This week, we continue with our chat with my pastor, Rick Witmer (or ?Wit?), as he lays out a biblical case for reformed theology. 

We also get into some real-world examples that answer the question, ?If God is truly sovereign, then why choose to take action at all??

Come unpack the ?mystery box? of God?s sovereign will in conjunction with man?s responsibility to make choices in today?s thought-provoking episode!

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Bible References:

Psalm 100:5

Psalm 18:30

Matthew 5:48

1 Corinthians 1:25

Job

Romans 9

John 16:33

Romans 12:15

2 Corinthians 1:4

John 3:16

2 Peter 3:9

2 Timothy 3:16

Matthew 5:43-45

Acts 11:1-3

Ephesians 2:14

Matthew 7:21-23

Revelation 7:9

2 Peter 3:9

1 Peter 2:9

John 8:43-37

Deuteronomy 7 

Daniel 2:21

Proverbs 21:1

Mark 12:30-31

Romans 13:1-5

Psalm 2:12

Genesis 1-2

Proverbs 24:11

John 14:15

Luke 6:45

2 Peter 1:3

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If you?ve ever heard of the doctrine of election or the five points of Calvinism, you may feel like you have more questions than answers about what those and many other tenets of Reformed theology mean. 

Since it?s Reformation Month?when Martin Luther nailed his 95 Theses to the door of a Catholic church?I thought it would be the perfect time to chat all things Reformed with my pastor, Rick Witmer, whom I call ?Wit.?

In this episode, he?s giving us background and answering some of your most pressing questions that you always submit on WWKW anytime I talk about attending a reformed church. 

I am so grateful for Wit?s wisdom, clear articulation, knowledge of church history, biblical prowess, and kindness. 

I know, no matter what your theological background, you?ll enjoy the conversational way he breaks down the essential beliefs of the Reformed movement with clarity and compassion. 

Stay tuned for Part 2 next week!

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Bible References:

2 Timothy 3:16-17

Isaiah 64:6

Matthew 19:16-22

Ephesians 2:1

Ephesians 1:3

John 6:44

John 3:3

Revelation 7:9

1 Thessalonians 5:23-24

Joshua 23:14-15

Matthew 11:28

Romans 3:23

Ephesians 1:11

Acts 4:27

John 19:18

Romans 11:34-36

Romans 11:36

Exodus 7:13-8:19

Exodus 9:12

Deuteronomy 6:6-8

Romans 9:15-16

Matthew 4:7

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It?s easy to see someone doing well in an area (or multiple areas) and assume they?re killing it in every other arena as well. 

The truth is, while we strive for the balance of doing all things excellently to the glory of God, we often found our capacities particularly limited during certain seasons and generally limited all the time (bc no one is good at everything). 

Whether we are unusually busy (where I find myself right now), postpartum, solo-parenting, or something else altogether, we find ourselves needing to focus on the main things while being forced to let other areas go for a time.

When we are careful to prioritize the needful things and prepare our hearts with reasonable expectations, we can still thrive through seasons of limited capacity while recognizing everyone will find themselves in a similar boat at some point?and the Lord can still use us all!

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Bible References:

Psalm 118:24

Romans 3:23 

Romans 10:9

Romans 2:8-9

Romans 6:1

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On this episode, we?re trying something a little different by doing a podcast version of the Q&A I do every week on my social media. 

I tackle serious questions (like how to turn a bad day around when you?ve lost your cool) as well as lighthearted ones (could either of our sets of twins fools us by switching places??).

I?d love to hear your thoughts and whether you?d like to see this as a regular installment of the podcast.

Enjoy!

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Philippians 1:21

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September 24th is a momentous calendar date in our home as four of our share a birthday on it. 

Yep! Both our sets of twins are born on the same day, eight years apart. 

Of course, something that could only be a ?God thing? is such a good reminder His ways are higher than mine?from the way He orchestrated their birthdays to the fact that He gave me twins at all, even though I was convinced they sounded hard and no fun. 

Be encouraged, friends that God?s sovereignty is a very good thing, even when it manifests in unexpected ways.

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Bible References:

Isaiah 55:8-9

Philippians 4:6-7

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Episode 2

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In a world which trumpets the anti-biblical message of ?you do you? and walking in ?your truth,? it can be easy for Bible-believing Christians to swing to the opposite extreme of assuming anything we?re passionate about comes from love of self or can?t be trusted. 

But the Bible makes it very clear that God directs our paths and has very specific purposes for our lives. 

And when we walk in them confidently, we honor Him. 

Even so, it can be easy to question the path He has for us when we encounter naysayers and critics who are quick to point out our faults.

Does this mean we simply ignore them or capitulate to their demands? 

I believe the answer is more nuanced. In this episode, we talk about setting our faces like flint toward the will of our Father while being willing to adjust when someone has a legitimate concern.

It?s a balance and one we will only strike well by being rooted in God?s Word and listening to His Holy Spirit. 

