This episode tackles the often overlooked issue of rivalry within relationships and guides you towards fostering true partnership. Are you inadvertently creating competition with your partner rather than building a unified front? Don't let competition undermine your connection. Subscribe for more episodes loaded with relationship advice aimed at helping you achieve the harmony and love you desire. Follow us on social media for daily tips and visit our website for comprehensive resources from intimacy experts. Let's journey together towards building healthy relationships, one podcast at a time.

Transform your conflicts into deeper connections with your spouse today! In this empowering episode of the Real Relationship Podcast, Asha and Devon dive into the heart of conflict in marriage, debunking myths and shedding light on the truth that, yes, all couples argue, but it's how you navigate those disputes that can turn disagreements into opportunities for growth.

Join us as we explore not just the challenges of marital conflicts but also the transformative power of facing them head-on, with practical advice and relatable anecdotes that make navigating these turbulent waters a little easier. From the importance of understanding the root causes of arguments to learning effective communication techniques, we've got you covered with expert advice that can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

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In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the age-old question: Are matches for relationships made in heaven, or do they require hard work and dedication? Join us as we explore the contrasting perspectives, unraveling the myths surrounding romantic connections.

Drawing from personal experiences and psychological research, we challenge the notion of predestined soulmates and examine the significance of effort in nurturing a fulfilling relationship. Is there truly a cosmic force orchestrating our love lives, or are we the architects of our own romantic destinies?

Join us as we delve into the importance of building emotional connections in relationships through the power of recognizing and responding to bids for connection. Relationships thrive on the small moments, the seemingly mundane interactions that carry the potential to deepen intimacy and understanding.

Discover how these subtle gestures, expressions, and even casual remarks are the building blocks of emotional intimacy. Learn to decode the language of connection and understand how responding positively to bids can create a reservoir of trust, love, and warmth in your relationships.

We explore practical tips and real-life examples to help you tune into your partner's bids and respond in ways that strengthen the emotional fabric of your connection. From active listening to validating emotions, we provide actionable strategies that can transform your interactions and foster a sense of security and closeness.

Unlock the secrets to a thriving marriage through the power of friendship. Dive deep into the conversation with Asha and Devon Still as they share their journey and insights on building a relationship foundation based on genuine understanding and respect. Discover how taking the time to truly know your partner beyond surface-level interactions can fortify your bond and help you navigate life's challenges together.

The Stills candidly discuss the importance of annual relationship check-ins, setting goals, and fostering a supportive environment for growth. They emphasize the transformative impact of aligning personal development with relationship dynamics, providing you with empowering strategies to boost the intimacy and resilience in your own marriage. Whether you're newlywed or seeking to rekindle the spark in a long-standing union, this episode is packed with valuable insights that can help you transcend the fear of marriage and reignite the passion.

Join Asha and Devon as they guide you through the art of transforming friendship into a robust pillar of your marriage, ensuring that your relationship flourishes in the years to come. Don't forget to subscribe for more heartfelt advice from the Real Relationship experts, and remember to turn your marriage into a real friendship that can withstand any storm.

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Recognizing that breakthroughs are not just about overcoming obstacles but also about rediscovering the love and partnership that initially brought them together. This episode aims to reassure and empower couples, reminding them that it's never too late to embark on a journey of rediscovery and renewal.

This episode isn't just another discussion; it's a transformative journey featuring insights from Ron Deal, author of "The Smart Stepfamily Marriage," who brings decades of expertise to the table.

Whether you're a stepparent, a biological parent, or a co-parent, this episode addresses the hard-hitting challenges blended families face?from managing expectations and parenting styles to fostering trust and harmony among all members. From real-life anecdotes to professional advice, you'll learn that with commitment, patience, and growth, creating a successful blended family is more than a dream?it's an achievable reality.

Don't just navigate the blended family dynamic; thrive within it. Subscribe to our channel for more empowering strategies that boost the intimacy and connection in your relationships. You're not alone on this journey, and with the right knowledge, your family can experience the bliss of being beautifully blended. #BlendedFamily #RelationshipGoals #FamilyBliss #StepParenting

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0:00 - Blended Family Introduction
2:09 - Successful Marriage Tips
6:25 - Enhancing Giving in Relationships
11:32 - Challenges in Married Life
15:42 - Biological Parent Role in Stepfamilies
23:47 - Difficult Conversations with Children
27:52 - Co-Parenting Harmony Strategies
34:30 - Navigating Difficult Ex-Partners
37:14 - Stepchild-Stepparent Naming Dilemma
42:05 - Building Stepparent-Stepchild Bonds
46:34 - Overcoming Rejection in Stepfamilies
52:17 - Managing Parent-Stepchild Comparisons
56:20 - Trust in Stepfamily Discipline
59:35 - Understanding Real Love

The fear of marriage, often referred to as gamophobia, is a complex phenomenon with various contributing factors. People may experience anxiety or hesitation about marriage for a multitude of reasons, and individual experiences vary. In this episode, we discuss some common factors that can contribute to the fear of marriage and how to overcome them. 

