In this deeply embodied episode of Please Me!, Eve welcomes erotic embodiment coach and ?Orgasmic Body Whisperer? Patty Alfonso for a powerful conversation on erotic innocence, feminine energy, sensual confidence, sacred sexuality, and reconnecting to your life force energy. Together, they explore how trauma, societal conditioning, shame, burnout, and hyper-productivity disconnect women from pleasure, intuition, and authentic self-expression ? and how reclaiming sensuality can transform every area of life. Eve and Patty discuss body awareness, nervous system regulation, self-pleasure as self-care, embodiment practices, communication in relationships, orgasmic energy, feminine and masculine balance, and what it means to truly feel safe in your body. They also explore how pleasure, curiosity, and sensual living can support healing, confidence, intimacy, and emotional connection. This episode dives into topics including erotic innocence, sacred sexuality, sexual sovereignty, body positivity, orgasm equality, self-love, feminine empowerment, sensual embodiment, kink exploration, communication tools for couples, nervous system healing, pleasure practices, and reconnecting with your authentic self. Plus, Eve and Patty step into one of the podcast?s signature role play segments, demonstrating a powerful intimacy and communication exercise called a dyad. Through guided dialogue, they model how partners can safely explore fantasies, desires, kink curiosity, consent, vulnerability, and deeper emotional intimacy through intentional communication and active listening. If you?ve ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in performance-based sexuality, navigating life transitions, or craving deeper intimacy and pleasure, this conversation offers empowering tools to help you reconnect with yourself and your desires. Connect with Guest Patty AlfonsoWebsite & Free Gift: Patty Alfonso Free Gift ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards ? Best EducatorVote for Eve Website: Please Me! Podcast WebsiteSubstack: Please Me! SubstackPatreon: Please Me! Patreon 30-Day Self Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesDownload the Free Practices Sexual Longevity ProtocolSexual Longevity Protocol Affiliate Deals & Partners:Sexual Wellness Deals & Resources Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth:Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Vote for EveConnect with Eve30 Day Practices & ProtocolOffers & ResourcesFeatured BrandsBe a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve continues with boudoir photographer Vera Glass to explore body confidence, feminine empowerment, sensual self-expression, sexuality, and the transformative power of boudoir photography. This episode goes deeper into how boudoir can support women through divorce, motherhood, body image struggles, shame, societal expectations, and major life transitions. Vera shares how stepping in front of the camera can help women reconnect with their bodies, rebuild confidence, and begin to see themselves through the empowering lens of the female gaze. Eve and Vera also explore how boudoir becomes a tool for emotional reinvention ? helping women release old identities, rediscover pleasure, and reconnect with sensuality and self-worth at every stage of life. The episode closes with a playful role play segment focused on intimacy and communication, including dirty talk, expressing desire, consent, and how to bring more openness, confidence, and erotic communication into partnered relationships. Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, divorce recovery, body confidence, sensual embodiment, feminine energy, sexuality, self-love, intimacy, communication, and personal transformation. Connect with Guest Connect with Vera Glass Instagram: @VeraGlassImageryInstagram: @ShesSoSelfish Website: https://www.veraglassimagery.com/ Vote for Eve ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards ? Best EducatorVote for Eve Here Connect with Eve WebsitePlease Me! Podcast Website SubstackPlease Me! Podcast Substack PatreonPlease Me! Podcast Patreon 30-Day Practices & Protocol Download Eve?s FREE 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices Offers & Resources Affiliate Deals & PartnersSexual Wellness Deals & Partners Featured Brands: Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, intimacy, wellness, and personal growth:Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 1 of this special two-part episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with boudoir and fashion photographer Vera Glass for a deep conversation on the female gaze, body confidence, sensuality, and self-expression. Together they explore how boudoir photography can become a powerful tool for embodiment, healing, feminine empowerment, and reconnecting with your sensual self. Vera shares how her photography differs from traditional ?male gaze? imagery by centering women?s comfort, emotional safety, confidence, and authenticity. From curated luxury photoshoots and cinematic imagery to breathwork, nervous system regulation, and emotional healing, this episode dives into the psychology behind sensual photography and why so many women leave boudoir sessions feeling transformed. Eve and Vera also discuss body image, self-worth, intimacy, feminine energy, and how intentional photography can help women reconnect with their bodies after heartbreak, divorce, motherhood, trauma, or major life transitions. Perfect for listeners interested in boudoir photography, self-love, body positivity, embodiment, sensual wellness, feminine confidence, sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Be sure to come back for Part 2 this Friday. Connect with Vera Glass Instagram: @VeraGlassImagery  Instagram: @She?sSoSelfish  website:  Vera Glass Imagery | luxury boudoir photography texas Vote for Eve ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards ? Best EducatorVote for Eve Here Connect with Eve WebsitePlease Me! Podcast Website SubstackPlease Me! Podcast Substack PatreonPlease Me! Podcast Patreon 30-Day Practices & Protocol Download Eve?s FREE 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices Offers & Resources Affiliate Deals & PartnersSexual Wellness Deals & Partners Featured Brands: Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, intimacy, wellness, and personal growth:Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve dives into the provocative world of ethical gender play and doll play with professional dominatrix and kink educator Lady Veronika Kestrel. Together, they unpack how BDSM and intentional kink can become powerful tools for self-discovery, gender exploration, erotic transformation, and personal empowerment. This conversation explores the psychology behind dollification, sissy play, dominance and submission, humiliation, affirmation, consent, and the emotional impact of gendered power dynamics within kink spaces. Lady Veronika shares how ethical gender play can help people better understand identity, embodiment, fantasy, and self-expression while challenging shame, stigma, and outdated ideas around femininity and masculinity. Eve and Lady Veronika also discuss the transformative nature of doll play, the importance of boundaries and intentionality in BDSM, and how kink can be used to build people up rather than tear them down. From fetish culture and trans identity to conscious kink practices and erotic self-acceptance, this episode offers a thoughtful and deeply intimate look into modern BDSM dynamics. Perfect for listeners curious about kink education, BDSM relationships, doll play, feminization, gender expression, power exchange, consent, sexual empowerment, and alternative intimacy. TikTok: @switchvero IG: @VeronikaKestrel ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards ? Best Educatorhttps://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/vote-4-13-2026 Website: https://pleaseme.onlineSubstack: https://pleaseme.substack.comPatreon: https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practiceshttps://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ The Sexual Longevity Protocolhttps://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ Affiliate Deals & Partnershttps://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, wellness, and personal growth:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Connect with Our Guest ? Lady Veronika KestrelVote for EveConnect with Eve30-Day Practices & ProtocolsOffers & ResourcesFeatured BrandsBe a Guest on Please Me! Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pleasure ME! Pop-Up is a month-long immersive destination in West Palm Beach for adults who are ready to go deeper ? into pleasure, into community, and into themselves. Whether you?re brand new to this world and full of curiosity or a seasoned practitioner looking for a rich community experience, this space was created with you in mind. Each week offers a curated rhythm of healing, education, connection, and play, featuring guest educators, performers, workshops, and experiences designed to encourage exploration, authenticity, and community. The month builds toward an unforgettable 3-day finale that brings everything together in a powerful closing experience. South Florida has a large, active kink community. Now it has a home. For more information:Pleasure ME! Pop-Up Details Get tickets here:Pleasure ME! Pop-Up Tickets on Eventbrite Acoustic Wave Therapy Discount:pleaseme.online Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2 of this conversation, host Eve continues her discussion with Dr. Nic and Prof Mike of Divine Guidance, exploring what it means to be blindsided in a relationship and how to rebuild self-trust after emotional disruption. This episode dives into intuition in relationships, emotional patterns in dating, and the self-awareness needed to navigate both new and long-term partnerships. The conversation unpacks why people stay in misaligned relationships, the difference between hope vs. certainty, and how to recognize early red flags before deeper attachment forms. Eve and her guests also break down ghosting behavior, why partners come back after disappearing, and how to make confident, grounded decisions rooted in clarity?not confusion. The episode concludes with a practical role play covering communication skills, financial compatibility, and relationship alignment. Key Topics:? Being blindsided in a relationship and emotional recovery? Rebuilding self-trust and confidence after heartbreak? Intuition in dating and relationships? Emotional patterns and relationship cycles? Hope vs. certainty in love and decision-making? Red flags in early dating stages? Ghosting behavior and why people come back? Communication skills in relationships? Financial compatibility and relationship alignment? Self-awareness and healthy relationship tools Connect With the Guests Dr. Nic & Prof Mike | Divine GuidanceExplore their work on relationship alignment, intuition, and consciousness: Divine Guidance Institute Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State ShiftA guided program to reset relationship patterns and elevate connection:Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State Shift Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack (Articles + Deeper Insights): https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Exclusive Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on the Please Me Podcast Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources The Sexual Longevity ProtocolOptimize performance, function, and long-term sexual health: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesReconnect with your body, pleasure, and confidence: https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Affiliate Partners & Exclusive Deals Explore trusted sexual wellness brands and special listener offers: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured Partners:? Shameless Care? Parlor Games? SDC.com? Lady Pump Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Nic and Professor Mike Sebastian from the Trust Your Gut Save Your Ass Podcast to unpack what it really means to be blindsided in a relationship?and how to find your way back to yourself. Through a deeply personal story, Eve shares her experience of financial manipulation within her marriage and the long-term impact it had on her life, credit, and sense of self. What begins as a reflection on a Netflix show quickly unfolds into a much larger conversation about red flags, intuition, trauma responses, and the patterns that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships. Together, they explore how financial dynamics can quietly erode a partnership, why so many people overlook early warning signs, and how societal pressure?especially for women?can lead to compromising your truth. This episode dives into the importance of emotional awareness, recognizing misalignment early, and understanding the role both partners play in relationship dynamics. Dr. Nic and Professor Mike introduce the concept of ?resonance? in relationships?how shared values, habits, and everyday preferences matter more than we often realize?and why ignoring small incompatibilities can lead to major fractures down the line. They also break down one of the most powerful and confronting questions you can ask in any relationship: ?Are you willing to work on this?? This episode is an honest, nuanced look at love, accountability, and the journey of rebuilding trust?not just with others, but within yourself. Stay tuned for Part 2, where things get even deeper with a live relationship role-play and communication breakdown. Key Topics Covered Financial manipulation and financial infidelity in relationships Recognizing relationship red flags early How trauma impacts communication and decision-making The psychology of staying in unhealthy relationships Sexless marriage and emotional disconnection Rebuilding self-trust after divorce Dating app culture and dishonesty statistics The myth of ?opposites attract? vs. relationship compatibility Understanding ?resonance? and alignment in partnerships The role of intuition, gut feelings, and emotional awareness One question that can determine the future of your relationship Connect With the Guests Dr. Nic & Prof Mike | Divine GuidanceExplore their work on relationship alignment, intuition, and consciousness: Divine Guidance Institute Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State ShiftA guided program to reset relationship patterns and elevate connection:Love Vibe® 30-Day Relationship Reset | Consciousness State Shift Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack (Articles + Deeper Insights): https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Exclusive Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on the Please Me Podcast Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources The Sexual Longevity ProtocolOptimize performance, function, and long-term sexual health: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesReconnect with your body, pleasure, and confidence: https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Affiliate Partners & Exclusive Deals Explore trusted sexual wellness brands and special listener offers: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured Partners:? Shameless Care? Parlor Games? SDC.com? Lady Pump Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to Please Me! Podcast, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, where bold conversations around intimacy, pleasure, and sexual wellness help de-stigmatize the way we talk about sex. In this episode, Eve sits down with Luna Rose?ritual artist, kink guide, and herbalist behind Wild Pleasure Sanctuary?to explore the powerful intersection of eco-sensuality, BDSM, and embodied desire. Luna shares how she weaves together Shibari rope work, plant-based practices, herbal medicine, and ritual to create deeply transformative experiences rooted in presence, connection, and pleasure. From working with herbs like rose, lavender, and rosemary in sensual play to using rope for nervous system regulation and mindfulness, this conversation expands the possibilities of intimacy, healing, and self-expression. If you're curious about conscious kink, alternative intimacy, or holistic approaches to sexuality, this episode will open your perspective in a grounded and empowering way. ? What eco-sensuality is and how nature deepens intimacy? How plants like rose, lavender, and rosemary enhance sensual and kink experiences? The grounding and therapeutic benefits of Shibari rope bondage? How rope supports nervous system regulation and embodiment? Why consent, communication, and safety are essential in BDSM? How ritual and plant medicine intersect with sexuality? Safe ways to explore self-pleasure and kink curiosity Website: https://www.wildpleasuresanctuary.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/DWhMN_4mDRc/ The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Pleasurehttps://pleaseme.online/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practiceshttps://pleaseme.online/ Website: https://pleaseme.online/Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com/Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Bonus Content): https://www.patreon.com/c/PleaseMePodcastBe a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins to unpack how women?s ?super traits??including empathy, loyalty, and responsibility?can fuel success while also leading to burnout, people-pleasing, and a disconnection from pleasure. Together, they explore the deeper links between trauma, boundaries, sexual health, and relationship dynamics. This episode dives into how emotional labor impacts desire, why the orgasm gap persists, and how high-achieving women often prioritize others at the expense of their own needs. You?ll also hear a practical role-play segment that demonstrates how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and confidently center your pleasure in intimate relationships. If you?ve ever struggled with overgiving, loss of desire, or difficulty asking for what you want?in bed or in life?this episode offers both insight and actionable tools to help you reclaim your power and reconnect with your body. Connect With the Guest ? Dr. Jordan Wiggins Website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.comPodcast: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepleasurecollective Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.onlineSubstack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.comPatreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Offers & Resources Explore exclusive sexual wellness offers and partner brands here: https://pleaseme.online/sexual-wellness-deals/ Featured partners include: Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Courses & Programs:The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasurehttps://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol-course/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practiceshttps://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, bringing bold conversations around sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment. In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility?what Dr. Wiggins calls ?Super Traits??can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns. They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally. This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how ?love languages? can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions. In This Episode ? What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships? The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns? Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy? How chronic stress and over-functioning shut down pleasure centers? The role of praise, validation, and emotional labor in relationships? Why pleasure and fulfillment are essential for overall health Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:  The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me!  30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesThe 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me! Dr. Jordan Wiggins Website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com Podcast: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/podcast  Website:https://pleaseme.online  Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com  Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning bilingual sexuality podcast hosted by Eve. Ranked among the top sexual health podcasts worldwide, Please Me explores intimacy, sexual wellness, orgasm equality, body positivity, and empowerment, helping listeners build confidence, connection, and pleasure in their lives. In this episode, Eve welcomes Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, the world?s first global membership community created exclusively for bisexual and bicurious women. What began as a small gathering in London has grown into a thriving international network with 27,000+ members across 36 cities, offering curated events, workshops, and retreats designed to create safe spaces for women to explore identity, connection, and pleasure. Together, Eve and Genevieve discuss: ? Exploring bisexuality, sexual identity, and self-discovery? Why women-only spaces support safety, confidence, and exploration? The role of consent, communication, and boundaries in intimacy? How embodiment practices and sexual energy reconnect women to their bodies? The importance of community, autonomy, and self-pleasure in sexual wellness Genevieve also shares insights into Skirt Club?s international retreats in destinations like Austin, Paris, Bali, and New York, where women experience embodiment workshops, intimacy practices, and personal development focused on feminine empowerment and connection. Eve also highlights two powerful resources designed to support long-term sexual health, pleasure, and prevention:  The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual PleasureA 3-module, self-paced course designed to help men and women prevent and improve sexual health concerns such as low libido, vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, and decreased sensitivity?all from the comfort and privacy of your own home. The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me!  30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesA free daily guided journal to help you reconnect with your body, increase sensitivity, and build pleasure awareness one day at a time.The 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me! Connect with Genevieve LejeuneWebsite:https://skirtclub.co.uk Instagram:@SkirtClub Connect with Eve Website:https://pleaseme.online Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me Podcast:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Becky Gleed, a reproductive and perinatal health expert and host of the Perinatal and Reproductive Perspectives Podcast, to explore how infertility, IVF, and assisted reproduction impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health. Eve also shares her personal IVF experience, opening up about how fertility treatments can shift sex from something spontaneous and connective into something scheduled and clinical?often creating emotional pressure and disconnection for couples. Together, they discuss the psychological toll of infertility and offer supportive, practical ways to maintain communication, intimacy, and emotional closeness throughout the journey. This conversation also expands into postpartum realities, including breastfeeding challenges, identity shifts, and maternal mental health. They highlight the importance of prioritizing the wellbeing of the birthing individual and recognizing early signs of more serious conditions, including postpartum psychosis. This episode is a compassionate and empowering resource for anyone navigating fertility challenges, reproductive health concerns, or changes in intimacy during the journey to parenthood. What You?ll Learn? How infertility and IVF affect intimacy and relationships? Why fertility treatments can create emotional stress and disconnection? Ways to maintain connection and communication during fertility challenges? The importance of advocating for yourself in reproductive care? The role of mental health support during infertility and IVF? How postpartum recovery and breastfeeding can impact intimacy? Understanding postpartum psychosis and the importance of early support Connect With the GuestBecky GleedWebsite: https://www.perinatalreproductivewellness.com/ Resources from EveThe Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With EveWebsite: https://pleaseme.onlineSubstack: https://pleaseme.substack.comPatreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcastBe a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me, Eve introduces The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure?a proven, clinically informed system designed to help men and women prevent and improve common sexual health challenges before they become long-term issues. From erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to low libido, decreased sensitivity, and performance concerns, Eve breaks down why these experiences are not just a normal part of aging?and what?s actually happening in the body when sexual function begins to decline. At the core of sexual longevity is a powerful truth: sexual function is deeply connected to blood flow, consistent stimulation, and nervous system regulation. When these systems are supported, pleasure, confidence, and connection don?t have to fade?they can be maintained and even improved over time. Eve introduces a prevention-first approach to sexual wellness, showing why what you do now directly impacts your future sex life?and why waiting until something is ?wrong? is the biggest mistake people make. About the Course: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure is a 3-module, self-paced course designed so you can take control of your sexual health from the comfort and privacy of your own home?no need to work with Eve directly to experience the benefits. Inside, you?ll find: Module 1: Women?s Sexual Health HacksTargeted strategies to support arousal, lubrication, sensitivity, and long-term vaginal health Module 2: Men?s Sexual Health HacksPractical tools to improve erectile function, stamina, performance, and confidence Module 3: Safety Sexual Health HacksA critical, often overlooked component focused on nervous system regulation, safety, and sustainable pleasure?because true sexual longevity requires both physical function and a regulated, responsive body This private client blueprint is designed to help you restore, maintain, and protect your sexual function for years to come?without guesswork. What You?ll Learn in This Episode: The real root cause behind declining sexual function (vascular health) How to improve arousal, sensitivity, and sexual performance naturally The role of the nervous system in pleasure, safety, and intimacy How to prevent vaginal atrophy and erectile dysfunction Why a proactive sexual wellness routine is essential for long-term pleasure Ready to Go Deeper? Unlock the full method here: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure                                   The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me! Not ready for the full protocol? Start here?free?and begin rebuilding connection, sensation, and pleasure from the comfort of your own home: 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices?The 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me!? Website:https://pleaseme.online Socials & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, host Eve Hall sits down with renowned certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart for a powerful conversation about seduction styles, intimacy, sexual communication, and authentic connection in relationships. Marla, founder of Velvet Lips and co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference, shares insights from more than two decades of studying human sexuality and helping individuals and couples improve their sex lives. Together, they explore the three seduction styles and explain how understanding these styles can transform attraction, dating, communication, and intimacy. Rather than manipulation, seduction is about recognizing your sexual strengths and using them to build genuine emotional and physical connection. This episode explores how visual, auditory, and tactile seduction styles influence the way we flirt, attract partners, and create deeper relationships. Listeners will gain practical relationship advice, sexual wellness insights, and dating guidance for creating stronger emotional and erotic connections. Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, understanding seduction styles can help you communicate better, increase attraction, and build more fulfilling intimacy. What You?ll Learn in This Episode ? The three seduction styles: visual, auditory, and tactile ? How to identify your seduction style and your partner?s ? Why seduction is about authentic connection?not manipulation ? How communication improves intimacy and attraction ? Common sexual challenges couples experience in relationships ? Strategies to reconnect with a partner sexually and emotionally ? Dating advice for singles looking for deeper relationships ? Why shared values are essential for long-term compatibility Website:velvetlipssexed.com Website:https://pleaseme.online Socials & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

