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The Hard Or Soft Show

The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.

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BoyFriend D*ck vs GirlFriend Vagina And Kelly G Wants TO Be A DOMME???

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Kelly G of The Kelly G Show joins Tahoe, Yesssterday, and Courtney for one of the funniest and most unexpectedly revealing episodes of Hard Or Soft yet!
We kick things off discussing our recent Hard Or Soft photo shoot before diving into Kelly’s dating preferences, whether she’s naturally dominant or submissive, and a surprise phone call to Rabbit to see if the two might actually be compatible!
Then things get interesting when we ask: What exactly is “boyfriend d*ck”? Is it about size, emotional connection, or how a woman feels about her partner? And is there such a thing as “girlfriend vagina”? Plus, would you consider a man thoughtful or suspicious if you visited his home and discovered bonnets, pads, and other feminine products waiting for guests?
Kelly opens up about dating younger men, why she believes older men are better lovers, and a recent encounter with a man who expressed interest in pegging. The conversation turns into an exploration of sexual preferences, masculinity, and whether certain bedroom activities should determine someone’s sexuality.
But the biggest revelation comes when Kelly reveals she’s considering meeting with Mistress Marley to explore becoming a professional dominatrix! Despite admitting she currently has little interest in intercourse, Kelly discusses her curiosity about BDSM, dominance, and discovering new forms of intimacy. Tahoe even surprises her with her very own bedroom toy!
The crew also gets into anal pleasure, unusual adult entertainment genres, sex dolls, why some women enjoy watching men pleasure themselves, and how cock rings can enhance certain bedroom experiences. Meanwhile, Tahoe discovers he’s apparently been missing out on the benefits of incognito mode! 😂
And of course, Yesssterday continues his search for BBW women across different cultures.
We close things out with our signature segments:
🔥 Courtney’s Kink of the Week — Another exploration into the world of kink.
😳 Yesssterday’s Confession of the Week — A woman admits her boyfriend unknowingly washed himself with the SAME washcloth her side dude had just used to clean up after sex!
😂 Tahoe’s Tweets of the Week — The internet never disappoints!
From dating and sexual compatibility to BDSM, bedroom preferences, and outrageous relationship confessions, this episode has everything you’ve come to expect from Hard Or Soft!

Socials:
Kelly
@TheKellyGShow on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-10-28
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Punisher Tells ALL: Cassie, Diddy, Freak Offs & the Truth About His Penile Implant

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This week on The Hard or Soft Show, we welcome Punisher, the male exotic dancer and former escort whose involvement with Cassie Ventura and Sean “Diddy” Combs became part of one of the most talked-about scandals in entertainment.

Punisher opens up about his relationship with Cassie, how they first connected, Diddy’s alleged involvement, and what unfolded during their approximately two-and-a-half-year arrangement. He shares his perspective on the motivations behind their encounters, whether he believed Cassie was being coerced, and some of the unusual sexual experiences he witnessed. 

But there’s much more to Punisher’s story than the headlines. 

He gets candid about using sexual performance enhancements, developing erectile dysfunction, and ultimately undergoing penile implant surgery. We discuss male sexual health, sensitivity, nerve regeneration, and the emotional challenges men face when their sexual performance changes. 

Punisher also reveals how discovering his girlfriend had cheated on him with another male escort sent him into a dark period of his life, and how that experience inspired him to become a lifestyle coach helping men navigate relationship trauma and sexual health struggles. 

Meanwhile, Tahoe kicks things off with a hilarious male grooming session, dyeing his beard, applying eye patches, and giving himself a facial treatment while testing Kapture, an app that connects creators with videographers who shoot and edit their content.

Other topics include:
How women can tell men they need better hygiene without embarrassing themWhy Tahoe used to attend Punisher’s male stripper partiesCourtney questioning whether therapy should come before penile implant surgeryLearning how to date your partner again after years togetherA Black content creator claiming that sleeping with a Black man would be “selling her soul”Why society celebrates men who have sex with large numbers of womenFrom celebrity scandals and bedroom confessions to men’s mental health, sexual performance, and relationship recovery, this episode goes places you won’t expect. 

Welcome to Hard or Soft, where no conversation is off limits.

Socials:
Punisher
@GetPunished on Instagram
Join his community at YourHardReset.com and get his products at ThePunisherPack.com

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-10-21
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Why Women Fake it: What Ppl Get Wrong About Sex & Pleasure Feat @Doc_Izzy

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Are men really satisfying women in the bedroom, or are they just assuming they are? Why do so many women struggle to climax during sex, and how do you tell your partner they’re not getting the job done?

