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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic?no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don?t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, ?Today.?) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him ?America?s top dating coach for men.? Connell personally faced?and fixed?every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with ?Radical Authenticity.? Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ?em. Seize the date!

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Episodes

Why You Freeze When You Want to Approach Beautiful Women?& How to Fix it NOW (Live Coaching with John!)

John feels stuck and frustrated. He often sees attractive women he wants to talk to at bars and coffee shops, but he always freezes up and says nothing. (Sound familiar?) He?s about to break free of his approach anxiety?and you can, too! In this live coaching session, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the hidden mental roadblocks that stop men from talking to women. Plus, Connell shares simple, proven fixes that you can use today. Get ready to approach women confidently and authentically (no weird pickup moves needed!)

You?re About to Learn:

07:55: The 2 ?Fear Factors? that Stop You from Approaching Women?and How to Fix Them

11:30: 5 Ways to Destroy Approach Anxiety TODAY

17:42: What Strangers Really Think of Men Who Approach

37:21: The 1 Simple Shift that Makes Her Happy You Talked to Her

45:03: How to Stop Making Excuses and Start Taking Action

54:36: What NOT to Say When You Approach in the Day (or Else You?ll Seem Creepy!)

If you?ve ever felt too scared to say hello to a beautiful woman, this episode will give you the mindset and tools to finally take action. Listen now!

WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL AND START CONFIDENTLY MEETING AND DATING WONDERFUL WOMEN:
http://www.DatingTransformation.com
2025-03-20
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Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)

Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you?re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don?t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify?and fix?the hidden dating mistakes men make. You?ll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell?s dating advice column.)

You?re about to learn:

2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman you?ve just met

6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on

16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever

22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence

25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love

33:00: The single biggest dating mistake you?re making

39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection

47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement

59:17: Lisa?s no. 1 dating tip that every man must know

Are you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!

FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:
http://GoodMenProject.com

CHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECT?S DATING SUBSTACK:
http://gmpdating.substack.com

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com

Quotes

"Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey

"Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
2025-03-18
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3 Hidden Reasons Why Women Lose Interest in You?and How to Keep Them Attracted Long-Term! with Johnny Cassell

Have you ever had things start great with a woman only for her to suddenly pull away and say, ?I?m not looking to date right now?? The truth is, that?s probably her polite way of saying, ?I?m just not interested in you.? In this episode, renowned London-based dating coach Johnny Cassell reveals 3 hidden reasons why women lose interest?and how to keep them attracted to you for the long haul.

You?re About to Learn:

02:20: Why You Must First ?Date Yourself? to Attract a Wonderful Girlfriend

18:55: How NOT To Go from a ?Wild Tiger to Tubby Housecat? in Her Eyes

19:53: How to Escape the ?Yawn Zone? When You Talk to Women

20:12: Johnny?s Amazing Drill to Flirt at Starbucks And ALSO Get a Free Coffee!

22:44: How Connell Approached and Instantly Attracted His Future Girlfriend

30:19: The Right Way to Approach a Large Group of Women at a Bar?and the Wrong Way

44:44: Johnny?s Secret to Talking to Women of Intimidating Beauty

1:01:00: The One Action You Should Take this Week to Improve Your Love Life

Listen now to attract?and keep?that incredible woman?s interest!

LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHNNY CASSELL OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HIM:
http://www.johnnycassell.com

FOLLOW JOHNNY ON INSTAGRAM:
@?LondonDatingCoach

TO BOOK A FREE 1-1 CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:
http://www.datingtransformation.com
2025-03-13
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The 7 ?Friend Zone? Destroyers: Go from Hearing ?Let?s Be Friends? to ?Let?s Go to Your Place!?

You think a date went well, only to get that frustrating text: ?You?re a nice guy, but I just didn?t feel a connection...? The Friend Zone can be brutal. Dating coach Connell Barrett knows this from experience. ?I didn?t just live in the Friend Zone,? he says. ?I owned real estate there.? But he also knows the way out. Now he?s sharing the 7 Friend Zone Destroyers simple, tested moves that you can make to spark attraction on your next date!

You?re about to learn:

8:24: Friend Zone Destroyer #1: Send Her Flirty Messages Before the Date

10:34: Friend Zone Destroyer #2: Share an Authentic Personal Story

14:27: Friend Zone Destroyer #3: How to Give Her a Sexy Compliment

16:53: Friend Zone Destroyer #4: Find Emotional Commonalities

18:31: Friend Zone Destroyer #5: Touch Her the Right Way (NOT the Weird Way!)

21:41: Friend Zone Destroyer #6: How to Help Her Feel Connected to You

24:05: Friend Zone Destroyer #7: Three Smooth First-Kiss Moves

28:52: Bonus: Connell?s Favorite First-Date Game that Women LOVE to Play

Stop hearing ?Let?s just be friends? and start hearing ?Let?s go out again!? Listen now.

TO TAKE YOUR DATING RESULTS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL, BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:
http://www.DatingTransformation.com

EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-03-11
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Tired of Swiping? How Matchmaking Can Set You Up with Incredible Women (Ditch the Apps for Good!)

Are you exhausted by dating apps? Tired of first dates with people who aren?t right for you? What if someone hand-picked incredible women for you to meet?women who are just your type? Dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes elite matchmaker Amy Andersen, founder of Linx Dating, to break down the world of high-end matchmaking. Amy shares the key advantages of working with what she calls ?your own personal cheerleader? and offers expert first-date tips to help you make a great impression.

Connell and Amy Discuss:

04:45: Why Dating Apps Take So Much Time?and How Matchmaking Saves You Countless Hours

08:22: Why a Personalized Approach to Finding Love Can Work Better than DIY Dating

17:45: ?They Got Married on their Second Date!? Amy?s Jaw-Dropping Success Story

28:57: Essential Do?s and Don?ts of Hiring a Matchmaker

33:11: How to Be Interesting and Attractive on the First Date

44:01: The Power of Authenticity and Vulnerability in Sparking Real Romantic Connections

If you want an easier way to meet incredible women, this episode is a must-listen.

LEARN MORE ABOUT MATCHMAKING AND LINX DATING:
http://www.Linxdating.com

FOLLOW AMY ANDERSEN ON INSTAGRAM:
@?ms.linxdating

BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU FIND A GREAT GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.DatingTransformation.com
2025-03-06
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How to NEVER Run Out of Things to Say: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Instantly Attract Women

Do you ever struggle with what to say to women?either in person or when trying to craft the perfect text? Dating coach Connell Barrett gives you the 7 Best Banter Topics so you can keep conversations flirty and free-flowing. Whether you?re talking to her in person or messaging on your phone, just reach for one of these foolproof topics for instant banter. And you don?t need to be naturally witty. These simple tips will work for any guy! Plus, you?ll learn the Playful Pivot, a powerful technique that takes your banter to a masterful level.