in this episode of Please Me!, we dive into women?s sexual wellness, intimacy, and confidence with Jennifer Fonseca, a nurse practitioner at Liquivida Wellness. We discuss how to navigate changes in sexual health due to aging, perimenopause, medications, stress, and lifestyle factors. Jennifer explains advanced treatment options such as Morpheus RF microneedling, vaginal fillers, and how holistic care combined with open communication can enhance intimacy and confidence. Jennifer also shares her approach to creating a safe, judgment-free space for patients, empowering women to advocate for themselves, and maintaining sexual wellness well into later life. Topics Covered Vaginal health concerns: dryness, painful intercourse, and tissue changes The effects of stress, hormones, and mental health on sexual function Aesthetic and functional treatments for vaginal rejuvenation Featured Treatments Morpheus RF Microneedling ? Tissue tightening and collagen stimulation (with a recommended 72-hour intimacy wait) O-Shot ? G-spot injections designed to enhance sensation Dermal Fillers ? Support for labial structure and confidence Partner communication and introducing new experiences in the bedroom Holistic approaches to sexual wellness and long-term vitality Roleplay exercise modeling healthy communication Practical advice for women to advocate for their sexual health How to Connect with Jennifer Fonseca Website: https://www.liquivida.com/wellington Instagram: @LiquividaWellington How to Connect with Eve & Please Me! Website: https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact: https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon ? Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content: https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful and deeply honest episode, Eve sits down with Xanet Pailet ? former healthcare attorney turned sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and retreat leader. After leaving a 20+ year marriage that had become largely sexless, Xanet began a transformative journey of healing sexual shame, trauma, and emotional disconnection. At age 50, she realized that desire doesn?t disappear because of aging or hormones ? it fades when emotional safety erodes, communication shuts down, and the body stops feeling invited into the relationship. Together, Eve and Xanet explore how to rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, repair emotional ruptures, heal trauma, and redefine sex beyond penetration to create lasting connection and pleasure. Topics Covered Emotional safety as the foundation of sexual intimacy Why repair is critical in long-term relationships The impact of childhood shame and medical trauma on desire Healing sexual shutdown through tantra and embodied practices Expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration Navigating erectile dysfunction with compassion and creativity Mutual masturbation and alternative intimacy practices How to start difficult conversations about sex Touching for your own pleasure to build erotic connection Intimacy Equation QuizA playful conversation starter to explore your intimacy style: https://howtoimprovemylovelife.com Website & Retreats: https://passionateintimacyretreats.com Books: Living an Orgasmic Life The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Bookshop.org. Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon ? Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content:https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Please Me!, host Eve welcomes Brent Dowlen, relationship and personal development coach, podcast host, and creator behind multiple shows including Driven To Thrive Broadcast and Dad Hat Shenanigans. Together, they unpack the rarely discussed realities of men?s sexual health, including performance anxiety, shame, stress, and identity ? and how these factors deeply impact intimacy, relationships, and mental health. Brent shares candid personal experiences with erectile dysfunction caused by stress and exhaustion, shedding light on how strongly many men tie sexual performance to masculinity and self-worth. The conversation explores how fear, shame, and societal expectations can quickly turn sex from a source of connection into a source of anxiety ? and what men (and their partners) can do to interrupt that cycle. This episode also dives into foundational habits for long-term sexual health, including sleep, nutrition, hydration, exercise, stress management, and honest self-assessment. Eve and Brent address the men?s mental health and loneliness epidemic, the outdated ?playbook? men are still handed, and why vulnerability is often encouraged in theory but punished in practice. The episode concludes with a realistic and educational role-play conversation, modeling how couples can communicate desires, boundaries, fantasies, and consent ? proving that healthy sexual communication can be awkward, playful, respectful, and deeply connecting. Men?s sexual performance anxiety and identity Erectile dysfunction, stress, and exhaustion Shame and fear surrounding sexual health issues When men should seek support for sexual health concerns Sleep, hydration, nutrition, and cardiovascular health for sexual wellness Testosterone, exercise, and healthy fats Men?s mental health crisis and loneliness epidemic Why traditional therapy often misses men Masculinity, vulnerability, and societal expectations Initiating intimacy and feeling desired as a man Power dynamics, submission, and stress relief in the bedroom How to talk to your partner about fantasies and boundaries Consent, communication, and curiosity in long-term relationships Whole-Foods, Plant-Based Nutrition | Juice Plus+https://www.juiceplus.com How to Connect with Brent Dowl Website https://purposedrivenmen.com Connect with Eve & Please Me! Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon ? Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content:https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me!:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Episode 4 of Season 7, host Eve welcomes back Sam Itshaki, creator of Mr. Get Bigger Now and CEO of the legendary Dr. Joel Kaplan Company, for his second appearance on Please Me! This candid, educational conversation explores sexual wellness tools designed to support blood flow, sensitivity, endurance, and confidence ? for all genders. Building on his Season 6 appearance, Sam returns to share the latest data, devices, and innovations in sexual health, including pumps for men and women, endurance training, and the science behind arousal, aging, and prevention. How blood flow directly impacts sexual pleasure, sensitivity, and function Why sexual wellness is preventative care, not just a solution after problems arise The science behind penis pumps, extenders, and female vacuum devices How regular pumping may support: Increased sensitivity Improved natural lubrication Enhanced erectile quality Vaginal and vulvar tissue health The connection between aging, atrophy, and sexual function in both men and women How women experience arousal and engorgement ? and why it matters for pleasure A deep dive into penile endurance training and edging practices How men can dramatically increase stamina and control through guided training Why lasting longer isn?t a ?problem to fix? ? it?s a trainable skill How improved endurance can open the door to deeper intimacy, novelty, and fantasy A playful, fan-favorite role play segment exploring how to introduce new tools into a relationship Sam Itshaki first joined Please Me! in Season 6 for a powerful two-part deep dive into male enhancement, sexual confidence, and the foundations of blood-flow-based sexual wellness. These fan-favorite episodes laid the groundwork for today?s conversation and are a great place to start if you?re new to Sam?s work. Part 1:https://open.spotify.com/episode/6HFc6AVk1JMpIg3EZBfDnz?si=W5AZ4es3RZWJteUo7SqpHQ Part 2:https://open.spotify.com/episode/6nWGLezGEQW9KqLYfJkyrv?si=SlAXCixtTOu-NaGx25GnPA Together, these episodes explore the origins of Mr. Get Bigger Now, early research on pumping and endurance training, and how men can reclaim agency over their sexual performance and pleasure. Connect with Sam Itshaki Website:https://getbiggernow.com Connect with Eve & Please Me! Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon ? Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content:https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me!:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me, we?re joined by Kayla Moore, certified sex therapist, pleasure coach, and sovereign guide for women warriors rising, for a powerful conversation about reclaiming pleasure, healing sexual conditioning, and restoring the sacred feminine. Kayla explores how patriarchal systems, religion, and cultural norms have shaped our relationship to sex, desire, and intimacy?and why pleasure is not limited to sex, but is deeply connected to nervous system safety, embodiment, and emotional connection. Together, we discuss divine feminine and divine masculine energies, the importance of healing in community, and how slowing down intimacy can create deeper, more fulfilling relationships. This episode also features a live role-play modeling healthy communication around desire, boundaries, pacing, and emotional safety?offering practical language listeners can use in their own relationships. Pleasure as a pathway to healing and empowerment The sacred feminine and sacred masculine within all people How patriarchy impacts sexuality and intimate relationships Why emotional safety is essential for intimacy and desire Healing sexual desire through community and connection How to communicate needs, boundaries, and pace in relationships Connect with Kayla Moore Podcast: Connected Pleasure Podcasthttps://open.spotify.com/show/0ErT6bJvm5RyMErljjhQGX Connect with Eve & Please Me Website: https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact: https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me:Apply via PodMatchhttps://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Season 7 of Please Me launches with a deeply embodied and transformative conversation exploring tantra, sexual energy, emotional release, and orgasmic healing. In this powerful episode, Eve welcomes Emma Galland, a renowned sex educator and Tantra coach, for an expansive discussion on how sexuality functions as a portal to self-realization, creativity, and liberation. Together, they explore how orgasms are not merely physical events, but nervous-system experiences capable of releasing grief, anger, fear, joy, and shame. Emma breaks down concepts such as cry orgasms, anger orgasms, joy orgasms, and location-specific orgasms, unpacking the neuroscience behind pleasure, sensation, and emotional expression. This episode dives deep into: Tantra as a daily self-cultivation and embodiment practice Sexuality as life force energy and creative power How emotional orgasms support trauma healing Why presence?not performance?creates mind-blowing sex How men can cultivate sexual mastery and emotional capacity Releasing sexual shame as a pathway to freedom and confidence Boundaries, consent, and handling unwanted sexual attention Tantra vs. conventional sex: intention vs. performance Masturbation as a spiritual, nervous-system regulation practice Why pleasure expands confidence, creativity, and manifestation This conversation is raw, educational, and deeply liberating?perfect for anyone ready to reclaim pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Website:https://tantricawakenings.com (Explore Tantra teachings, guided practices, and resources for embodied intimacy.) Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me:Apply via PodMatchhttps://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast How to Connect with the Guest: Emma GallandConnect With Eve Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode features a pre-recorded live webinar from SDC.com, a global platform focused on ethically non-monogamous dating and sexual education. In Date Smart, Play Safe: Boundaries That Turn You On, Eve Hall explores how communication, consent, and sexual safety can be reframed as essential?and even erotic?parts of modern intimacy. Designed for individuals and couples within the lifestyle community, the session emphasizes that boundaries and desire are not opposing forces. Instead, clear communication around needs, limits, and preferences can deepen attraction, build trust, and enhance sexual connection. Eve breaks down practical strategies for expressing yeses and nos in ways that preserve desire and respect, and offers guidance on handling rejection with emotional maturity and clarity. A key focus of the episode is the idea that consent is not a disruption to intimacy, but a foundation that allows for greater freedom, curiosity, and pleasure. The conversation also includes education on STI awareness and testing, with attention to oral transmission risks and the importance of ongoing sexual health responsibility in ethically non-monogamous relationships. Additional discussion highlights how fantasies, kinks, and erotic interests can be communicated openly without pressure or shame, strengthening relational transparency. Throughout the webinar, Eve reframes safer sex as an empowering practice?positioning communication, consent, and clarity as forms of erotic connection that enhance both trust and arousal. The episode also touches on broader themes of body confidence, sexual empowerment, and community culture within ENM spaces. A referenced segment from a related discussion with Dr. Elliot Justin expands on men?s sexual health, noting the connection between nocturnal erections and cardiovascular function. The conversation highlights emerging smart technology that tracks erection quality during sleep, with research suggesting that fewer than three nocturnal erections per night may correlate with increased cardiovascular risk. Overall, this episode blends education, relationship tools, and sexual health awareness into a practical guide for navigating modern intimacy with confidence and care. What You?ll Learn ? How to communicate sexual boundaries without reducing desire ? Why consent can enhance attraction and intimacy ? Strategies for handling rejection respectfully in dating and ENM spaces ? The importance of STI awareness and oral transmission education ? How to discuss fantasies, kinks, and desires without pressure ? Why safer sex practices strengthen trust and connection ? The role of communication in ethically non-monogamous relationships ? How body confidence supports sexual empowerment ? Insights into men?s sexual health and nocturnal erections ? The link between erectile function and cardiovascular health Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me! Podcast, Eve Hall delivers a comprehensive, sex-positive, and medically informed discussion on sexual health, pleasure, and prevention across all genders. The episode bridges clinical insight with practical education, helping listeners understand how physical health, hormones, and daily habits directly shape sexual function and satisfaction. A central theme of the episode is the connection between sexual performance and overall vascular and cardiovascular health. Eve explains how conditions such as erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness can often serve as early indicators of underlying blood flow or endothelial dysfunction, highlighting the importance of early awareness and holistic care. The conversation also explores a range of evidence-informed approaches to improving sexual wellness, including acoustic wave therapy for tissue and blood flow support, as well as mechanical tools such as penis pumps and traction devices. These are discussed in the context of safe, informed use and long-term sexual health rather than short-term performance fixes. Eve emphasizes the role of masturbation and self-exploration as foundational practices for sexual health, noting how masturbation supports pelvic awareness, arousal understanding, and orgasmic response. She also connects ejaculation frequency to prostate health and underscores the importance of pleasure literacy for all genders. For female sexual health, the episode addresses clitoral blood flow, lubrication, hormonal influences (including testosterone, estrogen, progesterone, and DHEA), and how factors like sleep, nutrition, hydration, and movement contribute to arousal and comfort. The importance of extended foreplay and adequate arousal time is highlighted as essential for reducing discomfort and improving pleasure outcomes. The episode also explores the orgasm gap in heterosexual relationships and reinforces communication as a key tool in bridging disparities in pleasure. Eve encourages open dialogue about needs, boundaries, and desires as a foundation for healthy sexual connection. On the prevention side, the episode covers STI awareness, testing protocols (including oral and anal screening), informed consent, and modern prevention strategies such as Doxy-PEP. Additional topics include sexual health preparedness tools (?bug-out bags?), and education around common infections such as yeast infections, UTIs, herpes, and HPV, including vaccination and antiviral treatment options. Overall, this episode serves as a grounded, educational guide to understanding sexual health as an integrated part of whole-body wellbeing. What You?ll Learn ? How sexual health reflects cardiovascular and vascular health ? Why erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness can be early warning signs ? The role of acoustic wave therapy in sexual wellness ? Safe use of penis pumps and traction devices ? Why masturbation supports sexual health and self-awareness ? How hormones influence libido, arousal, and lubrication ? The importance of foreplay and adequate arousal time ? How nutrition, sleep, and movement affect sexual function ? Understanding and addressing the orgasm gap ? STI prevention, testing, and informed consent practices ? What Doxy-PEP is and how post-exposure prevention works ? Sexual health preparedness and safer sex strategies ? Education on herpes, HPV, yeast infections, and UTIs Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode of the What?s Your Brand Story Podcast, host Dhylles Victoria sits down with Eve, creator of Please Me!, for a deeply personal and expansive conversation about the story behind the brand and the lived experiences that shaped its mission. The discussion explores Eve?s journey from childhood sexual trauma to sexual empowerment, and how that lived experience became the foundation for a global movement centered on sexual health, education, and liberation. She reflects on how healing is not only personal, but also deeply connected to breaking cultural silence around sex, pleasure, and the body. A major focus of the episode is the importance of sexual health care as an essential part of overall wellbeing. Eve and Dhylles discuss the orgasm gap and the broader concept of orgasm equality, highlighting how lack of education, communication, and anatomical understanding contributes to persistent disparities in pleasure. The conversation also addresses often-overlooked sexual health concerns, including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, incontinence, and pelvic floor dysfunction, emphasizing the need for more open dialogue and accessible education for all genders. Additional topics include the role of sexual shame in shaping intimacy and identity, and how healing from trauma can involve rebuilding trust with the body, reframing pleasure, and reclaiming autonomy. Eve also discusses the importance of tools such as sex toys and vibrators in expanding definitions of sex and supporting individual exploration. Ultimately, this episode highlights how silence around sexuality can perpetuate harm, while open, informed, and compassionate conversation can create pathways toward healing, empowerment, and deeper connection. What You?ll Learn ? Eve?s journey from sexual trauma to empowerment and advocacy ? Why sexual health care is a critical part of overall wellbeing ? What the orgasm gap is and how orgasm equality can be supported ? Why most women require clitoral stimulation for orgasm ? Common but under-discussed sexual health conditions (ED, PE, incontinence, pelvic floor dysfunction) ? How sexual shame impacts intimacy and healing ? The role of sex toys and vibrators in sexual wellness ? Why open conversations about sex support healing and education ? How trauma recovery connects to embodied sexual confidence Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a special re-release of the most-watched Please Me! Podcast episode of 2025?an award-winning conversation honored with the Latin Podcast Award for Best LGBTQ+ Podcast. Its message remains as relevant and impactful today as ever, which is why it is being shared again for continued reflection and listening. In this powerful episode, Eve reflects on LGBTQ+ advocacy, the importance of visibility, and the role of community in driving meaningful social change. Drawing from her experience attending World Pride in Washington, D.C. alongside the National Association of Women Business Owners (NAWBO) 50th Anniversary Conference, she explores how moments of celebration and policy-focused advocacy intersect to deepen conversations around representation, accountability, and collective responsibility. The episode highlights the ongoing resilience, creativity, and leadership within LGBTQ+ communities while also acknowledging the real and present challenges they continue to face in social and legislative spaces. Through this lens, Eve emphasizes the importance of staying engaged, informed, and supportive of marginalized voices. A central focus of the episode is honoring trans and non-binary individuals, with a dedicated message of recognition and solidarity. The conversation underscores the necessity of visibility, protection, and amplification of their lived experiences, both within the LGBTQ+ community and in broader society. Ultimately, this re-release serves as both a celebration of progress and a reminder of the ongoing work needed to ensure equity, safety, and dignity for all LGBTQ+ people. What You?ll Learn ? Why LGBTQ+ visibility and advocacy remain essential ? How World Pride and policy advocacy intersect in meaningful ways ? The importance of community engagement and collective action ? Current social and legislative challenges facing LGBTQ+ individuals ? The role of media and storytelling in representation ? Why trans and non-binary visibility must be prioritized ? How celebration and activism can coexist in meaningful dialogue ? The continued importance of allyship and support Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special feed drop episode of Please Me!, host Eve Hall shares a powerful and educational conversation originally featured on the Shameless Care Podcast, exploring the history of HIV and AIDS?from its devastating early impact to the medical breakthroughs that have reshaped prevention and treatment today. The episode traces the emergence of HIV/AIDS in the early 1980s, a period marked by fear, misinformation, and widespread stigma. It highlights how initial misunderstandings about transmission contributed to public panic and delayed effective response, while communities most affected faced discrimination and inadequate healthcare support. As the science evolved, researchers identified the HIV virus and developed testing methods that allowed for earlier detection and better tracking of the disease. The conversation also covers how early treatment options transformed over time, moving from a once-fatal diagnosis to a manageable chronic condition. A key focus of the episode is the role of activism and public health leadership in advancing HIV awareness and care. Figures such as Dr. Anthony Fauci are discussed in the context of shaping research, policy, and treatment protocols during critical periods of the epidemic. Grassroots activism is also recognized as a driving force behind increased funding, education, and patient advocacy. The episode further explores major medical breakthroughs, including combination antiretroviral therapy (HAART), which dramatically improved life expectancy for people living with HIV. It also explains the significance of modern prevention strategies such as PrEP and the widely recognized principle of Undetectable = Untransmittable (U=U), which has reshaped how HIV-positive individuals understand transmission risk. Despite these advances, the episode underscores that HIV continues to impact communities today, particularly where access to healthcare, education, and prevention tools remains limited. It emphasizes the ongoing need for stigma-free, informed, and accessible sexual health education. Overall, this episode serves as both a historical overview and a reminder of the importance of continued awareness, equity, and compassion in sexual health care. What You?ll Learn ? The early history of HIV/AIDS and its impact in the 1980s ? How stigma, fear, and misinformation shaped the epidemic ? The discovery of HIV and advances in diagnostic testing ? The evolution from fatal diagnosis to chronic disease management ? The role of activism and public health leadership in response efforts ? Breakthroughs like HAART and combination antiretroviral therapy ? The meaning and importance of U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable) ? How PrEP revolutionized HIV prevention ? Why HIV continues to affect communities due to systemic gaps Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Season 6 of Please Me! comes to a powerful close in Part 2 of the season finale, with host Eve welcoming back returning guest Anthony Weaver, host of the About That Wallet podcast, for an expansive and reflective wrap-up conversation. Anthony, who also joined Eve for the Season 5 finale, returns once again for this special two-part holiday closing episode. In Part 2, the conversation turns toward deeper reflection on the most impactful lessons, listener responses, and standout moments from Season 6, highlighting how the podcast continues to evolve as a platform for sex-positive education and open dialogue. Together, Eve and Anthony revisit the core pillars that shaped the season, including consent, pleasure, boundaries, aftercare, and communication. They explore how these themes