This week on The Hard or Soft Show, we’re joined by special guest @doc_izzy for a hilarious, revealing, and surprisingly educational conversation about sexual pleasure, intimacy, communication, and what men STILL don’t understand about women.

Things get interesting immediately when Doc Izzy reveals what she was doing when Tahoe reached out to invite her onto the show! From there, we explore the different parts of the body that crave sexual attention and how understanding your partner’s pleasure can completely change your sex life. 

Tahoe opens up about how maturity has changed his approach to intimacy, shifting his focus toward making sure women enjoy themselves and actually reach climax. But that raises some important questions: 
When did women realize they were supposed to climax during sex?When did men realize women’s orgasms were just as important as their own?How do you tell a man he’s not satisfying you without destroying his confidence?Can putting on a little performance in the bedroom help create the reaction you want?Why is emotional safety so important to a woman’s sexual confidence and willingness to explore her desires?
We also get into role-playing in relationships, and despite admitting he’s TERRIBLE at it, Tahoe accepts a challenge to surprise his fiancée!

Then the conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss the Cornell 7 case, the importance of recognizing subtle sexual pressure, and why men need to hold their friends accountable when they see toxic behavior toward women. How can men create environments where women feel genuinely safe, respected, and free to express themselves?

And of course, it wouldn’t be Hard or Soft without our signature segments! 
🔥 Courtney’s Kink of the Week — Exploring another side of the kink world.
🔥 Tahoe’s Tweets of the Week — The internet gives us plenty to talk about.
🔥 Yesssterday’s Confessions — You never know what he’s going to admit next!
🔥 The Urban DICKtionary — Tahoe introduces another innocent-sounding word with a VERY adult meaning.

And trust us, our Load Boost this week is absolutely CRAZY!

From orgasms and sexual compatibility to role-playing, consent, emotional safety, and bedroom confidence, this episode has something for everybody. 

Tap in with Tahoe, Yesssterday, Courtney, and Doc Izzy for another wild episode of The Hard or Soft Show!

Question of the week: Would you rather your partner tell you that you’re not satisfying them, or fake it to protect your feelings?

Socials:
Doc Izzy
@Doc_Izzy on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-10-14
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When They're Used To Something BIGGER 😳 I Sex, Intimacy and Compatibility

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This week on Hard or Soft, Tahoe, Courtney and Yesssterday are back — and somehow we go from Tahoe finding out his daughter is sexually active to wondering why MEN don’t have their own version of an OB/GYN. 😭

First, we get into love and vulnerability. Have you ever wanted to say “I love you” but stopped yourself? Even worse…have you ever finally said it and gotten NOTHING back?! We also talk about the little nonsexual things your partner does that inexplicably turn you on and the different ways people experience intimacy.

Are you kinky, sensual, energetic, sexual — or a shapeshifter who needs a little bit of everything depending on the person and the moment?

Then things get complicated. 

Have you ever found your mind wandering to somebody else while you’re being intimate with your partner? What happens when memories from a previous relationship still influence your current experiences? And what exactly is a sexual yearner?

We also get into sexual compatibility and the insecurity that can come with dating someone who’s accustomed to something…different than what you’re working with. 😭 

Then a woman asks an unexpectedly legitimate question: Why don’t men have a “dick doctor”? Women routinely see OB/GYNs, so where are men supposed to go with questions about sexual and reproductive health? And why are so many men reluctant to go to the doctor in the first place?

PLUS — could the entire Hard or Soft / Nut Navy crew be taking a group trip to Hedonism?! 👀

We’ve also got Tweets of the Week, a new entry into the Urban DICKtionary, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday returns with a Confession of the Week that might be one of the WILDEST we’ve gotten yet.

And of course, we finish with The Hard & The Soft:


THE HARD: Eye contact and connection during intimacy. 👀


THE SOFT: Ladies…presentation matters. 😂

Love, fantasies, intimacy, sexual compatibility, men’s health and entirely too much information. 


Welcome back to Hard or Soft.

Socials:
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-10-01
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How To Ride, Survive a Bad Sex Life And Keep The Spark Alive Feat @FantasyFitnessMD

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This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness, and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversation. 😂

We start with something every long-term couple eventually has to deal with: How do you keep conflict from destroying the sexual attraction you have for your partner? And what happens when you’re with somebody whose sex drive is MUCH higher than yours?

Then Toni tells us the unbelievable story of why TWO of her boyfriends decided to break up with her after they went to jail. Apparently incarceration had them doing some serious relationship reflection. 😂 

From there, Toni explains how casually teaching friends bedroom techniques eventually turned into an actual Fantasy Fitness class, why people sign up, and what they’re hoping to learn. We also talk about building anticipation with your partner throughout the day, mismatched sexual desire, how much recovery time people really need between rounds, and whether bad sex is enough reason to GHOST somebody afterward.

