran redefining his conditioned identity, Evely demonstrates the power of conscious choice and the importance of embracing discomfort in personal growth. Join us for an insightful discussion that promises inspiration and practical advice for anyone on a journey of transformation.

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Imagine trying to connect with your teenager but feeling like every attempt ends up in misunderstanding or conflict. That's a scenario many parents face, and it?s one our special guest, Laura Ollinger, knows all too well. With a personal journey colored by the trials of raising four teenagers and navigating through family tragedies, including her daughter's battle with anxiety, Laura offers invaluable insights into improving parent-teen communication. We discuss the tendency for forced interactions in mother-son relationships and how reactive communication can create tension. Laura explains how giving teens space and fostering curiosity can transform these experiences into opportunities for building trust and harmony in your home.

But what happens when you throw military deployment and the challenges of reintegration into the mix? We uncover effective strategies that can help bridge the gap even in these complex situations. By embracing a curious mindset and using open-ended questions, parents can rebuild relationships and ensure their children feel seen and valued. We also touch on the importance of nonverbal communication and the role of shared activities like video games to strengthen bonds. Finally, we delve into the power of heart-focused breathing techniques to create a calm environment and rebuild trust when it's been compromised. Join us for an enlightening conversation packed with practical strategies that can help you enhance communication and trust within your family.

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Discover how Dr. Michelle Odette Green is changing the game for veterans with her expertise as a dual elite neuroencoding specialist. Join us as Dr. Green shares her inspiring journey, driven by compassion and empathy, to help people lead happier, healthier lives. Learn about the transformative power of neuroencoding and brain health strategies that can empower veterans to rewire their minds for success and joy. We also discuss valuable resources like e-books and community groups designed to provide support for veterans and their families on their journey to well-being.

Our conversation also explores the broader implications of brain health in mental wellness, highlighting how natural methods can be a powerful alternative to medication. Drawing inspiration from Dr. Daniel Amen's groundbreaking work and connections with figures like Tony Robbins, we emphasize personal responsibility and understanding one's emotional state. From brain scans to practical strategies for reducing anxiety and sadness, we present actionable insights that underscore the vital link between brain health and overall mental wellness. Don't miss Dr. Green's three impactful tips that can help veterans and their families move forward with confidence and resilience.

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Unlock the secrets of holistic wellness for veterans as Nikkia Blair, a certified professional life coach and holistic wellness expert, graces our podcast with her inspiring journey. From her early beginnings in dance to her profound dedication to movement therapy, Nikkia passionately discusses the transformative power of holistic practices. Join us in uncovering how her expertise in dance, meditation, and psychology has revolutionized her approach to wellness, particularly for veterans and their families. Embrace the opportunity to learn about the vital resources Nikkia champions, such as eBooks and community groups, designed to aid personal development and community support.

Experience a heartfelt exploration of sound baths, yoga, and self-care practices that serve as lifelines for veterans transitioning back to civilian life. With Nikkia's insights, we delve into the meditative wonders of singing bowls, gongs, and their harmonious connection to the chakras and nervous system. Discover the personalized healing potential these practices offer and the simple yet profound impact they have on stress reduction and emotional balance. Our conversation also underscores the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care to maintain mental clarity, with yoga being celebrated as a personal practice fostering self-awareness and inner peace. This episode is a soul-stirring invitation to embrace holistic wellness and nurture personal growth.

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Discover the transformative power of Neuroencoding science with Arron Lloyd, an accomplished actor and specialist in this groundbreaking field. Uncover how faith and confidence serve as pillars for personal growth and success, particularly for veterans navigating the complexities of post-deployment life. Arron's journey from the streets of Bridgeport, Connecticut, to the bright lights of acting reveals how trusting oneself and embracing one?s unique purpose can turn dreams into reality, irrespective of the challenges and contradictions of one's environment.