Highlights of this Episode:

03:20: The 7 Best Banter Topics to Never Run Out of Things to Say

04:47: The Words She?s Dying to Hear from You

09:17: The ?Desert Island? Question that Ignites Instant Attraction

11:44: The Storytelling Trick that Makes You Charismatic

16:47: The Topic That Sparks Playful, Engaging Conversations

17:35: The ?What If? Question that Makes You Different from Other Guys

19:45: The Playful Pivot?How to Master Flirty Banter and Become Irresistible

Get ready to attract women effortlessly with great banter. Listen now.

WANT TO TAKE YOUR FLIRTY BANTER TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL? BOOK A FREE
CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:
www.DatingTransformation.com
2025-03-04
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How to Make Bold Moves without Being Creepy: A Top Coach for Women Tells All! (with Evan Marc Katz)

You know you should make moves with women?say the flirtatious thing, go for the kiss. But what if you come off as creepy? So you hold back? and nothing happens. You feel stuck, right? Renowned dating coach for women Evan Marc Katz is here to get you unstuck! Having coached thousands of single women, Evan knows exactly what they want. And today, he?ll tell you how to make the right moves to attract the ideal woman for you.

You?re About to Learn:

02:15: What Women Really Want: Evan Breaks It Down

04:35: How Introverts Can Better Connect with Women

08:12: Feeling Shy on a Date? Try This!

15:58: How to Build Authentic Trust with a Woman You Just Met

16:15: How to Unlock Your ?Masculine Edge? and Make Moves?Without Being Creepy

27:55: The Right Way to Text Women (So They Actually Respond)

33:02: Forget Money and Looks: These Are the 3 Things Women Look For

43:35: The Mindset Shift You Need to Finally Succeed on the Apps

52:11: Evan?s Most Important Advice for Attracting Your Future Girlfriend

Hit play now and start making all the right dating moves.

LEARN HOW EVAN HELPS SMART, SUCCESSFUL WOMEN FIND A GREAT GUY:
https://www.evanmarckatz.com/

LISTEN TO EVAN?S ?LOVE U? PODCAST:
https://www.evanmarckatz.com/the-love-u-podcast

FOLLOW EVAN ON INSTAGRAM @?realevanmarckatzFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-02-27
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Does Love (and Life) Feel Like a Grind? The ?3 Classes of Experience? Will Set You Free

Ever feel like dating?and life?is just a grind? This episode will change how you experience both so you can feel much more fulfilled. Dating coach Connell Barrett introduces the 3 Classes of Human Experience, a powerful self-improvement framework that Connell and his clients use to make dating fun. (What? Dating can be fun? Who knew!) And nothing?s more attractive to women than a guy who actually enjoys life.

You?re About to Learn:

01:10: The Mindset Shift that Transformed Connell?s Entire Life

06:37: The 3 Classes of Human Experience: How to Go from Coping to Thriving

12:05: Why Your Love Life is Stuck in the ?Class 2? Grind?and How to Escape

20:32: The Most Powerful Self-Improvement Shift You Can Achieve Today

29:01: The Key Move that Makes Talking to Women So Much Easier

36:55: The Simple Way to Change Your Whole Life, Not Just Your Love Life

Hit play and start living?and dating?the way you were meant to.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-02-25
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It?s Rom-Complicated! How Nice Guys Can Get the Girl: Lessons from ?Say Anything? (with Hollywood Producer Cristina Nava)

?It?s Rom-Complicated!? returns, helping you find love by watching rom-com movies. This time, dating coach Connell Barrett shares love lessons from the 1989 Cameron Crowe classic ?Say Anything.? He?s joined by special guest Cristina Nava, a Hollywood producer who specializes in making rom-coms! (Her latest movie, the very funny ?Say a Little Prayer,? is now streaming on Amazon Prime and Apple TV.) Can a quirky nice guy like Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) really win over his dream girl, Diane Court (Ione Skye)? Or does it take a boombox, a trench coat, and a questionable lack of boundaries? Let?s break it down.

Connell and Cristina Discuss:

4:12: Why Women WANT to Date Nice Guys Like Lloyd Dobler

5:59: Why ?Say a Little Prayer? is a Great Date Movie

16:30: Cristina Reveals Her Real-Life Rom-Com Moment: Surprise Roses in Eighth Grade

24:53: The Rom-Commies?the Best, Worst, and Stalkiest Moments of ?Say Anything?

31:22: The Best Dating Move from the Movie that Actually Works

36:35: The Worst Dating Advice in the Film?Avoid This!

39:33: The Secret to Lloyd?s Confidence (It?s NOT His Looks)

49:27: What Hasn?t Aged Well: Boomboxes and Boundary Issues

1:14:26: The Film?s Biggest Love Lesson that Women Want You to Know

WATCH ?SAY A LITTLE PRAYER? ON AMAZON PRIME
https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/0OSRUJ1FSZXHSCDGXFZ23PMPUL/ref

FOLLOW THE MOVIE AND CRISTIONA ON INSTAGRAM
@?Sayalittleprayerfilm
@?Iamcristinanava

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-02-20
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My Girlfriend Jess Reveals the #1 Secret to Landing Second Dates! (Most Men Make 3 BIG Mistakes)

So, you finally get a first date with a smart, attractive woman? only for her to say, ?no thanks? to a second. It?s discouraging. Let?s fix that! After last week?s special 4-part Valentine?s Day series on meeting and attracting women IRL, you don?t want to put in all that effort only to hit a first-date roadblock. Connell and his girlfriend, Jess, break down what made their first date a fun, flirty success?and what you can do to get a LOT more second dates. (Originally aired in November.)

In this episode, Connell and Jess discuss:

3:20: The Profile Photos that Made Her Swipe Right

13:05: The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date

18:20: Jess?s Top First-Date Tip

29:00: What to Talk About So You Never Run Out of Things to Say

30:48: How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned

34:15: Jess Called this First Kiss Move ?Suave??You Need to Know It!

37:18: How to Ask Women Out for a Second Date

39:21: Her Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make

45:00: Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic ?Alpha Males?Sick of hearing ?Let?s just be friends??

Learn how to get more second dates, starting now.

BOOK A CONSULTATION CALL TODAY & GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S BESTSELLING DATING GUIDE!