The crew also imagines what would happen if we all became OnlyFans creators and had to choose our own niche. Plus, there’s a new use for Meta glasses that nobody at Meta had in mind, Yesssterday introduces us to another one of his…creative techniques, and Tahoe has to answer for possibly ruining his friend’s experience by deciding to join the festivities.

Toni also talks about the confidence and motivations that shaped her approach to intimacy, while the crew gets into communication, boundaries and what partners actually enjoy in the bedroom. 

A listener writes in to tell us about a “little” obsession of his.. 

And of course, Courtney is back with Kink of the Week.

Relationship problems, sexual confidence, Fantasy Fitness, questionable decisions and entirely too much information. 


Welcome back to Hard or Soft.

Socials:
Toni
@FantasyFitnessMD on Instagram
Head to www.RidingForRookies.com to book a slot at one of Toni's Riding classes

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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2026-09-23
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BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You

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This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand.

And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂
 
From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension, explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly distributing someone’s weight matters, and what draws people to the experience in the first place.

Then we get into the HISTORY. 

Dre breaks down the roots of leather culture, BDSM and kink, including the influence of LGBTQ+ communities on the culture that exists today. We discuss why some longtime members of those communities are critical of a newer generation entering kink spaces, hosting events and adopting practices without learning the history, traditions and responsibilities that came before them.

Then we bring everything back to relationships. 

Tahoe and Dre explain why they’ve chosen not to sexually engage with attendees while they’re hosting play parties. We talk about the best way to tell your partner you’re interested in someone else at a party, what happens when your kinks DON’T match your partner’s, and how to respectfully approach a couple when you’re interested in connecting with one of them. 

And then comes the conversation a lot of men aren’t prepared to have: How do men navigate their partners having other male partners?

We get into jealousy, communication, boundaries, multiple relationship dynamics outside of a primary partnership, and whether wanting freedom for yourself means being prepared to give your partner that same freedom. 

This isn’t just a conversation about what people do in kink spaces — it’s about understanding the culture, communication, consent and history behind them.

Welcome back to Hard or Soft.

Socials:

Dre
@BeatsByDre on Fetlife
Go to @HausofBliss on Instagram for event details

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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2026-09-16
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What Makes Someone REALLY Good In Bed? Confidence, Anxiety & Communication Feat @SkipFromBK

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This week on Hard or Soft, Courtney gets an unexpected business opportunity when a fan propositions her for feet pictures — and somehow that’s only the BEGINNING of where this episode goes. 

We get into why American women seem to love British men, which leads Tahoe, Yesssterday and Skip to announce their upcoming trip to London to find out whether English women have that same energy for American men.

Then we’re talking about what actually makes someone GOOD in the bedroom. How soon should you start discussing sex with someone you’re dating? Why do nerds have a reputation for being surprisingly great lovers? And could something as simple as being able to admit when you’re wrong actually make you better in bed? 

We also have a real conversation about male performance anxiety and how anxiety can affect the way men physically show up in sexual and play-party environments. Skip opens up about how becoming part of the Hard or Soft / Nut Navy community has helped increase his confidence, and the crew discusses why some women can be so judgmental about men using sexual performance enhancements.

Plus, we’re breaking down bedroom communication, sex positions that look like WAY more work than fun, Tahoe somehow ends up with Skip as his “astral penis,” and Skip tells us exactly what he likes — and doesn’t like — in the bedroom. 

Courtney returns with Kink of the Week, Yesssterday has a brand-new listener confession, and Tahoe makes an important announcement regarding Loon’s departure from Hard or Soft.

Funny, informative, vulnerable and completely inappropriate in all the ways you’ve come to expect from Hard or Soft.

Welcome back to the Nut Navy.

Socials:
Skip
@SkipFromBK on all socials

Tahoe 
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-09-09
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Our Traumas Can Determine Our Kinks Feat Daddy Doyenne

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This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with lifestyle domme and kink educator Daddy Doyenne to talk why they dont date straight men, the uncomfortablity Tahoe feels as a straight man being tip toeing around LGBTQIA and Cis womens traumas, should straight ppl and LGBQTIA segregate to maintain the peace, the origin of Daddys "demon" persona, what Daddys experience growing up was like and whather her family was supportive of it, establishing boundaries and knowing when to let ppl go, how speaking about these topics lets people know its ok to live in their truths and much more!! ENJOY!

