This week your girlies are back with their usual chaos!

We are pondering how do you talk to kids about why some people pee standing up and others don't, testing their global knowledge on world flags, Becky unveils an exciting new business chapter and we talk about how to talk to your friends about their kids' behavior.

This is episode is half cozy, half chaos and we wouldn't want it any other way!

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Kail and Becky are coming at you live from Dover, Delaware with peak Karma & Chaos energy with Red Rising tees, TikTok Shop temptations, and a full-blown ?Are You Smarter Than a Fifth Grader?? showdown that proves? math is personal and fractions are a hate crime.

Between impulse buys, Peloton struggles, and the very real ?when do parents even have time to work out?? debate, the girls get into what 2026 boundaries are actually going to look like, plus a surprisingly sweet moment where they talk about what they?d miss most about each other. There?s a pop culture lightning round, chaotic confidence, and just enough yapping to make you feel like you?re in the room with them.

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Kail and Becky are back with their energy at an all-time high, complete with Dave?s Hot Chicken cravings, an outfit that has everyone spiraling, and the kind of random conversation whiplash that you've come to know and love.

In this episode, they get into BookTok habits, nostalgia over digital cameras and MySpace-era chaos, and a deeper question about memory, identity, and who really knows you best. They also touch on parenting perspective shifts, friendship effort, and why 2026 is about getting more intentional-especially when it comes to creative projects and choosing what deserves your time.

Plus: a Karma or Chaos submission that hits a little too close to home?when a ?best friend? can?t let you win without making it about them, and what it really means to outgrow someone.

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Karma & Chaos is back, baby and 2026 is already unhinged. Kail and Becky are finally recording in person (a 2026 priority) and catching up on everything they?ve been saving for the mic: the return of ?controversial Kail,? co-parenting chaos, and what happens when the internet is already talking?

Plus, the girls tease big travel plans, things get unexpectedly soft about parenting moments that hit you right in the chest, and spiral into their favorite kind of nonsense from BookTok to the wild world of side hustles that absolutely did not need to exist (but here we are).

And of course, it?s not an episode without an Is It Karma or Is It Chaos? This week?s submission: would you date a grown man who shares his location with his mom? and she actually uses it?

Hit play for laughs, real-life updates, and the kind of chaos that feels like group chat energy in podcast form.

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Kail and Becky kick off Karma & Chaos what they're hoping for the year to come then the ladies recap the Dream Drive, a Bucks County event supporting foster kids with a Christmas breakfast, Santa photos, and sponsored wish lists plus how Lux and Elliot helped and what it teaches kids about empathy and privilege. Then they dive into the money conversations everyone has opinions on: living paycheck to paycheck, spending habits, saving vs. investing, setting kids up financially, and where to draw the line when lending out cash.

The girls close out the episode with an Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos about dad getting the kids riled up before bed.

In true karma and chaos fashion there is a conversation for everyone, from executing plans to saving for them we have it all for you this week!

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Kail and Becky are back for a classic ?we?re just yapping? episode that turns into everything from book talk and the great ?DNF? debate, to a full breakdown of Kail?s new content house (aka the work HQ + guest crash pad).

They dig into listener questions with real-life honesty: how to be a calmer mom when you?re overstimulated, why Kail says yes to her kids? activities. Then the conversation takes a deeper turn into grief during the holidays, balancing sadness with joy, and protecting your peace when family relationships are complicated.

Plus: dream vacations , 2026 goals, and one listener email that has everyone emotional because Derek from is out here raising the bar for husbands everywhere.

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spent together. With Becky stepping into mommy duties and Kail expanding her businesses and her driveway there is a ton to catch up on. This week the ladies are joined by a live studio audience making for a really chaotic and fun time. There is plenty of chaos in this episode!

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Coming to your from Kail's office aka Kail's house, meaning anything can happen! Becky and Kail talk about celebrating Christmas and how it's evolved (or not) throughout the years. Becky talks about meeting Elijah for the first time and reuniting with Kail's kids.