Explore the profound role of belief systems in shaping life trajectories. This episode delves into how consistent faith and confidence can lead to impactful life transformations, drawing from inspiring stories of individuals who have triumphed over adversity. We provide practical advice on building confidence through small actions and teamwork, concepts familiar to veterans, emphasizing the alignment of faith and confidence as catalysts for change. It's a conversation about nurturing one's potential and unlocking the power within.

Hear about the intersection of military discipline and personal growth, drawing from lessons of valor, integrity, and teamwork. Arron shares insights on discipline, sacrifice, and perseverance, using motivational stories like Les Brown?s "burning the boats" to illustrate the power of unwavering dedication. The discussion highlights the importance of resourcefulness and determination in finding purpose, especially within the acting world, where sacrifices and past efforts fuel ongoing commitment. Join us for an episode filled with inspiration and practical wisdom on building a life of meaning and success.

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Join me, Michael Cole, as I welcome Marcus Weiss, a dual elite certified Neuroencoding specialist, actor, director, and educator, to explore the transformative power of joy and positivity in overcoming life's challenges. Together, we uncover how joy acts as an inner pilot light, especially for veterans and their families, guiding them towards crafting a life they love. Marcus shares his unique insight into harnessing gratitude for life's small blessings, such as the ability to see, hear, and reason, as a way to spark a deeper appreciation for the abundance already present in our lives.

Our conversation delves into the heart of self-leadership and meaningful connections, emphasizing discipline and presence as keys to maintaining a positive outlook. Through personal stories and practical strategies like the "50-foot rule," Marcus and I demonstrate how silently expressing love to those around us can foster positive connections and attract good energy. With a focus on celebrating life's milestones and the joy that comes from simple acknowledgments, we highlight how these practices can lead to unexpected, uplifting interactions and inspire forward movement.

Listeners will find inspiration in Marcus's mission to empower individuals by integrating the arts with Neuroencoding science, unlocking passions, and living fulfilling lives. We share our excitement for future discussions, encouraging everyone to embrace the power of positivity and gratitude. Whether you're looking to overcome personal challenges or seeking ways to enhance your life with joy, this episode offers a heartfelt roadmap to transformation and growth.

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What if reconnecting with your intuition could transform the way you make decisions under pressure? Our inspiring guest, Tina Parker, a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel and Neuroencoding expert, shares her journey from military life to mastering decision-making in civilian settings. Tina uncovers the profound impact of societal conditioning on our innate wisdom and how embracing a "trust but verify" mindset can help us navigate life's complexities more effectively. Together, we explore the delicate balance of intuition and information, revealing strategies to rebuild self-trust amidst the overwhelming barrage of modern-day data.

Emotional intelligence takes center stage as we explore its pivotal role in enhancing decision-making. Have you ever wondered how much of your decision-making is influenced by the quest for external validation? By tuning into our emotions and subtle cues, like a mother's ability to distinguish her child's cries, we unlock a deeper connection to our inner experiences. Through techniques like breathwork, we regain the calm and clarity needed to make empowered choices. This journey involves pausing, noticing, and choosing our responses to shift from a state of stress to one of centeredness, ultimately improving our confidence in the decisions we make.

As we close out our discussion, we address the daunting challenge of analysis paralysis and the value of lifelong learning. Drawing on Tina's background as a public affairs officer, she emphasizes the critical importance of evaluating information sources and nurturing a curious mindset. Learning from mentors such as Joseph McClendon III, who exemplifies practical wisdom, can broaden our perspectives and drive personal growth. We wrap up by reflecting on time's irreplaceable value, encouraging you to be mindful of how it shapes your desired reality. Join us as we inspire you to empower your thoughts and take control of your life's narrative.

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Unlock the secrets to personal growth and mental well-being with top 1% podcast host and mentor, Jonny Pardoe, as he shares his transformative journey on "Your Thoughts, Your Reality with Michael Cole." Discover how Jonny overcame challenges in self-esteem and confidence to create his successful podcasts, "Self-Esteem and Confidence Mindset" and "Men's Mental Health and Growth." Be inspired by the wisdom of influential figures like Tony Robbins and Rob Dial, and learn about the powerful role of breathwork and psychology in breaking through mental barriers. Jonny's insights reveal how simplifying the path to personal growth and taking small, consistent steps can lead to monumental change.