Frustrated with dating? Ready to find an amazing girlfriend? Book a FREE call with Connell to see if his coaching is right for you. If you book your call today, you?ll get a free copy of his No. 1 Amazon bestselling book, ?Dating Sucks but You Don?t.? Spots are limited, and this deal expires today?don?t miss out. Use this link to book your free call now to see if coaching is right for you.

www.datingtransformation.com
2025-02-18
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?Let Her Kick Rocks!??How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

Do women send you mixed signals?and you have no clue what they mean? Get ready for the raw, unfiltered truth about what women really want, from straight- talking dating expert Sabrina Zohar. A social media sensation with over 2 million followers, Sabrina reveals why ?nice guys? lose out, the texting mistakes that get you ghosted, and how to finally land dates with great women on the apps.

Sabrina Will Tell You:

13:33: How to Stop Taking Rejection Personally and Bounce Back Stronger

20:15: The One Texting Mistake that Makes Girls Lose Interest

22:48: How to Message Women the Right Way and Stop Getting Ghosted

31:27: The Profile Photos and Prompts that Get You Matches

33:57: The One Photo You Should NEVER Put on Hinge or Bumble

37:47: Why Women Swipe Left?and How to Get them Swiping Right

44:12: The Approach Fail that Gets You Rejected Every Time

49:36: The WORST Gym Pickup Line Ever?and What to Say Instead

Sabrina?s no-B.S. advice will help you start winning at dating. Listen now!

LEARN MORE ABOUT SABRINA ZOHAR:
http://www.sabrinazohar.com

FOLLOW HER ON INSTAGRAM:
@?TheSabrinaZoharShow

LISTEN TO HER PODCAST, ?THE SABRINA ZOHAR SHOW?
http://www.sabrinazohar.com/podcast

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-02-16
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LIVE Approaches: Hear Me Chat Up Cuties IRL?Listen NOW to Get Numbers and Dates Tonight! (Part 4)

It?s Valentine?s Weekend?get ready to flirt with women and get dates! In the last of a 4-part series about attracting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the final steps in becoming a 1 Percent Man?the rare guy who can confidently approach women without weird pickup lines. You?ll hear ACTUAL AUDIO of Connell meeting and flirting with bright, beautiful women, for an inside look at how simple and powerful it is when you approach with authenticity. Plus, you?ll get great openers for 10 situations, and also learn the 5 biggest approaching mistakes to avoid.

Highlights of the Episode:

03:25: The Night Connell Went from a Panic Attack to Approaching and Attracting Kelly

10:45: How to Become a Confident, Authentic 1 Percent Man

14:05: What to Say to a Group of Women at a Bar to Spark Interest

15:28: What to Say to a Cute Girl at Your Gym to Be Charming, Not Creepy

17:50: What to Say at a Grocery Store to Make Her Laugh

21:00: What to Say in the Elevator to Have a Great Conversation

25:20: The All-Purpose Opener that Works with Women Anywhere

28:33: The 5 Biggest Approaching Fails and How to Fix Them

50:00: EXCLUSIVE! For the First Time Ever, Connell Shares Actual Audio of Him Approaching Women and Getting Numbers and Dates

1:31:27: The One Action to Take Today to Get a Great Girlfriend in 90 Days or Less

Your journey to meeting and attracting wonderful women starts today. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-02-15
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Say This, Get the Date (No Flaking!) How To Never Run Out of Things to Say (Part 3 of 4)

You?re talking to a woman you like?now what? How do you avoid running out of things to say and awkward silences? And how do you ask her out? In Part 3 of this special dating IRL series, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple, 3-step roadmap to keep the conversation flowing, spark attraction, and smoothly get her number. Plus, discover the 7 biggest conversation fails that kill attraction (and how to fix them). And you?ll learn the right way to meet women at the gym, without being ?that guy.?

You?re About to Learn:

2:47: The 3-Step Roadmap to Keep Conversations Flowing and Get the Date

5:37: What to Talk About First After You Approach

8:15: The Magic Word that Makes You More Interesting to Her

12:30: The Exact Way to Ask Her Out

21:51: How to Get Her Phone Number

27:07: The BIG Mistake that Will Get You Ghosted

28:45: The 7 Conversation Fails that Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them

47:10: Why Women Ghost You?and the Simple Move to Fix It

56:54: How to Meet and Charm Women at Your Gym

Listen now to have flirty conversations with women you meet IRL?so you can get dates!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-02-14
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Struggle Talking to Women IRL? My 3 Openers (90% Success Rate!) Fix that Instantly (Part 2 of 4)

You see a woman you?d love to talk to, but your brain locks up. You overthink what to say, and the moment is gone?so is she. In part 2 of this special 4-part series on meeting women IRL, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his foolproof Natural Approaching Method?a simple, tested way to start authentic conversations and almost always get a positive response. And it works 90% of the time, whether you?re at a bar, coffee shop, or the gym.

What You?ll Learn:

3:40: How to Confidently Break the Ice with a 90% Success Rate

6:08: Always Know What to Say with the Natural Approaching Method

15:33: How to Compliment Women with Charm?and What to Avoid

25:51: The Perfect Icebreaker? Just Ask This One Question

35:00: How to Make Your Openers Fun, Flirty, and Effortless

47:48: The Power of Direct Approaching?When and How to Use It

51:27: What to Say When You Approach, Day or Night

1:02:06: The Mindset Shift that Makes Starting Conversations Easy

1:10:01: Your 24-Hour Challenge?Are You Ready to Take Action?

Listen now and start confidently approaching women?with charm, authenticity, and real results!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
2025-02-13
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Special Series! Stop Trying to ?Approach??Do THIS to Meet & Attract Women IRL the Right Way (Part 1 of 4)

You?re tired of the apps, and you?d love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine?s Day here, it?s time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right way?not with weird ?approach tactics? but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful women?anywhere, anytime.

Episode Highlights:

4:25: Why ?Approaching? Feels So Hard and Scary

13:37: Mental Block #1: ?I?m Not Enough? and Why This is Total B.S.

