In this episode, Matthew discusses how to set boundaries with guest Yasmin Habib.

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In this episode, Matthew talks with self relationship coach Matt Cama. What is self love? How do you heal yourself?

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In this episode, Matthew discusses religious trauma and spiritual abuse with deconstructionist Rachel Meyers. 

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In this episode, Matthew discusses how to battle a narcissist in court with author, speaker, and coach Tina Swithin. 

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In this episode, Matthew discusses people pleasing, perfectionsm and changing mentality with guest Marisa Jo.

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In this episode, Matthew discusses the impact of ADHD on your personal life and interpersonal relationships with psychiatrist Kojo Sarfo --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew will be talking with interfaith minister Chris Wilson. Spirituality can be used as a form of manipulation, control and abuse. Do you know what to look for?

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In this episode Matthew discusses dating with coach and trainer Levi Washington. 

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In this episode Matthew has conversation with therapist Gina Moffa from NYC. What is grief and trauma. How does it impact our everyday life?

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In this episode, Matthew discusses childhood trauma with child therapist Heather Thompson.

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In this weeks episode, Matthew will have a conversation with coach and content creator Brenda Barros Rivera. We spend d more time at work than we do at home, so how does having a narcissistic boss or coworker impact our lives in these situations?  To work with Matthew 1:1 or to see his other services. check out the link below. https://beacons.ai/mattphifercoaching --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

Divorce is hard for anyone, but divorcing a narcissist is even more difficult and presents a unique challenge. In this episode, Matthew will discuss these challenges with family law attorney Natalie Guadalupe. Natalie is not only an attorney but also a licensed therapist in Texas.

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In this episode, Matthew discusses true happiness with Author and trainer Coach Angelika Koch. Often times you hear people say the cliche line "happiness is found within" what does that even mean? 

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In this episode, Matthew interviews dietician Toni Marinucci from TipswithToni.com. The two will talk about the mindset required to overcome critical and negative people and the impact that toxic relationships have on your diet and physical health.

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People who have been with in a narcissistic relationship, will tell you one of the worst experiences are the thought patterns that plague them day in and day out. In this episode, Matthew will discuss these patterns with alternative therapist Lori Wheeler.

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In this episode, Matthew interviews Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness). Lee, is a real estate agent, father, brother and a diagnosed narcissist. It is not often a diagnosed narcissist is aware enough to do therapy. Listen and learn from the narcissists perspective.

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In this episode, Matthew answers a listener email in regards to divorce. Divorce is already difficult, but divorcing the narcissist can seem impossible. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew has a discussion with Anne Bona, a coach and podcaster from the U.K. about her experience with a narcissistic mother. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew answers a listener question. A Tik Tok listener asked whether or not it is healthy to tell the child that the ex spouse is a narcissist. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses the desire to want revenge on the narcissist. Is this healthy? Is this normal? How do I get revenge? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew has a conversation with Dr. Heidi from the podcast "It's Not Normal It's Toxic". The two toxic relationship specialists have dialogue about developing an escape plan. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew interviews best selling author and forgiveness therapist Dr. Joan Samuels-Dennis out of Toronto, Canada. It may seem counterintuitive, but forgiveness is an essential part of toxic relationship recovery. In this episode you will understand why. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses masking the pain and feelings from toxic relationships. People who have been emotionally abused are used to putting their feelings last. This often leads to numbing strategies. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew will discuss how people project their expectations on to a relationship. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

Narcissists often times wear a mask of success. This is often times a part of their manipulation to get you to stay. In this episode, Matthew will discuss their success vs their behavior. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses shame. Shame is a feeling and symptom of being in a toxic relationship, but it doesn't always come from the toxic person in your life. Matthew talks about the shame we feel after opening up to our friends and family members about the toxic relationship. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses the rekindling of the alienated brainwashed child. The narcissist uses a series of manipulative tactics to get your child to become resentful towards you. Matthew discusses how to counter these tactics so you can have a loving relationship again with your child. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses gaslighting. What exactly is it? How do you you know when you have been gaslit? Most importantly, how do you heal from it? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew will discuss divorcing toxic people. Divorcing someone who is toxic and narcissistic can be a challenge. Not only are you fighting with them in court but also outside the courtroom as well. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew takes a listener email from someone who is struggling with coparenting with a narcissist. It's common for a narcissist or toxic person to try and continue control and abuse via email and text even after the relationship is over when they are communicating about the child. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses one of the toxic persons favorite tools, the silent treatment. The silent treatment is a form of manipulation and creates anxiety and reopens childhood wounds. Why does this work? What do you do when someone is using the silent treatment against you? Matthew covers all of this and more. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew will discuss the intelligence of the Narcissist. Intelligence is a quality that most people find attractive, and it just so happens that narcissistic people are Intelligent. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew will discuss parental alienation. The narcissist uses children as a part of their tactic to remain in control and to punish. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses the narcissist by association or "The Flying Monkey". How does the narcissist get people to not only believe their lies but also turn them against you? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode Matthew discusses why narcissists hate seeing your success and how and why they try and sabotage your success. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses an email from a lister who felt very disrespected by her ex. He would refuse to invite her to work Christmas parties, weddings, and other events. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew takes a listener email from someone who was discarded for a new form of supply by a narcissistic man she dated for 3 1/2 years. Matthew shows the progression of the relationship from the beginning to end and gives some direction to help the listener prevent future situations circumstances. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses Kobe Bryant's "Mamba Mentality" (his pursuit of excellence). How does this mentality play a part in toxic relationships? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

Narcissists and toxic people often make desperate attempts to get you back into the relationship. These attempts can be very emotionally draining and confusing. Often people wonder if they "are for real this time". After all there are plenty of people who breakup and get back together. How do you know the difference. In this episode Matthew will discuss all this and more. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses no contact. Why is no contact so important to recovery. What does it mean to go no contact. In this episode, Matthew compares no contact to recovering from an addiction. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

Often times Toxic and Narcissistic people will move on to a new person or new source of supply very quickly. This leaves people with a lot of questions including, "Did I even mean anything to them?" This is tru not only of romantic relationships but also friendships and workplace relationships. In this episode Matthew will talk about how and why they move on so quickly, and answer some of these burning questions you may have. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

One of the most painful experiences you can go through with a narcissist is a smear campaign. These are vicious lies that the narcissist spreads about you. Why do so many people we know believe these lies. Why does the narcissist do this to us? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode Matthew will discuss the covert narcissist. The covert narcissist has unique characteristics that are very different from other narcissists. Matthew will discuss these characteristics and how to spot a covert narcissist. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew discusses whether or not the narcissist is aware of their bad behavior. If they are doing this consciously or unconsciously. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode Matthew draws the parallels between the Greek mythological story of Echo and real life codependent and people pleasing tendencies. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew will discuss what will happen if you decide to stay with a narcissist. Everyone's situation is different, some may need to make things work for various reasons. How do you make the narcissistic relationship work? What will happen if you do? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

Sex with a narcissist can be very complicated and confusing when you are not familiar with their tactics. In this episode, Matthew will discuss how narcissists use sex as a tool of control and manipulation. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

If you have a narcissist in your life you may have noticed that they act out during holidays and major events. In this episode, Matthew will discuss some of the common tactics that they use and why they use them. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew will discuss the discard phase of the narcissistic cycle of abuse. How could someone who loved you so much get rid of you and move on with ease? Why do they come back if they don't truly love me? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support

In this episode, Matthew talks about the devaluation phase of the cycle of abuse. Find out why and how you ended up in a toxic cycle and why you continue to try and repair the relationship. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/Toxictotriumph /support