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Snow day?s got nothing on this episode. Kail and Becky kick off this week's episode with real-life mom chaos: sleep deprivation, jet-lagged babies, fever dreams that feel way too real, and the whiplash of going from ?easy baby? to ?I?m about to lose my mind.? From there, they get honest about how parenthood can shift friendships, identity, and even your relationship with your partner; these are the parts people don?t always say out loud, especially during the holidays.

They also dive into building traditions, navigating the guilt of not showing up the same way for friends once kids enter the picture, and why the ?village? feels harder to find than ever.

To wrap it up, Kail and Becky tackle a wild ?Karma or Chaos? submission from a veterinary nurse facing a moral dilemma: protect a brand-new business or report a vet for questionable (and potentially illegal) practices. It?s messy, funny, empathetic, and very Karma and Chaos.

Listen now for relatable motherhood talk, unfiltered friendship conversations, and a moral debate that?ll have you yelling at your speaker.

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It?s been way too long, so Kail and Becky finally sit down for a real catch-up and nothing is off limits. From seasonal depression and holiday heaviness to Kail?s entire house getting hit with influenza A, the girls get honest about what this time of year actually feels like behind the highlight reels.

Kail opens up about the emotional (and literal) weight of five-hour custody drives, missing kid events, and trying to hold it all together with seven kids and nonstop sports. Becky shares updates on baby Becks Florida travels, her changing relationship with motherhood, and why Miss Rachel absolutely counts as survival.

The conversation spirals (in the best way) into audiobook commitments, Barnes & Noble rebrands, kid milestones, performative good deeds, fake influencers, childhood letters to soldiers, and reminiscing on Becky's Uber days?

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It?s chaotic. It?s comforting. It?s exactly why you?re here.

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Kail and Becky are joined by Enrique, the TikTok creator who shot his shot to get on the pod. He shares how he accidentally built a following by covering online drama and Teen Mom lore, and what it?s like feeling ?raised by MTV.?

Kail opens up about how she really got cast on 16 & Pregnant, what was actually scripted vs. recreated, the truth about those voiceovers and reunions, and how reality TV impacted her mental health and friendships. Becky gives her honest take on watching Kail grow from peak chaos into a business-minded mom, while still staying the same unfiltered friend.

From ranking Kail?s baby dads, to dog-ashes-as-grandma-ashes karma, and a chaotic Teen Mom RV road trip pitch, this episode is equal parts behind-the-scenes tea, emotional honesty, and pure unhinged group chat energy.

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ENCORE: In the premiere episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into the ups and downs of their long-time friendship and discuss what they learned after years apart. Reflecting on the past five years, they address rumors (are they in love with each other?), clarify the original timing for their podcast's launch, and share a heartfelt message about their vision for the show.

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Kail and Becky kick off this episode of Karma and Chaos with late-start banter that turns into something real: food insecurity, SNAP benefits, and how Kail is stocking her Delaware egg stand with pantry staples so local families don?t go hungry. From there, the chaos takes over with Kail?s deep dive into the mob and space conspiracies. The girls wrap the episode with an ?Is it Karma or is it Chaos?? listener story about divorced parents possibly getting back together (and why it?s never the kid?s fault).

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This week the girls are spiraling through: kid eczema (gut talk, steroid drama, mom guilt), sports-mom sidelines when you don?t know the plays (but you are the loudest), and a Louvre heist hot take no one asked for. We debrief Verity, argue about waking sleeping babies, and settle the eternal debates: is sharing toothbrushes disgusting or a part of being in a comitted relationship?

The episode closes with an Is It Karma or Is It Chaos? where a listener is worried about karma after potential infidelity?

It?s cozy. It?s unhinged. It?s home. It's the chaos you know and love.

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It?s a cozy-chaotic catch-up with Kail and Becky coffee in hand, baby cameos, and a big question: is college still worth it?

They unpack college vs. trade routes, why study abroad can be life-changing and what queer-teen safety looks like at sleepovers. They dig into student-athlete scholarship politics, current reads , boundaries with draining friends, budgeting wins plus a listener letter you don?t want to miss.