16:34: Mental Block #2: ?She Doesn?t Want Me to Bother Her? and What Women Really Think

17:18: Mental Block #3: ?I Might Creep Her Out? and How This Kills Your Confidence

19:45: Mental Block #4: ?I Don?t Know What to Say? and the Simple Move to Fix This

21:16: Mental Block #5: ?What If I Get Rejected?? and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You

25:33: Breakthrough #1: ?I Am Enough? and the Truth About Attraction

31:45: Breakthrough #2: ?She Wants Me to Talk to Her??What Women Truly Want

38:37: Breakthrough #3: ?Talking to Women Is Attractive? and the ?Aha!? Shift You Need

50:12: Breakthrough #4: ?I Don?t Need the Perfect Line??How to Know What to Say

1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: ?I Cannot Lose??the Win-Win Mindset that Makes You Confident

Listen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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2025-02-12
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Tired of Being Ignored on Dating Apps? Steal My 10 Best Flirty Openers: #1 Works 81% of the Time!

Sick of sending openers that women ignore? Not sure what to write on Hinge, Tinder, or Bumble? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his top 10 best flirty online-dating openers?tested and proven to get responses. You?ll get copy-and-paste openers for every type of woman to get them writing you back and going on dates with you. Plus, Connell reveals his no. 1 opener that works on ANY woman ? and gets him replies 81% of the time!

You?re about to learn:

05:30: Connell?s Lowest Online-Dating Moment

06:45: His Comeback: 3 Great First Dates in 3 Nights?All from the Apps!

09:30: Flirty Opener #10: What to Write? when Her Bio is Empty

12:52: Flirty Opener #9: ?when She Has Lots of Selfies14:31: Flirty Opener #8: ?when She?s into Partying and Socializing

16:25: Flirty Opener #7: ?when She Has a Dog in Her Photos

19:09: Flirty Opener #6: ? when She Has Bold, Flirty Pics (Bikini shots, Cleavage)

23:30: Flirty Opener #5: ?when Her Bio is Witty or Sarcastic

30:01: Flirty Opener #4: ?when She?s Really into Travel

33:40: Flirty Opener #3: ?when She?s an Artsy, Creative Type37:00: Flirty Opener #2: ?when She?s Highly Career-driven

40:03: Flirty Opener #1: The Best Opener that Works On Any Woman 81% of the Time

Listen now and use these flirty openers to get women writing you back? and get dates!


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2025-02-09
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What?s YOUR Dating Superpower? Discover the 7 Attractors that Make Women Want to Date You

You want a bright, beautiful girlfriend, right? But you?re not sure how to connect with women. And maybe the girls you?re attracted to keep picking other guys over you. Not anymore! Because you?re about to learn the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 7 most powerful attractors that make women say, ?I want him!? From confident flirting to texts she can?t resist, you?re about to go from Peter Parker to Spider-Man? no radioactive arachnid required! Plus, you don?t need all 7 superpowers?just unlocking one or two can change everything.

Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You?re About to Learn:

9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere

15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive

21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self

34:14: Unshakable Confidence so ?Rejection? Can?t Hurt You

40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You?ll Go from ?Unread? to Setting Up Dates

51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Feel Flirty and Sexy

59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material

Every dating superpower is here and learnable. What?s yours? Which one will you master? Listen now.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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2025-02-07
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Struggling with Dating Confidence? Try this Mindset Shift to Become Instantly Magnetic to Women (Live Coaching Results)

Do you ever feel like you?re just not what women want? Like you?re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It?s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it?fast! In this special live coaching episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)

You?re about to learn:

2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)

5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self

23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that?s Hurting Your Dating Life

38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good

52:17: Nick?s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women

1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic You

Listen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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2025-02-06
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How to Read Women, Know What to Say, and Get Her Asking YOU Out: Hayley Quinn?s Secrets to Attraction

Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction?and how you can get better results fast. You?ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird ?pickup? moves.

Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:

2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman

4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen

7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection

15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps

21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life

23:45: Hayley?s Top Tips for How to Read Women

36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Make?and How to Fix It

50:27: How Hayley Changes Men?s Lives with In-Person Coaching

Listen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!


TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: http://www.hayleyquinn.com/


CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWM


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http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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2025-02-05
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How to Meet Your Dream Woman?and How Jason Dated a Lakers Cheerleader! (Live Coaching)

You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her? but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skill?live on air. Plus,
hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy ?pickup artist? tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.

You?re about to learn:

8:40: The #1 Shift to Overcome Social Anxiety and Build Dating Momentum

10:30: How Jason Walked Up to a Woman and Made Out with Her in Minutes (with Connell?s In-Person Help)

18:38: 3 Proven Anti-Flaking Techniques to Keep Her Interested

23:35: The 3-Text Rule that Gets Women Replying and Asking YOU Out2

9:23: The Risk-Taking Strategy that Makes You Instantly More Attractive

41:47: The One Thing She Secretly Hopes You?ll Do When You Approach Her

47:53: What to Write when She Doesn?t Reply to Your Text

52:57: The Right Way to Ask Her Out and Not Get Flaked On

This episode is like getting a personal coaching session with Connell?for free. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

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2025-02-04
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Introducing ?It?s Rom-Complicated!? How to Find Love by Watching Rom-Com Movies (Seriously!) Episode 1: ?Groundhog Day?

What if watching so-called ?chick flicks? could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love?what works and what doesn?t?from rom-com movies. Introducing ?It?s Rom-Complicated,? a new series that reveals the dating wisdom hidden in Hollywood?s most beloved comedies. In the first episode, Connell and his special guest?his charming, witty girlfriend Jessamin?analyze ?Groundhog Day,? the 1993 time-loop comedy starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.

Episode Highlights:

4:05: What?s the One Day from Your Life You Would Relive Again and Again?

10:45 How ?Groundhog Day? Helped Connell Escape His Own Dating Time Loop

17:15: The Rom-Commie Awards: The Best and Worst Dating Moves in ?Groundhog Day?

19:46: Why Arrogant Men like Phil Connors (Bill Murray) Make Women Cringe

26:17: The Best Dating Move You Should Absolutely Steal from Phil

27:39: The ?Don?t Do This!? Award: A Dating Mistake to Avoid IRL

31:08: The Creepiest Pickup-Artist Tip Connell Ever Got (And Why It?s So Wrong)

36:20: Bill Murray: Comedic Genius or Total Nightmare on Set? (It?s Complicated?)

44:46: What if ?Groundhog Day? got the Cinemax After Dark Treatment?

52:32: The Truth About What Makes Women ?Chase? Certain Men (It?s NOT Looks or Money)

57:35: The Movie?s Biggest Love Lesson that Every Man Needs to Know

If Phil can escape Punxsutawney, you can break out of your dating rut. Bing! Listen now!

Introducing ?It?s Rom-Complicated!? How to find love by watching?wait! Haven?t we done this before?

