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On Purpose with Jay Shetty

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

I?m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I?m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you?re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life?s ups and downs with more ease and grace.

I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we?ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don?t take it for granted ? click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can?t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

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Episodes

Do This Every Morning to Boost Energy & Stay Focused (3 Minute Habit to Kickstart Your Day)

Do you have a morning routine?

How do you usually boost your energy in the morning?

Today, Jay explores a challenge we all face, feeling drained, exhausted, and overwhelmed. He reminds us that rest isn’t a luxury but a necessity, and pushing ourselves too hard only leads to burnout. In this episode, he shares simple yet powerful strategies to help us reclaim our energy, set better boundaries, and shift our mindset from perfectionism to progress.

One key lesson is focusing on progress instead of perfection. Many of us wait for the “perfect” moment, but that often keeps us from starting at all. Jay also encourages us to spot and fix our energy leaks—those unnoticed habits, relationships, or activities that quietly wear us down. Whether it’s spending time with people who drain us, sitting through unnecessary meetings, or endlessly scrolling on social media, these small but consistent drains add up. By recognizing them, we can take control and protect our energy.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Stop Feeling Drained and Reclaim Your Energy

How to Focus on Progress Instead of Perfection

How to Set Boundaries to Protect Your Time and Energy

How to Make Rest a Priority (and Why It’s Productive)

How to Structure Your Day Around Your Peak Energy Hours

Feeling drained and overwhelmed doesn’t have to be your norm. You have the power to take back your energy, set boundaries, and create a life that feels balanced and fulfilling.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:37 How to Break Free from Feeling Drained

02:32 #1: Focus on Progress and Process not Perfection

05:39 #2: The Energy Leaks Principle

12:56 #3: The Boundaries for Energy Principle

14:15 #4: The ‘Rest is Productive’ Principle

16:55 #5: The Art of Saying NO Principle

18:40 #6: The Small Wins Principle

20:12 How to Manage Your Energy Daily

22:43 Setting the Right Tone for the Day

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2025-04-04
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Jay?s Must Listens: What Every Parent Needs to Hear Right Now?How to Raise Confident & Emotionally Strong Kids (Ft. Dr. Amen & Kim Kardashian)

What’s the hardest part about being a parent?

How do you balance discipline and love while navigating the ever-evolving complexities of raising children?

In this special compilation episode, we explore the meaningful lessons, struggles, and joys of parenting. Jay Shetty and his guests share wisdom on how to nurture strong family bonds, create a positive environment for growth, and raise children with confidence and resilience.

From setting healthy boundaries to leading with love and patience, each guest offers practical insights that will help parents navigate the ups and downs of raising children. Whether you're a new parent, an experienced caregiver, or just seeking a deeper understanding of parent-child relationships, this episode is packed with valuable insights.

 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Build Deep, Lasting Connections with Your Kids

The Importance of Setting Healthy Boundaries in Parenting

How to Lead with Love While Teaching Discipline

Ways to Foster Emotional Resilience in Children

The Power of Modeling the Behavior You Want to See

 

Parenting is both one of life’s greatest responsibilities and its most rewarding joys. By approaching the journey with intention, patience, and love, you lay the foundation for a strong and thriving family

 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

 

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro

01:13 Is Discipline About Punishment or Teaching?

11:06 Are You Spending Enough Uninterrupted Time With Your Kids?

19:27 How To Overcome and Find Balance Between Career and Family

26:03 Teaching Your Kids Resilience and Self-Worth

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2025-04-02
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David Blaine: I Nearly Died Doing This (How to Conquer Fear and Push Your Limits)

What’s a fear you want to overcome?

How do you stay calm under pressure?

What if the only limits you had were the ones you refused to break? Today, in this spellbinding episode, world-renowned illusionist, endurance artist, and master of the impossible, David Blaine, sits down for a deep and insightful conversation that goes far beyond magic. Known for his jaw-dropping stunts, being buried alive, standing encased in ice for days, and holding his breath underwater for over 17 minutes, David has captivated audiences worldwide. But behind the spectacle lies a profound philosophy of discipline, resilience, and the boundless potential of the human mind.

Jay and David explore what drives someone to willingly push themselves to their absolute limits, both physically and mentally. David opens up about his mindset, revealing how he prepares for extreme feats that defy human expectations. He explains the power of visualization, breathwork, and sheer willpower in overcoming pain, fear, and doubt. But this conversation isn’t just about physical endurance, it’s about the mental and emotional strength required to navigate life’s greatest challenges. David shares personal stories of setbacks and perseverance, showing that even in moments of failure, there is wisdom to be gained.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Train Your Mind to Overcome Fear

How to Build Unbreakable Mental Resilience

How to Use Breathwork to Enhance Endurance

How to Stay Calm Under Extreme Pressure

How to Push Past Your Physical Limits

How to Cultivate Childlike Curiosity for Creativity

How to Reframe Failure as a Stepping Stone

No matter what obstacles stand in your way, remember: you are stronger than you think, and capable of more than you realize. Believe in yourself, stay curious, and never stop challenging what’s possible.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:41 The Subway Trick that Started It All

04:39 Lessons from the Above the Below

09:10 What Happens When You Don’t Feel Hunger

11:34 Pushing the Body Beyond Its Limit

17:25 The Capabilities of the Human Body

22:52 The Knife Stunt   

26:25 The Bullet-Catch Trick

30:12 Break Free from Your Comfort Zone

32:27 Push the Boundaries of Your Growth

34:41 Some Stunts are Just Too Dangerous

41:46 Pushing Yourself Without Risking Your Life

45:04 Failure Leads to Continuous Learning

47:26 The Riskiest Illusion 

49:29 Processing the Pain of Grief

53:32 Everything is About Perspective

57:14 Open Up Your Mind with Books

01:01:24 Every Person is Unique

01:03:06 The Bridge Jump, Anything is Possible

01:09:13 David on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

David Blaine | Website

David Blaine | YouTube

David Blaine | Instagram 

David Blaine | Facebook 

David Blaine | X 

David Blaine Do Not Attempt

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2025-03-31
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5 steps To Find Your Purpose (The Fast Track To Build The Life You Want)

What excites you the most in life?

When do you feel most fulfilled?

What if you could not only live longer but also feel healthier, more energized, and more fulfilled as you age? Today, Jay uncovers the secrets of longevity, sharing wisdom from some of the world’s leading experts in health, wellness, and aging. Recorded at the Longevity Summit, this episode explores groundbreaking insights on how we can extend not just our lifespan but also our health span, ensuring that we live longer, healthier, and more fulfilling lives.  

Jay unpacks the science behind aging, from cellular regeneration to the role of mindset in shaping our physical well-being. He shares compelling research on nutrition, movement, and daily habits that contribute to longevity, emphasizing how small, intentional changes can have a profound impact. Through thought-provoking conversations and personal reflections, Jay helps us understand how to take control of our well-being, cultivate emotional resilience, and prioritize self-care in ways that align with our long-term health goals.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Add More Healthy Years to Your Life

How to Strengthen Your Mindset for a Longer Life

How to Reduce Stress and Boost Emotional Resilience

How to Create a Longevity-Focused Morning Routine

How to Use Movement and Exercise to Slow Aging

How to Prioritize Sleep for Long-Term Wellness

The journey to longevity isn’t about drastic changes or chasing the latest health trends, it’s about making small, intentional choices every day that add up over time.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:11 Experience the Grounding Meditation

09:22 The Search for Your Purpose

12:55 What Are You Holding Onto?

17:25 This Isn’t Your Purpose

19:42 Who Found the Most Meaning in Life

32:11 Five Check-In Systems for Envy

32:49 #1: Deep Sense of Belonging 

39:46 #2: Continuous Learning

44:55 #3: Individuality 

47:00 #4: Significance

50:40 #5: Service

53:31 The Biggest Key to Meaning and Purpose

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2025-03-28
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Suneera Madhani: Why Most Founders Fail?7 Things You Must Do to Succeed

What habits do you think lead to success?

How do you handle setbacks or failures?

Today, Jay Shetty sits down with Suneera Madhani, a visionary entrepreneur who defied the odds to build a billion-dollar business. As the founder of Stax Payments and CEO of Worth AI, Suneera opens up about her remarkable journey—from being the daughter of Pakistani immigrants and the first in her family to attend college, to becoming a trailblazer in the fintech industry. Her story is a powerful testament to resilience, innovation, and breaking barriers in a world where women are often underrepresented in leadership roles.

In this insightful conversation, Jay and Suneera dive into the mindset shifts necessary to scale a business, from overcoming self-doubt to making tough leadership calls. Suneera shares her game-changing “Do, Delegate, Delete” framework—a powerful time management strategy that has helped her balance the demands of entrepreneurship and motherhood. Jay emphasizes the value of living with intention, drawing parallels between Suneera’s disciplined approach and his own experiences with self-awareness, productivity, and personal growth.

Together, they discuss the unique challenges women face in business, especially in male-dominated industries like fintech. Suneera opens up about the gender disparities in venture capital funding and leadership, sharing eye-opening statistics that highlight the struggles many female entrepreneurs face. More importantly, she offers practical strategies for women to break through these barriers—building strong networks, seeking mentorship, and how to step into executive roles with confidence.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Turn Rejection Into Opportunity

How to Effectively Manage Time as an Entrepreneur

How to Scale a Business to the Next Level

How to Balance Entrepreneurship and Family Life

How to Build a Strong and Supportive Network

How to Succeed as a Woman in a Male-Dominated Industry

How to Shift Your Mindset for Long-Term Success

No matter where you are in your journey—whether you're launching a business, chasing a passion, or facing life’s challenges—remember that success isn't just about hitting a milestone. It's about staying aligned with your purpose and pushing forward with intention.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:46 Highly-Caffeinated Time Hacker

03:46 The Best Time Management Strategy

07:35 How to Delegate Time & Tasks Effectively

11:05 How It All Started

16:42 Collaboration to Solve Hard Problems 

19:46 The Risk of Playing It Safe 

25:50 How to Set Empowering Goals

30:15 Build Your Network

37:19 Don’t Lose Yourself in the Process

41:37 Building a Business with Family

50:21 Find Your Niche to Build a Product That Lasts

55:19 Mindset Shift to Build a Successful Business

01:01:24 The Darkest Day for an Entrepreneur

01:08:41 The Importance of Self Reflection  

01:12:16 A Supportive Partner is Key

01:20:21 Suneera on Final Five  

Episode Resources:

Suneera Madhani | Website

Suneera Madhani | LinkedIn

Suneera Madhani | Instagram 

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2025-03-26
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Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco EXCLUSIVE: Their Love Story Like You?ve Never Heard Before

How did Selena and Benny first meet?

What makes their love story unique?

On today’s episode of On Purpose, Jay sits down with global superstar Selena Gomez and acclaimed music producer Benny Blanco where they share their love story like they never have before. They open up about their personal journey—one that didn’t start with an immediate spark.

Their story is full of humor, mixed signals, and that moment when it all clicked. Benny once thought Selena didn’t like him, while Selena, protecting her heart, kept her distance. But as their friendship grew, they built something real—a relationship rooted in trust, respect, open communication, and always supporting each other. Their story is a true testament that love unfolds when the timing is right.

Together, Jay, Selena, and Benny reflect on the power of embracing love, letting go of past fears, and choosing a partner who helps you grow. Their journey serves as a beautiful reminder that love often comes when you least expect it—but when it’s right, you’ll know.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build a Strong Friendship Before Dating

How to Communicate Openly in a Relationship

How to Maintain Trust in a Long-Distance Relationship

How to Support Your Partner’s Emotional Needs

How to Balance a Busy Career with a Healthy Relationship

Selena and Benny’s story reminds us that true love isn’t defined by grand gestures or perfection—it’s about finding someone who sees you for who you are, supports you through life’s challenges, and makes even the simplest moments feel special.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:10 Male Friendships Can Be Challenging

03:01 First Meeting & Deep Conversations

08:48 How It All Started

16:32 Opening Up to Love Again

18:57 It All Happens for a Reason

21:08 Finding Genuine Love

27:13 Be Kind to Yourself

33:37 Don’t Let Negativity Dictate Your Life

37:55 Cultivating Relationships with Trust

48:22 This is How Emotionally Mature Relationships Work      

57:08 The Proposal 

01:05:29 Wedding Planning

01:06:26 Recording an Album Together

01:13:17 Future Family Plans

01:18:03 Selena and Benny on Fun Questions

Episode Resources:

Selena Gomez | Website

Selena Gomez | Facebook

Selena Gomez | Twitter

Selena Gomez | Instagram

Selena Gomez | YouTube

Benny Blanco | TikTok

Benny Blanco | Instagram

Benny Blanco | YouTube

Benny Blanco | Twitter

Benny Blanco | Facebook

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2025-03-24
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Best Dating Advice For People In Their 30s (You're Not Behind)

Do you ever feel "behind" in dating?