Socials:
Daddy Doyenne
@Thee.Demonatrix on Instagram
@Daddy_Doyenne on Twitter
DaddyDoyenne.com

Tahoe 
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-09-02
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Great Sex vs Sexual Chemistry: What's The Difference? I Cheating, Pleasure & Bedroom Confessions Feat Kelly Moonstone

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This week on Hard or Soft, music artist and producer Kelly Moonstone joins the crew for a completely shameless conversation about pleasure, cheating, sexual chemistry and what men and women REALLY expect from each other in the bedroom.

Why do some people feel guilty after pleasuring themselves? And we tackle an even crazier question: Can cheating ever actually SAVE a relationship? Is infidelity always the beginning of the end, or can what happens afterward expose problems a couple needed to confront?

Then it’s confession time: What’s something you did because you were horny that you had absolutely NO business doing? 😂

We also break down the difference between great sex and genuine sexual chemistry—because they’re definitely not always the same thing.

Then the men turn the conversation toward women: What are five things women can do to be better in the bedroom? And why do some women expect men to bring their A-game sexually without putting that same level of effort into pleasing their partner?

Kelly Moonstone joins us for all of it as we talk pleasure, attraction, effort, chemistry, cheating and the things people don’t always admit about their sex lives. 

Welcome to Hard or Soft—where nothing about sex and relationships is off limits.

ENJOY!!

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Socials:
Kelly
@KellyMoonStone on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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2026-08-27
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Does Size Really Matter? Sex Symbols, Bedroom Confidence & Wild Confessions

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This week on Hard or Soft, the crew gets into a wild conversation about attraction, sex appeal and what really makes someone unforgettable in the bedroom.

Are Black men too critical of Black women? How many people have probably pleasured themselves while thinking about you—or looking at your pictures? And the question nobody knew we needed answered: Is Tahoe actually a sex symbol? 👀

Tahoe also reveals his latest sex-toy purchases before the crew breaks down how men with smaller packages can still show up with confidence in the bedroom. Plus, Tahoe tells the story of how his girl actually studied the videos he sent her, took notes and came back ready to experiment. 😂

Then we get into backhanded sexual compliments, Courtney’s Kink of the Week, and Yesssterday introduces a brand-new Confessions segment that immediately goes completely off the rails.

Sex, relationships, attraction, bedroom confidence, kinks and absolutely zero shame—welcome back to Hard or Soft.

Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free

Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.

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2026-08-20
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I Have A Freaky Side That I Cant Tell My Wife About

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This week we welcome musician Denhim to the couch as we talk Courtney listening to True Crime pods and of course Tahoe finds a way to relate it to secks, not being able to tell your partner about your kinks, Tahoe being the face of men getting their groceries eaten and being hit on by his ghey fans, whether its going too far for him and why ghey men try straight men, Denhims music career and how he likes living in NY, the toxic inspiration behind some of the songs on his album and catching his partner having secks with his bestie, the difference between dating down south and dating in NY, the  physical touch love language and how it relates to men vs how it relates to women, ppl expecting secks after the first date and actually demanding secks, not intiating enough witrh your partner, being irresponsible with your dick and SO much more!! ENJOY!!!!

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Socials:
Denhim
@ItsDenhim on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-08-13
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Why Am I Always Being Judged For Being Secksual??

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This week Courtney rejoins the cast as we talk people lying on their secks game, advocating for micro peens, Tahoe gifts Yesssterday with his first male secks toy, when should women pull out their secks toy on a guy, the proper way to use anull beads, Tahoes wife surprises him with a game, Courtneys new and improved secks life, how to properly hit the different climax spots in the vulva, how many holes does the vulva have, why Courtney came back to the show, the difficulties that come while living in your secksual truth, being in a marraige where only one person initiates, the best position to eat cat in, and what is the best time to have secks outside on your patio?? ENJOY!!!

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2026-08-06
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Are White Men Easier For Black Women To Date?

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This week we welcome Zeema of the Honestly Tho podcast to talk her getting favors and offerings from white men, dating white men and why she thinks it is easier to date them than black men, being turned off by a man after pegging him and why she feels that being pegged isnt for "straight' men, the difference in beauty standards for white women vs black women, warming the booty hole up for penetration, recycling nudes and the best camera tricks to take nude videos with, Tahoes love for toys and what he gets out of it, 5 ways to be a dicksman, and more!!! ENJOY!

