In this episode, Michelle shares things she wishes she knew before getting married. If you're getting engaged or getting married soon, this one is for you! We cover topics to talk about before marriage, including your past, finances, and family upbringings. We also discuss allllll the things Michelle didn't expect about marriage, along the lines of intimacy, coming from different families, and loving the companionship that comes with having a husband.

Books Mentioned-

The Meaning of Marriage by Tim Keller- https://amzn.to/35IC7Gm

You and Me Forever by the Chans- https://amzn.to/2IRkICJ

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In this episode, Michelle interviews Rachel Cruze- an author and speaker specializing in personal finance! Rachel is also Dave Ramsey's daughter, so you know this is an EXCITING episode for Michelle. Michelle and Rachel discuss how our beliefs and upbringings shape our relationships and fear of money. They discuss how to save money in your early 20s and how to break bad money habits.

Preorder Rachel Cruze's Book Here! https://bit.ly/35Fdzy0

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In this episode, Michelle shares about the abundance vs. scarcity mindset and how living with an abundance mindset changed her life. She shares how recently, she's focused on living a simple life enjoying the things God has given her. She explains why consumerism doesn't fulfill her needs and how to start living in abundance while having little!

The Cottage Fairy- https://bit.ly/36l7l5y

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In this episode, Michelle shares about her personal confidence journey and why self-love seems to fail her. While culture tells us loving ourselves more will lead to greater confidence, Michelle questions if this is true. Through her work, relationships, appearance, and intellect, Michelle shares how she finds self-confidence throughout her day-to-day life.

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In this episode, Michelle answers your life advice submissions! She talks about dealing with in-laws, budgeting to save for a down payment on a house, and moving in together with your spouse. She touches on having roommates, being transparent about finances with your partner, and enjoying the season of life you are put in. Make sure to follow Michelle on Instagram to submit your question for the next advice episode!  

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In this casual chit-chat episode, Michelle's older sister Jamie joins the podcast for a girl chat episode! Michelle and Jamie discuss social media, boys, and what Michelle is really like beyond social media. They talk about types, insecurities, and finding a job post-grad. 

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In this episode, Michelle shares 10 things she has learned during the pandemic. While this is a serious time that has caused much damage, it's important to find small positives in the midst of darkness. She shares how she's finding her roots in TX after leaving in NYC and embracing living simply. She talks about shifting from living materialistically, investing in relationships, and finding balance in her routine. 

Marriage Journal- https://bit.ly/34RdfdH

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In this episode, Michelle shares all about her and Aidan's wedding! From the planning timeline to tips for planning your own wedding, to reviews of her personal vendors, Michelle tells all about her wedding day. 

Things Mentioned-

My Dress Shopping Experience Video: https://bit.ly/36RzoeJ Zola: https://bit.ly/36VrkK3 Minted: https://bit.ly/2SKsPT5 A&Be Bridal Shop: https://bit.ly/3iQx7mv Bridal Boutique Lewisville: https://bit.ly/3lFq41N Becky Fowler Alterations: https://bit.ly/38F3ctK Jenny Yoo: https://bit.ly/33RqZpQ Piyama Getting Ready PJs: https://bit.ly/33PfjE3 Lockharts (photography): https://thelockharts.co/ David Le Co (videographer): http://www.davidle.co/ Sage Fine Flowers (florist): https://bit.ly/2SMBtjS Moonlight Cakes: https://bit.ly/3lBXle9 Sound Sensations (DJ): https://bit.ly/3dpKHfl Serenata Strings (live music): https://bit.ly/3jLxLTo Lush Bridal Beauty (hair/makeup): https://bit.ly/3dheoPE Bella Belle (shoes): https://bit.ly/2Fk7f4w Brik (venue): https://bit.ly/36UxZE9

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In this episode, Michelle shares why she puts up boundaries and why you should too. She shares the importance of not becoming a workaholic, setting out clear rules with roommates, and not becoming codependent in romantic relationships. She tells stories of when she wishes she had set clear boundaries within work and with roommates in hopes of encouraging you to set your own!