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2025-02-03
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?I Went from Zero to 83 Matches in a Week!? The 6 Essential Photos You Need for Dating App Success

Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here?s the problem: Your photos aren?t making the right impression. But there?s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell?s client Ben puts it best: ?I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!? Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left?so you don?t sabotage your own success.

You?re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:

3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The ?Radically Authentic? Portrait to Hook Her Interest

9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The ?Intriguing Photo? that Makes Her Want to Learn About You

12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The ?Aww Factor? Image that Melts Her Heart

15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The ?Man of Action? Shot that Turns Her Head

18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The ?Social Man? Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life

20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The ?Wildcard? Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer

24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!

Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.

WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&t=4s

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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2025-01-30
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?Will You Be My Boyfriend?? The 10 Green Lights that Trigger Instant Attraction in Wonderful Women

How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It?s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 ?green lights.? In this episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They?re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!

You?re about to learn?

03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection

09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence

12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys

16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way

19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry

26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey

30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing

34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way

37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You

40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to You

Listen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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2025-01-28
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Exclusive! How to Win on Dating Apps?Secrets from the Man Who Invented Swiping, Tinder?s Jonathan Badeen

Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder?s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely swipe right on Minnie Mouse.

In this episode, Jonathan and Connell talk about:

2:37: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups

14:01: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping

17:26: Why Authenticity is What Women Want?on Tinder and in Real Life

26:33: The Real Reason You?re Not Getting Good Matches

30:15: The Myth that ?Dating Apps Just Don?t Work?

34:04: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First

35:47: How Shy Guys and ?Nerds? Can Win on the Apps

47:01: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse and Swipe Left on ?The Godfather 3?

Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating?and start landing great Tinder dates today.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
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2025-01-23
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10 Invisible Red Flags that Get You Rejected: Which Mistakes Are YOU Making? Plus 10 Fast Fixes

Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest?and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don?t even realize they?re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.

Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:

04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You?re Not

06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy

09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations

11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life

14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines

16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much?or Not Enough!

18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates

22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun

26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way

29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress Her

Listen now, to turn red flags into green lights?and get a great girlfriend!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

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http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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2025-01-21
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What to Write on Your Bio: 7 Secrets for Way More Matches! Plus: Steal These 10 Funny, Flirty Prompts

Do the apps frustrate you because you just don?t get many good matches? Here?s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let?s fix this fast. In this episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that women
love?and that?s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you?ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling? and swiping right.

You?re about to learn:

02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower

4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches?and How to Fix It

6:00: Don?t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile

12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can?t Resist

15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way

17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First

20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches

23:01: Connell?s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love?Steal Them!

Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

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http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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2025-01-16
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Ask the Dating Coach: ?HELP! She Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep During Sex. What Do I Do??

It?s time to ?Ask the Dating Coach!? as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a ?sheepish? question about talking dirty in bed.

Highlights from this episode:

01:51: Andrew Asks: ?A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do??

03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward

08:57: Zach Asks: ?Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males??

11:25: Why the ?Alpha Male? Is a Total Myth

13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend

24:30: Barry Asks: ?Why Can?t I Get Past the First Date??

25:52: Connell?s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women

31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second Dates

Hit play and start transforming your love life today

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2025-01-14
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Dating Apps Are Broken?Inner Circle is the Fix! Find Love Using this Innovative App (Featuring David Vermeulen)

Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles?it?s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle?s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically?first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.

With Connell and David as your guides, you?ll discover:

4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle

6:38 How Inner Circle?s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles

7:55 Why the Platform?s IRL Events is ?Where the Magic Happens?

10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World

11:25: Connell?s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life

19:29: How ?Tinder is Like McDonald?s,? in David?s View

27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity

30:54: How to Decide if She?s Worth a Second Date

33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women

35:32: David?s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: ?Opposites Don?t Attract?

Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!


LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:
https://about.theinnercircle.co/

CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:
https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/

DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374

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http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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2025-01-09
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Forget Resolutions! Here's Your New Year's REVOLUTION: 5 Game-Changing Dating Strategies to Attract Your Ideal Girlfriend in 2025

The new year is here, and now?s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you?ll find love in 2025. These aren?t flimsy resolutions you?ll abandon by February. They?re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.

Using Connell?s tested moves, you?re about to learn:

01:30: Why Resolutions Fail?and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results

05:45: What Women Really Want?Authenticity!?and How to Give it to Them

14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type

24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence

38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 2025

51:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches

1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great Girlfriend

Your dream girl is waiting?don?t wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!


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2025-01-07
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From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love?and How You Can, Too!

Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn?t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. ?That?s more than I?d had the entire previous year,? he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who?s now his girlfriend. ?I knew she was the one.?

Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life? higher! Connell and Jake discuss:

09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake?s Breakthrough

13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend

16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week

17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out

20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell?s ?80-20? Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women

34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates

40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues

45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy

58:19: Connell?s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake?s decade of loneliness is behind him.

Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!


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2025-01-02
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Which Dating App is Right for YOU? The Top 7 Apps to Swipe Right on Love and Find Your Soulmate

With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it?s hard to know which one is right for you?and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you?re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates? and even find your soulmate!

Here?s what Connell covers in this episode:

1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates

2:45: No. 7: The League?it?s About Quality, Not Quantity

4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Aren?t Hollywood Handsome

7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmony?Which Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?

12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women

15:15: No. 2: Bumble?s Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever

19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is? Hinge! Here?s Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge

22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating Apps

Tune in now to turn your swipes into sparks?and matches into love!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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2024-12-31
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Bummed About NO Good Matches on the Apps? These 15 Quick Fixes Will Turn Your Profile into a Match Magnet (Live Coaching with Zach)

It?s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, ?ho, ho, NO!? It?s getting old, right? In this episode of the ?How to Get a Girlfriend? podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach?a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad?learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.

Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. You?re about to learn:

6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)

8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flaw?and How to Talk about it On Your Profile

14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic ?DILF? Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love

17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile

21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First

23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It

27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps

30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches

32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didn?t Know You Were Making

55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches

1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have Fun

Hit ?play? now and start getting good matches on the apps.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com


Quotes

"Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach

"The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach
2024-12-24
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From Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Tested Approach Moves to Kiss a Total Cutie on New Year?s Eve

Are you facing a lonely New Year?s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball?along with your romantic hopes?dropping. (More like New Year?s ROTTEN Eve?) Guess what: 2024 doesn?t have to end that way! In this episode of the ?How to Get a Girlfriend? podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You?ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love?or at least a sexy make-out. And you?ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.

With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:

1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let?s Vent)

5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety

10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman

12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone

14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women

18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet

20:45: The ?Z Pattern??a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact

22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time

Listen now and make this New Year?s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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Connell@datingtransformation.com


Quotes

"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"

What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett
2024-12-19
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Make Her Your Girlfriend in Just 3 Dates (Seriously!) Live Coaching with Jack

Maybe you?ve been in Jack?s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then?bam! She says, ?I?m just not feeling a connection.? Frustrating? Absolutely. ?It happens a lot, and I don?t know what I?m doing wrong,? Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack?s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack?s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.


Jack?s coaching session with Connell will show you:

6:41 ? Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material

9:33 ? 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates

13:25 ? The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants

17:53 ? Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You

24:19 ? How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates

27:30 ? The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy

41:03 ? How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation

52:49 ? Jack?s Aha Moment: Why He?s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall

57:12 ? The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible

1:01:18 ? How to Give a ?Power Compliment? that Get Women Swooning

1:04:18 ? The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on Dates

Listen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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Quotes

"Recognizing where you?re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"

Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack
2024-12-17
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Stop Settling TODAY! How to Crush Self-Doubt and Attract the Special Woman You Deserve ? Featuring Garrain Jones

Have you ever settled?in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becoming
a bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl?his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. ?To attract a high-value woman,? he says, ?you need to become a high-value man.?


Here?s what you?ll learn in Connell and Garrain?s powerful conversation:

3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom

15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read

21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic ?Alpha Males?

32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Man?s Secret Flirting Weapon?and How to Use It

39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair

40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars

52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date

58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date

60:03 Garrain?s 3-Step Formula for Never Settling Again

It?s time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.


LEARN MORE ABOUT GARRAIN JONES?S INCREDIBLE STORY:
https://www.garrainjones.com/

TO APPLY TO HIS ?ARTIST POWER? PROGRAM:
https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program

READ GARRAIN?S BESTSELLING BOOK, ?CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR LIFE?:
https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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2024-12-13
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Stuck in Your Head at the Bars? How to Confidently Approach and Talk to Women?Even if You?re Shy (Live Coaching with Eric!)

Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You?re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching?and charming?wonderful women.


Here are some highlights from Eric?s coaching session with Connell:

6:45?How to Talk with Women Authentically?Not Like Some Weird Pickup Artist

10:50?Connell?s Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman

11:30?The ?Karaoke Opener,? Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas

19:10?The Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00?How to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches

31:23?The One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction

39:30?What Women REALLY Find Creepy (It?s Not What You Think!)

46:20?3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers

52:01?The Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her

1:03:08?Learn the ?Push-Pull,? the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone

1:09:02?How to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)

1:12:17?The 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches

1:20:00?Why Women LOVE ?Interview Mode?? When You Do it Connell?s Way


Are you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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2024-12-11
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From Dull to Dynamic: How Passion and Authenticity Make You Magnetic to Women, Featuring John R. Miles

Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boring?or worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying, ?Wait, your only hobby is playing video games? Cool, cool... well, I should go now.? Yikes.) Women crave men who live with passion and purpose. In this episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? Connell sits down with bestselling author John R. Miles, host of the top-rated ?Passion Struck? podcast, to explore how finding your passions can transform your love life and bring you more fulfillment as a man.


Here?s what you?ll learn in this episode:

2:30 The Life-Changing Power of Facing Your Fear

12:05 Why Self-Doubt is Your True Enemy?and How to Build Self-Worth

17:32 How to Get Unstuck and Start Living a Passionate Life

20:21 The Secret to Turning Powerful New Behaviors into Daily Habits

21:03 How to Talk to Women with Passion on Dates?and Why They Love It

28:15 How John?s Improv Comedy Experience Helped Him Defeat Fear

33:53 The Healing Power of Gratitude: Lessons from Losing a Loved One

40:47 How to Show a Woman You?re Dating that She Truly Matters

42:22 The Right Way to Talk to Women About Your Career

46:52 A Fun Improv Game You Can Play to Get Women Laughing


Listen now and take your love life from dull to dynamic?because you want to talk to women about much more than Minecraft.


TO LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHN AND HIS COACHING:
www.johnrmiles.com/


TO GET JOHN?S BESTSELLING BOOK ?PASSION STRUCK?:
https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Struck-Powerful-Principles-Intentional-
ebook/dp/B0CGS248NR/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1707604358&sr=1-1


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http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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Connell@datingtransformation.com


Quotes

"Treat every practice like a race; overcome the fear of the starting line through preparation." - John R. Miles

"Convey your self-value and power with confidence; it's the superpower that strengthens every relationship." - John R. Miles
2024-12-07
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1,000 First Dates Later: My Top 7 Easy Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Get Her Asking You for Date No. 2

Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you?re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You?ve heard it before: ?I didn?t feel a connection, but we can be friends.? Frustrating, right? Let?s change that! In this episode of ?How to Get a Girlfriend,? Connell?who?s been on over 1,000 first dates?shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.


Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:

4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)

11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word

20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)

25:25 ? Connell?s 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common

30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Don?t Do This!) and the RIGHT Way

36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe

38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected

44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connell?s Favorite First-Date Game: ?5 Questions,? to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with You

Stop hearing ?Let?s just be friends? and start hearing ?Let?s go out again.? Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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2024-12-04
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Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What?s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of ?The Noble Art of Seduction,? Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. ?Guys don?t want to hear bulls*it,? she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. ?They want to hear the raw truth that gets results.?

You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:

(2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients

(10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her ?Double-Sided Compliment?

(13:12) ?The Shadow,? the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive

(16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic

(18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You

(24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career? and the Wrong Way

(25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women

(28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are ?Absolutely Dying? for Men like You to Approach Them

(32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You

Are you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!


Featured Guest

Kezia Noble, The World?s Leading Female Dating and Attraction Expert

TO LEARN ABOUT KEZIA?S 1-1 COACHING PROGRAMS
www.kezia-noble.com/

VISIT KEZIA?S YOUTUBE CHANNEL
http://www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert

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FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO DISCUSS COACHING
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


FOR FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH
http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30


Quotes

"There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble

"It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble
2024-11-29
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Live Coaching Session: Connell?s Client Matt Conquers His Fear of Approaching?and Gets 2 Phone Numbers!

Do you see women you?d love to talk to, but you?re just not sure what to say?and you?re afraid you?ll get rejected? You?re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling ?approach anxiety.? He wasn?t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls ?outside the box,? a newly confident Matt immediately went out and got two phone numbers from women he approached.


Here are some highlights from the coaching session with Connell that led to Matt?s breakthrough:

5:45 Matt Talks about his Struggles Talking to Women He Sees In Bars

8:31 Connell Identifies the ?Invisible Wall? that Stops Matt from Approaching

14:21 Matt Has a Major Shift About His Fear of Rejection

17:15 Why Approaching Large Groups Helps Create MORE Attraction with Women

20:32 Connell Shares ?the Biggest Secret? to Confidently Approaching

23:36 Connell Tells Matt What to Say when Talking to Tall Women

26:01 Why Authenticity and Vulnerability is So Effective in Dating

37:20 How to Be Playful with Women, and Not Boring

42:30 Connell Shares His Simple Texting Framework

46:37 A Simple Move that Keeps Guys from Getting Ghosted

53:28 Matt learns the RIGHT Way to Confirm a Date, and the WRONG Way

58:21 The Hinge Prompt that?s CRUSHING for Connell and His Clients

After their session, Matt went out and got two phone number from two cute girls?the kinds of women he?d been too anxious to approach. Do you want the same kind of success? Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL?S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T?? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE ?FREE BOOK? IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU?LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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2024-11-27
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How to Read Women & Make Deep Connections: Dating Influencer Lindsey Metselaar on What Women Want (Encore Episode)

Do women confuse you? Would you like to get better at connecting on and off the apps, but you struggle to read women? In today?s episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes a very special guest: Instagram influencer and dating expert Lindsey Metselaar, host of the wildly popular dating podcast We Met At Acme. Once a single woman herself, Lindsey is here to help you read women on dates, on the apps, and when you want to approach.


In their fun, lively conversation, Connell and Lindsey discuss:

(8:47) How Connell Went from Paralyzing Approach Anxiety to Confidently Meeting Women IRL

(13:37) How to Compliment Women with Authentic Charm, and Zero Creepiness

(20:00) How Lindsey?s Podcast, We Met At Acme, Helps Millennials Improve their Love Lives

(24:00) Why A Woman You Like Suddenly Goes Quiet

(29:50) How to Tell if She?s into You

(36:07) Why Women are Drawn to Vulnerable, Authentic Men

(48:07) How to Flirt with Women without Being Weird

(52:29) First Date Topics to Talk About?and NOT to Talk About

(53:33) The Charming Way Women Want You to Approach Them

(56:52) Why Humor is More Attractive than Good Looks

(59:36) Women HATE HATE HATE When Guys Do THIS!

(1:01:44) Lindsey?s Top 4 Dating Tips You Need to Know


Are you ready to stop being confused by women, and start understanding how to read and connect with them? Listen now!


READ LINDSEY?S SUBSTACK
https://wemetatacme.substack.com/


CHECK OUT HER BINGE-WORTHY DATING PODCAST
We Met At Acme


GO TO HER WEBSITE TO LEARN ABOUT LINDSEY?S LIVE SHOWS
http://www.wemetatacme.com


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO TALK ABOUT 1-1 COACHING
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH
http://www.datingtransformation.com/flirty30
2024-11-24
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Bestselling Author Dr. Robert Glover on How to Confidently Meet Women without Being Too Nice (Encore Episode)

In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, ?No More Nice Guy,? is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida?s ?The Way of the Superior Man? and Brene Brown?s ?Daring Greatly.?

In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover?author of ?The Dating Essentials for Men??will discuss:

(5:03) How Connell?s Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever

(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women

(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why ?Nice Guy Syndrome? Is Hurting Your Love Life

(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life

(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem

(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.

(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little ?Caveman? in the Guy She Dates

(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole

(50:22) Dr. Glover?s Formula to Be a Man of ?Loving Dominance?

(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You

(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women

(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman?s Phone Number

(1:09:45) Dr. Glover?s Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend Zone


Are you ready to stop being ?Mr. Nice Guy? and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!


TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER?S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, ?DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN?
http://www.drglover.com


FOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/X
http://www.twitter.com/dr_r_glover


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
2024-11-23
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My Girlfriend Tells All! How We Connected on Our First Date (Featuring My Amazing Partner Jessamin) Part 5 of 5

If you don?t know what to talk about or how to flirt on first dates, this is the episode for you. In part 5 of this week-long series on how to get a girlfriend, host and dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his romantic partner Jessamin. The couple breaks down the fun, connected first date that put them on the path to love. What do women from want on dates? Jessamin will tell you!


In this episode, Connell and Jessamin will discuss:

(3:20) The Photos on His Profile that Made Her Swipe Right

(3:55) The Kinds of Photos NOT to Use

(13:05) The Right Way to Text a Woman Before a First Date

(15:00) How to Write Light, Flirty Messages to Keep from Getting Ghosted

(18:20) Jessamin?s Top First-Date Tip

(26:30) How to Make a Great First Impression

(29:00) What to Talk About to Never Run out of Things to Say

(30:48) How to Avoid Interview Mode and Not Get Friend-Zoned

(34:15) The Simple Way Connell Went in for the First Kiss

(37:18) How to Ask Her Out for a Second Date

(39:21) Jessamin?s Top 3 First-Date Mistakes that Guys Make

(45:00) Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Toxic ?Alpha Males?

Are you ready to stop hearing ?Let?s be friends? and start getting second dates? Listen now.


Quotes

"Seize your first impression in online dating?it's your chance to stand out from the start." - Jessamin

"Great conversations flow when your humor and interests align." - Jessamin


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: https://datingtransformation.com/contact/


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH: https://datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30/

2024-11-22
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The New Way to Confidently Approach and Connect with Women (Part 4 of 5)

Odds are, you see women you?d love to meet at bars, grocery stores or the gym, but you never approach them. Fear holds you back. You don?t know what to say, and you don?t want to seem creepy. It?s frustrating? but fixable! In this episode, host Connell Barrett?who has approached thousands of women in his 12 years as a dating coach?shares a new way to confidently meet women IRL. His Authentic Approach Technique will teach you exactly what to say to women, so you can get numbers and dates and find an incredible girlfriend. And you?ll talk to women with charm and authenticity, NOT with sketchy pickup tricks.


In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:


(2:35) The 3 Simple Ways to Approach Women Almost Anywhere

(6:30) Why Women Hate Scripted ?PUA? Tactics

(7:15) Why Connell?s Authentic Approach Technique is Basically Rejection-Proof

(8:05) The Night Connell Got 3 Numbers from 3 Wonderful Women

(11:50) The Approaching Mistake that Gets You In Your Head

(12:50) How to Meet Women Using a Power Compliment

(16:42) The Mindset Shift that Destroys Approach Anxiety

(19:42) How to Meet Women by Asking the Perfect Question

(22:30) A Great Approach Opener to Use at the Gym

(27:53) How to Meet Women with A Funny, Flirty Icebreaker

(36:30) How to Be Authentically Attractive, NOT Creepy

(41:15) How Connell?s Client Taylor Approached and Made Out with a Woman in Under 10 Minutes

(43:49) Your Approach Mission for this Episode


Are you ready to confidently meet women and get numbers and dates? Listen now!


Quotes

"Be the charming, authentic man who confidently sparks conversations anywhere. Your natural charm will have her telling her friends." - Connell Barnett

"Use a genuine compliment, relevant question, or unique observation to initiate conversations." - Connell Barnett


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
2024-11-21
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How to Write Irresistible Openers on the Apps + The Easy Way to Text and Get Dates (Part 3 of 5)

Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week?s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host?dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett?teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you?ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you?ll do all of this with authentic charm?no weird pickup tricks needed.


In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:

(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps

(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send

(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love

(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies

(12:57) The BIG Mistake You?re Making in the Apps

(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages

(15:30) How to Write the ?Opposites Attract? Opener

(17:58) How to Write the ?Compliment + Nickname? Opener

(20:56) How to Write the ?Pop Quiz? Opener

(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love

(29:58) Connell?s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates

(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy

(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out

(40:32) Why Connell?s New ?Surprisingly Sexy? Opener Works with ANY Woman

(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode


Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!


Quotes

"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett

"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
2024-11-20
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You?re Flirting Wrong: The New Way to Talk to Women + 5 Flirting Fails to Avoid (Part 2 of 5)

Chances are, you struggle with flirting. You?re not sure how to talk to women, and you run out of things to say. It hurts your confidence and your dating results. But what if you knew exactly how to talk to girls in a way they love, leading to great dates and deep connections? In part 2 of his 5-part series to help you get you a great girlfriend, dating coach Connell Barrett teaches you a new way to flirt. You?re about to harness the power of Man-to-Woman Communication, a simple way to confidently talk to women with charm and authenticity.


In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will discuss:

(4:58) The ?Aha!? Moment when he Realized the Power of Man-to-Woman Communication

(13:08) The Reason You Get Stuck in the Friend Zone

(14:28) The 3 Pillars of Man-to-Woman Communication

(16:20) How to Never Run out of Things to Say

(18:30) The ?80-20 Rule? to Help You Flirt with Genuine Charm, Not Manipulative Tactics

(20:21) 10 Tested Flirting Moves Connell and His Clients Use

(22:40) How to Make Her Swoon: the Right Way to Give a Compliment

(29:37) The Difference Between Flirting (Good!) and Fawning (Bad!)

(34:00) The Flirty Text Message that Helped Connell Charm His Future Girlfriend

(37:11) The Right Way to Touch a Woman on First Dates? and the WRONG Way

(41:40) The Most Potent Weapon in Your Dating Arsenal

(43:15) 5 Flirting Fails You Must Avoid

(49:20) 3 Back-pocket Questions to Assure You?ll Never Run Out of Things to Say


Are you ready to stop struggling when talking to women and start flirting with charm and authenticity? Learn the art of Man-to-Woman Communication. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

Quotes

"Man-to-woman communication is like turbocharged flirting?it simplifies and authenticates romantic connections." - Connell Barnett

"I think the most powerful tool you can bring to your dating life is playfulness." - Connell Barnett
2024-11-19
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How to Attract Your Dream Girlfriend by Dating with Radical Authenticity?Part 1 of a Special Series

Do you want a great relationship with a wonderful woman, but you struggle with flirting and dating? It can make you feel frustrated, lonely and low in confidence. Let?s change that! Introducing the new How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, which launches this week with a 5-part series about how to attract your soulmate. In this first episode, dating coach and author Connell Barrett shares his groundbreaking dating philosophy?Radical Authenticity?to help you confidently flirt, get dates, and find love. Your dream girlfriend is out there, and she wants to meet the authentic you. Listen now!


In this episode, Connell will tell you:

(4:45) What Women REALLY Want in Men

(6:00) The Moment He Learned How to Approach and Attract Women

(10:30) How Connell ?Stole? His Girl Away from 3 Charismatic Wall Street Bros

(12:45) How He Moved in for the First Kiss

(16:25) Why Radical Authenticity Is So Powerful to Women

(20:04) The Real Reason Men Struggle with Low Confidence

(24:24) Jaw-Dropping Success Story: How Connell?s Client Nick Escaped the Friend Zone

(30:30) How Connell Bounced Back After His Wife Left Him

(40:45) The Secret that Made Women Start Chasing Connell

(44:30) The 5 Benefits of Dating with Radical Authenticity

(52:00) The 5 Pillars of Radical Authenticity

(56:00) The 2 Missions Connell Wants You Do To Today

(59:25) How to Get Your Free Copy of His No. 1 Bestselling Book, ?Dating Sucks but You Don?t?


Quotes

"Authenticity unlocks a paradox: Embrace your worth, speak freely, and let the right words effortlessly flow." - Connell Barnett

"Embrace fear, take courageous actions, especially when approaching women. Courage is the antidote to fear in life." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation 
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO ?THE FLIRTY 30,? 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
2024-11-18
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How to Know Exactly What to Say When You Approach? & NEVER Get Rejected

So you want to talk to women you notice IRL?in bars, coffee shops, at the gym?but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host?dating coach Connell Barrett?shares his 3-step approaching framework so you?ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell?s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don?t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


Quotes

"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett

"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm
04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework
07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks
10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth
16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context
17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment
21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women
22:11 - Outro
2024-10-24
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3 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid! Plus: Steal the Flirty, 12-Word Opener that Gets Women Replying

Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge? and don?t know why? It?s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host?dating coach Connell Barrett?identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Quotes

"Engage women with fun, flirty questions?not just logic and information?to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett

"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation

Website:https://datingtransformation.com

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers
03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions
09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights
10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits
15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters
17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats
24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener
28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions
30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro
2024-10-21
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The 7 Deadly Dating Myths to Avoid

Do you feel like you?re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women? and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL?S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, ?DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON?T,? YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL?S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett

"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations
03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection
05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating
08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney
13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success
15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women
17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial
22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities
23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time
27:07 - Outro
2024-09-23
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