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2026-07-30
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343. Damn My P*ssy Grew Alot!! Feat Goddess Jessi

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This week we sit with The Sweet Love Sanctuary's own Goddess Jessi to talk balancing your energy, where Goddess Jessi originally met Tahoe and Loon, the definition of the word "Goddess", defining the Sweet Love Sanctuary, living a polyamorous lifestyle and Goddess Jessi's liberation, the reaction that Goddess Jessi receives when she lets potential partners know that she is married but open, Tahoe and his trash d*ck days, the guys experiences with women that maybe weren't too favorable, having a good d*ck radar and so much more! ENJOY!!

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2026-07-22
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342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums

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This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were with bewty play, the connection between mens ego and secks, what pp get from swapping partners or letting them have secks with other ppl, being open to sharing your partner and the scale of boundaries that people place on such activities, the conversations that need to be had before opening your relationship, the effect of religion on your secksual inhibitions, and so much more!! ENJOY!!

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2026-07-16
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341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel

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This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with his now husband, understanding why some ppl cheat, allowing your partner to step out for freaky tithings, and Markel takes over the show to ask Loon and Yesssterday some questions. ENJOY!

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Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-07-08
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340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLL!!! Strap yourselves in TIGHT because this episode is a DOOZY!! Mr Dominus steps in and takes Tahoe and Loon for the ride of their lives as we talk poly and hierarchical relationships and whether gay men suffer from the same ego/control and jealousy that staright men go through in their relationships. Trying to explain to your partner that you needing other ppl has nothing to do with them, Dominus being a platinum gay member and what it takes to maintain that member status, different hookup sites in the Gay community and how free gay men are in their secksual exploits, Dominus love language, where his arousal to men comes from and when he realized he was gay. The convo gets intense as he talks his west indian family and their response to his sexual orientation and lifestyle, wearing flags to show what types of kinks you're into, his love for  and SOOOO much more. This is a Platinum level episode!!! ENJOY!!!

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@MrDominus_DC on Instagram
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@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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2026-07-01
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339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week we welcome an old friend of the show, content creator and corn star Marley Moore, to talk Tahoes lil man not being present, Daphne Joys effect on men since shes been doing interviews, why women dont like Daphne Joy, Marleys early retirement and getting back into the corn game, how corn has changed, Being a sensual Domme and what that entails, Domme'ing Yt guys vs Domme'ing Black guys (specifically Yesssterday), the domme who went to jail for a kink gon wrong, what a JOI is and how Marley gives them, women sneaking out cums and men being able to tell or not being able to tell when a woman climaxes and so much more... ENJOY!!!

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@MarleyDaBooty on Twitter
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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-06-24
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338. Are We Identifying Ourselves or Are We Being Branded? Feat Lamark and Chelsea

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week we welcome Lamark and Chelsea of Lamark After Dark as we ask whats TOO horny, who is hornier straight ppl or the lgbt community, sharing locations with your partner, straight guys that like ssa play and the women who wont date them, water sports and the people who like it, why women hate guys that ask them to get it hard for them, why straight men are so caught up on being super masculine, the effect women have on straight mens seckuality, the war between straights and gays and why it is, gay guys mistaken freindship from straight men for them possibly being interested in more, Tahoe plans a trip for his lady and the kinky things they got into. Great Episode yall!!! ENJOY!!!
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@Lamark_Fresh on Instagram

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@OMGItsNettai on Instagram

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-06-17
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337. Is There A Part Of The Spectrum Called Being Dicktistic??

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!

This week the guys talk women who actually love sucking, Madame Se calls in to discuss the guys perspective about Daphne Joy, why some men dont want to "slut their wives out", Tahoe being open to his partner being with other people, men liking women that have a scent to their private parts vs guys that dont, and Young MA says she "targets" straight women and enjoys dating them more than bi or lesbian women. About to go get on a plane.. ENJOY!!!!

Tickets almost sold out for Freaknik In Brooklyn!! email us at [email protected] for the ticket link or go to TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form 

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-06-10
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336. Secks Explained with Krystal Tantric Yogi

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week we welcome tantic yogi instructor @KrystalTantricYogi to talk experiencing secks through your real feelings instead of just trying to get to a goal, discovering a new relationship with secks and her body after getting into tantra and yogi, men not being ready to experiencing true feelings because of a fear of vulnerability, entering into the psychic world and the females cosmic cavern, men valuing their penis and understanding how important penetration is to women, sharing your energy with someone who does not deserve it, TRIGGER WARNING ...we speak about Daphne Joys response to her seckstape being released against her will.. (sensitive topic)..annnnd Tahoe introduces a new segment. ENJOY!!!!