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Bible References:

Romans 5:5

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Jeremiah 17:9

Deuteronomy 31:6

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Ever wondered how you?ll make it through your day of work or homeschooling after a night of fractured sleep?

Ever felt completely stuck in a hard situation, without a clear path to a solution? 

Ever wished someone wise would just write you a step-by-step solution to a sticky situation so you can love forward?

The truth is, we rarely receive enlightenment or next steps in the way we hope we will. Instead, the Lord asks us to simply keep taking steps forward, doing the next needful thing. 

A truth God is teaching me very clearly in the season in which I find myself is one many of you need to hear as well, I believe: Sometimes, you don?t wonder how you?ll do it, ?You just do? it.

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Bible References:

Philippians 4:19

2 Corinthians 12:9

1 Corinthians 10:13

Ecclesiastes 1:9

Hebrews 13:5

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

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We?re back for part 2 of our chat with Blake Guichet about Christians and Politics. 

We chat about whether open borders and socialism are truly biblical, what it means that God is the one who raises up and brings down kings, and what this means for our political decisions as Bible-believing Christians. 

Wherever you fall on the political spectrum, we pray this episode will cause you to pray more, search your Bible diligently for truth, and trust yourself to the sovereign Lord of the universe whose purposes are always good, right, and true.

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Bible References:

1 Corinthians 14:33

James 1:27

Ruth

Exodus 2:22

John 3:30

Ruth 2:2-3

Psalm 46

Isaiah 54:17

1 Timothy 5:8

Matthew 25:14-30

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Ever wondered whether Christians should vote and, if so, for whom? What about socialism vs. capitalism? Which is more biblical? And how will you handle it if you share something unpopular, and you receive backlash? 

We tackle all of these topics and more in this two part series on ?Christians and Politics.?

Make no mistake: This is two conservative women grappling with all of these issues from a biblical perspective. We are not neutral. And we believe your theology (bc everybody has one) should dictate the policies you support. 

Ultimately, God is sovereign. But He has, in His sovereignty, placed us in this world for our good and His glory in every area of our lives, including politics. We pray this will be a helpful episode for anyone wondering, ?How now shall we live?? in this tumultuous age.

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Bible References:

Matthew 10:28

Proverbs 21:1

Romans 2:11

1 Corinthians 12:12

Galatians 3:28

1 Thessalonians 5:22

Matthew 17:24-27

Romans 5

John 18:36

Ecclesiastes 1:9

Jeremiah 15:9

1 Corinthians 10:31

Esther 3-8

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Ever heard the term prolapse? Or struggled to sneeze without peeing on yourself?

Then, this episode is for you! 

Join us as we chat about why kegels can be a really bad idea, Google is the wrong place to go for prolapse advice, and even medical professionals don?t often have real solutions to our struggles. 

But take heart because God made our bodies capable of healing, and it starts with your willingness to learn about  + engage with this not-so-fun but oh-so-important topic!

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Buckle up, friends, because a lot has happened since last May, and I?m chatting about it all during today?s episode.

From family travel to trips abroad to really happy news, followed by sadness, it?s been a roller coaster ride of a summer. 

And yet, through it all, God is faithful and good to show Himself loving every step of the way.

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Hey, friends!  We?re back with new guests (Jep and Jessica Robertson of Duck Dynasty), new sponsors, and new encouragement. 

In this episode, the Robertsons share about how the Lord led them to adopt their son and the lessons God has taught them through the process. 

They also share about Dear Valor, the children?s book they wrote in order to share those lessons with others and chat about their backgrounds in coming to Christ + growing in their relationships with Him. Guest Info:

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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to unplug from all ?smart? devices and return to the simplicity of a landline and a knock on the screen door? 

Erin Loechner brings her passion for educating families on ways to avoid common technological pitfalls, as well as her love of slow living to the show today for a fascinating conversation with someone truly willing to practice what she preaches.

Plus, I love the fact that she brings all of her stories and data back to God?s Word and His Truth.

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Bible References:

Psalms 33:4-5

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Join me as I chat with Brent and Katie Kruithof from Yeah, Baby Goods about a perspective shift that allowed them to view their home as the hub of their business endeavors and their spiritual pursuits. 

We talk about entrepreneurship, stewardship, and what it looks like to include our kids in meaningful ways within our home. 

You?ll be encouraged by their passion for hard work, family togetherness, and keeping the Lord as the center of it all.