show up across a wide range of topics?from kink education and BDSM basics to everyday intimacy and emotional connection. The episode also celebrates major milestones for the show, including industry award recognition, Spotify Wrapped achievements, and the continued growth of its global listener community. Eve reflects on how podcasting has become both an educational platform and a space for collective healing, curiosity, and empowerment. Listeners are guided through honest, education-based discussions on orgasm equality, sexual wellness tools, STI testing, erectile health, lubrication, and pleasure devices, alongside conversations about sexual ?icks,? role-play, and sensation-based exploration. The episode emphasizes how communication and trust remain central across all forms of intimacy?whether in kink dynamics, monogamous relationships, or alternative relationship structures. Ultimately, this finale serves as a celebration of growth, connection, and unapologetic sexual liberation, honoring the evolution of both the podcast and its community. What You?ll Learn ? Key reflections and milestones from Season 6 of Please Me! ? Why communication is the foundation of sexual satisfaction and intimacy ? Kink education, BDSM basics, and the role of aftercare ? How sexual ?icks? can be navigated with consent and respect ? Role-play as a tool for communication and erotic exploration ? Sensation play, pain scales, and the traffic-light consent system ? STI awareness, testing practices, and sexual health education ? Erectile health topics including edging, pumps, and extenders ? How toys support orgasm equality and mutual pleasure ? Understanding and closing the orgasm gap in relationships ? Community engagement, giveaways, and listener support opportunities Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the Season 6 finale of the Please Me! Podcast, host Eve Hall is joined by Mistress Mia Darque, a professional dominatrix and BDSM educator with over 26 years of experience, for the concluding installment of the Kink Education Series. This episode brings together themes of power exchange, consent, identity, and representation within BDSM, offering a grounded and educational perspective on advanced kink dynamics. The conversation explores how power exchange extends far beyond physical sensation, functioning instead as a psychological and relational framework built on trust, communication, and negotiated boundaries. Mistress Mia emphasizes that healthy BDSM dynamics are rooted in clarity and consent, where both Dominant and submissive partners actively participate in defining structure, limits, and expectations. A key focus of the episode is the psychology behind dominance and submission, including how individuals may use these roles for emotional release, self-exploration, or embodied expression. The discussion also highlights the importance of communication before, during, and after scenes, reinforcing that negotiation and aftercare are essential components of ethical kink practice. The episode further addresses BIPOC representation and historical influence within the BDSM community, underscoring the importance of acknowledging diverse cultural contributions and ensuring inclusivity within kink education spaces. Mistress Mia also offers insight into nuanced BDSM practices, including sissification and corporal punishment, framing them within a consent-based, communicative, and intentionally structured context for those interested in exploring these dynamics safely and responsibly. Overall, this finale serves as both an educational deep dive and a reflection on the importance of community, storytelling, and inclusive representation in shaping modern kink culture. What You?ll Learn ? How power exchange functions beyond physical BDSM practices ? The role of consent, trust, and communication in kink dynamics ? The psychology behind dominance and submission roles ? The importance of BIPOC representation in BDSM communities ? How structured negotiation and aftercare support safety and connection ? Nuanced perspectives on sissification and corporal punishment ? Why kink education and storytelling are essential for community growth ? How inclusive practices strengthen BDSM spaces and relationships Connect With the Guest Mistress Mia Darque Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the Season 6 finale of Please Me!, Eve welcomes back returning guest Anthony Weaver, host of the About That Wallet podcast, for a reflective and meaningful wrap-up conversation that closes out another transformative season of sex-positive education and discussion. Anthony, who also joined Eve for the Season 5 finale, returns for this special two-part holiday episode to revisit the most impactful moments, lessons, and listener responses from Season 6. Together, they explore how the podcast continues to evolve as a platform for accessible, inclusive conversations around sexuality, relationships, and personal growth. The discussion highlights key themes that shaped the season, including communication, consent, pleasure, kink education, boundaries, and aftercare. Eve and Anthony reflect on how these foundational elements continue to show up across diverse episodes?from clinical sexual health discussions to explorations of intimacy, identity, and emotional connection. The episode also acknowledges the podcast?s continued growth, celebrating milestones such as award recognition, Spotify Wrapped achievements, and increasing global listener engagement. These achievements underscore the expanding reach and impact of Please Me! as a resource for sexual wellness education and empowerment. Ultimately, this finale serves as both a celebration and a reflection?offering listeners a thoughtful overview of Season 6?s most important insights and a reminder of the value of ongoing, shame-free conversations about sex, relationships, and self-awareness. What You?ll Learn ? Key highlights and themes from Season 6 of Please Me! ? Why communication and consent remain central to sexual wellbeing ? The role of kink education, boundaries, and aftercare in intimacy ? Sexual wellness topics including toys, erectile health, and edging ? How sexual communication applies to topics like period sex and ?sexual icks? ? The connection between financial mindset, trauma, and relationships ? How the podcast community has grown and evolved over time ? The importance of sex-positive education in modern media Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this raw and informative pre-recorded episode of the Please Me! podcast, Eve explores the real, often unspoken risks that can arise in modern sexual experiences?and the tools and knowledge that help people stay informed, empowered, and safe while navigating pleasure. From casual dating culture to ethical non-monogamy (ENM), swinging, kink, and polyamorous relationships, Eve breaks down how sexual exposure risks vary across different relationship structures and why communication and preparation are essential in all of them. The episode emphasizes that pleasure and safety are not opposing forces, but complementary aspects of a healthy sexual life. A significant portion of the conversation focuses on modern sexual health prevention tools, including Doxy-PEP, PrEP and PEP protocols, HPV and herpes management strategies, at-home STI testing, and emergency contraception. Eve also clarifies common misconceptions around STIs such as herpes, HPV, and HIV, offering accessible, evidence-based education designed to reduce stigma and increase awareness. In addition to clinical guidance, the episode explores how BDSM and kink communities often lead the way in establishing strong norms around consent, negotiation, and boundary-setting. Drawing from experiences at events such as DomCon and KinkFest, Eve highlights how structured communication before sexual encounters can significantly reduce risk and improve relational clarity. The episode also touches on adjunct wellness tools sometimes used in sexual enhancement contexts, such as oxytocin-based products, and introduces the idea of building a ?sexual health bug-out bag??a proactive approach to preparation, safety, and self-advocacy in intimate situations. Overall, this episode serves as a grounded, sex-positive guide to navigating contemporary sexual landscapes with knowledge, confidence, and care. What You?ll Learn ? How modern dating and ENM impact STI exposure risk ? Differences between polyamory, swinging, kink, and ENM ? What Doxy-PEP, PrEP, and PEP are and how they work ? The role of at-home STI testing and emergency contraception ? Facts vs myths about herpes, HPV, and HIV ? Why communication is central to sexual safety in kink communities ? Lessons from BDSM events like DomCon and KinkFest on consent culture ? How to build a proactive sexual health toolkit (?bug-out bag?) ? The importance of boundary-setting and pre-negotiation in intimacy Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode, host Gary Scott sits down with Eve Hall?sexual health expert, pelvic physical therapist, and host of the Please Me! podcast?to explore her personal and professional journey through trauma, healing, and sexual empowerment. The conversation traces Eve?s transformation from surviving childhood sexual trauma to becoming a leading voice in sexual wellness and embodied liberation. With over two decades of experience as a physical therapist specializing in sexual health, Eve now supports individuals navigating concerns such as erectile dysfunction, decreased sensitivity, vaginal dryness, pelvic floor dysfunction, and intimacy challenges, alongside the emotional and psychological barriers that impact sexual expression. A central theme of the episode is the ?Orgasm Revolution,? a global movement Eve leads that focuses on closing the orgasm gap, dismantling shame, and reframing pleasure as a fundamental aspect of health and human experience. The discussion highlights how systemic shame, lack of education, and communication barriers continue to shape sexual dissatisfaction across genders. Eve also shares how her own healing journey has informed her work, emphasizing the role of communication, curiosity, and embodied awareness in rebuilding trust in the body. She reflects on how kink, education, and open dialogue can serve as pathways toward deeper intimacy, self-understanding, and relational healing. This episode offers an honest and compassionate look at sexual wellness as both a personal and collective journey, inviting listeners to reconsider pleasure not as a luxury, but as a human right. What You?ll Learn ? Eve?s journey from trauma to sexual liberation and advocacy ? What the orgasm gap is and how it can be addressed ? How shame impacts sexual health and intimacy ? The role of communication and curiosity in healing relationships ? Common pelvic and sexual health concerns and their emotional roots ? How kink and education can support self-discovery and empowerment ? What the Orgasm Revolution represents and its goals ? How to reclaim pleasure as an essential part of wellbeing Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Eve explores the foundations of BDSM with Ben, a kink educator and experienced representative of The Kink Shop, drawing on years of hands-on work at nationwide kink events. Together, they offer an accessible, practical, and sex-positive introduction to the world of bondage, impact play, sensation play, electroplay, and wax play. The conversation begins with a grounding overview of BDSM as both a psychological and embodied practice, emphasizing the importance of negotiation, communication, and informed consent as the foundation of all power exchange dynamics. Ben breaks down how BDSM is not only about physical sensation, but also about trust, emotional attunement, and clearly defined boundaries between partners. A major focus of the episode is impact play, including the differences between ?thud? and ?sting? sensations, and how various materials and toy designs?such as suede, bison, moose, and mule deer leather?affect intensity and sensation. Ben also highlights beginner-friendly tools like bunny floggers and finger-loop floggers, explaining how ergonomic design can reduce strain and improve control for practitioners. The episode also explores sensation play tools such as scratch mitts, leather gloves, and textured implements, along with vegan-friendly alternatives for those seeking non-leather options. Electroplay is introduced through the use of violet wands, with a detailed explanation of how they work, the range of sensations they produce, and essential safety considerations when combining them with other forms of play. Wax play is covered from a safety-first perspective, including the importance of using body-safe candles, managing heat distance, and layering techniques to control intensity and ensure comfort. Eve and Ben also emphasize hygiene practices, proper cleaning of toys, and safe storage methods?especially for shared or frequently used equipment. Throughout the episode, the discussion reinforces that BDSM is not defined by intensity, but by intention, communication, and care. Whether someone is new to kink or looking to expand their practice, this episode provides a grounded, educational foundation for exploring sensation and power exchange safely and confidently. What You?ll Learn ? What BDSM stands for and its psychological foundations ? Why negotiation, consent, and communication are essential in kink ? The difference between thud and sting in impact play ? How leather type and toy design affect sensation ? Beginner-friendly tools for impact and sensation play ? How electroplay (violet wand) works and safety basics ? Safe practices for wax play and temperature control ? The importance of hygiene and toy maintenance in kink scenes ? How sensation play can be tailored to different experience levels ? How intention shapes safe and pleasurable BDSM experiences Connect With the Guest Ben Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special repurposed episode, Eve