Explore the dynamic world of breathwork, where techniques like Wim Hof's method and Navy SEALs' box breathing blend with somatic practices to manage stress and release stored emotions. As a certified somatic breathwork practitioner, Jonny shares how these practices can enhance emotional expression and psychological insight. By integrating breathwork with strategies from thought leaders such as Joseph McClendon, and focusing on physical health, listeners are encouraged to recognize the synergistic effect of incremental lifestyle changes. From short daily walks to mindful breathing exercises, these manageable habits offer a path to transforming emotional and physical well-being, emphasizing that true change is within everyone's reach.

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Retired Marine Corps Gunnery Sergeant Brenda Warren joins us to unravel the complexities veterans face when transitioning to civilian life. Discover how the journey affects not just the veterans but their entire families, as everyone plays a role during deployment. Brenda opens up about her personal experiences, offering insights into the challenges of moving from a structured military environment to the unpredictable civilian world. With a focus on redefining family dynamics, she shares strategies to overcome the loss of camaraderie and community while managing stress and anxiety?elements often heightened during such transitions.

We introduce listeners to the innovative "Tap-In" method, designed to foster intimacy and connection within families. Through mindset transformation, goal-setting, and daily check-ins, this approach nurtures stronger bonds post-service. We also emphasize the crucial balance between work and personal life, underscoring the importance of setting boundaries. Brenda?s anecdotes shed light on living with intention and involving family in one's career journey to ensure meaningful interactions and lasting memories. Tune in for a wealth of practical advice aimed at empowering veterans and their families to thrive in their new circumstances.

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What hidden benefits might be keeping us trapped in unhealthy patterns? Join us on "Your Thoughts, Your Reality" as we uncover the subtle rewards of these behaviors with the insightful Cathy Casteel, a veteran turned certified neurotransformational coach. Cathy shares her personal journey from military service to coaching, revealing how understanding secondary gains can pave the way for conscious choices and personal transformation. Her insights shed light on how veterans, in particular, can break free from cycles that hold them back and move towards healthier, more fulfilling lives.

Transitioning from military life to civilian life is fraught with challenges, and having a clear plan can prevent feelings of overwhelm. We discuss the often unspoken struggles veterans face, drawing from personal stories and the vital role of support systems. With guidance from Tony Robbins? Six Human Needs, Cathy and I explore how recognizing primary and secondary gains can cultivate healthier coping mechanisms, emphasizing empathy and the necessity of compassionate guidance. For veterans, understanding these dynamics is crucial to navigating this critical life phase with resilience and confidence.

This episode is not only about challenges but also about the power of empathy and personal growth. We explore how reaching out for support from trusted individuals can spotlight unseen gaps and lead to significant transformation. As we reflect on the idea that life happens for us, not to us, we delve into how belief systems shape our reality and the profound impact of taking the first step toward change. Join us in expressing gratitude for this enlightening discussion, and let?s harness the power of our thoughts to craft our desired reality, setting the stage for future generations.

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After facing the challenges of PTSD and transitioning to civilian life, Zachary found solace in the unexpected world of horsemanship. Imagine discovering a life-changing purpose after meeting a Vietnam veteran who trains Mustangs. This episode unravels Zachary's remarkable transformation from a military veteran to the founder of Ocean View Stables, highlighting how horses became his path to healing and purpose. We explore how he overcame obstacles, emphasizing the power of mentorship and how finding a passion can restore balance and presence in life.

Zachary's journey is a testament to the power of resourcefulness and strategic thinking. Hear how he worked for free to gain invaluable insights from a seasoned mentor and how he creatively used educational benefits and loans to kickstart his entrepreneurial dreams. This episode sheds light on the importance of learning from both victories and failures, and how leveraging opportunities like the GI Bill can open doors for veterans seeking a new beginning. The conversation focuses on the art of building success through innovation, from managing unused land to pioneering online booking systems in the horse industry.