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Bible References:

Romans 5:3-5

Psalm 127

Deuteronomy 6:6-8

1 Corinthians 10:31

2 Peter 1:3

Matthew 5:30-32

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If you feel the call to homeschool and don?t know where to start, are on the fence, or just feel curious about the movement, you?ll want to listen to Monica and I chat about her new book, Becoming Homeschoolers. We also chat about our mutual love for fitness + motherhood from the perspective of moms with older/graduated kids and encourage you in practical ways to stay the course. I know this conversation will be a blessing to homeschoolers, but there?s plenty for all moms. Guest Info: Monica Swanson Site: https://monicaswanson.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicaswanson_/?hl=en Podcast: https://www.google.com/gasearch?q=monica%20swansonpodcast&tbm=&source=sh/x/gs/m2/5 Sponsor Info: Yeah Baby Goods Code: MISFORMAMA Site: https://www.yeahbabygoods.com/ Bible References: Galatians 6:9 Esther 4:14 Proverbs 31:27 Proverbs 31:15-31 John 17:9-26 Links: ?????????????????????????????M Is for Mama?????????????????????????????????? ??????????????????????????????????Penny Reward System?????????????????????????????????? ??????????????????????????????????Leave a Review for the M is for Mama Show?????????????????????????????????? ??????????????????????????????????Paint & Prose??????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????Pre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad???????????????????????????????? ?????????????????????????????M Is For Mama Chore Guide???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????M Is For Mama Meal Plan Sign-Up????????????????? Find Abbie at: ??????????????????????????????Instagram?????????????????????????????? ??????????????????????????????YouTube?????????????????????????????? ??????????????????????????????Facebook

This week, we chat solo parenting with older kids, adjusting expectations, and the art of transitioning back to a two-parent household whenever our husbands are home. 

Plus, I give you a (perhaps) surprising perk to solo parenting at the end as a takeaway. 

Enjoy!

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Bible References:

Romans 5:3-5

John 16:33

Romans 8:28

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One of the FAQs I receive weekly in DMs is: ?How do you handle solo-parenting when your husband is gone??

And while I know that everyone?s solo-parenting circumstances are different, there are some core principles that can help shift your mindset from ?woe is me!? (been there) to ?I?ve got this? (in Christ?s strength). Is so important to actively look for ways to thrive rather than simply survive! 

I share some of the things that have helped me most in this episode, and I?ll talk more about ways the Lord has grown my maturity + resourcefulness in this area in part 2. Enjoy!

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As we approach Mother?s Day (in the U.S.), I pray this brief episode will be an encouragement to stay the course for those who are in or for the long haul and a balm for those who are hurting this week.

You are in my prayers.

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Bible References:

Philippians 4:6

Psalm 34:18

Jeremiah 29:11

Matthew 5:44

Ephesians 4:32

Matthew 6:12

James 1:17

Psalm 27:13

James 4:14

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Ever wondered how to create an environment of camaraderie, family connection, and meaningful discussion in your home?

Continuing the theme from our conversation in the last episode with the Voetbergs, Jennifer Pepito shares her wisdom gleaned from years of investing intentionally in her own family, but she also shares mistakes and the grace the Lord has offered her in her imperfections.

Be encouraged that you don?t have to ?get everything right? to establish important traditions that become sacred and cherished in your family?even if none were passed down to you by your own parents!

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Bible References:

Ephesians 6:4

Deuteronomy 6:7c

Hebrews 12:2

James 4:6

1 Kings 1:6

Psalm 139:23-24

2 Corinthians 10:5

2 Corinthians 12:9

Isaiah 64:6

1 Corinthians 3:6-9

Galatians 6:9

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Ep. 63: Passing Down the Good (A Chat with Elisha and Katie Voetberg)

In a world that champions airing every bit of trauma/bad strategies passed down from parents, it?s rare (and refreshing!) to encounter young families who are, instead, holding with the positive traditions of their origin families and being intentional to praise the good (while acknowledging the not-so-good). 

Elisha and Katie Voetberg (who own/run our sponsor company, Voetberg Music Academy!) are doing just that?choosing to recognize + pass down the positive practices they were taught without turning a blind eye to the common pitfalls we all face as parents. 

They discuss what they love about their upbringings as members of larger-than-culturally-normal families. They share strategies for being intentional + wise with stewarding time with children + spouses. And they speak with maturity beyond their years that they credit to having parents who trusted them enough to apologize + pivot when things weren?t working. 

I know you?ll be encouraged + energized by this conversation! 

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Bible References:

Matthew 22:37

Genesis 1:28

1 Samuel 16:7

Matthew 28:16

James 3:16

Colossians 3:23

Proverbs 31

Titus 2

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Ever walked into a public library with your children, only to hurry them past the displays in the kids? section because they?re almost all focused on promoting one secular agenda or another?

You?re not alone. Choosing good literature for our kids--especially in light of the blatant bias many librarians proudly display--can be a challenging task in our current cultural climate.

In this episode, Korie Johnson from Good Book Mom tells us all about how we, as Christian parents, can build relationships with our local library and its leaders in order to make an impact both on the books they promote and on the individuals themselves. 

You?ll be encouraged by her straightforward approach to choosing quality children?s literature (it doesn?t all have to be explicitly Christian!) and also her practical suggestions for how to interact with your library community to enact change.

