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Narcissists in Disney: Hans of the Southern Isles
Narcissism is so prevalent in today's society. I'm taking a deep dive into Disney characters that I see that may be on the spectrum of NPD. Today's episode is about Hans from the Movie FROZEN. Hans lovebombed, gaslit and manipulated Ana to all ends.
If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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The Narcissist expects you to support them no matter what
In today's episode we talk about how the narcissist expects you to support them no matter what.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Narcissistic Rage from the perspective of a Narcissist
Today's episode is about Narcissistic Rage from the perspective of a narcissist. I talk about the 3 triggers of my rage and how I experience the rage when it happens.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Reactive Abuse from the narcissist perspective
Today's episode is about the phenomenon known as reactive abuse. If you are unfamiliar with the term, basically it's when someone pokes, and/or triggers you until you respond in an explosive manner.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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What it's like being the self aware narcissist
Today we go into the mind of what it's like to be a self aware narcissist. I think people think that awareness means peace, but it absolutely doesn't. Watch the full video
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Early red flags of narcissism
Today's episode covers some of the red flags that may pop up early on in a possibly narcissistic relationship.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Subtle manipulation tactic employed by the narcissist
In today's episode I cover one of the subtle ways a narcissist can manipulate you into doing what they want you to do.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Acting differently in public than you do at home with a narcissist
Today's episode is about why do people act differently out in public than they do at home with the narcissist in their lives.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and All my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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How social media has become the narcissist's playground
Today's episode is about SOCIAL MEDIA. Social media has made it so easy to pretend to be someone you are not and that makes narcissists extremely happy and gives them the tools to manipulate many people at once.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and All my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Why the narcissist ghosts you
In today's episode I cover a couple of different reasons why the narcissist in your life may ghost you.....more than once.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
All my links and 1 on 1s - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the beacon up top for direct links. Thank you
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Why the narcissist uses the silent treatment and how to combat it.
In today's episode we cover the common narcissist's tactic of the Silent treatment. I go into detail as to why we (the narcissist) employ it and ways to combat it or deal with it.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
All my links and 1 on 1s - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the beacon up top for direct links. Thank you
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Sometimes a narcissist makes you discard them
In today's episode I go over the narcissistic discard that no one talks about. Sometimes the narcissist drives you so crazy, gets on your nerves so much that they make you discard them.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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What happens when you take a narcissist back without changed behavior
On today's episode we tackle the question "what happens if I take them back?". If you take a narcissist back without changed behavior, it will absolutely get worse. That I can promise you.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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What happens when you discard a narcissist?
In this episode I answer a comment I received on a youtube video about what could happen when a you discard a narcissist. If you do decide to leave, please protect yourself, because a narcissist can possibly become aggressive.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's via zoom and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Why a narcissist doesn't give you closure
On today's episode I go into detail about closure and the narcissist in your life. I cover the fact that closure is something that you give yourself and it's nothing that the narcissist can provide, it's something you have to give yourself.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Why do Narcissists ruin the holidays?
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Did the narcissist ever love you?
Today's episode is about LOVE AND NARCISSISM. Do they love you? Did they ever? I go into detail about my thoughts on whether or not a narcissist can actually love anyone other than themselves (ourselves)
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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The narcissist and the smear campaign
Today's episode is about the narcissist's smear campaign and why they do it.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1s and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Different types of Hoovers a narcissists uses to suck you back in
Today's episode is about the different ways a narcissist a sucks you back into the relationship. If you take them back with no changed behaviors, you are opening the doors to getting hurt again.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1s and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the LINKTREE up top for direct links. Thank you
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Why do narcissists lie for no reason?
Today's episode Is about why narcissists choose to lie for no reason. I go into detail about how it gives the narcissist power and it actually could give the narcissist a form of pleasure.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1 and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the beacon up top for direct links. Thank you
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How therapy has helped me deal with being a narcissist and having NPD
Today's episode is about the steps I've taken after being in therapy to live a better life overall. I have been in therapy for nearly 4 years and I layout a lot of the things that have helped me cope with NPD, be married and raise my children. I discuss what makes me a little different that your average narcissist.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
For 1 on 1's - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com , search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Can a narcissist change? Self aware narcissist perspective
Today's episode is about the prospects of a narcissist changing. I am a diagnosed narcissist that has been in therapy for nearly 4 years and I give my perspective on the topic here.
'Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1s and All my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the Beacon up top for direct links. Thank you
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Is the narcissist treating the next supply better than they treated me?
Today's episode is about the Narcissist and the new supply. One of the main questions I get on my social media platforms is "Are they treating the next person better than me?". I answer this question in detail and explain why it looks so good from the outside looking in. Welcome to The Narcissists' Code.
If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
All my links and 1 on 1's - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the LINKTREE up top for direct links. Thank you
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What rock bottom for a narcissist could look like
Today's episode is about why I went to therapy. When I'm doing my one on one's with people one of the main questions that comes up is "Why did you go to therapy?". My answer to that question remains the same. I had to absolutely hit rock bottom. I had to get to the point where I couldn't blame anyone else for my position in life other than myself. Rock bottom will look different for everyone but one thing is certain, you can't hit rock bottom with someone holding you up.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the Beacon up top for direct links. Thank you
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Holding on to the potential of a Narcissist
Today's episode is about the POTENTIAL of a narcissist and how holding on to it can get you hurt and have you wasting years of your life. The person that they showed you in the beginning is just a facade and the real version of themselves shows through eventually.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
One on One's --- https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.WISIO.com, search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Why you shouldn't tie your self worth to a narcissist
Today's episode is about the downside of tying your self worth to a narcissist. I get a lot of comments on my page about how sad men and women are that their current or ex narcissist (or toxic person) won't get help. In this video I go over how it's NOT ABOUT YOU, it's about us, the Narcissist.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1s and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com , search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Narcissist on a first date and how you should react
Today's episode is about the narcissist on a first date and how you should react. My advice is to slow it down and take your time because SPEED is the weapon of a narcissist.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 ON 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
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The Narcissistic Discard from the narcissist's perspective
Today's episode is about the Narcissistic discard. WHY DO WE DO IT? I go in depth behind a few reasons why a narcissist discards you and one discard that I don't see a lot of material on! Sometimes the narcissist forces you to be the one to discard them!! Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.
The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
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The narcissist knows what they are doing
Today's episode is about whether or not the narcissist in your life knows what they are doing to you. My answer is YES, we know. Narcissists are not used to being held accountable for our actions so we tend to escalate over time in order to chase a "narcissistic" high to see what else we can get away with.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's available here - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
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The narcissist Love Bombing you later in the relationship
Today's episode is about love bombing from a narcissist...later in a relationship. A lot of people think that a narcissist only love bombs you in the beginning of a relationship but that's not true. A narcissist will love bomb you anytime they feel like you may leave them.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
All my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
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Making them earn your information.
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Consistent change is the only apology
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Is the Narcissist serious about changing?
Today's episode covers the always elusive question of "How can you tell if they are serious about changing?" I go over a few ways that you can "test" to see if the narcissist (or toxic person) in your life is changing in some way, shape or form. I also get very passionate about why I stayed in therapy and I send a direct message to other narcissists out there about how their (our) behaviors are effecting our families.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum.
All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
All my links including One on One's - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
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Missing the narcissist
Today's episode is about missing the narcissist that was in your life. I get a lot of people that are embarrassed about the fact that even years of mistreatment and abuse, they actually still miss the narcissist. In this video I go over how it's actually understandable and how you need to mentally have a funeral for them and then celebrate your new life.
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the Beacon up top for direct links. Thank you
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The narcissist doesn't care about wasting your time
On today's episode I go into detail about how a narcissist will waste years of your life and then blame you for sticking around for so long. A true narcissist does not care about anything other than satisfying their own needs in some way, shape or form. Take back your power and regain control of your life now or you will regret it later, I promise.
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The Narcissists' Code: Episode 15: Back to the start. Why the self aware narcissist went to therapy
Today's episode is about my origins and why I went to therapy. So many people ask me this question and I feel the need to come back and start over since my following has grown. Although I am married, my wife was not the only reason I went to therapy. There were a lot of events that came to a point and I forced changed upon myself. I am not cured, I am just aware
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the BEACON link up top for direct links. Thank you
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No Contact on the Narcissist
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
Today's episode is about going no contact on a narcissist and why it works. No contact, is the best way to deal with getting the narcissist out of your life so you can start to heal. No CONTACT means NO CONTACT. Stay strong and finish the marathon You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mental_healness. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness.