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In this episode, Michelle talks all things money. She shares how she developed a healthy relationship with money throughout her childhood to adulthood. She shares how she saves, budgets, and learns to be a good steward of her money. She talks about how she manages finances with her husband and why it's important to use your money to generous means. 

Things Mentioned-

Empower App- https://empower.me/

YNAB App- https://bit.ly/2Yisf14

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In this episode, Michelle shares how she's felt off this past week. She shares what's on her mind, including dealing with change in a new community, feeling insecure in her work, and being in a fog. She shares how she gets out of a rut by knowing she will not be 'enough' but that's okay! She shares how she's switched her routine, gotten outside, and expressed gratitude to get out of her brain fog. 

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In this episode, Michelle shares her personal journey with health and fitness. She shares how she views her body image and how it developed over the course of middle school to now at 22. She touches on how she views fitness, not idolizing your body, and establishing boundaries in your health and fitness journey. 

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In this episode, Michelle shares her biggest career mistakes she's made in her 20s. Including, not asking for enough compensation, crying on the job, and being taken advantage of as a woman in the workplace. These are mistakes that you do NOT need to make in your own career!

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I'M MARRIED! In this chit-chat episode, Michelle shares 10 things she learned in her first week of marriage. She talks about feeling close, living together, and expectations vs. realities. She shares about prioritizing marriage, protecting it, and if it really feels any different at all. 

Michelle's First Married Vlog: *coming soon, will insert when it's live!*

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In this interview episode, Michelle interviews Michelle Pillepich, a 'non-diet' dietitian, on all things body image, developing a healthy relationship with food, and eating disorder recovery. We talk about the importance of intuitive eating and not labeling foods 'good' or 'bad', having a healthy balance with eating instead. We also discuss the danger of following fad diets or looking to social media influencers for diet advice. 

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Website: https://bit.ly/34pb8j1

YouTube: Michelle Pillepich Nutrition https://bit.ly/2YdEXz7

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In this chit-chat episode, Michelle shares her personal relationship advice for your questions! She discusses finding the one (and if the one exists), setting boundaries in your relationship, and her first kiss story. She shares how she handles disagreements and why they aren't necessarily bad to have!

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In this episode, Michelle does a chit chat q&a answering some most-asked questions from Instagram. She shares her thoughts on moving soon and what's she's nervous about. She touches on getting out of a slump during the pandemic, excitement about marriage, and tips for fighting insomnia. She also gives her thoughts on waiting for marriage and safety living in a big city. 

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In this episode, Michelle shares her personal advice and tips on becoming a content creator on social media. She shares how to gain a following organically, the best equipment for starting out, differentiating your brand online, and dealing with backlash from people in your personal life. She highlights the importance of playing the long game and not aiming to grow too quickly. 

The Content Bug on YouTube- https://bit.ly/3fwXVHt

Phlanx Engagement Calculator- https://bit.ly/2DFU0Kd

In this chit-chat episode, I have a conversation with my dad. He shares his thoughts on me getting married along with some marriage and newlywed advice! He touches on financial tips for financial stability in your 20s and mistakes he regrets when he was young. We also share about our family and how we are so close as a family.  

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In this chit-chat episode, I share about an exciting update on what's next for me! I wanted to do a chit-chat episode on what's next for me personally and a big life change I'm making. I'm so excited, and you can tell by how many times I say the word excited in this episode! Here's to what's next!

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In this episode, Michelle interviews her former co-worker and friend Lara Rawson, who works at a social media marketing agency in NYC. Lara shares what it's actually like working in social media in NYC, how to move to NYC, and the expectations vs. realities of living in a city. We talk about being financially stable in your 20s, while also touching on advice for those wanting to work in social media marketing and how she got her first job post-grad.

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Instagram: @larzra https://www.instagram.com/larzra

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This episode is a conversation with Bukola, a software engineer based in NYC. In this episode, she shares her journey to becoming a software engineer after pursuing different career paths and tips for anyone looking to learn about coding and programming. Bukola discusses how she budgets her income, the importance of giving, and tips for getting into investing.