Discover how Zachary's passion for horses evolved into a thriving business and a consulting career in ERP implementation. The episode highlights his journey of scaling operations and creating a unique guest ranch experience in San Francisco, showcasing the profound impact of finding one's true calling. Whether you're a veteran or an aspiring entrepreneur, Zachary?s story offers invaluable insights into the importance of embracing passion and purpose to forge a fulfilling future. Join us for an inspiring episode that challenges conventional paths and celebrates the unique opportunities available to those daring enough to pursue their dreams.

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Leslie Coffey, Vice President of Military Engagement at American Corporate Partners, reveals how mentorship transformed her career, leading to a staggering 67% pay increase. Discover the challenges she faced as a military spouse, often putting her dreams on hold due to relocations and deployments, and how personalized mentorship empowered her to reclaim her professional goals. Leslie shares invaluable tips for veterans and their families to accelerate their transition to civilian life, underscoring the critical need for support systems that understand the unique hurdles military families face.

Our discussion highlights the extraordinary impact of ACP's mentorship program, which pairs veterans and military spouses with committed mentors for a year-long journey. With over 5,000 active mentorship pairs, this initiative breaks down the geographical barriers that often lead to underemployment and stagnant careers. Learn how companies can harness the overlooked potential of military spouses and veterans by offering remote work opportunities, promoting career continuity, and tapping into a rich talent pool. Mentors and mentees alike reap profound benefits, fostering professional growth and gaining insights from each other's experiences. Join us to uncover the transformative power of personalized mentorship in elevating veteran employment.

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Unlocking the secrets of personal growth and healing, energy healer and transformational coach Carolyn Ozuna joins us to share her wisdom on turning pain into purpose, especially for veterans facing the holiday blues. Carolyn's insights on shifting limiting beliefs and emotional blocks offer a fresh perspective on overcoming life's challenges. Together, we explore the power of not taking personal energy triggers too seriously and how understanding this can lead to a miraculous transformation in your life's journey.

Carolyn and I also uncover the delicate dance between action and rest in the pursuit of personal development. We highlight the natural ebb and flow of emotions, recognizing that sometimes you might feel worse before you feel better. As we discuss strategies like positive affirmations and visualizing your future self, we emphasize the importance of emotional intelligence?how to process your feelings without being overwhelmed. By questioning our thoughts and beliefs, we can better understand how they shape our interactions and the reality we manifest.

As the episode unfolds, we tackle the often-dreaded holiday season, transforming negative thoughts into opportunities for empathy and connection. Carolyn provides practical advice for fostering healthier interactions by not taking others? behavior personally and understanding their perspectives. We delve into the transformative power of viewing all actions as expressions of or calls for love, nurturing love and understanding in every interaction. Carolyn leaves us with the hope that each listener can experience a miracle in their journey, finding peace even in the most challenging times.

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Discover what it truly means to put "service before self" with our special guest, Tina Parker, a retired Air Force Lieutenant Colonel and expert in transformational leadership. She joins us to share her insights on balancing self-sacrifice with personal well-being, especially crucial for military veterans transitioning to post-deployment life. Tina's wealth of experience in high-pressure leadership roles offers a fresh perspective on understanding one's own needs before committing to serve others. Together, we explore the risks of neglecting personal well-being, such as burnout and the loss of creativity, and emphasize the importance of authenticity in making meaningful contributions to society.

Reclaim your best self by learning how to navigate overwhelm with intentional actions and mindset shifts. We dive into practical strategies to counteract feelings of inadequacy, focusing on self-awareness and the power of vulnerability to foster genuine human connections. With stories of breaking free from limiting beliefs, we highlight how embracing your true nature can lead to extraordinary opportunities and connections, both personally and professionally. Join us as we celebrate achievements, like reaching international audiences, and explore upcoming opportunities for visionary women to connect and grow through virtual happy hours and mastermind dinners.