Do you value compatibility over chemistry?

Dating in your 30s is a completely new experience—one that comes with unique challenges, fresh perspectives, and a deeper sense of self-awareness. Today, Jay unpacks the most common misconceptions about dating at this stage in life and shares empowering insights on how to navigate relationships with confidence and clarity. He begins by tackling the biggest myth that holds so many people back—the belief that they’re “too late” or “falling behind” in their search for love.

Jay also explores the key differences between dating in your 20s versus your 30s. While your 20s are a period of self-discovery—figuring out deal-breakers, learning from mistakes, and often getting caught up in dating games—your 30s bring a new level of clarity and intention. No more ignoring red flags, no more prioritizing chemistry over compatibility, and no more settling for less than you deserve. Emotional maturity becomes the foundation of lasting relationships, and by your 30s, you’ve developed the wisdom and confidence to approach love in a way that truly aligns with your values.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Overcome the Fear of Being "Too Late" in Dating

How to Stop Settling and Start Prioritizing What You Deserve

How to Stop Playing Dating Games and Be Direct About What You Want

How to Choose Peace Over Drama in Relationships

How to Approach Dating in Your 30s with Confidence and Clarity

No matter where you are on your dating journey, remember that you are not behind—you are exactly where you need to be. Your 30s are not a deadline; they are an opportunity to date with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:00 The Biggest Dating Myth

02:55 Why Your 30s Are Powerful

03:27 Society’s False Timelines

05:00 Emotional Maturity in Relationships

06:11 Lessons from Dating in Your 20s

08:41 No More Dating Games

10:27 Trusting Your Gut & Red Flags

14:47 Compatibility vs. Chemistry

15:20 Choosing Peace Over Drama

16:58 The Pain of Settling vs. Being Single

19:38 Healing After Breakups

22:22 Dating with Confidence in Your 30s

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2025-03-21
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Hannah Berner: Why Getting Fired Was the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me

Have you ever been fired from a job?

Did it end up leading you to something better?

Today, Jay sits down with comedian, podcaster, and former reality TV star Hannah Berner to explore her unconventional journey—from competitive tennis to stand-up comedy. Hannah shares how she’s mastered the art of pivoting, embracing change, and knowing when to walk away from something that no longer serves her.

Hannah opens up about her struggles with performance anxiety during her tennis career and the surprising sense of calm she found on stage. Through humor and self-reflection, Hannah shares how life’s setbacks—like getting fired from reality TV—turned out to be unexpected blessings that helped her find her true purpose. 

Jay and Hannah also discuss the importance of trusting your instincts, quitting with confidence, and listening to your body when it tells you something isn’t right. Things get personal as Hannah opens up about love, marriage, and self-worth, sharing the importance of relationships should feel effortless and not draining. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Overcome Performance Anxiety

How to Trust Your Instincts in Big Decisions

How to Create a Career That Aligns with Your Personality

How to Navigate the Challenges of Marriage and Long-Term Commitment

How to Let Go of External Validation and Focus on Self-Worth

How to Handle Criticism and Keep Moving Forward

Whether you’re questioning your career, your relationships, or your purpose, trust that walking away from what doesn’t serve you is just as powerful as chasing what does.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:38 The Right Athletic Attitude

03:02 Becoming an Expert Quitter

06:40 Coach Yourself Out of Negative Self-Talk

12:18 Performance Anxiety

15:06 Moving Towards Your Calm

16:32 Finding Your Own Comfort Zone

20:06 Letting Go of Ego

24:37 People-Pleasing Tendencies

29:09 Fired by Bravo

30:46 Self Confidence or Self Worth?

31:30 A Different Kind of Revenge Mindset

34:31 Loving Your Own Story

38:44 Get Good at Planning Personal Breaks

41:07 Dealing with the Craziest Rumors 

42:22 Mom Intuition is Real

46:34 Emotional Unavailability in Relationships

49:59 Modern Dating Struggles 

53:36 Surprising Challenges in Marriage

56:50 What’s Your Love Language?

01:00:20 Find Your Superpower

01:05:43 A Message to Your Younger Self

01:07:54 How Do You Chase Your Dreams?

01:12:08 Hannah on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Hannah Berner | Website

Hannah Berner | Snapchat

Hannah Berner | Instagram 

Hannah Berner | TikTok 

Hannah Berner | X

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2025-03-19
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Wendy Suzuki: 2 Powerful Tools To Use When You Feel Stressed Out (This Will Lower Your Anxiety in 1 Minute)

What’s one thing that’s been stressing you out lately?

Have you noticed any physical signs of stress in your body?

Today, Jay with renowned neuroscientist, professor, and author Dr. Wendy Suzuki to explore the science of anxiety, stress, and resilience. Wendy is the author of Good Anxiety: Harnessing the Power of the Most Misunderstood Emotion and Healthy Brain, Happy Life, where she explores how movement, mindfulness, and positive habits can enhance brain function. 

Jay and Wendy discuss the physiological effects of chronic stress, how it impacts key brain regions like the hippocampus and prefrontal cortex, and why movement, breathwork, and mindfulness are essential for improving brain health. They also examine why so many people ignore their own stress cues and how simple daily habits can rewire the brain for greater well-being.

Wendy opens up about her personal experience with grief, explaining that the flip side of anxiety and grief is deep love. She shares why embracing these emotions, rather than avoiding them, is key to healing. Jay also reflects on his own journey of overcoming anxiety and the mindset shifts that foster growth and resilience.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reduce Stress and Anxiety Through Breathwork

How to Use Movement to Improve Brain Health

How to Identify Your Personal Stress Cues

How to Build Resilience After Trauma

How to Create a Morning Routine for Mental Clarity

How to Foster Meaningful Social Connections for Brain Health

Instead of letting stress and anxiety control you, start taking small, intentional steps to rewire your mind for resilience, clarity, and joy.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:11 Get to Know the Brain's Potential

02:10 What Makes a Healthy Brain?

04:35 The Complexity of the Brain

06:12 Scientific Difference Between Anxiety and Stress

09:42 Breathing Techniques for Anxiety

15:36 The Dangers of Chronic Stress

17:34 Protect Your Brain from Stress and Anxiety

19:38 What's Your Morning Routine?

21:39 Exercise Promotes Better Brain Function

23:36 Staying Focused Takes Effort

26:34 Start Small to Build a Habit

28:38 Everyday Anxiety Versus Anxiety Disorder

33:05 How to Look at Anxiety Differently

36:24 Approaching Grief with Positivity

40:03 How Resilient is the Brain?

42:57 Emotional Trauma 

45:19 Can We Resilience Against Trauma?

47:29 The Joy Conditioning

52:32 The Classic Growth Mindset

57:13 What Happens in the Brain During Healing 

01:00:20 The 5 Pillars of Better Brain Health

01:05:48 Find a Natural Place of Community Gathering

01:07:43 Develop the Love for Learning

01:11:37 Your Brain is Beautiful

01:14:04 Does Positive Affirmation Work?

01:15:05 4 Things That Make Memories Stick

01:19:35 How to Strengthen Your Memory

01:20:47 Wendy on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Wendy Suzuki | Website

Wendy Suzuki | Flickr

Wendy Suzuki | Instagram 

Wendy Suzuki | Facebook 

Wendy Suzuki | LinkedIn

Good Anxiety: Harnessing the Power of the Most Misunderstood Emotion

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2025-03-17
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All You Need is 1 YES (How To Push Through Rejection)

What’s a recent rejection you faced?

What keeps you going after rejection?

Today, Jay takes us inside the iHeart Studio at the Doha Web Summit for a candid, unfiltered conversation with his best friend of nearly two decades, Nanda. Nanda joins Jay for an impromptu discussion that takes us on a journey through their friendship, personal growth, and the pivotal moments that have shaped their lives.

Jay and Nanda reflect on the transitions that defined them—from Jay’s life as a monk and the challenges of reintegration into the corporate world, to Nanda’s bold decision to leave his successful career in law to pursue his true passion. They dive deep into the importance of humility, resilience, and self-awareness, sharing powerful lessons on navigating failure, taking risks, and reinventing oneself with purpose.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Overcome Career Transitions and Reinvent Yourself

How to Handle Failure and Rejection with Resilience

How to Develop a Winner’s Mindset Without Burnout

How to Balance Ambition with Spirituality

How to Make Big Life Decisions with Confidence

Your journey is unfolding exactly as it should—every challenge, every transition, and every unexpected twist is shaping you into the person you're meant to become.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:13 19 Years of Friendship

04:05 How It Feels to Restart Your life

07:12 The Beast Mindset

09:30 Humans Function in 2 Ways

12:38 Taking a Risk for a Career Shift

19:00 Failure to Success Mindset

21:35 Start Investing in Yourself

24:55 How to Raise Resilient Kids

27:50 Your Life Becomes the Stories

31:48 Navigating Male Friendships

36:19 The Winner's Mindset

38:39 Living in the Spirit of Gratitude

42:04 Pause to Celebrate Success

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2025-03-14
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?Lewis Howes: The Scarcity Belief That?s Blocking You from Making Money & How to Feel Rich Even When You?re Broke

Have you ever avoided looking at your finances?

If money were a person, how would you describe your relationship with it?

Today, Jay welcomes back his long time friend, Lewis Howes, a New York Times bestselling author, entrepreneur, keynote speaker, and former professional athlete. He is the host of The School of Greatness podcast, one of the top-ranked business and self-development shows in the world, where he interviews some of the most influential leaders in business, wellness, and personal growth.

The conversation highlights key principles for transforming one's financial mindset, including the power of awareness, gratitude, and generosity. Jay and Lewis examine how early experiences with money influence current financial behaviors and emphasize the importance of developing a mindset of abundance rather than scarcity. By recognizing and reshaping these beliefs, financial opportunities can be approached with clarity and confidence.

Lewis emphasizes on the distinction between making money easy and chasing easy money. While many seek quick financial success, they explore the pitfalls of short-term thinking and the long-term benefits of building sustainable wealth through skill development, strategic planning, and emotional resilience. The concept of mapping out financial goals is introduced as a way to create structure and direction in money management.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Identify and Change Your Money Beliefs

How to Develop Awareness Around Your Financial Habits

How to Shift from a Scarcity Mindset to an Abundance Mindset

How to Invest in Yourself to Build Long-Term Financial Success

How to Create a Clear Financial Plan for Stability and Growth

How to Use Energy, Passion, and Curiosity as Valuable Currency

Financial freedom isn’t just about earning more—it’s about breaking free from limiting beliefs, embracing abundance, and making intentional choices that align with long-term success. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Awareness Around Money and Finances

06:23 How to Get Out of Debt

09:44 How to Attract Financial Abundance

14:28 Rewire Your Brain to Earn More Money

16:22 The Mindset Habit to Unlock Abundance

20:11 Create an Opportunity to Showcase Your Value

27:08 3 Skills to Create Valuable Connection

33:41 Building a Foundation for Your Dream Career

35:44 Can You Manifest Money?

41:01 What’s Your Relationship with Money?

48:32 Generosity Attracts Abundance

53:10 Lessons from Quick and Easy Money

57:55 Invest in Your Self Growth

01:00:51 Money Cant Solve All Problems

Episode Resources:

Lewis Howes | Website

Lewis Howes | TikTok

Lewis Howes | Instagram 

Lewis Howes | Youtube

Lewis Howes | Facebook 

Lewis Howes | LinkedIn

Lewis Howes | X

Make Money Easy: Create Financial Freedom and Live a Richer Life

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2025-03-10
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This Mindset Shift Will Instantly Make You More Successful Than 90% of People

What does success mean to you?

What’s one habit you think successful people have?

Today, Jay unpacks the hidden habits and mindset shifts that set the most successful people apart. Many of us believe that highly successful people are somehow different, that they possess unique talents or advantages we don’t. But it's actually about recognizing and mastering key patterns that most people overlook.

Jay also uncovers the hidden patterns and psychological principles that shape success, revealing how small mindset shifts can create massive impact. He explores the power of belief, the influence of focus, and the importance of letting go to make room for growth. With practical insights and thought-provoking perspectives, this episode will challenge the way you approach success and help you unlock new possibilities in your journey.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Recognize and Leverage Patterns for Success

How to Stop Wasting Time on the Wrong Things

How to Build Confidence by Observing Success Strategies

How to Reprogram Your Mindset for Growth and Achievement

Success isn’t reserved for a select few—it’s within your reach if you’re willing to shift your mindset, recognize patterns, and take intentional action. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:10 How to Become More Successful in Life?