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Kail and Becky are back with a cozy dose of chaos. From spontaneous game-night adventures to gratitude check-ins that get real, they open up about parenthood, partnership, and finding peace in the mess. There?s laughter, a little online drama, and one spicy ?Karma or Chaos? confession you don?t want to miss.

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This week Kail & Becky are catching you up on all the goings on! Becky updates us on how she's feeling and she is determined to keep her eyes dry this episode! Kail chats with us about some lip updates and shares why AI is really getting scarier. Of course there is always some Karma and some Chaos with your submissions!

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TW: This episode has mentions of miscarriages.

On this week's episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky are back with some sad updates. The ladies come together to offer perspective and support to one another through the challenging times they are each facing. Later in the episode the ladies answer some hard hitting questions like would you let your child skip out on a scholarship for love? And as always there's a dash of Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos with your submissions!

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This week Kail and Becky are coming in HOT with the chaos and maybe some crying. Things may sound a little different since we are mixing things up and recording in a new setting. The ladies show a new side of their relationship this week; their sisterly dynamic sometimes gets a little feisty like when they discuss if matcha tastes like dirt, does Becky have street smarts and of course so much more.

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Kail flies solo(?kind of) with Kristen on moral-support duty after a chaotic morning laptop saga?and it only gets realer from there. She opens up about handling internet comments, limiting the scroll, and why overspending spirals hit hard.

Plus: sports updates for all the kids, Valley starting gymnastics, the hilarious underwear war, and a new round of ?Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?? From chaotic Target runs to group-chat fails, this episode is equal parts raw, funny, and relatable.

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Kail and Becky are back catching up on everything: Kail?s emotional trip to Texas to reconnect with her dad (and what she learned about old family stories), Becky?s big auntie news, and how becoming ?the plug? for comfort buys is a real dopamine sport. Trigger note: brief discussion of suicidal ideation and mental health.

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This week Kail and Becky are covering it all in true Chaos fashion. They hit on topics ranging from a relationship would you rather, TT group chats gone wrong, AI mishaps and so much more! This week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos involve a funeral crasher.....tune in for all the chaos you know and love.

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Kail is back for an unfiltered catch-up that has everything: plastic-surgery recovery real talk, therapy takeaways, kindergarten jitters, and the chaotic debate over whether 47 minutes of attention a day is enough. Kail shares what?s helping with swelling, inflammation, and confidence post-op. We also touch on vitamin K for newborns (do your research!) and why financial literacy matters when life gets? extra. An episode with all the chaos you know and love!

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This week Kail and Becky are reading your comments and some are just plain diabolical. The ladies are also celebrating Becky's recent credit milestone! This week's Is It Karma or Is It Chaos submission leads the ladies to wonder; is it ever okay to judge a mom?

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This week while Kail is healing up Becky is joined by Ty of Cate & Ty Break It Down! They discuss all things parenting from the unique ways families are created, to how parenting can effect your relationship and so much more! Tune in for a heartfelt episode with tons of insight!

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On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky brings on Alessandra while Kail recovers from surgery. They get real about IVF, newborn life, and the messy beauty of building a chosen family. Becky shares the emotional moment baby Bex met his donor plus the challenges of postpartum shifts, parenting in public, and grieving your old life while embracing the new.

From fertility journeys to the chaos of children?s books, this episode is all about love, family, and finding your community; no matter how unconventional it looks.

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This week Kail and Becky talk about Salem getaway, newborn updates with Becks, a shocking hernia misdiagnosis, bike-riding mishaps, fertility journeys, and navigating grief over past relationships. Expect unfiltered laughs, heartfelt moments, and a dash of chaos.

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This week Kail and Becky are catching each other up and us. The ladies discuss everything from managing expectations, to financial literacy and how much they are both terrified of Chat GPT but use it frequently.

In this week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos a friend's horrific comment has Kail and Becky spiraling and wondering would you wait for your friend to get pregnant?

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In this emotional episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail shares the news sparking a raw conversation about abandonment, closure, and complicated family ties. She and Becky explore what it means to seek answers from someone who may never give them and whether showing up is healing or harmful.