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What if you could harness the power of your mind to overcome anxiety, depression, and stress without relying heavily on medication? Join me as I sit down with Dominika Staniewicz, aka Coach D, a dual elite certified Neuroencoding specialist and acclaimed author. Together, we uncover how Neuroencoding science is transforming the mental health landscape for veterans and others facing these challenges. Dominika shares her expertise on how proactive brain rewiring techniques can unlock peak performance and empower individuals to navigate life's obstacles with resilience and confidence.

Explore the intricacies of brain health with us, focusing on the profound impact of injuries and chemical imbalances. Drawing insights from renowned experts like Dr. Daniel Amen, we illuminate the path to mental well-being through non-invasive techniques such as EMDR, biofeedback, and hyperbaric oxygen therapy. These therapies offer a promising alternative to medication, particularly for veterans grappling with PTSD. While emphasizing the importance of professional guidance in managing medication, we delve into the remarkable potential of personalized treatment plans to enhance overall brain function and quality of life.

In a world where brain health is often overlooked, we underscore its importance, akin to caring for our heart or lungs. Join our discussion on the power of nutrition, exercise, and lifestyle choices in fostering brain regeneration and self-regulation. By sharing personal stories and experiences, we advocate for informed decisions that promote a balanced approach to mental health, cautioning against the pitfalls of excessive medication reliance. Discover how empowering your reality through shared knowledge can lead to meaningful transformation in your life and those around you.

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Danny O'Neel, an Army veteran and chairman of Warfighter Overwatch, shares a profoundly moving story about his transition from military service to entrepreneurship. After losing nine brothers in combat, Danny battled mental health challenges that many veterans face, but found resilience and purpose in entrepreneurship. His journey underscores the importance of community support and the need for society to stand by those who have served. Together with Danny, we explore how veterans can reignite their lives post-deployment with the strength of their support systems.

Transforming a tattoo shop from a simple leisure activity into a beacon of community, Danny's leadership and insights highlight how military experience can shape successful business ventures. Emphasizing inclusivity, the shop offers a welcoming environment, especially for veterans and first responders, and becomes a space where personal stories are shared through tattoos. As we discuss overcoming fears of rejection and success, listeners will gain valuable insights into the initial steps of turning a vision into reality and fostering community connections.

Finally, we confront the often-overlooked struggles veterans face, turning them into opportunities for growth and empowerment. Danny's story of moving from trauma to triumph serves as a beacon of hope, emphasizing the power of perseverance and self-belief. We stress the importance of betting on oneself and the strength found in community support, reminding listeners of the old African proverb: "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." Tune in as we encourage embracing values that resonate deeply and becoming a "hope dealer" for those in need.

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What if the secret to empowering leadership lies in balancing authority with compassion? Leadership coach Linda Zelnik joins us on "Your Thoughts, Your Reality with Michael Cole" to unravel this very question. Linda shares her unique journey from the bustling world of cross-cultural marketing to guiding high-achieving leaders and veterans toward more effective leadership. Through her insights, we learn how understanding and leveraging team strengths not only earns respect but also fosters a thriving environment where authority and empathy coexist to drive successful outcomes.

We dive into the art of finding purpose and tackling burnout, challenging the conventional boundaries of personal and professional fulfillment. Linda and I discuss how asking the right questions can ignite passion and reveal one's true desires, paving the way for a more intentional life. You'll hear strategies for breaking down ambitious goals into attainable steps and the often-overlooked practice of celebrating small victories. Embracing growth beyond comfort zones, we underscore the transformative power of every success and lesson learned on the journey to personal fulfillment.

As we explore the challenges of burnout, Linda offers practical tools to harness gratitude and mindset for a positive outlook. We discuss the impact of shifting our language from "have to" to "get to," and how this simple change can elevate energy levels and reshape realities. By focusing on goal-setting and problem-solving language, we empower veterans and their families to navigate leadership with renewed vigor. This episode is a treasure trove of insights, inviting you to visit empowerperformancestrategies.com for additional resources to continue your journey of personal growth and transformation.