03:50 Tip #1: Understand the Patterns

11:14 Tip #2: You’re Doing All the Wrong Things

17:24 Tip #3: Get Support from Someone Who Believes in You

21:39 Tip #4: The Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon

25:20 Tip #5: ?Stop Measuring Your Success By Others' Timelines  

26:23 Tip #6: You Don’t Need Everyone to Like You

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2025-03-07
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Telepathy Tapes Creator Ky Dickens Reveals Shocking NEW Evidence on the Link Between Telepathy and Non-Speakers with Autism

Do you think telepathy is real?

Have you heard of non-speaking kids using telepathy?

What if non-speaking individuals with autism could communicate through telepathy — and science is starting to prove it?

In this episode of On Purpose with Jay Shetty, award-winning filmmaker Ky Dickens takes us on a groundbreaking journey, where non-speaking individuals discover they can communicate telepathically. Ky shares powerful stories of families uncovering untapped abilities in their loved ones, challenging traditional communication methods. As science begins to validate these experiences, the potential for a new, wordless form of connection unfolds.

Ky and Jay explore the intersection of science and spirituality, and why unlocking our own intuition may be more possible than we think. Don’t miss this episode!

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Develop Your Intuition and Deepen Consciousness

How to Communicate Telepathically with Non-Speaking Individuals

How to Support and Empower Non-Speaking Individuals with Autism

How to Create a More Inclusive World for People with Autism

How to Explore the Science of Telepathy and Consciousness

How to Embrace the Unknown and Shift Your Perception of Reality

By challenging our assumptions, we free ourselves from limiting beliefs and make space for new possibilities. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:55 The Social Justice Documentary Filmmaker

06:08 Testing the Theory of Telepathy

08:30 The Limitations of Autism

10:32 What is Apraxia?

11:52 Listening to a Non-Speaking Child

13:29 How Does Telepathy Works?

17:32 How Materialism Has Dictated Our Consciousness

19:41 Remote Viewing Using Psy Abilities

26:19 Telepathic Links Based on Love

29:02 Savant Skills: Extra Sensory Perception (ESP)

33:09 All Truth Goes Through Three Stages

35:26 Consciousness Sharing is More than Telepathy

40:35 Finding Your Life's Purpose

45:00 Science is Catching Up with Spirituality

49:57 Resistance Against Positive Change

51:40 Telepathy is Real

55:16 How Telepathy Works in Animals

57:47 Communication is Basic Human Right

01:03:12 Daily Magic of Telepathy

01:05:04 The Mental Telegraphy

01:06:58 Telepathic Dreams and Lucid Dreaming

01:08:36 Telepathic Conversations

01:11:15 Connection Through the Hill

01:14:15 Apraxia: The Mind and Body Disconnect

01:16:55 Exploration of the Consciousness  

01:20:26 Ethical Approach to Studying Non-Speakers

01:25:39 Lessons From The Telepathy Tapes  

Episode Resources:

Ky Dickens | Website

Ky Dickens | X

Ky Dickens | Instagram 

Ky Dickens | LinkedIn

Ky Dickens | IMDB

The Telepathy Tapes

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2025-03-03
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Do This Every Morning to NOT Feel Tired & Focus Your Mind

How do you usually start your mornings?

Do you wake up feeling tired?

Today, Jay discusses why a well-crafted morning routine doesn’t just jump start your day but sets the tone for success. He begins by emphasizing that how you spend your mornings shapes the rest of your day. A mindful start can boost focus, energy, and resilience. Rather than reaching for coffee first thing, Jay suggests hydrating with a glass of water infused with sea salt and lemon to kickstart hydration and replenish essential minerals. 

Movement is another essential pillar for a successful day. Jay recommends incorporating a short burst of explosive activity. The episode wraps up with two powerful mindfulness practices: reverse gratitude, where you reflect on three things you’d hate to lose, and the first bite ritual, where you take a slow, intentional bite of your first meal while focusing on gratitude.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Properly Hydrate in the Morning

How to Structure Your Morning Routine

How to Build Confidence

How to Find Your Inspiration Habit

As you work on cultivating a powerful morning routine, remember that personal growth is an ongoing journey. Embrace the challenges along the way, knowing that each step brings you closer to a more focused, energized, and fulfilling life.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:41 How to Set Your Day for Success

04:56 Step 1: Do the Dopamine Detox

09:14 Step 2: Let Morning Light Wake You Up

11:35 Step 3: The Cold Shock Reset

14:18 Step 4: The One Move Power Shift

18:13 Step 5: The Reverse Gratitude Shift

19:49 Step 6: The First Bite Ritual

22:20 Step 7: The Future You Signal

26:12 T.I.M.E. - The 4-Step Morning Routine

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2025-02-28
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Jay?s Must-Listens: 6 Love Experts Reveal How to Finally Attract the Right Relationship! Featuring Joe Dispenza & Lori Gottlieb

What do you think is the biggest dating mistake people make?

Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t right for you?

Today, in this special compilation episode, we explore all things love - how people navigate it, where they go wrong, and how they can cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections. Through a collection of thought-provoking conversations, Jay Shetty and his guests offer insight and practical advice to help listeners build healthier relationships.

Each guest shares their unique approach to manifesting genuine love, highlighting the importance of being present in relationships, breaking free from unhealthy patterns, and shifting focus from seeking external validation to building self-worth. Heartbreak is reframed as a powerful opportunity for growth, with the reminder that love is not something to chase, but something to nurture within, allowing the right connections to come naturally.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Know if Someone Is Wasting Your Time

How to Do the Work to Prepare for a Relationship 

How to Get Out of the Cycle of Seeking External Validation

How to Reframe Settling as a Positive Choice in Love    

How to Turn Pain into a Source of Growth and Learning

The path to finding love is not easy, but every step matters. By learning from your past, committing to personal growth, and approaching love with an open heart, you create the space for deeper, more fulfilling connections. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

00:45 How to Know if Someone is Wasting Your Time

03:29 Is It Real Connection or Just Chemistry?

06:26 Am I Behind in Love?

08:59 Why Is Developing Self Awareness Difficult?

13:19 How to Attract the Right Relationship

15:55 How to Manifest Love

17:56 Have You Found the Right Person?

24:43 Letting Go Might Be an Answer

28:58 How to Love Fully Without Losing Yourself

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2025-02-26
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Jillian Turecki: 3 Biggest Dating Mistakes You?re Making (Stop Chasing Love That?s Not For You)

What do you think is the biggest dating mistake people make?

Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t right for you?

In today’s episode, Jay welcomes relationship coach, teacher, and podcast host Jillian Turecki to break down the biggest dating mistakes people make. They dive into why relying too much on dating apps can lead to burnout, how the fear of rejection holds you back, and why being single is often better than staying in the wrong relationship.

Jillian unpacks why we’re drawn to people who don’t want us while ignoring those who do. She explains how past relationship patterns, toxic dynamics, and a false sense of intimacy create cycles that keep us stuck. They also explore the fine line between honesty and oversharing, how to repair trust after dishonesty, and self-reflection exercises to heal after a breakup.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

The 3 biggest dating mistakes and how to fix them.

Why relying on dating apps alone can hurt your love life.

How the fear of rejection and loneliness affect attraction.

Why do we chase people who ignore us?

When honesty becomes oversharing in relationships.

How to repair trust and reflect after a breakup.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating or struggled with attraction patterns, this episode will help you break unhealthy cycles and make better choices in love.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What We Discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

02:03 Dating: 3 Biggest Mistakes

05:39 The Fear Of Rejection 

09:47 Choice In Love

13:36 The Fear Of Being Alone

14:41 The Attraction Paradox

21:37 It All Begins With You

32:00 Find Other Things Attractive

42:48 Telling The Truth Vs Being Too Honest

46:45 Repair Not Being Truthful In A Relationship

56:30 Choice In Love 2

01:01:10 It's All In Your Head

01:04:52 Reflect With Your Partner

01:09:14 Self Reflection Exercises After A Breakup

01:12:13 Jillian on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Jillian Turecki | It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life

Jillian Turecki | Linkedin

Jillian Turecki | Website

Jillian Turecki | YouTube

Jillian Turecki | Instagram

Jillian Turecki | Facebook

Jillian Turecki | Tiktok

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2025-02-24
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30-Day Breakup Detox to Reclaim Your Life & Rebuild Your Confidence

Are you holding onto a breakup that’s draining your energy?

Do you ever catch yourself replaying old memories or struggling to move on after a breakup?

Today, Jay will break down a powerful 30-day No Contact Reinvention Challenge designed to help you heal, grow, and rebuild your confidence. If you’ve ever felt lost, stuck, or unsure how to move forward, this episode is your guide to turning heartbreak into transformation.

Jay reveals practical steps to help you shift your focus, break emotional patterns, and create a new version of yourself—one that is stronger, wiser, and more fulfilled. From cutting out breakup songs and sad movies to replacing old habits with new adventures, this challenge is all about reclaiming your life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to Let Go of the Past and Reinvent Yourself.

The Five-Text Rule to Overcome the Urge to Reach Out.

Why Changing Your Routine Helps You Heal Faster.

How to Stop Overthinking and Find Closure Within Yourself.

A Simple 90-Day Reflection Strategy to See How Far You’ve Come.

Heartbreak is painful, but it doesn’t have to define you. It’s time to take control of your healing journey and create the life you truly deserve.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What we discuss: 

00:00 Intro 

03:18 30-Day No Contact Re-Invention Challenge

04:34 Day 1-5: Break Patterns From the Relationship

07:32 Day 6-1: Body Reset, Break Your Own Patterns

09:07 Day 11-15: Social Reset, The 5 Text Rule

17:03 Day 16-20: Change Your Mind, The Reverse Bucket List

23:31 Day 21-25: Do Something You’ve Never Done Before

23:59 Day 26-30: Reflection Phase, Set a 90-Day Reminder

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2025-02-21
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Scott Galloway: The BIGGEST Money Mistake That?s Keeping You Broke!

Do you track your spending? 

What’s your biggest money mistake?

In today’s episode, Jay welcomes Scott Galloway, one of the most insightful voices in personal finance and wealth creation. If you've been struggling to make ends meet, wondering why you're not earning enough, or seeking financial security, this conversation is a must-listen.

Jay and Scott kick off by exploring the surprising reasons why 30-year-olds are earning less than expected. They dive into the practical steps individuals can take to change their financial trajectory, discussing topics like saving, investing, and overcoming mental blocks to making money.

Scott emphasizes the importance of financial literacy, encouraging listeners to start conversations about money and investments. He also challenges conventional wisdom, suggesting that pursuing talent over passion might be the key to financial success.

In this interview, you'll learn:

Why 30-year-olds are earning less and how to break the cycle

Practical strategies for saving and investing

How to overcome mental blocks to making money

Why talent trumps passion in achieving financial success

How to rewire your stressful relationship with money

Effective communication strategies for discussing money in relationships

If you've felt frustrated, stuck, or uncertain about your financial future, remember this: taking control of your financial health is within your reach. With this conversation, you'll gain the insights and practical advice needed to transform your relationship with money.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty.

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What we discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:00 Why Are 30-year-olds Earning Less?

06:07 What Can They Do To Change This For Themselves?

10:52 How Do I Save? 

16:19 What Blocks Us From Making Money? 

22:39 Should Young People Aspire For The American Dream? 

25:02 Financial Security: What To Pursue

31:35 Rewiring Your Stressful Relationship With Money

38:03 Communicate About Money In Healthy Relationships

41:03 Talent Over Passion

45:52 Finding Your Talent

49:26 Every Experience Is An Added Skill

55:22 Forgive Yourself

59:15 Prioritizing And Evaluating Your Efforts 

01:03:23 Building A “Great” Mindset

01:08:29 The Financial Content

01:12:49 Summary

01:13:41 Scott on Final Five

Episode resources:

Scott Galloway| Website

Scott Galloway| Instagram 

Scott Galloway| Tiktok 

Scott Galloway| Linkedin

Scott Galloway| YouTube 

Scott Galloway| X

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2025-02-17
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How to Manifest Your Dream Partner this Year (Desperation is BLOCKING You)

What qualities do you truly want in a partner?

Do you believe in manifestation when it comes to love?

Today, Jay explores how you can break free from insecurity and build lasting confidence using science-backed techniques and practical mindset shifts. Jay opens the episode by addressing the invisible forces that keep us stuck in self-doubt, such as fear of failure, scarcity mindset, and negative self-talk. He explains that our brains are wired for survival, not confidence, which means that many of our insecurities stem from a natural instinct to protect ourselves from perceived threats. 