Things Mentioned:

+ Bukola's YouTube Channel- https://bit.ly/3fbmHw3

+ YNAB Budgeting App- https://bit.ly/2Yisf14

+ Bukola's Video on Resources for Learning Code- https://bit.ly/2MJP08T

+ Michelle's Instagram- https://bit.ly/30BoiXU

+ Michelle's YouTube- https://bit.ly/3cPHQdP

This is a conversation with K. Price, a writer, mother, and adopted Texan. She shares her experiences, thoughts, resources, and more relating to racial harmony. She shares the impact that the Gospel has had on her and how it shapes her views on loving our black/POC community, justice, and the importance of personal relationships.

Things Mentioned: 

K. Price?s Educational Book Recommendations-https://bit.ly/37fYKB6

K. Price?s ?Sown: Rooted and Redemption? Pre-Order- https://bit.ly/3f8vZsH

K. Price?s Blog Post ?While We Wait Pt. 2 The Narrative of Racial Harmony?- https://bit.ly/37fnqJS

K. Price?s Instagram- https://bit.ly/3cQQtVr

13th Amendment on Netflix- https://bit.ly/3cN7UWT

Readings from the Slave Narratives Documentary- https://bit.ly/3cNA6cm

Zora and Nicky: A Novel in Black and White by Claudia Mair Burney- https://amzn.to/3cJG6m9

A People?s History of the United States by Howard Zinn- https://amzn.to/3fcyHxB

In this episode, Michelle interviews Brian Brenberg, who appears regularly on CNBC and Yahoo Finance while serving as the Executive Vice President and Chair of the Program in Business and Finance at The King?s College. He shares tips for getting over the fear of public speaking and becoming an effective communicator while giving presentations and also while interviewing for your first job. He touches on finding confidence in your first career and charting the path for your early career.

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This episode is a solo podcast with Michelle. She shares how she moved to NYC and her journey to moving to NYC from Texas! She shares the pros and cons of living in NYC, how you can move to NYC (or any new city), and the expectations vs. realities of living in such a bustling, expensive city. She shares the real financial side of living in NYC, including how much money you should have saved before moving and how expensive rent is. If you're interested in moving to NYC or moving somewhere new, this is the episode for you!

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This episode is a conversation with Gigi Goldman, co-founder of Kopari! Kopari is a natural beauty brand founded on the health benefits of coconut oil. Gigi co-founded Kopari as a mom, so we talk about balancing raising a family and running a business. She shares how she started Kopari, tips for those who want to start a business, and having faith in yourself!

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Kopari' Website: https://koparibeauty.com/

Gigi?s Instagram: @gigi.goldman https://www.instagram.com/gigi.goldman

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In this episode, Michelle sits down with her oldest sister Lyndsey for a conversational sister-chat on all things post-grad. Lyndsey talks about her early career in social work and the realities of working in that industry. She and Michelle discuss getting married young and starting a family earlier than you had expected. She also shares how she launched her photography business and what it?s like to run a business while raising a child!

Find Lyndsey Below:

Photography Website- https://bit.ly/35pVdzk

Lyndsey?s Instagram- https://bit.ly/3aYPzFp

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In this episode, Michelle sits down with her former Negotiations and Legal Studies professor at The King's College, Dr. Kimberly Reeve. She explains the importance of learning how to negotiate, including negotiating your first salary. Dr. Reeve shares why women are less likely to negotiate, and practical tips for having these conversations. She also shares about her early career and how to avoid making choices that violate your personal standards.

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Dr. Reeve- https://bit.ly/2VhRwqB

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Welcome to But, What's Next? with Michelle Reed! Michelle is a lifestyle content creator on YouTube and Instagram who shares advice on navigating your 20s, developing good habits, and building a solid foundation for your life.

Before we reach our 20s, our lives are set out before us. We know steps to get from point A to point B. After graduating from college or entering adulthood, many of us are left wondering... what's next?

How do we find a fulfilling job? Negotiate our first salaries? Date in a meaningful way? Budget our income? Michelle sits down with her personal mentors to shed some light on these topics while sharing her personal insight!

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As a 21-year old living post-grad life, Michelle has often asked what's actually next for her life after the structure of college. That's why she launched but, what's next? Michelle asks her personal mentors for advice on leading out their careers, running businesses, being good stewards of personal finances, and all things post-grad life. Tune in every Monday to listen! 

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