Korie has lots of great resources on her website where she vets and reviews hundreds of books so we don?t have to!

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Bible References:

1 Corinthians 10:31

Ephesians 6:12

Deuteronomy 6:6-8

Ephesians 5:9

Matthew 5:16

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?Child free? is a phrase that populates comment sections on social media, Reddit threads, news articles, and more.

It?s more than a little trendy to at least entertain the idea of forgoing having children altogether. 

But is it biblical?

I sit down with my good friend, Jennifer Flanders from 

Flanders Family Home Life, chat about the biblical implications of a child-free lifestyle. 

We also chat all things birth control and what it looks like to live a surrendered life before the Lord?in every area, including, but not limited to, our fertility. 

Jennifer is one of my favorite humans on the planet, and I know you?ll appreciate her wisdom!

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Bible References:

Ephesians 5:15

Psalm 127

Psalm 128

Genesis 1:28

Proverbs 3:5-6

1 Corinthians 7:2

Matthew 6:19-21

Proverbs 16:9

Jeremiah 29:11

1 Corinthians 7

Genesis 38

Luke 23:29

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In part one of this topic, we unpacked why ?overstimulation? is such a commonly used term?especially in motherhood?these days. 

In this episode, we take a deeper look at some of the ways we might contributing to our own overwhelm. Because sometimes, all those ?tabs? left open in our brain, driving us nuts, are the results of too many bad yeses and not enough good knows. 

Self-awareness and the ability to admit when we have gotten into bad habits or failed to heed wise advice are both crucial to reclaiming our mental peace in a way that honors God.

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Bible References:

Ecclesiastes 1:9

Ephesians 5:15-16

Matthew 12:36

Proverbs 20:24

Isaiah 26:3-4

1 Peter 3:15

Matthew 11:29-30

Hebrews 4:9-10

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Have you ever credited your frustration or overwhelm in a particular situation to ?overstimulation?? If so, join the club! 

?Overstimulation? seems to be the word for mothers on social media (and many in-person interactions too). And it?s easy to understand why with so many things grabbing for our attention on top of a need to love and care for our families well.

The good news is there is hope in the midst of the overwhelm, and we don?t have to be slaves to the things that make our brains feel like they?re full of bees. 

In this episode we?ll talk about the reality of feeling overstimulated (it?s not all in your head!) but also tackle practical ways to combat it with both compassion and grit. 

Be encouraged that ?overstimulated? is not where you have to stay, friends!

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Bible References:

Romans 6:1

Romans 8:37

2 Corinthians 12:7

1 Peter 5:8

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This conversation will be such an encouragement to any mama (or woman!) with a dream in her heart but no idea how to steward it well for the glory of God.

In this episode, Lyndsey Mimnagh from Treehouse Schoolhouse chats with me about everything from personality traits (how much do they matter?) to working backwards from your end goal to make it a reality (it works!) to DIY house-building (we?ve both been there) to homeschooling (same) and much more!

I know you will be encouraged by her stories of the Lord?s faithfulness to prepare her for the ?next right thing? and her honesty about the imperfect process along the way!

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Bible References:

Philippians 4:13

Psalm 1:3 

Esther 4:14

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?Masculinity? might be one of the most hot-button words in our current culture. And one of the most misunderstood. 

Thankfully, my friend, Durenda Wilson, mama to eight, including five young men, is sharing her wisdom and experience with to help us understand the truth about raising boys. With humor, compassion, and practical action steps, she explains how important it is to parent our sons with intentionality and care for the unique ways that God has made them. 

Check out her new book, Raising Boys to Men, and don?t forget to take advantage of exclusive pre-order offers today! Guest Info:

The Durenda Wilson Podcast

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Bible References:

Deuteronomy 6:6-8

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Have you ever found yourself nervous to announce a pregnancy, discuss parenting philosophies with a friend, or discuss school choices when your mother-in-law?

Why? Because you?re afraid of what they?ll say! 

If so, you are far from alone. It?s so hard not to let other people?s opinions on the choices we make for our families affect our confidence in them.

And yet, when it comes to issues that aren?t specifically addressed by Scripture, we have so much freedom in Christ to pray, seek wise counsel, confer with our spouses, and ?do the next right thing? as unto the Lord?even if it?s not a conclusion our neighbor/cousin/mom/sister/friend would have reached. 

Be encouraged that the Lord gives wisdom and peace to His people as they diligently seek Him. 

Bible References:

John 15:13

Colossians 3:17

1 Peter 2:23

Romans 12:5

Galatians 5:1

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I regularly get asked if any of my children have a diagnosis with which we must grapple. 

While the answer is no, I do have firsthand knowledge of both the struggles and the joys of having a child with special needs through my friendship with Lindsay Long, my closest friend, business partner, and the illustrator of both M Is for Mama and Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad, and her daughter, Evie. 