Jay introduces seven powerful strategies for retraining the brain for confidence. First, he explains the importance of stopping the brain’s “threat detection system”, which makes us perceive challenges as dangers rather than opportunities. He then highlights unconscious competence, where we often fail to recognize the skills we’ve already mastered. By tapping into this, we can use our existing strengths as a foundation for greater self-assurance.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Overcome the Fear of Being Judged

How to Let Go of What No Longer Serves You

How to Take Control of Your Confidence

How to Shift from Self-Doubt to Self-Belief

How to Train Your Brain to Build Lasting Confidence

Confidence is not about being perfect; it’s about showing up, learning, and giving yourself the grace to evolve. You have everything within you to shift from doubt to self-trust.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:48 How to Manifest Love this Year

05:35 The State of Desperation and Detachment

07:18 Desperation Leads to a Lot of Challenges

09:45 Desperation Leads to Overthinking

13:06 Desperation Leads to Toxic Situations

15:18 Things You Do When You Detach Yourself from Others

21:22 #1: Take Small Steps Toward Love

23:48 #2: Be Patient for Love

24:55 #3: Align What You Think, Say and Do

26:26 #4: Live as if You Already Have Love

28:09 #5: Find Healing Before Your Next Relationship

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2025-02-14
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Claudia Oshry: How to Stop Letting Your Body Image Hold You Back & Build Lasting Confidence

Do you ever feel held back by body image?

What’s one thing that instantly boosts your confidence?

Today, Jay welcomes Claudia Oshry, a comedian, podcaster, and social media personality. Claudia is the co-host of the extremely popular podcast "The Toast" and has gained a large following on Instagram for her relatable and often self-deprecating posts. Claudia has been open about her personal life, including her struggles with body image and her journey to motherhood. 

Claudia opens up about the misconceptions surrounding her online persona, her journey with Ozempic, and her decision to embrace motherhood. She discusses the challenges of vulnerability on social media and the importance of self-acceptance and living life on your own terms and finding fulfillment. 

Jay and Claudia share their personal experiences with weight and body image, revealing the societal pressures and internal struggles they have faced. They explore the complexities of Claudia's weight loss journey and decide to use Ozempic openly in the public eye. Claudia shares her personal transformation and the newfound confidence she gained through her weight loss journey.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Overcome Misconceptions    

How to Embrace Vulnerability           

How to Deal with Weight Stigma    

How to Build Confidence    

How to Find the Right Partner    

Remember, it's okay to seek support and share your struggles. Embrace your true self, live life on your own terms, and never stop pursuing your dreams.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:27 How It Feels to Be Misunderstood

04:57 Protect Your Own Peace 

06:56 What is Fat Camp?

08:34 The Struggle of Losing Weight

12:38 Responsible Use of Ozempic 

16:20 Struggle with Self Image and Confidence

19:36 How Does Getting Pregnant Feel?

24:18 Getting Ready to Start a Family

30:46 Friends Change Throughout Your Life

33:08 Choosing What to Share About Your Life

39:45 Becoming a Content Creator

42:45 Learnings from the Corporate Life

46:16 Building a Brand as a One-Man Team

49:26 Smart Advice for Content Creators

52:49 Just Get Started

55:08 Stability is Beneficial in Running a Business

58:04 Running a Business with Family

01:01:44 How to Record a Good Episode

01:03:27 Know When to Listen

01:07:11 The Worst Type of Humor

01:10:46 Greatest Lesson from Grief

01:14:50 The Girl with a Dead Dad

01:18:37 The Dangers of Exposing Children Online

01:21:30 Claudia on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Claudia Oshry | Website

Claudia Oshry | TikTok

Claudia Oshry | Instagram 

Claudia Oshry | Youtube

Girl With No Job: The Crazy Beautiful Life of an Instagram Thirst Monster

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2025-02-12
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LOVE EXPERT Stephan Speaks: 7 Ways You are Blocking Yourself From Meeting Your Soulmate (Change Your Patterns to Find the ONE)

Do you think your “type” limits you?

What’s one unrealistic dating expectation you’ve had?

Today, Jay welcomes back one of the most insightful voices in modern dating and relationships, Stephan Speaks. If you’ve been searching for clarity in love, struggling with self-worth in dating, or wondering why you keep attracting the wrong partners, this conversation is a must-listen.

Jay and Stephan kick off by breaking down one of the biggest struggles in today’s dating world—the negative perception of men and women. They explore how sensationalized online narratives and personal biases shape our beliefs about relationships, often distorting reality. Stephan explains how social media and exaggerated dating horror stories create unnecessary fear and distrust, making it harder for people to embrace love. 

If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of failed relationships, Stephan reveals that understanding yourself first is the key to finding the right partner. He emphasizes three critical factors: first, accepting the differences between men and women instead of resisting them; second, knowing yourself before entering a relationship, as many people struggle because they aren’t even clear on what they truly need; and third, prioritizing healing, because unresolved pain from past experiences will continue to affect every new connection. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Stop Letting Dating Myths Mislead You

How to Attract the Right Partner by Knowing Yourself

How to Heal Before Your Next Relationship

How to Communicate With a Closed-Off Partner

How to Break the Cycle of Failed Relationships

If you’ve felt frustrated, discouraged, or like love just isn’t in the cards for you, remember this: the right relationship isn’t something you chase, it’s something you attract by becoming the best version of yourself.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:28 The Difference Between Average Men and Women

11:30 Why Men Often Don't Date Ambitious Women

17:28 Understand Who Your Partner Really Is

23:55 Negative Perception of Men When Dating

28:52 Coveting the Desirables

32:27 How to Not Love Bomb Your Partner

40:32 If He Wanted to He Could

43:59 Emotional Maturity in Relationships

48:28 Always Be Open to Connection

53:34 Insecurities and Jealousy

01:01:15 How Do You Initiate Open Communication?

01:09:56 All Is Not Lost in Breakups

01:17:35 The Right Person at the Wrong Time

01:22:43 Every Dating Relationship is a Process

Episode Resources:

Stephan Speaks | Website

Stephan Speaks | TikTok

Stephan Speaks | Instagram 

Stephan Speaks | Youtube

Stephan Speaks | LinkedIn

Stephan Speaks | Books

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2025-02-10
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7 Ways to Train Your Brain to Go From Insecurity to Confidence

How do you react when you feel insecure?

What past experience boosted your confidence?

Today, Jay explores how you can break free from insecurity and build lasting confidence using science-backed techniques and practical mindset shifts. Jay opens the episode by addressing the invisible forces that keep us stuck in self-doubt, such as fear of failure, scarcity mindset, and negative self-talk. He explains that our brains are wired for survival, not confidence, which means that many of our insecurities stem from a natural instinct to protect ourselves from perceived threats. 

Jay introduces seven powerful strategies for retraining the brain for confidence. First, he explains the importance of stopping the brain’s “threat detection system”, which makes us perceive challenges as dangers rather than opportunities. He then highlights unconscious competence, where we often fail to recognize the skills we’ve already mastered. By tapping into this, we can use our existing strengths as a foundation for greater self-assurance.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Overcome the Fear of Being Judged

How to Let Go of What No Longer Serves You

How to Take Control of Your Confidence

How to Shift from Self-Doubt to Self-Belief

How to Train Your Brain to Build Lasting Confidence

Confidence is not about being perfect; it’s about showing up, learning, and giving yourself the grace to evolve. You have everything within you to shift from doubt to self-trust.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:09 Why Does One Feel Insecure?

06:55 #1: Learn How to Rate a Threat

10:47 #2: Harness Your Unconscious Competence

16:23 #3: Face Your Fear of Not Being Seen

20:25 #4: ?Understand the Power of Sunk-Cost Fallacy

22:52 #5: Reclaim Your Control of the Locus of Control

25:05 #6: ?Utilize The False Consensus Effect

26:11 #7: Break Free from Imposter Syndrome ?Using Cognitive Dissonance

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2025-02-07
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Bill Gates: The Untold Story of Who Bill Gates REALLY Is

How do you define success beyond money and career?

Do you think wealth should come with a responsibility to give back?

Today,  Jay Shetty sits down with one of the most influential innovators of our time, Bill Gates, to explore the intersection of personal growth, technological innovation, and philanthropy. Bill reflects on his journey from a curious child fascinated by computers to building Microsoft and becoming a global force for change.

Bill shares candid stories about his upbringing, his parents’ profound influence, and the lessons he learned from their high expectations and encouragement. He also talks about his career-long passion for innovation and his views on climate change, the promise of AI, and the Gates Foundation’s life-saving work, such as developing vaccines and tackling malnutrition. His insights are not just about the cutting edge of technology but also about humanity’s moral responsibility to harness it for good.

A deeply reflective portion of the episode focuses on grief, as Gates discusses the loss of close friends like Paul Allen and Kent Evans, and how their influence continues to guide his mission. Jay and Bill share thoughts on how service and philanthropy can redefine success and leave a lasting legacy, with Bill underscoring the importance of giving back and the moral imperative for the wealthy to use their resources to create equity.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Innovate with Purpose and Impact

How to Lead with Empathy and Collaboration

How to Turn Failure into a Learning Opportunity

How to Use AI to Solve Global Challenges

How to Honor the Legacy of Mentors and Loved Ones

How to Find Joy in Lifelong Learning

Whether it’s pushing the boundaries of innovation, building meaningful relationships, or giving back to make the world a better place, we all have the capacity to create positive change.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:27 Early Exposure to Computers

04:18 Different But Exceptional

06:27 Pressure to Live Up to Parents Expectations

08:15 Genuine Parental Support and Connection

14:09 Growing Up with a Supportive Father

22:58 Are Schools Failing Children?

27:33 Motivate Your Kids Right

29:57 Undiagnosed ADHD and ASD

33:18 How Do You Deal with Grief?

40:21 Working with Steve Jobs

45:31 Healthy Competition in Business

49:46 Turning to a Life of Service and Giving Back

56:11 Politics and Humanitarian Effort

59:27 The Importance of AI Policies

01:04:14 Innovation Against Human Limitation

01:09:11 Tough Form of Self Love

01:11:37 Bill on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Bill Gates | Website

Bill Gates | Facebook

Bill Gates | Instagram 

Bill Gates | Youtube

Gates Foundation

Source Code: My Beginnings

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2025-02-03
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Stop Draining Your Energy In 2025: These 3 Habits Will Save You So Much Time!

What’s one habit you think is draining your energy daily?

Do you ever feel exhausted after certain conversations?

Today, Jay will break down the hidden habits that are silently draining your energy and preventing you from living your best life in 2025. If you feel like you're constantly exhausted, unmotivated, or stuck in negative cycles, this episode is a wake-up call.

Jay reveals three powerful habits that will help you reclaim your time, mental clarity, and emotional well-being. He challenges the everyday energy leaks we often overlook—like engaging in gossip, absorbing unsolicited opinions, and surrounding ourselves with people who only talk about themselves. By cutting these out, you’ll unlock 52 minutes of your day to reinvest in your dreams, passions, and meaningful connections.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Avoid Unsolicited Advice and Protect Your Peace

How to Break Free from Toxic Conversations

How to Stay Focused on Your Own Growth

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

How to Make 2025 the Year You Protect Your Energy

Your energy is one of the most valuable things you have, don’t waste it on negativity, distractions, or people who drain your power.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Why Do We Miss Out on Our Goals?

04:55 #1: Stop Talking About Other People

10:31 People with Superiority Complex Often Comes as Arrogant

12:28 You Can’t Empathize If You Haven’t Experienced It

16:47 Hidden Deep-Seated Feelings of Inadequacy

21:38 #2: Stop Giving Unsolicited Views, Opinions, and Feedback

26:16 #3: Stop Talking Just About Yourself

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2025-01-31
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Dr. Tara Swart: 4 Brain Hacks To Manifest Anything Into Your Life (Science-Backed Method!)

What’s one goal you want to manifest?

Have you tried visualization before?

Today, Jay welcomes neuroscientist, executive advisor, and bestselling author Dr. Tara Swart for a deeply engaging discussion on the intersection of ancient wisdom and modern neuroscience. Tara, author of The Source: The Secrets of the Universe, the Science of the Brain, shares her journey from a dual-cultural upbringing in North London to becoming a leading expert in neuroplasticity, manifestation, and the science of purpose.