Plus, they touch on elopement guest list drama, the Coldplay cheating scandal, and a ?Karma or Chaos? bake sale takedown you won?t forget.

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In one of the rawest Karma and Chaos episodes yet, Becky opens up about becoming a mom as a non-birthing parent. From the emotional intensity of watching Leah give birth to grappling with unexpected feelings of disconnection, identity shifts, and grief, Becky shares it all; tears, laughs, and a whole lot of honesty.

Kail and Becky also talk about how nobody prepares you for five outfit changes a day, the first tar poop and more. If you?ve ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or not instantly bonded as a parent , this one?s for you.

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In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they?re already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them.

Send your Karma or Chaos stories to [email protected]

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This week gets real. Leah - Becky's wife is dilated - contractions are happening, and somehow we still find time to talk nipple piercings, donor siblings, and whether it?s weird to donate sperm to a lesbian couple you know in real life. Plus, we unpack the parts of grief no one talks about, why breastfeeding broke us, and how monkeys might just be avoiding taxes.

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ENCORE: we are running back one of your favorite episodes! (This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss finances in a relationship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about whether or not college is necessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know)

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Kail and Becky are back with hummingbird drama, bisexual awakenings, and a chaotic Pride Month breakdown. They weigh in on Fletcher?s controversial switch-up, the double standards working moms face, and whether bringing a third into your marriage is karma or chaos. From Twitch debates and poly relationships to parenting realness and queer identity, this episode is chaotic...of course.

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This week on Karma and Chaos, labor is looming, crackers are criminal, and someone might be getting a bat tattoo.

Things take a turn (as they always do) when a conversation about induction leads to imaginary attic pets, religious trauma, and why giving a queer couple a prayer book could be a little upsetting. The girls also unpack internalized homophobia, breaking generational cycles, and why Pride is about way more than parades; it?s about being loud, being seen, and knowing who you are.

And don?t worry, we?ve got an Is It Karma or is it Chaos submission that includes some FBI-level iPad snooping, unsolicited screaming, and a messy friendship implosion over a rekindled marriage. Spoiler: someone got dumped, and someone got the last laugh.

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In this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work.

They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect unexpected tangents?like feet pic requests, zodiac placements, period stories, and whether eating a gallon of butter is ever the right choice. This one?s unhinged in the best way.

Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a reminder to be kind, respectful, and maybe? keep your feet to yourself.

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On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation for queer youth. Kail opens up about therapy breakthroughs, the emotional fallout of betrayal, and how one teacher changed the trajectory of her life. The duo also tackles a jaw-dropping ?Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?? submission involving cheating, steroids, and a long-kept secret. From post-nut clarity to lesbian merch and Pride prep, this episode is raw, funny, emotional and as always absolutely unfiltered.

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From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters, and finding beauty in raw, real stories; including grief, NICU journeys, and eating disorders.

The two also dive into a listener-submitted ?Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?? about a baby daddy?s ex-wife making TikToks at a wedding chaotic or just content creation?

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Everyday Dose: Get 45% off your first subscription order of 30-servings of Coffee+ or Bold+ You?ll also receive a starter kit with over $100 in free gifts including a rechargeable frother and gunmetal serving spoon by going to everydaydose.com/KARMA or entering KARMA at checkout. You?ll also get FREE gifts throughout the year!

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In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky dive into everything from sleep paralysis and period drama to botched home renovations and parenting fails. Kail reveals her upcoming facelift plans and opens up about frustrations with contractor scams, while Becky shares an unfiltered update on her IVF journey and unexpected health concerns. The duo also debates car seat safety, high chair habits, baby bibs, and why you should never underestimate neck cheese. Plus, they brainstorm a heartfelt new business idea, talk facelifts vs. genetics, and end on a laugh-out-loud Karma or Chaos listener submission that involves some truly wild bathroom drama.

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It?s a full circle moment on Karma and Chaos as Kail and Becky finally reconnect after weeks of life doing the absolute most. From baby showers and birthdays to therapy breakthroughs and botox, this episode has everything. Kail opens up about postpartum friendship shifts, feeling overwhelmed hosting her baby shower, and how raising a kid with her sister feels surreal. Becky dives into what it means to love someone who isn?t a good partner, the emotional toll of being the ?energy suck,? and the real talk around step-parenting struggles. Plus, they break down the pros and cons of homeschooling, whether people know how miserable they are, and yes; how many chuggas come before choo-choo. As always, it?s a little bit of chaos and a whole lot of heart.

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Becky?s in town and chaos ensues; in the camper, at the mall, and on the Harley. From prom suit adventures with Isaac and a Cheesecake Factory feast, to biker gang names, nesting mode, and conversations about love, loss, and legacies?this episode is peak Karma & Chaos. Plus, the duo gets personal about relationships, parenting styles, baby prep, digital memories, and their thoughts on saying ?I?m proud of you.? If you?re here for the laughs, feels, and unfiltered friendship, you?re in the right place.

The new season of For The Hayter is out now! Subscribe to listen!

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In this chaotic and hilarious episode, Kail and Becky dive into wild listener questions, deep confessions, and totally unhinged scenarios. From debating if bald people need hairnets at restaurants to choosing between cheetoh dust or honey fingers, nothing is off-limits. They reveal their funniest truth-serum confessions; including fart mishaps, shitting in the woods, and awkward moments during sex. The conversation takes a turn into fake death plans, on-brand crimes like breaking and entering, stealing street signs, and even plotting which ex?s house they?d infest with cockroaches. It's the chaos you have come to know and love.

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Hey Karmaroos, it?s Becky!

I am SO excited to share that For The Hayters is officially back next week with Season 3 - dropping Monday, May 5th.

This season is raw, real, and honestly? some of the most powerful conversations I?ve ever had. We?re talking about postpartum depression, fertility, illness, heartbreak, healing, and what it means to start over.

So if you?re into deep, unfiltered stories that hit you right in the gut?in the best way - go subscribe to For The Hayters.

New episodes every Monday. I can?t wait for you to hear it!

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This week Kail and Becky go from grammar gripes to gut-wrenching truths in the span of a single conversation. What starts as a debate over phrases like ?taken aback? and ?try and? quickly spirals the chaos you know and love.

Expect laughter, self-reflection, and maybe a tear or two?because sometimes healing sounds a lot like a conversation between two friends at the edge of a spiral.

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This week Kail is asking the tough questions right off the bat; how are YOU spicing up your life? Becky is battling the bears in her backyard and Kail can't seem to understand why Becky is so upset, in fact she's quite jealous. The topic of ghosts gets brought up and the only ghosts Kail believes in are the ghosts of exes past. Later in the episode Kail and Becky finally answer one of your Is It Karma or Is It Chaso submissions and the ladies aren't sure on this one!

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This week Kail and Becky are coming in HOT with the chaos and maybe some crying. Things may sound a little different since we are mixing things up and recording in a new setting. The ladies show a new side of their relationship this week; their sisterly dynamic sometimes gets a little feisty like when they discuss if matcha tastes like dirt, does Becky have street smarts and of course so much more.

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This week Kail and Becky are coming to you from NYC. They updated us on the week they spent together. With Becky stepping into mommy duties and Kail expanding her businesses and her driveway there is a ton to catch up on. This week the ladies are joined by a live studio audience making for a really chaotic and fun time. There is plenty of chaos in this episode!

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This week Kail and Becky are sharing some potentially big life updates. Becky may be convinced to do something she never considered and the Lowry farm just keeps on growing! Becky gives us a look into how baby Becks is cooking and we couldn't be more excited. Join us for all the Karma and the Chaos!

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This week Kail and Becky discuss Kail's Birthday trip with Elijah; their first time away without the kids. Becky talks about her worries bringing baby Becks into a not so tolerant world diving into how to even begin navigating and proccessing that. Becky asks a question later in the episode that really gets the girls reflecting on their growth.

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Listen in to Adrienne, the founder of WellBe, talk about her path to becoming a patient advocate to empower people in their health journey. What lead her there and her personal life experiences with Lyme Disease.
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