In this episode, we talk about the grief that comes along with realizing that your child may never achieve some of the same milestones as other children with fewer limitations.

We discuss the biblical principle of true contentment and the ?joy set before us? in the privilege of pouring ourselves out for our children, regardless of disability.

And we declare God?s goodness in hardship, even while acknowledging that we don?t always like the circumstances in which He has placed us. 

I have no doubt that Lindsay?s insights and experiences will be a blessing and an encouragement to all who listen?but especially to those who walk the sometimes lonely road of special needs parenting.

Proverbs 27:17

Psalm 139

John 12:24-26

Matthew 5:39

Romans 12:15-17

Philippians 4:11-12

John 3:30

Philippians 4:13

1 Corinthians 3:11

Isaiah 25:8

Romans 8:28

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Heidi St. John?homeschool mom to eight, grandmother, author, and speaker?joins me on this episode to chat all things motherhood: finding our giftings, using them for the Lord + our families, and, yes, being willing to accept help. 

Because motherhood (as with most things) is best done in community! 

Join us for a lively conversation about how ?bad days don?t make moms??in fact, they often give us an oppportunity to repent and model asking forgiveness to our kids. You?ll be encouraged to keep showing up and serving God even when you fail. What a gift!

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Bible References:

Matthew 12:30-31

Matthew 25:40-45

Colossians 3:23

Exodus 14

James 1:6

Titus 2

Proverbs 27:17

1 John 4:4

Romans 8:1

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It would almost take living as a full-on Luddite to not know something about Taylor Swift. The sheer volume of interest, speculation, online posts, and photographs of just one person exemplifies our culture?s propensity to ?obsess? over celebrities.

One thing that sets ?T Swift? apart is a dogged loyalty to/approval of/fascination with her: music, life choices, and person as a whole.

And this includes many Christians who include themselves in the ranks of enthusiastic ?Swifties.?

In this episode, we examine what it looks like, from a biblical perspective, to be devoted first and foremost to Jesus rather than *any* pop culture icon, no matter how much nostalgia and warm fuzzy feelings arise when we think about listening to their music/watching their movies/living vicariously through their publicly broadcasted lives. 

This is not a bash on Taylor Swift but rather a call to every Christian to honestly examine to whom our affections are most devoted and by whom we are most influenced?Jesus and His holy Word?or the world.

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Romans 1:25

Matthew 6:21

Romans 12:2

Psalm 119:105

Romans 3:23

Romans 3:10-12

2 Timothy 4:7-8

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When you hear the word ?deconstruction,? what comes to mind? An honest examination of biblical truth? An automatic rejection of it? Something in between?

In this episode, my friend, Alisa Childers?author, respected apologist, and, herself, a survivor of the deconstruction movement?does a great job of speaking to the need for defining our terms. 

After all, if nobody knows exactly what the term ?deconstruction? means, it?s going to be impossible to bring it before the light of Scripture and examine it truthfully. 

Alisa and I also discuss why it?s important to understand this movement as moms who are charged with teaching our children God?s Word and encouraging them to seek truth over cultural trends.

Be encouraged that clarity in this area is not only possible but crucial to combatting the cultural lies that tell us we know better than God.

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Bible References:

Ephesians 4:14 

Exodus 12

Ephesians 5:26

1 Thessalonians 5:21

Romans 11:34-36

Proverbs 12:16

Proverbs 6:24

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Alisa Childers' Books: The Deconstruction of Christianity - Another Gospel - Live Your Truth and Other Lies

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One of the more common buzz phrases I?m encountering on the Internet is the term ?church hurt.? 

The problem, as with many popular phrases, is the true meaning of  ?church hurt? is hard to nail down, meaning anything from true abuse of power and spiritual neglect to a rightful accountability check of sin.

Not only that, but since we are called to look not only to our own needs but also to the needs of others (Phil. 2:4), the intensely personal narrative surrounding church hurt often becomes more about the person who experienced (real or perceived) injury than it is about the God who heals every sorrow and is so near the brokenhearted. 

To further complicate issues, many in the church hurt movement seem determined to lump the entire entity of ?church? in with what they deem a broken system, rotten to its core. 

And so, we must examine all of these claims in the light of Scripture. Is all church hurt equal? Should every claim be taken at face value? Is there still such a thing as a healthy church? 

We address all of these questions (and more) in light of Scripture in today?s episode.

Bible References:

Micah 6:8

Psalm 1:1

Philippians 2:3-8

Matthew 18

Matthew 18:21-22

Hebrews 10:23-25

Philippians 4:13

Romans 12:15

2 Corinthians 5:17

Romans 6:23

John 14:15

Jeremiah 17:9

Luke 6:45

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One of my favorite things as a mom is figuring out traditions that our whole family will cherish for years. 

Our birthday traditions have evolved since we had our first almost 18 years ago until we have them down to, if not a science, a day of predictably fun (but also customizable) customs that everybody loves.