Tara explains how rewiring the brain through neuroplasticity can help us shift our mindset and align with our goals. She introduces the concept of "magnetic desire," the alignment of one’s head, heart, and gut to pursue authentic and meaningful aspirations. The conversation explores the importance of moving beyond societal noise and external expectations to create a life of abundance, gratitude, and love. 

Jay and Tara discuss how ancient practices such as chanting, drumming, and spending time in nature have been essential to human well-being for centuries and are increasingly validated by neuroscience today. Together, they unpack how practices like visualization, mindfulness, and connecting with nature are more than philosophical ideas—they are scientifically proven tools for personal growth and transformation.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Rewire Your Brain for Success

How to Use Visualization to Achieve Goals

How to Balance Ancient Wisdom with Modern Science

How to Transform Negative Thoughts into Positive Actions

How to Build an Action Board for Manifestation

How to Overcome Limiting Beliefs and Self-Doubt

How to Create Lasting Change with Neuroplasticity

Whether it’s through cultivating gratitude, spending time in nature, or embracing the power of visualization, every small step brings us closer to the life we envision.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:38 Parallels Between Modern Science and Ancient Wisdom

07:44 The Power of Possibility

09:37 Extrinsic and Intrinsic Motivators 

12:25 Six Themes of the 12 Laws of Attraction

19:43 Does Every Thought Count?

24:19 4 Steps to Practice Belief Change

29:08 How to Stop Criticising Yourself

33:30 Reconnect with Your Childhood Dream

35:15 Access Your Inner Self Through Nature

40:49 The Nature of Consciousness

45:39 Use Creativity to Open Up Your Consciousness

54:41 The Neurological Impact of Chanting

57:06 Well-Bonded Couples Calm Each Other

59:08 Infusing Stressful Situations with Love  

01:01:40 The Mental Prison We Create

01:03:14 Living Life to the Fullest

01:08:35 Digital Detox

01:13:19 Does God Truly Exist?

01:16:46 Tara on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Tara Swart | Website

Tara Swart | X

Tara Swart | Instagram 

Tara Swart | LinkedIn

Tara Swart | Books

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2025-01-27
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Brain Expert: 6 Habits to Boost Focus & Concentration By 48 Percent (Hack Your Dopamine!) with TJ Power

How long can you stay focused on one task?

What distracts you the most when you’re trying to focus?

Today, Jay chats with neuroscientist and author TJ Power to uncover the science behind our brain’s chemistry and how it shapes our emotions, habits, and overall well-being. TJ, known for his expertise in optimizing dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins (the "DOSE" chemicals), explains how modern lifestyles can disrupt our brain’s natural balance and offers practical strategies to realign it for a happier, healthier life.

TJ and Jay begin the discussion with the brain’s evolutionary design and its mismatch with the modern digital age. TJ explains how our ancestors earned dopamine through hard work and perseverance, but today’s quick-fix solutions like social media, instant gratification, and other overstimulating activities lead to addiction, low motivation, and even burnout. 

They shift into actionable steps to break free from these patterns. From implementing a simple morning routine, such as resisting the urge to check your phone first thing, to engaging in cold water therapy, TJ emphasizes the importance of earning dopamine through effort rather than shortcuts. He also shares the groundbreaking idea of "phone fasting" and how small, consistent breaks from screens can reset your brain chemistry, improve focus, and enhance productivity.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Start Your Day with Action

How to Detox from Your Phone in the Morning

How to Earn Dopamine Naturally

How to Improve Sleep by Cutting Sugar and Screens

How to Practice Gratitude Daily

How to Reset Your Mind in Nature

Small changes, like starting your day with action, spending less time on your phone, and practicing gratitude, can have a profound impact on your mental well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:19 What is DOSE?

05:13 Social Media Triggers Rapid Rise in Dopamine

07:40 The 30-Minute Window Discipline

09:32 The Benefits of Phone-Fasting 

12:42 Take Action as Soon as You Wake

14:36 How to Start the Day Phone-Free

19:16 Fast Release Leads to Low Motivation

21:06 Build Healthy Dopamine

26:25 How to Motivate Yourself to Keep Going

27:47 Pornography Addiction

34:25 Destressing Through Orgasm

36:04 Optimizing Dopamine

37:29 Slow Pleasure for Better Relationship

39:09 Dopamine and Flow State

42:53 Staying Focused and Improving Concentration

45:23 How to Improve Your Sleep Quality

47:39 Dealing with Boredom While Phone-Fasting

51:13 Positive Reinforcement of Dopamine at Home

52:58 How Oxytocin Affects Your Day

56:19 Grateful Thinking Works

58:46 Difference Between Procrastination and Overthinking

01:00:04 Focus on What You Can Do

01:02:42 High Stress and Burnout

01:04:42 Phone Detox is Necessary

01:07:13 Spend More Time in Nature

01:08:16 TJ on Final Five   

Episode Resources:

TJ Power | Instagram

TJ Power | X

TJ Power | LinkedIn

The DOSE Lab

The DOSE Effect

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2025-01-24
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Andy Galpin: 3 Ways to Lose Weight and Gain Muscle (the Fitness Plan You Will ACTUALLY Stick To)

What’s your biggest challenge with sticking to a fitness plan?

What motivates you to stay consistent with workouts?

Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Andy Galpin, a leading expert in human performance science, muscle physiology, and strength training, to guide you toward a healthier and more fulfilling life. Dr. Galpin shares practical insights grounded in science and years of experience training elite athletes, from Olympians to professional sports stars, offering advice that anyone can apply.

Andy talks in-depth about the fitness fundamentals, starting with the importance of consistency and personalized routines over rigid approaches. Andy emphasizes the key pillars of fitness: looking good, feeling good, and performing well, tailoring these goals to individual needs and life circumstances. He explains how simple adjustments in routines, like incorporating progressive overload and balancing structured cardiovascular training with strength training, can yield transformative results.

Andy and Jay provide actionable strategies for improving recovery, enhancing brain health, and battling common challenges like brain fog and stubborn fat; and breaks down the science of hydration, sleep, and nutrition while busting myths about intermittent fasting, the anabolic window, and the role of cardio. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Set Fitness Goals You’ll Actually Stick To

How to Build Muscle Without Spending Hours at the Gym

How to Balance Strength Training with Cardiovascular Exercise

How to Improve Recovery with Better Sleep and Nutrition

How to Prevent Burnout with Smarter Workouts

How to Use Strength Training to Boost Longevity

There’s no one-size-fits-all solution, and the key to success lies in finding what works for you, whether it’s starting with just one workout a week, improving your sleep habits, or focusing on better nutrition. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:56 The Best Routine to Gain Muscles

06:34 What’s Your Fitness Goal?

14:39 Bad versus Good Fitness Coaching

20:50 What is the Pursuit of Fitness?

23:53 The Real Strength Training Process

32:17 Walking or Running?

42:09 Realistic Fitness Goal    

43:42 Varying Recovery Requirements

48:29 Ideal Protein Intake

54:12 Post Exercise Anabolic Window

01:02:28 How Important is Proper Hydration?

01:08:55 How to Deal with Brain Fog

01:11:36 What’s Andy’s Schedule Like?

01:18:52 Is Evening Workout Effective?

01:23:17 Ideal Workout for PCOS and Menopause

01:29:26 Andy on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Andy Galpin | Website

Andy Galpin | X

Andy Galpin | Instagram 

Andy Galpin | Youtube

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2025-01-20
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Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

What makes you feel stuck right now?

How do you tackle time-consuming tasks?

Today, Jay sits down with Grammy-nominated rapper, multi-platinum artist, and first-time author, Big Sean. This special episode marks Sean’s third appearance on the show, but this time, he’s here to share deeper insights into mental health, purpose, and his debut book, Go Higher, set to release in January 2025.

During the conversation, Big Sean reflects on his personal battles with anxiety, depression, and letting go of control. He shares the transformative role of spiritual practices in his life and how they inspired him to write a book that offers tools for self-care, growth, and purpose. Sean opens up about one of the toughest lessons he's ever had to learn — accepting the things he can't change — and how that acceptance became his pathway to peace and clarity.

Jay and Sean also explore the power of "separating self from success," where Sean explains why money isn’t the true measure of success. Instead, he defines success as the feeling of living in alignment with your purpose and positively impacting others.

In a vulnerable moment, Sean discusses the grief of experiencing a miscarriage and how he and his partner found light in the darkness. He also opens up about his journey with fatherhood, the process of quitting Adderall, and how he manages trauma through intentional strategy and meditation. From music to mindfulness, Sean reflects on his evolution as an artist, a man, and now, an author.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Redefine Success on Your Own Terms

How to Use Radical Acceptance to Overcome Life’s Challenges

How to Separate Self-Worth from Wealth and Achievement

How to Attract Purpose Instead of Chasing It

How to Embrace Spiritual Growth for Mental Clarity and Peace

Every challenge you face holds the seed of transformation. When you accept your reality and stop resisting, you open yourself up to new opportunities for growth. Let Big Sean’s wisdom guide you on your journey to go higher.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:05 Sharing Personal Hardships Through Writing

06:36 Define Your Idea of Success

10:17 The Power of Separation?

12:41 The Kobe Mindset

16:43 Acceptance Isn’t Giving Up

20:07 Attracting Energy versus Chasing Energy

27:09 Learnings From Being a Father

31:39 Living Through Your Kids

33:33 Healing Generational Trauma

35:06 Teach Your Child to Be Confident

38:08 How Do You Become Strategic?

41:42 Effectivity in Being Strategic

45:58 Learn to Set Boundaries

49:35 Respect Your Self

52:55 Don’t Lose Yourself

55:01 Exercising Boundaries

58:00 Affirmations, Gratitude, and Journaling

01:02:44 What’s Your Meditation Practice?

01:07:00 Different Approaches to Therapy

01:08:24 Battling with Addiction and Depression

01:14:26 The Importance of Education 

01:17:32 Giving Up Music

01:18:42 Last Conversation with Kanye

01:23:53 Staying Optimistic After Miscarriage

01:26:18 Finding Hope in Dark Times

01:27:34 Living with Miracles Everyday

Episode Resources:

Big Sean | Website

Big Sean | X

Big Sean | Instagram 

Big Sean | Tiktok 

Big Sean | Youtube

Big Sean | Facebook

Go Higher: Five Practices for Purpose, Success, and Inner Peace

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2025-01-17
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Bryan Johnson: New SHOCKING Science on How to Reverse Your Age by 31 Years & The Damaging Impact of 1 Bad Night Sleep

Do you think one bad night of sleep can really harm your body?

Would you try a routine that could help you reverse aging?

Today, Jay sits down with Bryan Johnson, entrepreneur and founder of Blueprint, who is redefining human health and longevity. Dubbed "the world's most measured human," Bryan shares his extraordinary journey of reversing aging and improving biological performance through science-backed methods and a meticulously designed lifestyle.

Bryan discusses how his $2 million-a-year protocol isn't just about extreme spending but about pioneering a blueprint for everyone. He explains the concept of "don't die," emphasizing the potential for humanity to extend life and improve health at unprecedented levels. From his diet of precision-crafted meals to his groundbreaking work in measuring microplastics and organ health, Bryan's insights challenge conventional norms about aging, health, and longevity.

Together with Jay, Bryan dives deep into actionable takeaways, such as the five pillars of perfect sleep, the importance of building systems over relying on willpower, and how to minimize exposure to environmental toxins like microplastics. Bryan also addresses controversial topics, including the downsides of cheat days and the role of technology in managing health.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reverse Aging Through Measured Health Metrics

How to Optimize Your Diet for Longevity

How to Manage Stress With Better Sleep

How to Create a System for Healthy Living

How to Rewire Your Taste Buds for Better Nutrition

How to Lower Inflammation With Simple Daily Habits

You don’t need millions of dollars or cutting-edge technology to start—just a commitment to making small, intentional changes. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:31 How Long Can a Person Live?

04:19 The Most Measured Person

06:34 Getting Sustained Hearing Impairment

09:57 Extending Life Before Conception

11:18 How Long Do We Have to Live?

14:22 Every Body I Highly Responsive to Change

16:50 Embryo Selection Through Genetic Markers

18:12 A Generation of Microplastic 

20:42 Simple Ways to Minimize the Influx of Microplastic

23:05 Don’t Drink from Water Bottles

26:01 The Significant Health Threat of Air Pollution

30:11 How Capitalism Affects Health

32:28 5 Ways to Get Better Sleep

40:12 Don’t Miss Your Deep Sleep Window

43:37 The Ill Effects of Poor Sleep

45:48 Invest in Your Health

48:12 What’s Your Protein Intake?