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Trauma Bonded to a Narcissist
Today's episode is about the "TRAUMA BOND". This is when you are literally bonded through trauma to a narcissist. You can't find the strength to leave even though you know you are in a terrible situation.
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Isolation by a Narcissist
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.
Today's episode is about being Isolated by a Narcissist. A narcissist wants to isolate you so that we are your only source of emotional support, financial support and friendship support. Be wary of the signs.
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I'm Not Saying he's a Narcissist, but if he issssss Episode 1: Derrick Jaxn
Welcome to my Channel. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of this series is to point out people that could be narcissists. I'm not calling them narcissists though, I'm just going on the assumption that they are and providing perspective as to why they could be doing what they do. Today's episode is about guru Derrick Jaxn. Derrick was recently exposed for not practicing what he preaches and alledgely cheating on his wife. I go over his actions and my perspective on the entire situation. You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mental_healness. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the LINKTREE up top for direct links. Thank you
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The reverse dynamic of a Narcissistic Relationship
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum.
All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
Today's episode is about the differences in the dynamics of a narcissistic relationship vs that of a normal relationship. One of the main differences is the starting point of the relationship, the normal relationships seem to start at the bottom of the hill and the 2 people work together to get to the top of the hill. The Narcissistic relationship starts at the top of the hill and rolls downhill to the bottom quickly.
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The Silent Treatment
Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these podcasts is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
Today's episode is about THE SILENT TREATMENT from a narcissist. The silent treatment is a powerful tool in the narcissistic arsenal
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Emotions as a Narcissist, Over 10 Years without crying
Today's episode is about the emotions as a narcissist. I tell a personal story about how I went 17 years without shedding a tear because I felt like showing any emotions would hinder me from experiencing life the way I wanted to experience it. This is my most honest episode, I really get into my life and why I am the way that i am.
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Children and Narcissists
Today's Today's episode is going to be all about CHILDREN and narcissists. If you're new to the channel, I am a self aware narcissist whose goal is to bring awareness to both sides of the dynamic, the narcissist and the survivor. I cover co-parenting, abandonment, obsessions and even go into detail about how I coparent with my oldest son's mother.
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Love Bombing from the Narcissists' perspective
Today's episode is going to be about the hot topic of Love Bombing from a narcissist. Is the love real? Why does it stop? How are they so good at it? All of these questions and more are answered in this episode.
My goal is to bring awareness to the other side of the narcissistic dynamic by offering you the perspective of an actual self-aware narcissist.
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The Narcissist and Hoovering
Today's episode of the Narcissists' Code covers the subject of HOOVERING. If you are unfamiliar with the term, Hoovering (like a vacuum) is when a narcissist sucks you back into the relationship by any means necessary. I also cover the "REVERSER HOOVER" a coin I termed. The reverse hoover is a form of the silent treatment that us as narcissists, use to get you to question yourself and reach out.
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Closure from the Narcissist
Today's episode of the Narcissists' Code is all about Closure from your narcissist. Closure is something that you give yourself and it is a weapon that narcissists will use against you.
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The Next Supply
Welcome to another episode of The Narcissists' Code. Today's episode is all about the next supply, or the next victim, or the next person in line for the narcissist. This is a tough subject for many because a lot of the time, the narcissist will abandon their current relationship for this next person. I go into detail about why you shouldn't warn the next supply (unless there is so S*x*al *ss*ault) because it will make you look jealous and/or vindictive.
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Reactive abuse and how it benefits the narcissist
Today's episode will be all about Reactive Abuse. Reactive abuse occurs when the narcissist pokes and provokes you and causes you to react out of character. While you are there yelling, screaming and perhaps getting physical, the narcissist is calm, cool and collected. Reactive abuse is meant to cause you confusion and is a tool of control used by narcissists around the world.
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Children and Narcissists
Today's episode of The Narcissists' Code is about kids. ALL THINGS kids and narcissist related. How I, (a narcissist) interact with my 2.5 children and how therapy has helped me with parenting. For awhile I felt like i didn't even know my kids even though i've seen them literally every single day. Being consumed with myself has definitely made being a parent a struggle.
This episode also details my relationship with my parents and how I think that i became a narcissist. I also talk about possible coparenting tactics that have worked on me as well. Tune in and subscribe for more weekly content.
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