If you?re looking for inspiration for creating traditions of your own, looking to switch things up a bit, or just needing encouragement that the effort to establish lasting traditions that will knit your family?s hearts closer together is worth it, then this episode is for you!

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When it comes to the topic of ?things Christians do? or ?organized church,? it?s a bit of a free-for-all. You don?t have to be kind. You don?t have to be truthful. And you don?t have to take into consideration how making Christians/the church the butt of all your jokes affects the way the outside world looking in thinks about either/both (especially on social media).

Except we do. Scripture makes it very clear that 1. The Christian church is the bride of Christ (and that?s a big deal) and 2. We will be held accountable for ?every careless word? we speak?Matt. 12:36 (and that?s a huge deal!).

Throw in Psalm 1, which urges us to avoid mockery and scoffing, and you?ve got a pretty compelling argument for treating this topic with the careful and honest handling it deserves. Does ?the church? have problems? Yes. Will Christians fail us and do wrong things? Also, yes.

But that?s not where the story ends, and I want to approach this series with the goal of bringing our attitudes and thoughts about church under the Lordship of Jesus Christ?just like we do (or should do) everything else.

Bible References:

Genesis 1:26-28

John 1:1

Psalm 1 

Ephesians 4:15

1 Corinthians 9:22

Ephesians 4:2

Hebrews 10:25

James 3:10

Philippians 4:8

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For those who watch via YouTube or Spotify, we apologize, but due to technical issues, there is no video available this week.

We did it, friends! We made it through 2023 by the grace of God! And boy, do I mean that! There have been many moments this year that felt like too much, but tor Christ?s power at work in my life. I?m guessing you can relate! 

From book launching to our whole-family European adventure to a house flood to living in a rental for months while we renovate our entire downstairs, the Lord has shown Himself faithful time and time again. 

Hope you?re encouraged (and at least moderately entertained) by this look back at some of the more memorable moments of 2023. 

Also, CHEERS to one whole year of podcasting! I?ve so enjoyed getting to share with you and can?t wait to do it again next year! (AKA: Next week). 

P.S. I mention the ?flower mama? sweatshirt I?m wearing in the episode. Here?s the link, as promised.

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We're rounding out our Christmas series with a (mostly) lighthearted round of "Abbie's Favorite Christmas Things."

This is such a special time of year to me, but, if I'm honest, this Christmas season hasn't felt particularly festive or fun, so this was a great exercise in reminding myself of the many ways that Christmas brings joy--the ultimate of which is the tiny baby who came to this world to save us from our sins!

A quick reminder that, if you know someone in need who could use practical help this Christmas season, you can nominate them by sending me a message at [email protected]

Bible References:

Luke 2:10

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It?s all well and good to give ideas for fun holiday activities and ways to bring the Christmas "magic." 

Family traditions are wonderful, and I will always advocate for their importance. 

But what about those for whom Christmas is a genuine struggle? What about the years when you?re just not "feeling it." 

There is hope in Christ for those who find themselves in this place.  

In fact, it is the whole hope of Christmas. Be encouraged, friends, that, even when you feel alone, the Savior, who came as a baby to grow up to manhood and sacrifice Himself for the sins of the world is by your side.

Bible References:

Romans 5:8

Matthew 8:26

Hebrews 13:5

1 Peter 5:7

Matthew 5:26-30

Philippians 4:7

2 Corinthians 10:5

1 Corinthians 1:9-11

Ephesians 4:6-10

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One of the primary arguments I?ve heard against skipping Santa is that doing so will rob kids of the ?magic of Christmas.? The thing is: Nowhere in the Bible are we exhorted to do things for our kids that make them feel ?magical? (in the sense of euphoria or warm, fuzzy feelings). But we are encouraged to ?rejoice in the Lord? and to ?give thanks in all circumstances.? And one way to do that in the Christmas season is by establishing family traditions that spark joy and fun and generosity.  In this episode, I discuss some of the specific things our family does to truly enjoy each other and praise God for His goodness during the Christmas season AND ways that we strive to bless others as well! Hopefully, you?ll get some good ideas and be encouraged that there are so many good + wholesome + joy-filled ways to celebrate Christ?s birth.  P.S. One thing we?ve done that I forgot to mention is the Jesse Tree. Such a great tradition! Bible References: Psalm 119:105 Matthew 12:34 Matthew 19:16-22 Luke 19:10 Matthew 6:21 Matthew 12:28-34 Zephaniah 3:17 Psalm 34:8 Philippians 4:4-8 Psalm 100:1 Colossians 3:17 Links: ??????????M Is for Mama??????????????? ???????????????Penny Reward System??????????????? ???????????????Leave a Review for the M is for Mama Show??????????????? ???????????????Paint & Prose???????????????? ????????????Pre-Order Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad????????????? ??????????M Is For Mama Chore Guide??????????????????????????? ????????M Is For Mama Meal Plan Sign-Up???????? Milk and Honey Jewelry Episode About Allowance and Chores Samaritan's Purse Gift Catalog September & Co. Ruth Chou Simons Emmanuel Cross Formed Kids Treehouse Schoolhouse Find Abbie at: ???????????Instagram??????????? ???????????Youtube??????????? ???????????Facebook

Every year, somewhere between October 1st and December 25, I start getting the same question on repeat: ?Does your family ?do Santa?? Why or why not??