51:22 Bryan’s Perfect Diet

56:11 Eating 3 Meals a Day in 5 Hours

58:21 Rewire Your Taste Buds

59:19 Sensitivity to Air Quality

01:02:36 Are You Scared of Dying?

01:05:58 Prolonging Longevity

01:08:07 Ways to Manage Stress

01:11:00 You Are not Your Thoughts

01:15:37 Health Can Lead to Happiness

01:19:37 Is Reverse Aging Possible?

01:22:25 Bryan on Final Five   

Episode Resources:

Bryan Johnson | Website

Bryan Johnson | X

Bryan Johnson | Instagram 

Bryan Johnson | Tiktok 

Bryan Johnson | Youtube

Bryan Johnson | LinkedIn

Blueprint Protocol

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2025-01-13
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4 Simple Manifestation & Visualization Hacks to Help Achieve Your 2025 Goals

What’s one goal you want to manifest in 2025?

What small step can you take today toward your goal?

Today, Jay dives into the mindset and practices needed to manifest the life you truly desire in 2025. Picking up where last week’s strategies and habits left off, Jay explores the often-overlooked internal components of goal achievement—your mindset, subconscious programming, and visualization techniques.

He begins by redefining the idea of manifestation, emphasizing the importance of understanding the deeper emotional drivers behind your goals. Whether it's confidence, safety, or self-esteem, Jay explains how aligning with these core desires rather than just material outcomes can unlock true abundance. 

Jay also shares actionable steps for cultivating a manifestation mindset, starting with mastering those subconscious moments just before sleep and upon waking. By integrating affirmations during these times, you can rewire your thought patterns and reinforce your intentions. He introduces the “Rule of Your Most Repeated Thought,” explaining how consistent positive affirmations shape your reality over time.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Rewire Your Mind with Affirmations

How to Visualize the Process, Not Just the Outcome

How to Align Your Energy with Your Goals

How to Avoid Distractions and Stay Focused on Your Target

How to Surround Yourself with Positive Reinforcements

You have everything you need to build the life you envision; it starts with belief and is fueled by consistent effort. Stay focused, stay inspired, and trust in the process—because the life you’re dreaming of is already waiting for you. Keep moving forward; you’ve got this!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:20 Achieving Goals Need the Ability to Visualize

03:20 Step 1: Deeply Know Why You Want What You Want 

05:53 Step 2: Master the Subconscious Moments

10:13 Step 3: You Will Manifest Your Most Repeated Thought

11:52 Step 4: Visualize the Process not the Result

15:08 Vision Boards, Verbal Boards

18:25 What’s Growing in Your Life?

21:07 How to Stop Living a Misaligned Life 

23:15 Keep Books Open in Random Places

25:11 Write Things Down and Post it Around You

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2025-01-10
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Mel Robbins: How to Use the ?Let Them Theory? (A Life Changing Mindset Hack That 15 Million People Can?t Stop Talking About)

Have you ever let someone just be themselves?

How do you remind yourself what’s in your control?

Today, Jay  sits down with best-selling author and motivational speaker Mel Robbins to discuss her revolutionary “Let Them Theory.” Mel introduces a powerful mindset tool designed to help listeners take control of their thoughts, actions, and emotions while letting go of what they cannot control. This conversation dives into the heart of personal growth, resilience, and building a life centered on peace and purpose.

Mel begins by explaining the core of the “Let Them Theory,” which is about recognizing the limits of control. She emphasizes the importance of letting others be who they are, accepting situations as they unfold, and redirecting focus to what’s within your power. Through vivid examples, Mel demonstrates how this approach can reduce stress, strengthen relationships, and reclaim wasted energy.

Jay and Mel also explore the emotional weight of unmet expectations and the difference between “Let It Go” and “Let Them.” Mel shares how this subtle shift in mindset fosters empowerment rather than passivity. They also discuss the complexities of adult friendships and how they evolve over time. Mel introduces the three pillars of adult friendship—proximity, timing, and energy—and explains how these factors influence the ebb and flow of connections.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Identify What You Can Control

How to Handle Stressful Situations at Work

How to Set Boundaries with Difficult People

How to Let Go of Unmet Expectations

How to Manage Toxic Relationships Effectively

How to Build Meaningful Adult Friendships

How to Reclaim Energy Wasted on Others

Remember, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Start small. Say "let them" to release what’s draining you and "let me" to reclaim your energy and choices.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

Visit https://jayshettyshop.com - 100% of Proceeds are donated to National Alliance on Mental Illness. NAMI is the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.

What We Discuss:

01:47 What is the “Let Them” Theory

04:40 The Significant Difference Between “Let Them” and “Let Me”

06:49 Stop Obsessing Over Things You Can’t Control

14:03 People Only Change if They Want to

21:59 How Do You Let Difficult People Be

26:31 Learn to Value Your Time and Energy

35:10 Two Things that Truly Define Love

42:12 Let People Gossip About It

46:34 Don’t Expect Too Much From Others

58:22 You Aren’t Unlovable, Let Them

01:01:12 Let Them Lie to You, It’s Their Truth

01:04:17 Why is Adult Friendship Difficult?

01:12:35 The Hardest Way to Practice the “Let Them” Theory

Episode Resources:

Mel Robbins | Website

Mel Robbins | Instagram

Mel Robbins | YouTube

Mel Robbins | TikTok

The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

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2025-01-06
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6 Step Blueprint to Achieve All Your Goals for 2025 (Proven Method- Don't Skip This)

What’s your biggest goal for 2025?

What steps have you planned?

Happy New Year! Today, kicks off 2025 with a powerful message: this is your year to thrive, and the key lies within you. Sharing his proven six-step method, Jay walks listeners through a transformative framework for achieving personal and professional goals. From crafting your goals as compelling stories to prioritizing growth over mere outcomes, he offers a fresh perspective on making progress that truly lasts.

Jay dives deep into practical strategies like identifying the one personal and one professional goal that can redefine your life, understanding the power of small yet prioritized changes, and recognizing the need for community, coaching, and consistency to overcome challenges. He emphasizes the importance of measuring progress daily, weekly, and monthly to stay on track and reminds us to frame the year by understanding whether it’s a time to learn, experiment, perform, struggle, or thrive.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Focus on Small Changes with Big Priorities

How to Build Skills for Achieving Big Goals

How to Decide the Type of Year You Want to Have

How to Use the 80/20 Rule for Maximum Impact

How to Transform Energy into Momentum for Personal Growth

You have the tools within you to make this your most transformative year yet. Embrace the challenges, celebrate the victories, and stay committed to your vision. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:28 Focus on Building an Abundance Mindset

04:04 Step #1: Identify Your Top Personal and Professional Goal

10:09 Step #2: What Do You Need to Grow to Achieve Your Goal

14:44 Step #3: Decide What Type of 2025 It’s Going to Be

19:44 Step #4: Small Changes, Big Priorities

22:14 Step #5: Measure What Matters Daily, Weekly, & Monthly

24:15 Step #6: Coaching, Consistency, Community

26:04 What Are You Excited For This Year?

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2025-01-03
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Dr. Rangan Chatterjee: #1 Way to Break a Bad Habit & Why 50% of What Doctors Learn in Medical School Turns Out Wrong

What bad habit do you want to break?

What’s a health tip you no longer trust?

Today, Jay welcomes back Dr. Rangan Chatterjee, a UK-based physician, bestselling author, and podcast host, to discuss his latest book, Make Change That Lasts. Known for his holistic approach to health and wellness, Dr. Chatterjee shares nine transformative strategies to foster sustainable change in daily life, offering a blueprint for physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

The conversation explores why many health and lifestyle changes fail to stick, diving into the importance of self-awareness and the power of mindset. Dr. Chatterjee recounts how Western medicine often focuses on treating symptoms rather than promoting vitality, advocating for a harmonious blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom. He emphasizes the role of lifestyle choices—nutrition, movement, sleep, and even mindset—in shaping our health.

Jay and Rangan tap into practical tools and methods for understanding and addressing emotional triggers behind habits. They stress the significance of environment and relationships in fostering or sabotaging personal growth. Dr. Chatterjee also challenges the notion of harsh self-discipline, advocating instead for compassion, curiosity, and self-trust as the cornerstones of lasting change. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build Habits That Stick

How to Create a Supportive Environment for Change

How to Reframe Negative Inner Narratives

How to Trust Yourself Instead of External Advice

How to Manage Stress with Mindset Shifts

How to Take Control of Your Health with Simple Choices

Change doesn’t have to feel like an uphill battle—it can be an act of self-love and empowerment. Trust yourself, listen to your inner wisdom, and approach each step of your journey with patience and grace.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:50 Make Change That Truly Last

03:18 The Chronic Lifestyle-Driven Illness

05:58 Transformative Change Comes From Within

10:16 How Do You Break a Bad Habit?

16:17 Unbecome Who You’ve Become

27:08 What are Your Non-Negotiables?

37:31 The Root Cause of Wellness Failure

43:34 The Way You Do Things Matter

48:13 Do Fitness Trackers Work?

53:04 Why Do People Think the Way They Do?

01:03:48 You Can Change Yourself 

Episode Resources:

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Website

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Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | YouTube

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | TikTok

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Facebook

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | X

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

Make Change That Lasts: 9 Simple Ways to Break Free from the Habits That Hold You Back

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2024-12-30
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10 Things I Am Leaving Behind in 2024 to Make Space for 2025

What are you leaving behind in 2024?

How do you plan to make more space for growth in 2025?

Today, Jay  reflects on the art of letting go to make space for personal growth in 2025. He shares a transformative framework for self-improvement by identifying ten habits, beliefs, and mindsets to leave behind. Using the Buddha’s analogy of a raft, he emphasizes the importance of releasing old tools that no longer serve us to navigate life’s new challenges more freely.

Jay taps into impactful topics, from overcoming the fear of mistakes to releasing self-consciousness and rethinking the cultural glorification of busyness. He encourages listeners to embrace risk, foster self-compassion, and reframe their relationship with time and perfectionism. Thought-provoking anecdotes, like the role of light and dark in optimizing sleep and the illusion of justice as a universal principle, provide actionable insights for creating a balanced and intentional life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Let Go of Fear and Embrace Mistakes

How to Balance Self-Criticism and Self-Compassion

How to Stop Waiting for the Perfect Time

How to Make Space for New Habits and Growth

How to Find Silence in a Noisy World

As we prepare to step into a new year, remember that growth doesn’t come from adding more to your plate – it comes from letting go of what no longer serves you. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:29 The Journey Told by the Buddha

04:57 #10: Avoid Making Mistakes 

08:09 #9: Leave Self-Consciousness Behind

10:58 #8: Belief that Busy is Good

14:05 #7: Turn Down the Noise

16:08 #6: Walk Away from Waiting for Justice

18:16 #5: Getting Serious About Light and Dark

20:27 #4: Leave Self Criticism Behind

21:53 #3: Waiting for the Perfect Time

23:40 #2: Mediocrity 

25:48 #1: Stop Fighting Fate

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2024-12-27
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Dan Harris: The Hidden Stressors That Are Ruining Your Inner Health & 10 Changes to Make to Reduce Stress

What stresses you out the most?

Have you noticed stress hurting your health?

Today, Jay sits down with Dan Harris, journalist, meditation advocate, and the author of 10% Happier. If you’ve ever felt like stress and anxiety are running the show in your life, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone—and better yet, there’s a way forward.

Dan opens up about the growing levels of anxiety and stress we’re all feeling, thanks to modern life’s endless distractions like social media, political turmoil, and the ripple effects of the pandemic. He unpacks the difference between stress and anxiety and offers some eye-opening perspectives on why we often feel overwhelmed. But this isn’t just a heavy conversation about what’s wrong with the world—it’s packed with solutions. 

Jay and Dan dive into the magic of human connection, the science of mindfulness, and the art of not being so hard on yourself. Dan shares personal stories about grappling with anger, dealing with claustrophobia, and navigating his own inner critic. You’ll hear how meditation has been a game-changer for him, not in making life perfect, but in making it manageable—and even joyful.

They also get into the nitty-gritty of practical tips: How do you set boundaries with your phone? How do you learn to live with discomfort instead of running from it? And how can you reframe that negative self-talk that’s always lurking? Spoiler alert: It’s not about silencing your inner critic; it’s about befriending it.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Differentiate Stress from Anxiety

How to Build Meaningful Connections That Reduce Stress

How to Reframe Negative Self-Talk

How to Identify the Root Cause of Your Anger

How to Embrace Discomfort for Personal Growth

How to Recognize and Change Destructive Habits

You don’t need to have all the answers or fix everything overnight. It’s about showing up, being kind to yourself, and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of personal growth. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:08 How Are You Handling Stress?