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Ever wondered how fear can be transformed from a paralyzing force into a powerful motivator? Join us as we uncover this transformative journey with Marcus Weiss, a dual elite certified neuroencoding specialist, actor, director, and educator. Marcus opens up about his own battles with depression and perfectionism, and how theater became a safe haven for him amidst these challenges. His story is a heartfelt tribute to veterans and their families, as we recognize the courage and resilience they embody every day.

In our enlightening conversation, we peel back the layers of fear, an emotion that Marcus believes often stems from past experiences and unfounded anticipation of negative outcomes. He shares insights on how many of these feared scenarios rarely materialize and offers strategies to confront the discomfort that fear brings. Through neuroencoding, Marcus shows us how to channel fear into positive action, turning an emotion that usually holds us back into an opportunity for growth.

Throughout the episode, Marcus shares practical techniques that anyone, especially veterans and their families, can use to build self-confidence and overcome fear. From self-affirmation practices to breaking negative thought patterns, these tools are designed to foster a fearless mindset. By the end of our discussion, you'll be equipped with the knowledge to replace fear with excited anticipation, using simple yet effective techniques like deep breathing and intentional smiling to ignite positive change in your life. Join us as we explore the potential that lies in each of us to transform fear into a journey toward fulfillment and resilience.

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What if you could transform trauma into triumph while living a life filled with purpose and passion? Join us for an inspiring conversation with Cindy Gould, a transformation coach and dual elite certified neuroencoding specialist, dedicated to helping veterans and their families navigate the challenges of civilian life. As we explore Cindy's journey and commitment, you'll learn how her upbringing in a family devoted to service ignited her passion for guiding individuals toward resilience and self-rediscovery. Discover how her work with the Victory Network and her show, "Create Your Victorious Life," is making a difference by empowering people to identify their true purpose and overcome life's obstacles.

Uncover the secrets to using military-acquired skills in civilian success and fulfillment. Cindy shares powerful insights into the "seven whys," a method for digging deeper into one's motivations that leads to emotional breakthroughs and profound insights. By aligning with personal values, veterans can find clarity and direction in their lives. We discuss practical techniques like the mirror exercise, which fosters self-love and a deeper connection to one's soul, and explore the concept that everything desired is already available in the universe, just waiting for you to reach out and claim it.

Learn how harnessing the power of visualization can pave the way to manifesting your dreams, whether they're tangible goals like new opportunities or intangible ones like inner peace and happiness. From embodying the feelings of success to celebrating small victories, Cindy guides us through the steps to train the mind for joy and healing. With tips on meditation, incremental daily actions, and the importance of intentional thinking, this episode is a treasure trove of strategies for mastering the game of life. Connect with the Victory Network for further empowerment and engage with these transformative concepts to unlock your potential and fulfill your God-given purpose.

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Experience a world of healing possibilities as we sit down with Dr. Jason Ozuna, an Army veteran turned visionary energy healer. Through his unique blend of logical engineering principles and spiritual healing practices, Dr. Ozuna reveals how veterans can harness the power of energy healing and neuro encoding to navigate their transition to civilian life. By focusing on mental and emotional energies, he offers tools to process emotions effectively, overcome challenges, and build stronger familial and community bonds. Dr. Ozuna's story is not just one of personal growth but a lifelong mission to empower others, starting from his early years.

Discover how transforming belief systems can lead to profound healing, especially for those grappling with PTSD. We unpack the 'BS system'?the belief system?and explore how reframing negative beliefs can shift perspectives and foster growth. This conversation delves into the fundamental human fears of death and the need for safety, and how understanding love's essence can rewrite internal narratives. Gain exclusive insights into the potential for significant personal transformation by embracing a new mindset and viewing the world through a more positive lens.

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