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-06-03
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335. I'ma Need You To Come Catch this Gooch

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week the guys talk aggressive women talking their pants off, switching personalities in the bedroom, do men reveal how freaky they are first or do we wait to see where women are at with it, how men get women to eat the bussy, who was more into discovering booty play men or women, the best position to try anal for the first time, do we share the corn we like with our partners, feeling unsafe sharing your freaky side with your partner, wacking off in the shower, women taking the lead in the bedroom, our fav tracks off the drake albums to have secks to and more..ENJOY!!

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-05-28
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334. Courtneys Farewell

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!

After almost two years on the show Courtney bows out and wishes the guys farewell as she decides to move on from being a host of the show. We discuss the reasons she decided to leave and recap our time together on the show. We also talk flirting just to flirt, screaming someones name while you masturbate, spiritual handjobs??, and Tahoe asks what happened to the superhead movement. Then the crew surprise Courtney with a farewell gift.... ENJOY!!

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2026-05-20
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333b. I'm A Professional Side Dude (Part Two)

Its a Saturday ROLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

The episode continues with Marcus and Imani. 

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2026-05-16
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333a. I'm A Professional Side Dude Feat Marcus and Imani (Part One)

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week we welcome Marcus, a self proclaimed Side Dude and Imani, a working actress and producer to talk not wanting to have secks with your partner all the time, not being able to perform when you want to, Marcus side dude adventures and relationships, needing to feel exclusive in the way your married bae cheats with you, getting a women that cheats not being the flex that men think, Imani attending one of Tahoe's first play parties, and how we would respond when a person youre dating revealing one of their kinks to you. 

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@IMoveDifferent and @MarcusHereToHelp on Instagram

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@ImaniBlair on Instagram

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2026-05-14
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332. Theres A Facebook For Farting??? Feat @MistressMysThick

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week we welcome Dominatrix and Milk Maiden Mys Thick as we talk the fart store and why she thinks Tahoe needs to create an acount, women feeling like they are not getting violated enough in the bedroom, not being able to watch TV while having secks, Tahoe suffering a bedroom loss with one of Mys Thicks old friends that he has yet to heal from, trying to define wack pussee, men having to  shooulder the responsibility of giving great secks by themselves and needing women to step up their great secks game, creating a secks quiz for people to see where they land on the secks scale, women wanting to have experiences with two men and why men are reluctant to try it, and a serious conversation about the biological reasoning behind why men cheat. This episode was TOO good!!!! ENJOY!!!

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-05-07
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331. I Dont Do Corn, Corn Does Me Feat @IamPvnch

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week we welcome Hip Hop Conneisuer Pvnch to talk the Mt. Rushmore of video tape corn stars, and content creators, Pvnchs experience being involved with corn stars and how Tahoe dropped the ball with a popular corn star, the evolution of the guys freak sides from when they were young, is men having two women the new norm and why Pvnch thinks it is not as favorable to men as they may think, the bad sides of the threesum, Pvnchs wildest night ever and MORE!!!! 

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-04-29
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330a. I Turned A Hotel Into A House Party Feat Milo The Misfit

Nut Navy Mid Week ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!

This week we got a call from Milo The Misfit out of North Carolina to talk the lifestyle scene in North Carolina, his upcoming Hotel takeover play party and why we need to be more diligent about creating bonds with communities from other places that are into kink and lifestyle activities. ENJOY!!!

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@We_The_Roses on Twitter/X
@Roses_Are_Red2017 on Instagram

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2026-04-27
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330. Mastering My Squirt Potential Feat Ezzy Exotic

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with Content Creator and Corn Star Ezzy Exotic to talk her career in corn, times when she got more horny because she was super drunk, mastering her squirt potential, needing more after a good time, 3 rounds a day or 3 rounds a week, being a cumsluht, being typecasted in corn, saving her booty for marraige, her bucket list items, asking her man to watch her with another guy, a persons do and donts for a gangbang, having secks with two brothers and MORE!!!

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@EzzyExoticx on Instagram
@EzzyExotic on Twitter 

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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2026-04-23
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329a. The Forbidden Is What I Desire Feat Mistress Unknown (Part Two)

Welcome Back to Part Two!

Who Mistress Unknown thinks is secretly the most submissive, the pleasure Mistress Unknown gets from having white submissives, her origin into kink, some of the wildest things shes seen in kink, and Tahoe gets dommed. ENJOY!!

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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2026-04-18
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329. The Forbidden Is What I Desire Feat Mistress Unknown (part one)

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

This week not only do we have a LEGEND in the room but we also have a monumental occassion as Tahoe gets dommed by our guest Mistress Unknown as we talk how she got into the lifestyle, her progression into being a domme, what makes a person dominant vs submissive, the do's and donts of having submissives, Being a domme that is in a committed relationship, men that are sure of themselves being naturally submissive and MORE!! Tune into part two this Saturday or head to our patreon now to hear the full episode ad free! ENJOY!