02:51 What is Stressing You Out?

07:24 How to Build Deep Relationships

11:32 How Develop a Healthy Relationship

19:43 The Possibility of Reprogramming Your Inner Dialogue

24:16 The Benefits of Meditation

26:51 What is “ME”?

31:14 How Do You Befriend Your Mind?

38:37 There’s a Reason Why You Keep Wanting More

40:39 Get More Familiar with Your Thoughts

43:39 What is Your Daily Meditation Practice?

47:10 The Modular Model of Mind

51:49 Healthy Anger Versus Destructive Anger

57:07 Are You Defensive or Dismissive?

01:00:12 The Power of Having a Sense of Humor

01:03:05 Observe Nature to Understand Yourself 

01:07:23 Dan on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Dan Harris | Website

Dan Harris | TikTok

Dan Harris | LinkedIn

Dan Harris | Instagram

Ten Percent Happier | YouTube

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Happier (10th Anniversary): How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge, and Found Self-Help That Actually Works—A True Story

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2024-12-23
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The Episode for People Who Are Exhausted By Dating (How to Change Your Strategy and Mindset for the New Year)

Are you tired of dating?

What’s your biggest dating struggle?

Today, Jay talks about the complexities of dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections in today’s fast-paced world. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on trust, emotional maturity, communication, and shared values – traits that truly matter in a partner – while learning to move past surface-level “icks” that can distract us from finding real love.

Through personal anecdotes and insights from Match’s Singles in America study, Jay explores why many of us are chasing outdated ideas of love, trying to recreate the romanticized relationships of our younger selves. Instead, shift your focus to the present, to nurture healthy dynamics built on honesty, respect, and mutual growth.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Build Trust in Relationships

How to Spot the Right Partner Through Their Actions

How to Ask Questions That Reveal True Priorities

How to Balance Patience and Expectations in Relationships

How to Handle Communication Differences Effectively

No matter where you are on your journey –single, dating, or in a long-term relationship – remember that love is a process, not a destination.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:01 Why Dating Has Become Extremely Challenging

06:24 The Core Values Feature

10:28 Questions to Ask on the First Date

12:58 Top Two Turn On with a New Partner

13:55 Are You Being Patient with the Right Person?

17:30 Does Your Partner’s Opinion Bother You?

19:14 Allow Other Forms of Relationships to Grow

21:54 Do You Communicate Properly with Your Partner?

24:01 Most Relationships Has a Healing Problem

25:16 Are You in the Wrong Relationship?

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2024-12-20
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Alexis Ohanian: Why Discipline Creates Freedom & How to Incorporate Routines in Your Schedule in Order to Succeed

How do you stay disciplined when life gets busy?

What’s a routine that keeps you on track?

Today, Jay welcomes Alexis Ohanian, tech founder, venture capitalist, and advocate for social change. Known as the co-founder of Reddit and founder of venture firm 776, Alexis shares the profound lessons he's learned from building communities, parenting, and navigating personal and professional challenges.

Alexis shares insights into the evolution of online identities and the surprising dedication of individuals who moderate and foster online spaces; his role as a father, offering a candid glimpse into the delicate balance between introducing his children to the digital world and preserving their innocence. 

The conversation also tackles larger societal issues, such as the importance of role models for young men and the transformative potential of positive male friendships. Alexis doesn’t shy away from discussing the darker sides of technology, including the need for ethical boundaries and his personal experiences advocating for change within Reddit.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Foster a Sense of Community Online

How to Introduce Kids to the Internet Safely

How to Navigate Cultural Differences in Relationships

How to Encourage Grit and Perseverance in Children

How to Lead a Team with Empathy and Vision

How to Prioritize Family While Building a Career

In today’s fast-paced and ever-evolving world, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Yet, the foundation of a fulfilling life lies in embracing challenges, building strong relationships, and staying true to our values.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:40 The Human Mind’s Deep Need for Community

02:59 The Challenges of Moderating Online Communities

05:26 Raising Kids to Navigate the Internet Safely

10:13 Why AI Can’t Replace Human Empathy

17:28 The Power of Optimism in Uncertain Times

21:42 Drawing Ethical Lines in Content Moderation

29:52 Saying No to Risky and Irresponsible Startups

33:05 The Key Milestones Behind Reddit’s Success

35:05 A Family’s Journey of Resilience and Survival

41:46 Coping with Family Tragedy While Moving Forward

52:27 The Joy of Seeing Hard Work Pay Off

01:00:15 Lessons Learned Through Loss and Reflection

01:12:45 Building Greatness with a Strong Partnership

01:19:19 Choosing the Right Partner for Life and Growth

01:27:23 Teaching Kids to Embrace Failure and Grow

01:35:27 Alexis on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Alexis Ohanian | Facebook

Alexis Ohanian | TikTok

Alexis Ohanian | LinkedIn

Alexis Ohanian | Instagram

Alexis Ohanian | YouTube

 

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2024-12-16
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3 Ways to Recharge Your Battery & 3 Daily Practices to Reduce Stress by 100% with the CEO of Calm @davidko

How do you unwind after a long day?

What’s your favorite way to relax quickly?

Today, Jay sits down with David Ko, the CEO of Calm and author of the groundbreaking book Recharge. Together, they unravel the complexities of stress, mental health, and how to create a fulfilling life in today’s fast-paced world.

David shares his personal journey, from navigating childhood stress to becoming a leader who champions mental wellness. He introduces the “battery analogy,” a simple yet profound way to gauge our mental and emotional energy levels. Drawing from his book, David explains how understanding and managing our “battery” can transform our approach to stress, productivity, and personal growth.

Jay and David discuss the power of presence, the necessity of balance, and how redefining stress—from harmful to helpful—can lead to resilience and growth. Their conversation dives deep into actionable strategies, such as creating rituals to recharge, fostering vulnerability at work, and redefining leadership to prioritize mental health. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Recognize When You Need to Recharge

How to Foster Vulnerability in Leadership

How to Balance Good Stress and Bad Stress

How to Build a Culture of Gratitude in the Workplace

How to Take Breaks for Better Productivity

How to Identify and Remove Stress-Inducing Triggers

Recharge your mind, body, and spirit—not just to keep going, but to thrive with purpose and joy. Prioritize yourself, because when you’re recharged, you’re unstoppable.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:10 What’s Something You’re not Calm About?

03:31 How's Your Battery?

05:42 The Four Battery Zones

10:59 The Importance of Recharging

14:24 Vulnerability in Leadership

18:37 Good Stress vs Bad Stress

25:25 Mental Health in the Workplace

28:56 Listen and Become More Purposeful

28:57 How to Take Care of Your Team

30:44 Supporting Employees’ Mental Health

38:10 Tools for Managing Burnout

44:19 How Do You Deal with Stress?

52:02 Put Your Focus on Healthy Stress 

53:27 Daily Practices for Recharging

01:01:42 What is a Quality Decision?

01:07:08 David on Final Five

01:14:90 Is Your Battery Full?

Episode Resources:

David Ko | Instagram

David Ko | LinkedIn

Calm | Website

Calm | Instagram

Calm | Facebook

Calm | X

 

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2024-12-13
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Wiz Khalifa: How to Build Your Schedule to Make You Happy & Strategize Your Life 5 Years in Advance

What in your day makes you happiest?

Where do you see yourself in five years?

Today, Jay sits down with the iconic rapper, multi-platinum artist, and entrepreneur Wiz Khalifa. The episode explores Wiz’s journey from navigating the challenges of his youth in Pittsburgh to becoming one of the most recognizable names in the music industry. Throughout their conversation, Wiz shares profound insights into his personal growth, family values, and the discipline behind his success.

Wiz reflects on his early days, including the loss of a record deal and the resilience it took to rebuild his career. He discusses his evolution as an artist and individual, emphasizing the importance of gratitude, patience, and staying true to oneself. The conversation also dives into the balance between his professional life and personal responsibilities, particularly as a father. Wiz talks about raising his 11-year-old son, Sebastian, and his new daughter, Cadence, shedding light on how fatherhood has deepened his perspective on life and masculinity.

Jay and Wiz also explore deeper topics like handling grief, cultivating self-discipline, and the nuanced concept of masculinity in today’s world. Wiz’s candid anecdotes, whether about quitting alcohol, building financial literacy, or practicing MMA for mental clarity, inspire listeners to live authentically, embrace personal growth, and focus on what truly matters.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Rebuild Confidence After a Setback

How to Balance Personal Life and Career Successfully

How to Find Gratitude in Everyday Moments

How to Stay Calm Under Pressure

How to Teach Discipline and Politeness to Kids

How to Manage Money as a Creative Professional

How to Stay Authentic in the Spotlight

Every setback is an opportunity to rebuild stronger, and every triumph is a chance to inspire others. Prioritize what matters, whether it’s your personal growth, the relationships you cherish, or the values you stand for. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:15 Navigating Fame As A Star

09:18 The Craziest Fan Interactions 

10:07 Family Matters The Most

11:49 Dealing With Grief

13:04 Seeking Family Support 

13:54 Finding Balance In Grief

14:50 Life Before Fame And Success

16:47 What's It Like To Lose A Record Deal?

17:15 Confidence In The Face Adversity 

18:37 Advice To Younger Self

19:22  Driven Goals And Compulsion

20:50 Being Contented With What You Have 

21:30 What's The Hardest Conversation You Have Ever Had?

24:40 Building Connections With Your Audience 

25:50 Ever Caught Anything Crazy On Camera?

26:45 Then VS Now Journey With Other Stars

29:13 Advice For Up And Coming Artists

32:11 How Far Do You Plan Your Goals?

32:49 Best Moves In Money Management 

35:58 Dumbest Thing I Have Ever Bought

36:35 Best Investment I Have Ever Made

38:20 Relationship With God

40:30 Moving Around In My Childhood 

41:58 How My Childhood Experiences Has Impacted Me

44:48 How My Views On Fatherhood Has Changed

50:17 How I Take Control Of My Career As An Artist

54:17 What I Learnt From My Mom

55:31 Something People Should Know About Me

1:00 How Working Out Helped Me

1:02 My Advice For Men Who Want To Get Into Health And Fitness

1:03 My Perspective On Masculinity 

1:08 My Take On MMA And Martial Arts

1:12:09 How I View My New Album And Most Viewed Video

1:16:22 My Motivation To Go Sober From Alcohol 

1:18:01 First Thing I Do Before I Go To Bed

1:18:32 Wiz on Final Five 

Episode Resources:

Wiz Khalifa | Website

Wiz Khalifa | Instagram

Wiz Khalifa | TikTok

Wiz Khalifa | YouTube

Wiz Khalifa | Facebook

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2024-12-09
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5 Ways to Achieve a ?Rich Life? & Change Your Mindset from Scarcity to Abundance

What does a "rich life" mean to you?

Do you focus more on what you have or what you lack?

Today, Jay will redefine what it truly means to live a "rich life." While society often equates wealth with material possessions and financial success, Jay challenges this narrow definition and explores how richness can also encompass time, energy, relationships, and inner fulfillment.

Drawing on personal experiences, historical insights, and anecdotes from his conversations with inspiring figures like Kobe Bryant and Tom Hanks, Jay illustrates how people can find peace and purpose by focusing on what genuinely matters. He also addresses the pitfalls of tying happiness solely to financial success, emphasizing that it?s not money itself but our mindset?whether driven by envy, ego, or gratitude?that shapes our sense of abundance.

Jay further unpacks our personal definitions of wealth. Are we in a season of prioritizing career growth, family, love, or personal development? He explores how life?s richness comes from aligning with our true values and fully embracing the priorities that resonate most in each phase of life, without guilt or external judgment.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Define Your Rich Life

How to Shift to an Abundance Mindset

How to Find Purpose Beyond Money

How to Focus Your Energy for Growth

How to Live Authentically and Fully

Richness isn?t about how much you have but how deeply you experience life. Prioritize what matters, invest your energy where it counts, and trust that each step you take toward alignment with your values brings you closer to a truly abundant existence. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:39 How Do You Define Wealth?

06:59 What You Do Becomes Your Identity

10:26 How to Create a Rich, Abundant Mindset?

11:46 The Difference Between Resume and Eulogy Virtues

17:01 How Do You Spend Your Time and Energy?

19:46 Looking at Richness Beyond Money

22:47 The Five Regrets of the Dying

 

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2024-12-06
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Codie Sanchez: How to Make Money if You Don?t Have Money (4 Step Process to Make Money Today)

What’s the first step to making money with no savings?

How do you choose which opportunities to start with?