shares her guest appearance on the Ask a Sex Therapist Podcast, hosted by Heather Shannon. In this cross-conversation, they explore core themes in sexual wellness, including sexual confidence, embodied awareness, pelvic health, and practical approaches to closing the orgasm gap. A central focus of the episode is ?Big Clit Energy?,? a concept Eve uses to describe embodied sexual confidence, self-awareness, and unapologetic ownership of pleasure. Through this lens, the conversation highlights how sexual empowerment is deeply connected to communication, consent, and a willingness to explore desire without shame. Eve also shares parts of her personal healing journey following sexual trauma, offering insight into how recovery can involve rebuilding trust in the body, redefining safety, and gradually reconnecting with pleasure. The discussion emphasizes that healing is not linear, but supported through awareness, compassion, and informed exploration. Together, Eve and Heather discuss how the orgasm gap persists and what practical steps can help bridge it?particularly through communication, extended foreplay, and a more holistic understanding of arousal, especially for women. They also normalize curiosity around fantasies and kink, offering grounded, accessible ways for individuals and couples to explore desire safely and consensually. This episode blends education, lived experience, and practical tools, making it a supportive guide for anyone seeking to strengthen intimacy, deepen self-understanding, and cultivate a healthier, more empowered relationship with their sexuality. What You?ll Learn ? How to embody Big Clit Energy? and sexual confidence ? Practical ways to help close the orgasm gap ? Why foreplay is essential for arousal and pleasure ? Safe, shame-free approaches to exploring fantasies and kink ? How communication strengthens intimacy and consent ? The impact of shame and conditioning on sexual expression ? Tools for reconnecting with the body after trauma ? How embodied awareness supports sexual healing and confidence Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Please Me! Podcast, Eve explores how couples can deepen intimacy, strengthen communication, and enhance sexual wellness through intentional relationship rituals and thoughtfully curated intimacy tools. This conversation blends practical sex education with emotional development strategies, highlighting how both relational habits and physical environments influence desire, arousal, and long-term connection. A central focus of the episode is the Four Intimacies Framework?verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy?which offers a holistic approach to understanding how relationships thrive. Eve breaks down how each dimension contributes to relationship stability, emotional safety, and sexual satisfaction, and why neglecting any one area can create disconnection over time. The episode also examines how daily rituals?such as intentional check-ins, shared presence, and small acts of care?can significantly strengthen relational bonds. Alongside emotional practices, Eve discusses the role of physical environment and bedroom aesthetics in shaping desire, comfort, and erotic energy, emphasizing that intimacy is influenced not only by communication but also by sensory experience. Practical elements of sexual wellness are also addressed, including the benefits of high-quality silicone lubricants for enhancing comfort, reducing friction, and supporting more pleasurable and confident sexual experiences. Eve frames these tools as part of a broader, sex-positive approach to embodied intimacy. Additional concepts include the ?Love Tank? model for understanding emotional availability, as well as compassionate communication strategies for navigating relational challenges and ?icks? without shame or disconnection. The episode ultimately provides a grounded, accessible roadmap for couples and individuals seeking to build more connected, sustainable, and fulfilling intimate relationships. What You?ll Learn ? The Four Intimacies Framework: verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual ? How daily rituals strengthen connection and relationship security ? Why bedroom environment and aesthetics influence desire and arousal ? The benefits of silicone lubricants for comfort and pleasure ? How the ?Love Tank? model explains emotional availability ? Communication tools for navigating relationship discomforts with compassion ? How emotional safety impacts long-term intimacy and sexual satisfaction ? Ways to build more intentional, sex-positive relationship habits Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this layered, vulnerable, and intellectually rich episode of the Kink Series, Eve sits down with Mistress Audry Lu Black?a professional dominatrix, lifestyle FemDomme, educator, and respected kink community leader?to explore the deeper psychological, ritualistic, and emotional architecture of BDSM. Moving beyond surface-level kink concepts, the conversation examines how power exchange, bondage, humiliation, ritual, and structured dominance can serve not only erotic expression but also nervous system regulation, identity exploration, and emotional release. What begins with rope quickly expands into a nuanced discussion of devotion, surrender, fear release, and the intentional leadership required within Dominant/submissive dynamics. A central theme of the episode is the idea that kink can function as both art and psychology. Mistress Audry explains how carefully structured scenes can create safety through containment, offering relief for individuals who experience anxiety, neurodivergence, or chronic overthinking. The conversation highlights how restriction and removal of choice?when consensual and negotiated?can paradoxically create grounding, clarity, and emotional ease. The episode also explores the Femme Domme philosophy, emphasizing dominance as an embodied, intentional practice rooted in awareness, emotional intelligence, and responsibility. Rather than performance, dominance is framed as energetic leadership that creates space for surrender and transformation. Other key topics include the distinction between lifestyle and professional domination, the role of ritual in establishing trust and structure, and the psychological nuances of humiliation, worship, and submission. The conversation emphasizes that meaning is always co-created and negotiated, and that intensity in kink is only safe when grounded in communication, consent, and care. A detailed pre-scene negotiation role-play is included, offering listeners a real-world example of how ethical BDSM dynamics are structured before any physical or psychological play begins. This episode presents kink as a multidimensional practice?one that intersects with psychology, embodiment, ritual, and relational trust?while reinforcing the importance of consent, emotional responsibility, and informed exploration. What You?ll Learn ? How bondage and restraint can regulate the nervous system ? Why structured dominance can reduce anxiety and overthinking ? The psychological role of worship, devotion, and surrender in kink ? How humiliation can be consensual, therapeutic, or erotic depending on context ? Differences between lifestyle and professional domination ? The importance of negotiation, consent, and scene structure ? How ritual enhances trust, safety, and emotional depth in BDSM ? The Dominant?s emotional and psychological responsibilities ? How kink can support embodiment and presence ? Real examples of pre-scene negotiation in ethical BDSM practice Connect With the Guest Mistress Audry Lu Black Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Please Me! Podcast, Dr. Eve continues her Kink Education Series, inspired by DomCon New Orleans, offering a deeper, trauma-informed exploration of BDSM, embodiment, and culturally grounded pleasure practices. This installment expands beyond technique into the historical, neurological, and somatic dimensions of kink. A central focus of the episode is the often-overlooked BIPOC history of kink and altered-state practices. Eve highlights African and Indigenous influences, including references to Yoruba traditions and the deity Oshun, to contextualize trance, ritual, and embodied pleasure as practices with deep cultural lineage that predate modern BDSM frameworks. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging these roots while engaging in contemporary kink spaces. The episode also breaks down the neurochemistry of BDSM, exploring how subspace and domspace are shaped by a ?chemical cocktail? of dopamine, endorphins, cortisol, and adrenaline. Eve explains how these altered states mirror experiences found in meditation, hypnosis, and somatic therapy, and why structured aftercare is essential to prevent emotional and physiological crashes such as sub-drop and dom-drop. Another key theme is neurodiverse pleasure, with insight into how autistic and ADHD individuals may experience kink through sensory regulation, structure, predictability, and heightened body awareness. Eve discusses how kink can become a framework for identity exploration and nervous system regulation when practiced with consent and intention. The episode also introduces various forms of consensual role exploration, including pet play (puppy, kitten, pony, cow dynamics), as well as sensory-based practices like foot play, anal play, and the use of masks and hoods as tools for identity, embodiment, and psychological transformation. These are framed through a lens of safety, hygiene, communication, and informed consent. Throughout the episode, Eve reinforces a trauma-informed, sex-positive approach to kink, including clear guidance on negotiation, boundary-setting, and aftercare. Clinical concepts such as medical play are also introduced in a non-sexual, educational context to highlight the spectrum of therapeutic role-play possibilities. This episode serves as both an educational guide and a cultural reflection on kink, offering listeners practical tools, historical context, and embodied practices for exploring pleasure safely and consciously. What You?ll Learn ? The BIPOC historical roots of kink and ritualized altered states ? The cultural significance of Yoruba traditions and Oshun in embodiment practices ? How subspace and domspace affect the nervous system and brain chemistry ? Why aftercare is essential to prevent sub-drop and dom-drop ? The connection between BDSM, meditation, and somatic therapy ? How neurodivergence influences kink preferences and sensory experience ? The basics of pet play and sensory identity exploration ? Safe practices for masks, gear, and role-based dynamics ? Trauma-informed approaches to kink negotiation and consent ? The role of medical play and structured role-play in therapeutic exploration Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this intimate and creatively rich episode of the Please Me! Podcast, Eve sits down with dark romance author Bria Rose, known for her seductive, emotionally layered, and morally complex fairy-tale retellings. Together, they explore how themes of trauma, healing, sexuality, empowerment, and feminine archetypes shape Bria?s storytelling and the immersive worlds she creates. Bria shares the inspiration behind Her Dark Promise, her twisted retelling of Beauty and the Beast, and offers exclusive insight into upcoming projects, including a dark Pinocchio retelling and a new morally gray romance currently in development. She also reflects on her Disney-influenced upbringing and how innocence and darkness coexist within adult fantasy, shaping the tone and emotional depth of her work. The conversation dives into why readers are drawn to morally gray characters and emotionally intense narratives, and how dark romance can serve as a space for exploring shadow, desire, power, and transformation in safe, imaginative ways. A standout moment in the episode is a raw, vulnerable role-play segment that explores boundaries, communication, desire, self-worth, erotic identity, and feminine reclamation. Through this, Eve and Bria highlight how storytelling can become a tool for emotional processing, empowerment, and embodied expression. This episode is a must-listen for fans of dark romance, romantasy, erotic storytelling, and trauma-informed narrative work, offering both creative insight and emotional depth. What You?ll Learn ? How trauma and healing influence dark romance storytelling ? Why morally gray characters resonate with readers ? The inspiration behind Her Dark Promise and upcoming retellings ? How innocence and darkness coexist in adult fairy-tale narratives ? The role of fantasy in exploring desire and emotional complexity ? How storytelling can support empowerment and identity exploration ? Why readers are drawn to emotionally intense romantic dynamics ? How communication and boundaries appear even in fantasy narratives ? The connection between erotic identity and creative expression Connect With the Guest Bria Rose Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful and education-focused episode, Eve sits down with Maeve McBride?a BDSM educator, intuitive top, sexological herbalist, and Executive Director of KinkFest?to explore the foundations of Intuitive Topping, consent-based power exchange, and embodied awareness within kink dynamics. Drawing from teachings shared at DomCon and Maeve?s signature ?Intuitive Topping? framework, this conversation breaks down what it really means to engage in BDSM with presence, communication, and responsibility. Rather than relying on assumptions or scripted dynamics, Maeve emphasizes intuitive topping as a skill built through observation, feedback, and real-time attunement. Together, Eve and Maeve explore how different roles?Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers?function within negotiated scenes, and how clarity, consent, and aftercare form the foundation of safe and meaningful kink experiences. The episode also highlights how kink is not always sexual, but can instead serve as a space for emotional release, embodiment, exploration, and connection. A key focus of the conversation is how intuitive topping is not ?psychic ability,? but a refined practice of reading subtle cues such as breath patterns, movement shifts, vocal responses, and body language. Maeve also discusses how neurodivergence can influence sensation, communication styles, and the way individuals express pleasure or discomfort. The episode includes a real-time negotiation demonstration between Eve and Maeve, offering listeners a grounded example of how consent conversations, boundaries, and scene structure are established in practice. This episode provides a compassionate and practical entry point into BDSM education?centering safety, awareness, and connection as the core of all kink experiences. What You?ll Learn ? The differences between Dom, Sub, Top, Bottom, Switch, and Vers roles ? How power exchange is built through negotiation and consent ? What intuitive topping is?and how it develops through observation ? How to read body language, breath, and vocal cues in real time ? Why kink is not always sexual and can be deeply therapeutic ? How neurodivergence affects sensation and communication in scenes ? The importance of safewords, boundaries, and structured negotiation ? Why aftercare is essential for emotional and physical integration ? How real-life kink negotiations are structured and practiced Connect With the Guest Maeve McBride Executive Director of KinkFest Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, host Eve Hall sits down once again with Shawn Shutt and Amanda Courier of the Touchy Subjects Podcast for a critical conversation on human trafficking awareness and prevention. Together, they unpack the realities of sex trafficking and labor trafficking while challenging common myths that often obscure how trafficking actually operates. The discussion highlights how trafficking is frequently rooted in manipulation, coercion, and exploitation within everyday systems, rather than the narrow and often misunderstood portrayals seen in media. Shawn and Amanda explain how predators increasingly use online platforms and grooming tactics to target vulnerable individuals, particularly youth. They also shed light on populations at higher risk, including runaway and homeless youth, LGBTQ+ individuals, foster care youth, and other marginalized communities. Throughout the conversation, the focus remains on education, awareness, and early intervention as key tools for prevention. Listeners are guided through practical strategies for parents, caregivers, and educators?such as setting healthy digital boundaries, recognizing warning signs, and having age-appropriate conversations about consent, bodily autonomy, and personal safety. The episode also emphasizes the importance of community involvement in supporting survivors and disrupting systems that enable trafficking. What You?ll Learn ? The difference between sex trafficking and labor trafficking ? Common myths and misconceptions about human trafficking ? How online grooming and exploitation typically occur ? Why certain populations are at higher risk ? Practical digital safety strategies for families and youth ? How early education supports long-term resilience and self-advocacy ? The role of communities in prevention and survivor support ? How men and allies can contribute to advocacy and cultural change Connect With the Guests Shawn Shutt Amanda Courier of the Touchy Subjects Podcast Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special guest appearance on the Liquor Talk Podcast, Eve joins host Vic for an uncensored and thought-provoking conversation about sexual wellness in 2025, modern relationship dynamics, and what it really means to reclaim pleasure on your own terms. Together, they explore how shifting cultural norms are reshaping intimacy, communication, and expectations in dating and long-term relationships. The conversation blends sexual health education, relationship psychology, and pleasure-focused empowerment?offering a grounded, real-world perspective on how people can build healthier, more fulfilling connections. Eve shares insights from her work in sexual wellness and pelvic health, helping break down the barriers of shame and misinformation that often surround sex education. The discussion also highlights how self-awareness, communication, and emotional safety play a critical role in creating satisfying sexual experiences for all genders. This episode is both educational and conversational, offering listeners practical tools and mindset shifts to deepen intimacy, improve communication, and approach sexuality with confidence and curiosity. What You?ll Learn ? Why sexual wellness conversations are evolving in 2025 ? How relationship dynamics are shaped by communication and emotional safety ? The connection between sexual psychology and physical intimacy ? How to reclaim pleasure without shame or cultural pressure ? Why open dialogue is key to better sex and stronger relationships ? How education and awareness improve intimacy and confidence ? Practical mindset shifts for healthier, more connected relationships Connect With the Show Liquor Talk Podcast featuring Eve as guest host Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode of Please Me Podcast, licensed physical therapist and sexual wellness expert Eve Hall shares one of her most popular live webinars, now available for listeners everywhere. This episode takes a science-based, holistic look at sexual health?bridging physiology, mindset, and lifestyle to help listeners better understand how to improve pleasure, performance, and confidence at any age. Eve explores how factors such as nutrition, hormones, circulation, stress, and arousal all work together to influence libido, sexual function, and overall intimacy. She breaks down how improving blood flow, supporting nervous system regulation, and cultivating a positive mindset can naturally enhance both male and female sexual experiences. The episode also highlights cutting-edge, evidence-informed approaches to sexual wellness, including acoustic wave therapy (shockwave therapy) and emerging regenerative treatments such as stem cell-based therapies. Eve explains how these modalities may support tissue repair, improve vascular health, and enhance sensitivity, lubrication, and erectile function. Alongside clinical insights, the webinar emphasizes practical, everyday strategies for improving sexual wellbeing?helping listeners reconnect with their bodies, deepen intimacy with partners, and build long-term sexual vitality. This episode is designed for anyone looking to better understand their sexual health, optimize performance naturally, and reclaim confidence and pleasure from the inside out. What You?ll Learn ? How nutrition, hormones, and blood flow impact sexual performance ? The connection between mindset, arousal, and intimacy ? Natural ways to boost libido and sexual confidence ? How to improve erections, lubrication, and sensitivity at any age ? An overview of acoustic wave therapy (shockwave therapy) for sexual health ? Emerging insights on stem cell and regenerative approaches ? How lifestyle factors influence long-term sexual vitality ? Practical tools to support pleasure and body awareness Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful and eye-opening conversation from Neff Inspiration, Eve Hall?Licensed Physical Therapist, Certified Health Coach, and host of the Please Me! podcast?dives deep into the orgasm gap, female pleasure, and the growing movement toward reclaiming women?s sexual confidence. Eve explores how the orgasm gap reflects broader issues in sexual communication, education, and societal conditioning, and why addressing it is essential for building healthier, more fulfilling intimate relationships. She introduces the concept of ?Big Clit Energy?? as a framework for sexual confidence, body awareness, and unapologetic self-ownership that extends beyond the bedroom into everyday life. Throughout the discussion, Eve emphasizes that sexual empowerment is not just about performance, but about understanding your body, communicating your needs, and removing shame from conversations about pleasure. She shares practical, science-informed strategies for enhancing sexual wellbeing, improving intimacy, and fostering deeper connection with partners. The episode also highlights the importance of open dialogue about sex and pleasure as a tool for empowerment, education, and personal transformation. Eve invites listeners to reconnect with their bodies, embrace curiosity, and step into a more confident, pleasure-positive identity. This conversation serves as both an educational foundation and a call to action for anyone ready to challenge outdated narratives around female sexuality and embrace a more empowered relationship with their body. What You?ll Learn ? What the orgasm gap is and why it still exists ? How ?Big Clit Energy?? represents sexual confidence and self-ownership ? Practical, science-backed ways to improve sexual wellness and intimacy ? Why communication about sex is key to empowerment and satisfaction ? How to release shame and reconnect with your body and pleasure ? The role of sexual education in closing the orgasm gap ? How confidence and body awareness influence overall wellbeing ? Why pleasure-positive conversations matter in modern relationships Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Dr. Jen Kennedy, leading sexologist, couples therapist, and founder of pleasureproject.com, for an honest and grounded conversation about sexual dissatisfaction, low libido, and intimacy challenges in long-term relationships. Together, they unpack the reality that ?low libido? is often not a fixed condition, but a reflection of emotional disconnection, stress, anxiety, and unmet relational needs. Dr. Kennedy explains how desire is deeply responsive to psychological safety, communication, and self-care, and why rebuilding intimacy often starts outside the bedroom. The conversation explores how couples can navigate mismatched desire with empathy and curiosity rather than shame or pressure. Eve and Dr. Kennedy also highlight the importance of vulnerability, consent, and emotional attunement in reigniting passion and sustaining long-term erotic connection. Dr. Kennedy also introduces insights from her signature program, Pleasure Circle, which helps individuals and couples rebuild sexual confidence and connection through guided practice and communication tools. The episode includes a realistic role-play demonstration showing how to initiate conversations about sex, navigate discomfort, and co-create mutually satisfying intimacy without defensiveness or blame. This episode is a practical and compassionate guide for anyone navigating desire discrepancies, relationship stress, or seeking a deeper understanding of sexual wellbeing in long-term partnerships. What You?ll Learn ? Why low libido is often linked to stress, anxiety, and emotional disconnection ? How emotional safety and communication influence sexual desire ? Ways couples can navigate mismatched libido with empathy and curiosity ? The importance of vulnerability in rebuilding sexual connection ? How self-care and mental wellbeing impact arousal and intimacy ? Practical tools for talking about sex without shame or defensiveness ? How to handle timing differences and desire discrepancies in relationships ? Insights from Dr. Kennedy?s Pleasure Circle program ? Real-life role-play on initiating conversations about sex and intimacy Connect With the Guest Dr. Jen Kennedy Founder of pleasureproject.com Creator of Pleasure Circle Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes Robert Johnson and Anna Osmon from Shameless Care for a forward-looking conversation on the future of sexual health, intimacy, and STI prevention. Together, they explore how modern medicine and virtual care are reshaping the way people approach pleasure, connection, and sexual confidence. The discussion highlights the importance of comprehensive STI testing?including often-overlooked oral and anal swabs?and how Shameless Care connects patients with sex-positive, board-certified doctors for discreet at-home testing and online prescriptions. Robert and Anna also break down how emerging tools like DoxyPEP are being used to reduce bacterial STIs such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis, and why prevention strategies are evolving alongside modern dating and non-monogamous relationship dynamics. The conversation further expands into the role of sexual wellness medications and tools?including sildenafil, tadalafil, oxytocin nasal spray, and topical arousal creams?and how they can support blood flow, desire, and intimacy across different bodies and needs. The episode closes with a grounded, real-life role-play demonstrating how to confidently communicate about STI testing, consent, and boundaries with new partners?offering listeners practical language for safer, more empowered sexual experiences. What You?ll Learn ? Why comprehensive STI testing (including oral and anal swabs) matters ? How at-home STI testing and telehealth improve access and privacy ? What DoxyPEP is and how it reduces risk of bacterial STIs ? How modern dating is changing sexual health conversations ? The role of medications like sildenafil, tadalafil, and oxytocin nasal spray ? How topical arousal creams can support intimacy and desire ? Why open communication about testing and consent is essential ? How to confidently talk to new partners about sexual health and boundaries Connect With the Guests Robert Johnson Anna Osmon with Shameless Care Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this informative episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back Robert Johnson and Anna Osmon from Shameless Care for a candid conversation about modern sexual health, STI prevention, and the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare. Together, they break down the