In this episode. we dive deep into the world of dating and the surprising ways in which our unrealistic dating lists can become obstacles on the path to finding true love. We'll explore how society's expectations, pop culture, and personal desires shape the checklists we bring to the dating game.

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In this podcast episode, we delve into the profound importance of cultivating a deep and lasting friendship within your marriage. Love is undoubtedly a crucial foundation, but the sustaining power of friendship often goes underestimated. Discover practical tips on how to nurture a deeper friendship that stands the test of time. Whether you're already in a long-term relationship or just starting your journey together, this episode will inspire you to prioritize and cherish the deep friendship that underlies your love story.

Today, we're delving into a topic that many of us might be familiar with but often overlook or underestimate ? the concept of a "work spouse." It sounds harmless, even endearing, but beneath the surface, there are hidden dangers that can have far-reaching consequences for your marriage.

In this episode, we delve into the often underestimated yet critical impact that the division of household duties has on the satisfaction and longevity of marriages. Join us as we explore real-life stories, and research findings that shed light on how the equitable distribution of chores can be a powerful catalyst for marital harmony or discord. Discover practical strategies, communication tips, and compelling anecdotes that will not only strengthen your relationship but also inspire a more balanced and fulfilling partnership at home. 

In this episode, we dive deep into the emotionally charged debate surrounding the question: Should divorce be a legitimate option within the institution of marriage? Join us as we navigate the complex web of perspectives, values, and societal norms that shape our understanding of this topic.

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of feeling valued and adding value to relationships. Through real-life examples and research, you will uncover the secrets to fostering a deep sense of significance and belonging in your relationship. Don't miss this transformative episode that will inspire you to prioritize 'mattering' as a cornerstone of lasting love and fulfillment!

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In this episode, we discuss the complexities of dating in today's digital age. Join us as we explore the many factors contributing to the challenges and frustrations a lot of individuals face when searching for love and companionship. From the influence of technology and changing social dynamics to the pressures of self-presentation and unrealistic expectations, we unravel the intricate web of reasons behind the difficulty of modern dating. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply curious about the shifting landscape of romance, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand why dating has become so complicated.

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In today's episode, we review and answer the top 3 most Googled relationship questions.

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In today's episode, we tackle a common challenge many couples face: finding couple friends. We explore the reasons why it can be difficult, share personal experiences, and provide practical tips for overcoming this hurdle. Join us as we discuss the complexities of building and maintaining friendships as a couple.

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In this enlightening episode, we talk to "America's Intimacy Expert" Dr. Viviana Coles about the often challenging and sensitive topic of overcoming a sexless marriage. We explore the underlying causes, potential solutions, and empowering strategies to rebuild intimacy and restore the spark in your relationship.

Dr. Coles brings over 20 years of knowledge and experience, offering valuable insights into the emotional, psychological, and physical aspects of a sexless marriage. Drawing from her expertise in couples therapy and relationship counseling, she provides practical tips and guidance for individuals and couples seeking to navigate this complex issue.

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Discover the damaging effects of keeping score in your marriage in this episode. We discuss the negative impact of tallying up wins and losses, and how it can erode trust, communication, and intimacy between partners. Gain a fresh perspective on why it's crucial to let go of the scoreboard mentality and embrace a more collaborative approach to resolving conflicts and sharing responsibilities. Don't let keeping score sabotage your relationship - watch this video to learn how to create a harmonious and thriving marriage based on mutual understanding and empathy.

What's up Real Ones! In this episode we delve into the profound impact that trauma can have on one's perspective toward love and discuss the connection between past wounds and present-day experiences. We also discuss our thoughts on the Derrick Jackson scandal. Tune in now!

We are celebrating our 7 year anniversary! Tune in to discover the ultimate guide to overcoming the infamous "7-year itch" in marriage. From effective communication techniques to reigniting intimacy, we explore proven strategies and expert insights that pave the way for a strong and healthy lifelong partnership. Join us on this transformative journey towards a love that stands the test of time.

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In this week's episode, we decided to get "Real" and share our experiences on how facing and overcoming trials in our relationship ultimately shifted our perspectives on what it means to make sacrifices in your marriage. This conversation leads us to "Is there an I in We?"

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In this week's episode, we got a chance to sit down and discuss all things finance with Rasmey personality, Jade Warshaw.  Listen as she shares her story of how she was able to pay off almost half a million dollars worth of debt and become debt free. She now coaches others alongside her husband to help them get out of debt and become financially free!

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Do you and your spouse get tested for STD's? 

In this episode we discuss a multitude of things from testing while married, giving the ring back if you call off your proposal and if you prefer for your partner to have a clear vision or solid values? 