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-04-16
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328. I Can Share You But You Cant Share Me Feat @Esmy_V

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!

This week we welcome one of the most electrifying guests we have ever had on the couch @Esmy_V to talk why she started an onlyfans, her first one night stand and her stance on sharing men she's had relations with, if we had an Onlyfans what our niche would be, how covid changed the way people look at secks work, what Esmy expects from potential suitors and how they lose her attention. Esmy speaks on her activism in the community, how women need to see men outside of the things they do for them, how to be a financial domme, orgasming through scat play and MORE!!! Tune into our patreon to hear the full episode ad free!

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@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-04-08
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327. I Was Like This Before I Knew What "This" Was

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!

Welcome Back to another episode of the freakiest show on earth as we welcome our superstar friend Hope Giselle to the stage to discuss kinks we would not want people to know about, would the guys get a d*ck rejuvenation if they need one, jerking off because you need to vs jerking off because you want to, ways to get your partner ready for the second round, Tahoe thinking hes a gooner, Hope says men going to the strip club is no different than them masturbating together, and sooooo much more!!! ENJOY!!!! 

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@HopeGiselle on all socials

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@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-04-02
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326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

Welcome back guys! This week we welcome singer and podder Emanny of the JBP to the couch as Tahoe goes on a rant about big meat merchants not ruling the world, using what you have to actually please women instead of just f^*n them, messing with women that have a breeding kink, getting back with an old fling just to keep them from moving on, Emanny tells us about how he got into kink and his experiences at play parties, giving D'assages, like vs love and so much more!!! ENJOY!!

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Emanny
@EmannyMusic on all social media platforms (Twitter, Instagram, TikTok)
Listen to his show All Eyes On E on all pod streaming platforms

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-03-25
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325. Nuttin Was The Same Feat @ShyThugg

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week @ShyThugg joins Tahoe, Loon and Yesssterday to talk breast appreciation, giving tit jobs, not liking to ride, getting appreciated for her performance, the pleasures of nipple play, Tahoe not eating poom for him, Shys Bucket List, men with wack strokes, scissoring being a little difficult but a vibe, and MORE!!!

Socials:
Shy
@ShyThugg on Instagram and Twitter
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Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-03-19
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324. Stroking This Brown Sugar BBC

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

On the night before the Nut Gala one of our pleasure tops and member of the Nut NAvy, Sir Suga, joins us to talk things we do to keep the spice alive in the bedroom, dating long distance, giving cum tributes, giving Miss B Nasty her flowers, Courtneys new game Spicy or Desperate, popping up at your persons crib for sex, How Suga got into kink, a demonstration of how to use a car buffer for pleasure and MORE!! ENJOY!!!

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Sir Suga
@Thee_SirSuga on Instagram

Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-03-12
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323. I Was Gay For 26 Hours

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

Welcome Back!! This week Lonn tels us a story abouit how he thinks he was gay for 26 hours (again), the sexiest names to cry out during sex, greatest squirt experiences, when she tells you that shes about top climax but you climax before she does, Tahoe gets engaged (again), doing special moments for you vs doing them for other people, spending big money on a wedding vs going to the courthouse, and Tahoe unboxes his Masquerade Party Fits. ENJOY!!

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Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-03-05
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322. The Last Dragon Feat Messiah

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL

Welcome back Yall! This week Courtney and Loon take on exotic male dancer Messiah as they discuss his intro to exotic dancing, the stigma that comes with it (Good and Bad), sexual comfortablity in relationships, the importance of consent, navigating consent within your relationship and confirming/dispelling the myths of exotic dancing. ENJOY!!!

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2026-02-27
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321. Can I Break Fast With Secks??? Feat @YourExGirlFriendTara

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

Welcome back guys! Tahoe rejoins the cast as we welcome @YourExGirlfriendTara to talk an interesting threesome Tahoe wants to recreate at The Nut Gala except for the fact that he is practicing Ramadan and cannot masturbate OR Have relations with his fiance. Yesssterday throws him under the bus as he calls out Tahoe for being a Gooner, Tara speaks on her experience as a Sex Ed coach, and Tahoe asks what makes a person good at secks. Courtney tells us about her Valentines day as Tahoe gets offended that she didnt take his advice on what to do for her new boo and then asks Chat Gpt an interesting question...ENJOY!!

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@YourExGirlfriendTara on Instagram
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2026-02-19
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320. Whats a Goon To A Goblin?