evolving landscape of STI prevention and testing, highlighting the limitations of standard panels and the importance of more comprehensive approaches that include oral and anal screening. Robert and Anna also discuss emerging prevention tools like Doxy PEP and how it is changing the way people approach STI risk reduction. The conversation further explores the role of HPV vaccination for adults, including access considerations and insurance coverage, and emphasizes the importance of proactive sexual health care for people in all relationship structures?including non-monogamous and LGBTQ+ communities. Beyond the medical insights, the episode addresses the stigma that often surrounds STI testing and sexual health discussions, and encourages listeners to advocate for themselves within healthcare systems. Robert and Anna also share how Shameless Care is helping bridge gaps in access through at-home testing kits and telehealth services, making sexual health care more accessible and judgment-free. This episode is a practical, stigma-free guide to understanding sexual health in the modern world and taking control of your wellbeing with confidence. What You?ll Learn ? How Doxy PEP helps reduce risk of gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis ? Why comprehensive STI testing (including oral and anal swabs) matters ? The importance and accessibility of HPV vaccines for adults ? How sexual health needs differ in LGBTQ+ and non-monogamous communities ? How at-home STI testing and telehealth services work ? Ways to overcome stigma and advocate for your sexual health ? Why proactive testing is essential in modern relationships Connect With the Guests Shameless Care Robert Johnson & Anna Osmon Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this candid and educational live webinar, host Eve Hall takes a deep dive into male sexual health, offering straightforward, evidence-based guidance on erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation, and natural enhancement strategies that support long-term sexual wellbeing. Drawing on clinical insight and audience Q&A, Eve breaks down the physical, emotional, and lifestyle factors that influence sexual performance and confidence. The session emphasizes a holistic approach to male sexual health?one that prioritizes blood flow, nervous system regulation, and overall body awareness rather than quick fixes. Eve explores a range of tools and treatments, including acoustic wave therapy, dry needling, penis pumps, and extenders, while also explaining how to use them safely and effectively. She also highlights emerging technology like wearable devices that track erection quality and support cardiovascular health insights. Beyond devices and treatments, the webinar focuses on foundational habits that improve sexual function naturally?such as pelvic floor training, hydration, nutrition, mindful masturbation, and edging practices. The conversation also reinforces the importance of confidence, self-connection, and reducing shame around male sexual health. This episode is a practical, no-nonsense guide for men who want to understand their bodies better, improve performance, and build sustainable sexual wellness from the inside out. What You?ll Learn ? The root causes of erectile dysfunction and how to prevent it ? Evidence-based treatments like acoustic wave therapy and dry needling ? Safe use of penis pumps, including sizing and injury prevention ? How penile extenders work and realistic expectations for results ? How wearable tech like FirmTech tracks erection health and cardiovascular risk ? Why masturbation, edging, and mindful touch improve sexual function ? The role of nutrition, hydration, and the ?watermelon challenge? in blood flow ? How pelvic floor health improves erections and ejaculation control ? What actually works (and what doesn?t) in sexual enhancement tools ? How confidence and self-awareness impact performance and pleasure Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering episode of Please Me Podcast, host Eve welcomes Karen Bigman, certified sex educator and sex and dating coach, for a bold and refreshing conversation about sexuality, intimacy, and self-love after 50. Together, they break open the often-silenced realities of midlife sexuality, exploring how desire, confidence, and connection can evolve?not disappear?with age. Karen shares insight into how hormonal shifts, life transitions, and changing relationship dynamics can all impact libido, and why midlife can actually be a powerful time for sexual rediscovery. The conversation also dives into practical, real-world topics like dating after divorce, navigating new relationships with clear consent and communication, and the importance of STI testing when re-entering the dating world. Karen also highlights the role of sex toys, vibrators, and solo exploration in building confidence, pleasure, and body awareness. From online dating etiquette and sexting boundaries to spotting red flags and rebuilding self-esteem, this episode offers grounded, shame-free guidance for women stepping into a new chapter of intimacy. Above all, it?s a celebration of body positivity, curiosity, and sexual empowerment at every stage of life. What You?ll Learn ? How sexuality and desire can evolve and thrive after 50 ? The impact of hormones and aging on libido and sexual health ? How to navigate dating and intimacy after divorce ? The importance of consent, communication, and STI testing in new relationships ? How sex toys and vibrators support exploration and pleasure ? Online dating tips, sexting etiquette, and recognizing red flags ? Ways to build body confidence and sexual self-esteem in midlife ? How self-love and curiosity support a fulfilling sex life at any age Connect With the Guest Karen Bigman Host of Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50 Founder of Hotter Wilder Wiser adult sex-ed masterclass Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with urologist Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer for a candid and educational conversation on sexual wellness, hormones, and the often misunderstood realities of genital and pelvic health. Together, they unpack common concerns like low libido, vaginal dryness, erectile dysfunction, recurrent UTIs, and bacterial vaginosis (BV), offering clear, science-based explanations and practical treatment options. Dr. Zwonitzer highlights how hormonal changes?especially during perimenopause and menopause?can affect mood, energy, joint health, desire, and sexual function. The conversation explores evidence-based solutions including topical vaginal estrogen, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), acoustic wave therapy, and the role of masturbation and orgasm in maintaining healthy sexual function for all genders. They also address men?s health topics such as prostate wellness, ejaculation frequency, and its relationship to long-term health outcomes. Beyond hormones and treatment, the episode also provides honest guidance on sexual practices like anal sex, emphasizing communication, preparation, and comfort. Throughout the discussion, Eve and Dr. Zwonitzer normalize conversations around sex, remove stigma, and encourage listeners to advocate for their own sexual health needs. This episode is a straightforward, empowering guide to understanding your body, improving sexual wellbeing, and making informed choices about your health. What You?ll Learn ? The orgasm gap and what orgasm equality really means ? Why topical vaginal estrogen helps with dryness, UTIs, and incontinence ? How hormone replacement therapy (HRT) supports perimenopause and menopause symptoms ? The link between hormones, mood changes, joint pain, and libido ? How masturbation and orgasm support sexual health and function ? Prostate health, ejaculation frequency, and long-term wellness in men ? How acoustic wave therapy improves blood flow and erectile function ? Safe and comfortable approaches to anal sex, including communication and preparation ? Causes and treatments of BV, including overlooked triggers and options like boric acid ? How to talk openly with partners and healthcare providers about sexual concerns Connect With the Guest Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer Host, Between the Sheets Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful, stigma-breaking episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer, board-certified urologist and host of Between the Sheets, for an evidence-based conversation on sexual health, hormones, and pleasure. Together, they break down the gaps in modern sexual health education and explore what it really means to advocate for your wellbeing in a system that often overlooks sexual function. Dr. Zwonitzer shares expert insight into how hormones influence libido, mood, energy, and overall vitality, and why these conversations are essential for both men and women. The discussion also dives into the realities of STI testing?what standard panels often miss, which tests people should actually be requesting, and how stigma continues to impact sexual health outcomes. From HPV and herpes education to testosterone imbalance, vaginal and penile atrophy, and pelvic floor dysfunction, this episode offers clear, science-backed information designed to empower listeners. Dr. Zwonitzer also explains how pelvic floor therapy can transform intimacy and function, and highlights practical tools and treatments that support long-term sexual wellness. Throughout the episode, Eve and Dr. Zwonitzer emphasize the importance of open communication, self-advocacy, and removing shame from conversations around sex and health. This episode is a comprehensive guide to understanding your body, improving your sexual wellbeing, and confidently navigating conversations with healthcare providers. What You?ll Learn ? Why sexual health education needs to evolve for all genders ? The truth about common STIs and the stigma surrounding them ? What standard STI panels often miss?and what to ask for instead ? Who should get the HPV vaccine and why it matters ? How to advocate for your sexual health in medical settings ? Symptoms, diagnosis, and treatment of low testosterone ? How hormones impact libido, mood, and energy ? Causes and treatments for vaginal and penile atrophy ? What pelvic floor dysfunction is and how pelvic PT helps ? Practical tools for improving sexual wellness and function ? How to normalize conversations around sex, pleasure, and health Connect With the Guest Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer Host, Between the Sheets Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes back relationship and attachment expert Bev Mitelman for Part 2 of their insightful conversation on attachment, intimacy, and connection. Together, they explore how attachment styles influence sexuality, emotional intimacy, and the ways we relate to our partners both inside and outside the bedroom. Bev shares how attachment patterns can shape communication, vulnerability, desire, conflict, and emotional safety within relationships. The conversation highlights the unique challenges and strengths associated with different attachment styles, helping listeners better understand their own relationship dynamics and the patterns that may be impacting their connections. Bev also offers practical guidance for creating healthier communication, building trust, and fostering deeper emotional and sexual intimacy. Whether you identify as anxiously attached, avoidant, secure, or somewhere in between, this episode provides valuable tools to help you strengthen your relationships and create more meaningful connections. What You?ll Learn ? How attachment styles influence sexuality and desire ? The connection between attachment and emotional intimacy ? Common relationship patterns associated with different attachment styles ? How attachment impacts communication and conflict resolution ? Ways to create greater emotional safety with a partner ? Strategies for building trust and deeper connection ? How self-awareness can improve both emotional and sexual relationships ? Steps toward developing more secure attachment patterns Connect With the Guest Bev Mitelman Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve welcomes Bev Mitelman, an expert in attachment theory, for an insightful conversation about how our earliest relationships shape the way we connect, communicate, and experience intimacy throughout our lives. Together, they break down the foundations of attachment theory and explore the four primary attachment styles: secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant. Bev explains how these patterns develop in childhood, how they influence romantic relationships, sexuality, friendships, and even workplace dynamics, and why attachment styles are not fixed for life. The conversation also dives into emotional regulation, communication challenges, and the ways attachment patterns can affect trust, vulnerability, and connection. Bev shares practical insights for recognizing your own attachment style, fostering healthier relationships, and breaking generational cycles to create more secure attachments for future generations. Whether you're navigating dating, partnership, parenting, or personal growth, this episode offers valuable tools for understanding yourself and building stronger, more fulfilling connections. What You?ll Learn ? The fundamentals of attachment theory and why it matters ? The four main attachment styles and how they develop ? How attachment patterns influence relationships, intimacy, and sexuality ? The impact of attachment on emotional regulation and communication ? Why attachment styles can change over time ? How childhood experiences shape adult relationship behaviors ? Ways to foster more secure attachment in yourself and your relationships ? Strategies for breaking generational trauma and supporting secure attachment in children Connect With the Guest Bev Mitelman Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices