The best of both worlds? One new baby and two religions. Mum and dad are trying to figure it out. How will they bring up their daughter? Episode 8 letter writer: Joe Please send Namulanta your letter. Go to www.bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on ?Send us your letter?. #DearDaughter

Matchmakers, a fake engagement ring and love; welcome to the marriage game. ?They?ll wonder, are you good enough for their son? The question is, are they good enough for you?? Episode 7 letter writer: Nashra Please send us your letter. Go to www.bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on ?Send us your letter?. #DearDaughter

My mum?s letter to me! Namulanta?s own mum, Dorcas, is back on the show with a letter to share. She talks with her daughter about self-preservation, mum-guilt and life in colonial, pre-independent Kenya. Episode 6 letter writer: Dorcas Inspired by Dorcas? Please send us your letter. Go to bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on ?Send us your letters?. #DearDaughter

An escape by boat, pirates, prejudice and a ?strength that lies within?. Charlene?s family was among the Vietnamese ?boat people?, fleeing in search of a ?better life?. Charlene fears her daughter might encounter similar racism to what she faced. She hopes she?ll be inspired by the stories of the strong women in her family, like Pah Pah and Ma Ma. Episode 5 letter writer: Charlene Please send us your letter. Go to bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on 'Send us your letters'. #DearDaughter

Robin tries out blue acrylic fingernails. He advises his daughter to ?always trust your instincts? and to ?be prepared for anything?. He makes self-defence videos for women using skills he learnt in the military. Episode 4 letter writer: Robin. Please send us your letter. Go to bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on 'Send us your letters'. #DearDaughter

Under pressure to tie the knot? Elle says, ?Everyone is praying for me to get married.? She grew up thinking marriage was essential, but as she?s grown older, she?s changed her mind. Episode 3 letter writer: Elle. Please send us your letter. Go to bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on 'Send us your letters'. #DearDaughter

Underwear, razors and teenage angst. The perils of trying to fit in and be noticed. It?s a tale of accidental wedgies, stealing (sort of) from dad and attempting to impress the boys. Episode 2 letter writers: Naliaka and Emma. Please send us your letter. Go to bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on ?Send us your letters?. #DearDaughter

Three mums, new and old letters - the beginning of a handbook to life. ?When I go, my memory is going to go with me?, so it?s time to start writing. Episode 1 letter writers: Namulanta and Lisa. Plus, meet Dorcas. This podcast needs you and your letters. Go to bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter and click on ?Send us your letters?. #DearDaughter

Funny, heart-breaking, insightful and ultimately honest ? help Namulanta create a handbook to life. She won the BBC?s International Podcast Competition 2021 and wants to hear your letters. Get in touch at www.bbcworldservice.com/deardaughter Begins on 10 December 2021 #DearDaughter