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In this week's episode we wanted to unpack a clip we saw on social media that stated "dating is practicing for divorce". This definitely caught our attention and opened our eyes to see that maybe our habits formed in previous relationships can determine if we stay married or get divorced.

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Have you ever fallen victim to your partner giving you an ultimatum? In this episode, we unpack the dangers of demanding your partner to make a decision in your relationship and how doing so can ultimately lead to the demise of your relationship. 

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After a controversial week of trending topics on social media, we decided to discuss The Culture's impact on relationships in today's society and share our thoughts on the matter.

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We're Back!!!

In this episode, we wanted to unpack the trauma baggage many of us unknowingly carry throughout life. We decided to share our personal stories of how childhood trauma showed up in our relationship as adults. And discuss how you can identify if you are suffering from past trauma in your current relationship.

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In this episode, we wanted to be extremely vulnerable and share a personal dark time that unfortunately so many people face. We hope that this episode will bring light to someone facing a dark time. And help them to see things can get better after the storm.

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What's Up Real Ones! After the recent news of several celeb couples announcing their divorce this week, we decided to have an open discussion on our thoughts on divorce. And how we were able to navigate our relationship through the storms we endured to avoid having to file for divorce.

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After seeing a discussion on social media and hearing so many people having a negative perception of marriage, we thought it was critical to discuss the benefits of marriage in today's society and how you can potentially alter your opinion on marriage for the better!

What's Up Real Ones! After seeing a post on social media about couples sleeping in separate rooms we wanted to dive deeper into the topic and determine if sleeping separately from your spouse contributes to marital/relationship dissatisfaction or satisfaction. We were surprised by our findings and think you all will be too!

What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we wanted to unpack what emotional availability looks like in a relationship. Why do some individuals seem emotionally unavailable? And things you can do if you or your partner is having a difficult time being emotionally available. 

What's Up Real Ones! This topic got rather heated in the comment section when we posted an article we came across on social media, that discussed the decrease in opportunities for men to date due to the rise of higher expectations of women. So, we decided to break down the article and research we came across and dive deep into why this controversial topic struck a flame with so many people.

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In this episode, we want to go back to the basics and discuss sex values. Most of us have a clear understanding of our values in life but have you ever asked yourself or your partner what are your sex values? We decided to share our take on the conversation that can be uncomfortable for some while sharing key questions to ask yourself or your partner to have a better understanding of how you value sex. 

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So after hearing several conversations on social media, we thought it was necessary to run it back and break down the meaning of submission and how it relates to marriage. We decided to share two very different perspectives on the topic that we came across on Instagram while also giving the biblical definition of what it means to be a submissive wife.

What's Up Real Ones! It's been some time since our last episode and most of you thought we left ya'll on "READ" for good. But we are back and with have some exciting news to share. In this episode catch up with us on the highs and lows we experienced over the past three months that kept us away for far too long.

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After so many discussions about the Oscars this week, we decided to share our thoughts on the matter and break down what it means to protect your woman and how a quick decision can drastically impact your life.

Imagine you are dating someone for a couple of months and everything is going great! Just when you think it's time to take things to the next level and make it official, the person you're dating decides they aren't ready for a relationship and call it quits. In this episode, we break down the truth behind some break-up statements that just don't make sense!

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Who said don't go to sleep mad? Is that really something that most of us can keep our word on? In this episode, we share some of our recent struggles of falling short of properly handling conflict even though we have all the tools and resources to effectively communicate and resolve conflict. Sometimes, challenges arise that set your relationship back but it doesn't have to stay there. We discuss how to acknowledge your faults and address the problem with love. 

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In this episode, we wanted to touch on the importance of allowing men to be vulnerable and comfortable enough to speak their truth, without the fear of being judged as "soft". We unpack the history of this negative mentality and how we can set the tone for a better future for emotionally intelligent men!

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In this episode, we discuss the cause and effects of putting your children before your spouse and how detrimental it can be for your relationship. Sit back and relax while we unpack this very touchy topic.  

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It's February and we are celebrating Black History Month and The Month of Love!

In this episode we wanted to breakdown and discuss the importance of "fighting" for your relationship after seeing so many people on social media say, they are no longer fighting to make their relationship work. We wanted to clear the blurred lines of what it means to fight for your relationship (making a determined effort) and how to be intentional with you words, actions, and resources when you going through those tough times.

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When trust is broken in relationships, most couples suffer from Negative Sentiment Override (NSO). NSO is when you believe everything your partner does is negative or has a hidden agenda. In this quickie, we discuss some solutions that can help you turn those negative interactions into positive ones! 

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In this episode, we wanted to open up a dialogue on a very controversial topic, "Should a woman take her man's last name when they get married "? After putting up a post on our social media platforms asking this question, we quickly realized that we needed to go more in-depth on this topic and share our perspectives.

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We're back at it for another week in a row!

This week wanted to dedicate to a few of our real ones and answer some very deep questions that was sent to us in hopes to salvage their relationships.