I tackle this question, and the why behind our answer, in this episode. As always, the goal in every discussion of whether or not to adhere to a particular tradition must be: Does it bring glory to God in the way that we practice it (if we do)? 

I also discuss three biblically sound questions to ask yourself as you approach the Santa conversation that may help clarify how you approach your family?s take on this.

I hope you find this way of addressing ?the Santa talk? edifying, encouraging, and helpful!

Bible References:

Colossians 3:17

Deuteronomy 6:6-8

John 1:1

James 1:6

Genesis 3:1

James 4:17

Exodus 32

Matthew 10:28

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Have you ever felt like you have nothing to be grateful for? That your circumstances are too miserable to bear and that any attempt at thankfulness would be faking it?

The Bible makes it clear that it is God?s will for us to practice continual thankfulness, and yet it also gives us lots of room for grief and sadness when life is so hard. 

Be encouraged that it is really is possible to honor God with our gratitude, even when we feel too weak to praise Him and even when our emotions feel the opposite of thankful. 

In this episode, we talk about a perspective shift that helps us to view gratitude rightly and to view even the most frustrating people in our lives through a lens of thankfulness. 

Praise God that He honors even our stumbling toward obedience in this area with the ability to keep going on the narrow path, even when we don?t feel like we have the strength to take another step. 

Bible References:

Psalm 127:3

Lamentations 3:22-23

Romans 6:1-2

Ephesians 4:2

2 Corinthians 10:5

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

1 Peter 2:23

Deuteronomy 31:6

2 Corinthians 9:11

Romans 7:19-25

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None of us have endless wells of energy. We all hit walls (of exhaustion or burnout or overwhelm) during certain seasons. Sometimes, it can be hard to know where our limited resources are best spent in particularly busy periods.

Thankfully, we can turn to God for wisdom and rely on biblical principles to help us navigate the tricky waters of time management, learning to say no, and leaning into challenging seasons with the knowledge that we are right where God wants us to be!

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Bible References:

Matthew 5:37

Judges 11:38-40

James 1:5

2 Corinthians 12:9-11

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In a culture that assures us that the only way to be an ?authentic? mom is to focus almost exclusively on the challenges and negative aspects of motherhood, it?s easy to fall into the trap of being afraid to speak out about the flip side of the coin: the truth that the joys and benefits of motherhood abound if only we have eyes to see them and the courage to proclaim them. 

Be encouraged, friends, that there is so much good in being thankful (just as we?re exhorted by Scripture), even in the midst of trials, and that rejoicing in good mothering days, far from being inauthentic, can be a beacon of light for other moms doing their best to keep their heads above water in the stormy seas of mothering struggles shared in the name of ?telling it straight.?

Bible References:

Galatians 6:9

Philippians 4:4

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Last week, we talked about the view of motherhood that posits that the only way to be ?real? is to expose the hard parts of being a mom and name them one-by-one. This week, we talk about how motherhood, far from stripping us of our true selves or primary identity, can be a wonderful avenue for helping us exercise our God-given talents + abilities in ways that honor Him, serve our families, and bring us great fulfillment as well. 

I share examples from my own journey as a mother, but as always, the goal is never to do things ?Abbie-style? (or insert any other name) but instead to ground everything we do in the Word of God and His principles for life that will never change or lead us astray.

Bible References:

2 Corinthians 10:5

Proverbs 16:9

Proverbs 31

Philippians 4:13

Matthew 11:28

John 16:33

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Have you ever encountered a social media post that assures you that, unlike all the "other moms," they are going to tell you the truth about motherhood--and the truth is that "it sucks" and robs you of your identity?

Maybe you've felt a tug of relatability? Or maybe you've felt your spirit revolt against what seems to be hopelessness and despair?

No matter your response, be encouraged that God is not surprised by your struggles in motherhood (or anything else), and there IS always hope in Christ and a purpose in the growing pains we all experience as moms--even if only to draw us closer to the one who never leaves us or forsakes us.

Bible References:

Jeremiah 17:9

2 Peter 1:3

2 Corinthians 5:17

John 1:12

Philippians 4:13

Job 13:15-18

Job 1:21

Psalm 127:13

1 Corinthians 10:31

Matthew 16:24

John 16:33

James 1:17

Hebrews 13:8

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Today's episode is a little different, but it's what I felt the Lord nudging me to say as I've received a number of panicked DMs asking for encouragement and reassurance in the midst of the uncertain and even tragic circumstances that so many around the world are enduring.