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday talk being a Gooner, whats in their goon cave, Kinks with the intent on not finishing, how certain kinks reflect where we are with relationships ad social media, and Valentines day plans!! We also get a call from Anisha of Bedroom Kandi who talks about their social affair that Tahoe is hosting in Atlanta on March 31st!! ENJOY!!!

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@PartiesByAnisha on instagram
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@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

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2026-02-12
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319. Sophisticated And Horny

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!

This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday take the stage as they talk low libidos in relationships, whats a healthy amount of knocking boots one should be doing weekly, micro cheating, Old school vs New School corn and Courtney introduces a new segment called the Hard Question Jar...ENJOY!!!

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2026-02-05
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318. What Do T*tties Really Do Anyway?

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!

This week the crew open up about there love for the boob but Tahoe asks..what do t*tties really do anyway, then we read a few fantasies that people submitted for the March 7th play party, we ask what are some pre-secks things that we do to make the evening super sensual, how to treat the third so they dont feel used, and MORE! Enjoy!

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2026-01-30
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317. Just Bring The Nut!

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!

This week the crew is back and the vibes are here as we talk Tahoe cuffing women that arent his, your mutual friends not telling you that they are dating, ppl not realizing the harsh realities of poly relationships until they are in one, what men really mean when they say "lets just see where it goes", Courtneys newest entry into her p*ssy chronicles, where do men learn how to have good male hygiene and MORE! Such a great episode! ENJOY!

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2026-01-21
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316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss

Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLL!!!!

In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.

Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.

We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!

Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here 

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@Kandi on Instagram

Kasha
@Au_Natural38 on Instagram and Twitter

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2026-01-15
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315. D*ck Gumbo feat @ENYScoot

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!

Its 2026 and we are BACK with a hilarious episode to start the new year! ENY Scoot sits with us to talk having bad secks with a good partner, is there such a thing as pulling toys out too early in dating, the idea that ppl look for reasons to not cheat more than they look for reasons to cheat, why men dont just tell the truth, a young man writes us a letter asking for help, and whats something you learned about secks the hard way that you wish you wouldve learned sooner?

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@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Loon
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2026-01-08
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314. Slap My Yssup, Slap My Face

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week the crew are back to talk.. not gon lie yall I have to be up for work in 3 hours..I'll fill out the description later ..but this episode was GOOD!! ENJOY!
2025-12-18
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313b. The Healing that made the Healer feat. Madame Sé (part two)

Welcome back to Part Two!

Madame Se continues with the mommy wound conversation, being the problem in her previous marraige, having postpartum depression after her pregnancies and feeling like she wouldnt be a good mother for her children, survivng her own depression and attempts to self harm, how to support people who suffer from depression, why Aysha says a woman should leave a guy who is not treating her right two weeks after his mom passes, and if she will ever be 'Ok"...ENJOY!

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@MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on Instagram
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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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2025-12-12
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313a. The Healing that made the Healer Feat Madame Sé (Part One)

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

This week Tahoe sits with Coach Bellamy aka Madame Sé aka The Kinky Oracle to talk her new show on the Hard Or Soft network RAW, starting her show Temple of Euphoria after being secksually assaulted at a play party, which of her kinks are attached to her trauma, graduating therapy, Tahoes fear of therapy, how she deals with being diagnosed with epilepsy, what she loves about the Hard Or Soft Show, wanting to be a Dominatrix, why she tends to sympathize with the male experience, Mommy wounds and so much more! Tune into our patreon to hear the full episode ad free or tune in this friday for Part Two! oh and ENJOY!!

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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2025-12-10
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312. The Secks Needs To Be Falling Off The Bone

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!

Welcome back guys! The crew starts the show asking if they think they are "nice" people, sucking d*ck for 100 million, Freddy from the Southern Pleasure Expo calls in to tell us about it, a poly woman talks about the difficulties dating monogamous people, Tahoe calls a friend to confess something about the past, a woman says to keep the big d*cks away from her, 5 issues men with big d*cks have to deal with and MORE! ENJOY!!

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@Courtney_Shav on Instagram

Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

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@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter

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2025-12-04
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311a. The Hoodoo Baddie Part Two Feat Alexis Jade

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!

Alexis Jade (@JupiterGrl_) is back to talk Christmas and liking experiences vs receiving gifts, having a child and dating, being single and ready to mingle (kinda), and she teaches Tahoe about the rest of the chakras and what they mean to the body and mind. We ask what exactly is a hoodoo baddie and then we get secksy as she talks about the things that make her hard and the things that make her soft. ENJOY!

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@OfficialAlexisJade on Instagram
@Jupitergrl_ on Twitter
@DiaryofAlexisJade222 on Tiktok

Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram

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2025-12-01
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