Remember, friends, that we were never called to either a) bury our heads in the sand and pretend that suffering doesn't exist OR b) immerse ourselves only in doom and gloom and forget that we have hope in the Lord and an obligation to keep loving God and loving our neighbor.

Also, prayer is powerful.

I hope this episode brings you fresh perspective and vision!

Bible References:

Ecclesiastes 1:9

Matthew 24:12

Matthew 25

Philippians 1:21

Matthew 24:6-13

Ephesians 6:10-18

Galatians 6:9

John 16:33

Philippians 2:3-4

Jeremiah 24:15

Psalm 119:105

James 5:16

Matthew 18:20

1 Thessalonians 5:17

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Shaun and I got the incredible opportunity to visit a "bucket list" locale "for my birthday" (I really did have a birthday while there, but it was mostly just a fun excuse to take a trip during a gorgeous time of year).

It was one of the most enjoyable and relaxing trips that I can remember in recent years, and the scenery was beyond beautiful. (Special thanks to my nice parents for staying with our kids and keeping everything running smoothly at home.)

I had so many requests for a trip recap + itinery + places we ate that I decided to ask Shaun to join me for a chat about all things Banff (or at least all things Banff that we experienced), and he said yes!

We hope you enjoy and get some inspiration for trips of your own (whether to Banff or not).

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Jerusalem Shawarma

Farm and Fire

Brazen

Sky Bistro

Bare Bistro

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Friends! This episode was so fun to record. My friend, Emily Morrow (AKA: Really Very Crunchy) drove all the way from Kentucky with her family to stay with us for a weekend to celebrate at my Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad book launch party. While she was here, we sat down to chat about all things internet fame (hers, not mine), DMs, the origin of her account, finding and making lasting friendships, motherhood, Emily?s new book, and so much more. 

Is she really very crunchy? Does she mouth tape? What was she really thinking when I slathered her son in lavender oil after he got into his first ever bed of fire ants? (Ugh, Texas, c?mon!) 

You?ll never know until you listen!

Find Emily on Instagram at @reallyverycrunchy (she also posts to Youtube and Tiktok under the same name). 

You can also pre-order her new book here!

Bible References:

1 Peter 4:8

Philippians 2:3

Ephesians 4:2

Matthew 21:9

Luke 23:21

Ecclesiastes 1:9

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If you?ve ever wondered how someone else ?does it all,? I?ve got a spoiler alert for you: They don?t. No one does (definitely me included). 

Plus, I truly believe there?s a better question we could be asking (that I share in this episode). And I chat about the Lord?s provision for help that has enabled me to do more in this season (without feeling like such a Lone Ranger) than I have in the past. 

Yes, there are some people that have more on their plate than others, and there are some seasons that allow for less/more capacity. But as long as we are more concerned with the Lord?s will and His perfect timing than with any desire to replicate someone else?s ?system,? we can be truly content in the ?good works that He has prepared in advance for us.? 

Be encouraged that, as you seek the Lord, He has you right where you need to be, doing exactly the right tasks you should be doing. 

Bible References:

Colossians 3:23

Philippians 4:12-13

Romans 12:15

2 Corinthians 2:19

Psalm 28:7

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Ever been less-than-pleased with the body you see in the mirror? I've been there (in some ways, am still there at the moment). I would wager that, between pregnancy body changes, unrealistic cultural beauty standards (hello, air-brushing), and a tendency to be overly critical of our appearances, most of us women can relate to wishing we could tweak a thing or two about the way we look.

But is that how God views us? If we look to Scripture, we quickly discover that, rather than swinging to one extreme or the other of either self-indulgence or vain self-obsession, we are to "offer our bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God." (Romans 12:1)

In other words, it's way less about how we look (a lesson I am constantly learning/relearning as my body ages) and way more about how we love God and love others with the resources (including the body) He's given us.

I am still a work in progress in every area, including this one, but, as always, I'm so grateful the Lord is so gracious not to leave us where He finds us.

Bible References:

Psalm 139:14

1 Corinthians 6:19-20

1 Corinthians 10:31

Ephesians 4:23

2 Corinthians 10:5

Philippians 4:11-13

Colossians 3:17

Philippians 4:7

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If hard is not the same thing as bad, does that then mean all hard things are good? NOPE.

In this episode, we chat about when hard really is bad, how the Lord can still teach us and shape us through those things, and when to ?abandon? the hard because God is clearly offering a different path forward. 

Also, a super exciting update from our family that perfectly exemplifies the Lord?s gracious provision in the midst of the challenging aftermath of our downstairs house flooding. 

Pssttt?I also have a chapter about this in Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad. 

For our video audience, we apologize, but there is no video this week. Also the audio is a bit rougher than usual, we?ll be back to usual programming next week!

Bible References:

Romans 5:3-5

Isaiah 65:17

Romans 8:28

John 3:16

Romans 6:23

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