Today, Jay sits down with Codie Sanchez, author of “Main Street Millionaire”. Codie is a powerhouse entrepreneur, investor, and the mind behind Contrarian Thinking, a platform dedicated to empowering people to build real wealth through unconventional investments and small business ownership. Codie’s journey is anything but typical: she went from a middle-class background to finance jobs at Goldman Sachs and Vanguard, then pivoted into journalism, and finally found her calling by building wealth through owning small businesses.

Codie breaks down the idea that you don’t need groundbreaking ideas or tons of cash to get started, just a willingness to look beyond the obvious. From laundromats to vending machines, she explains how these “boring” businesses can actually be gold mines, offering steady and substantial returns that often get overlooked in today’s flashy, social media-driven vision of success.

Together, Jay and Codie dive into practical steps for starting your journey in business ownership. They discuss the essentials, how to make deals, manage risk, and recognize the right opportunities. Along the way, they debunk the myth that you need to be rich or have a finance degree to succeed. Instead, they focus on the importance of learning the language of money, cultivating grit, and keeping a curious mindset.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Take Control of Your Financial Future

How to Start Building Wealth Without a Big Idea

How to Identify Profitable Small Businesses

How to Build a Strong Relationship with Money

How to Turn Curiosity into Cash

How to Leverage Ownership for Financial Freedom

How to Find Under-the-Radar Investment Opportunities

You have the ability to create meaningful change, not only for yourself but for those around you, by building something that truly matters. Keep moving forward, and believe that financial freedom is within your reach.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:57 What Makes Rich People Rich?

04:40 The Reason Why People Don’t Talk About Money

06:30 Where Are We At Financially?

09:50 Misconceptions About What Makes Money

13:00 4-Step Process to Consistently Make Money

14:47 Academic Skills Don’t Translate to a Stable Career

17:44 Do You Need Money to Make Money?

23:06 The Key to Wealth is Taking Risks

26:48 We Can All Get Rich Together

32:52 Focus on the Foundation, not Tactics

35:28 You’ll Make Less Money if You Think You Will

36:57 Learn To Ask the Right Questions

43:57 The Best Mentorship Advice

49:06 You Can Make Money From Anything

52:33 The Richest People Started Small

54:19 What Core Business Skills You Should Invest In

01:00:16 Recognize Your Value to Get Better Deals

01:10:21 Every Business has a Value

01:13:49 Are You Bad at Math

01:17:47 Codie on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Codie Sanchez | Website

Codie Sanchez | YouTube

Codie Sanchez | Instagram

Codie Sanchez | Facebook

Codie Sanchez | TikTok

Codie Sanchez | LinkedIn

Main Street Millionaire: How to Make Extraordinary Wealth Buying Ordinary Businesses

 

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2024-12-02
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3 Tools To Build Self Confidence in a World where People Make You Feel Insecure

What makes you feel confident about yourself?

How do you build your confidence when it?s low?

Today, Jay discusses a topic that's all too familiar - the constant barrage of unrealistic beauty standards. He challenges the notion of a singular "most beautiful woman in the world" and explores how societal expectations and media influence our perception of beauty.

Jay breaks down the historical and cultural factors that shape beauty standards, from the ancient Greek ideals of symmetry and proportion to the modern-day obsession with youth and perfection. He highlights the role of social media in perpetuating unrealistic beauty ideals and encourages listeners to question these norms and embrace their individuality.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Embrace Individuality

How to Build Self-Love

How to Set Boundaries

How to Appreciate Uniqueness

How to Practice Mindfulness

By understanding the forces that shape our perception of beauty and cultivating self-love, we can live authentic, fulfilling lives. Remember, true beauty radiates from within.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:21 Different Ways We Think About Beauty

07:32 Definition of Beauty Through History

13:49 Beauty Standards of the West

16:11 What Do We Believe to be Beautiful About Ourselves?

17:05 3 Ways to Build Self Love

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2024-11-29
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Jordan Peterson: 5 Ways to Shift Envy into Growth & How to Recognize and Pursue Your True Calling

What triggers envy for you?

How do you turn envy into action?

Today, in this eye-opening episode, Jay Jay sits down with the legendary Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, a psychologist, educator, and bestselling author. This conversation has been in the making for years, and it’s packed with deep insights on human development, identity, and how ancient wisdom ties into today’s challenges.

One of the standout moments is when Jordan talks about his upcoming book, We Who Wrestle With God. He takes listeners through the timeless stories of the Old Testament, explaining how they provide profound lessons on values, integrity, and personal growth. He also talks about the importance of always telling the truth and viewing life as an exploration of what’s possible. 

Jay and Jordan discuss how easy it is for people to get trapped in “false adventures”—chasing immediate gratification or quick fixes that ultimately don’t fulfill. Jordan reminds us that real growth involves shedding old parts of ourselves to move forward and align with bigger, long-term goals.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build a Life of Integrity

How to Turn Failure into Learning Opportunities

How to Stay True to Long-Term Goals

How to Practice Gratitude Daily

How to Recognize and Avoid Short-Sighted Decisions

How to Align Your Actions with Your Purpose

How to Balance Ambition and Ethical Living

This conversation highlights the power of facing challenges, learning from experiences, and staying aligned with long-term goals.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

1:24 How Technology Exacerbates Manipulation

08:13 Escaping A Limited Reality

09:41 Addressing Problems At The Root

13:55 The Effectiveness of Psychotherapy on Psychopaths

18:17 The Mindset of Predatory Psychopaths

21:03 Tips for Women to Protect Themselves from Manipulative People

24:16 PTSD And Its Impact 

27:17 How Stories Shape Our Identity

37:06 Why Self-Consciousness Leads to Misery

40:03 The Difference Between Seeing and Thinking

47:54 The Importance of Long-Term Vision

52:56 The Dangers of Envy

55:28 Strategies to Overcome Envy

59:57 The Role of Pride and Arrogance in Personal Growth

01:05:14 The Art of Understanding Through Listening

01:09:04 Avoiding the Weaponization of Truth

01:10:45 How Short-Term Gratification Derails Progress

01:13:11 Setting Standards With Encouragement 

01:16:31 Sources Of Hope Today

01:26:02 Jordan On Final 5

Episode Resources:

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Website

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | YouTube

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Instagram

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | Facebook

Dr. Jordan B. Peterson | TikTok

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2024-11-25
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4 Types of Toxic People in Your Life & 4 Tools to Stop Letting Them Drain You

 

What drains your energy the most?

 

How do you deal with toxic behaviors?

 

Today, Jay tackles a topic we can all relate to ? dealing with those challenging family members and coworkers who add a little extra stress to our lives, especially as the holiday season rolls around. If you?re already bracing yourself for gatherings with people who seem to bring more tension than joy, Jay?s got you covered. He dives into why certain people fall into negative or toxic patterns, breaking down types like the pessimist, the complainer, the eternal victim, the energy drainer, and the ?just good enough? person. Jay?s perspective sheds light on how these behaviors aren?t really who they are at their core but are often habits born from past hurts or unmet needs.

Jay doesn?t just stop at explaining, though ? he shares some really practical, relatable tips on how to navigate these tough dynamics without letting them throw you off balance. He talks about ways to respond with empathy, set emotional boundaries, and even gently redirect conversations when they start to drag you down. 

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Handle Toxic Family Members at Gatherings

How to Protect Your Peace Around Negative People

How to Set Boundaries with Draining Coworkers

How to Turn Negative Conversations Around

How to Recognize Negative Patterns in Loved Ones

How to Stop Taking Toxic Comments Personally

You can?t always change someone else?s behavior, but you can protect your own joy and keep a positive outlook. So, as you head into those family gatherings or work meetings, just remember to stay grounded and prioritize your well-being ? you deserve it!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:24 How Do You Deal with Toxic People?

03:26 What Makes a Person Negative or Toxic?

04:34 Type 1: The Pessimist

06:06 Type 2: The Complainer

08:05 Type 3: The Eternal Victim

10:19 Type 4: The ?Just Good Enough?

13:19 Some Toxic Behavior is Meant to Protect You

15:13 Tips and Strategies to Deal with Toxicity

17:12 Tip 1: Try to Understand Their Story

19:01 Tip 2: The Negativity Begins with Themselves

22:47 Tip 3: Respond with a Reflective Remark

24:05 Tip 4: Create Distance and Boundaries

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2024-11-22
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Lori Gottlieb: 7 Answers to Dating Questions You?re Afraid to Ask & How to Break Free from Relationship Timelines

Have you ever felt stuck in a negative relationship cycle?

Have you ever struggled with setting boundaries in your relationships?

Today, Jay welcomes back a community favorite, the renowned psychotherapist, bestselling author, and podcast host Lori Gottlieb, for an insightful chat about love, relationships, and emotional growth. Lori, best known for her book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone and as co-host of the popular Dear Therapists podcast, brings her deep wisdom and practical advice that really hits home with listeners.

Lori shares how people often step into love with unrealistic expectations, thanks to social media and pop culture. She reminds us that while the spark of initial chemistry is thrilling, true, long-lasting love thrives on a deeper connection and genuine understanding. One of the highlights is Lori’s take on “idiot compassion” versus “wise compassion.” She breaks down how real compassion means looking at ourselves honestly, recognizing our patterns, and owning our part in the relationship. This is essential for anyone feeling trapped in negative cycles.

As the conversation unfolds, Jay and Lori dive into family dynamics, especially around in-laws and blending families. Lori offers practical tips on how to support your relationship while still showing respect for parents, pointing out that these challenges are usually a couple's issues, not just external ones.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Let Go of Unrealistic Expectations

How to Practice Wise Compassion

How to Break Negative Patterns

How to Handle Pressure to Rush Relationships

How to Prioritize Clear Communication

How to Avoid Pop Culture Relationship Pitfalls

How to Cultivate Emotional Resilience

Remember, true connection flourishes when we commit to growth, communicate openly, and remain empathetic to both ourselves and others. Every step taken toward understanding and compassion brings you closer to creating a life filled with genuine, lasting connections.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:29 What is Everyone Doing at My Age?

05:08 Why Doing Self Work Matters

08:40 Why You Need to Slow Down to Save Time

13:03 How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Relationship

17:03 First Date Impressions Aren’t Always Accurate

21:26 How Do You Define Real Human Connection?

24:33 Do You Fully Understand Your Partner?

28:24 Learn to Communicate Your Desires

31:26 This is What Happens When You Don’t Communicate

35:24 Why We’re Unreliable Narrators of Our Story

37:52 Be Consistent with Your Boundaries

42:36 We All Want to Be Liked

45:46 You’re Not Ready to Marry Yet

49:51 Practice Being Your True Self All the Time

52:36 The Blind Spots of Dating

57:08 The Truth About Future Tripping

01:00:10 How Do You Feel About the Other Person?

01:01:33 The 7-Year Mark of Marriages

01:03:50 Can Having Children Save a Marriage?

01:07:35 In-Law Issues is a Couple Issue

01:12:01 The Concept of Feeling Felt

01:16:50 How Long Can You Tolerate Disrespect from Your Partner? 

Episode Resources:

Lori Gottlieb | YouTube

Lori Gottlieb | Instagram

Lori Gottlieb | Website

Dear Therapists Podcast

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

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2024-11-18
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4 Simple Habits to Boost Focus & Stop Getting Distracted

Do you ever try focusing on just one thing at a time?

What?s one way you avoid distractions?

Today, Jay?s diving into a struggle we all know too well: distraction. If you?ve ever found yourself scrolling on your phone without even thinking about it, you?re definitely not alone. Jay breaks down why it?s so hard to stay focused in a world full of constant notifications and packed schedules. But this episode isn?t about making us feel guilty?instead, it?s about giving us simple, doable strategies to actually make focus easier.

Jay?s packed this episode with practical tips, like creating ?no-phone zones? at home and setting tech-free times during the day to really be present. One of the standout strategies he shares is the Pomodoro Technique?working in short, focused bursts with breaks in between to keep your brain sharp and productive. Jay?s main message? Real productivity isn?t about doing more, faster?it?s about doing things better. He even shares some unique Ayurvedic advice, like chewing each bite 32 times (yes, really!) to emphasize how slowing down can improve our lives.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Slow Down for Better Productivity

How to Stay Present in Conversations

How to Find Calm by Unplugging

How to Build Stronger Focus Habits

How to Reclaim Your Attention

By setting intentional boundaries, slowing down, and practicing mindfulness, we can take back our attention in a way that enhances productivity, deepens our relationships, and brings peace to our daily lives. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:46 Have You Been Feeling More Distracted?

04:03 What Research Says About the Decline in Focus

06:12 Majority of Us Can?t Multitask

09:00 Doing Things Slower Makes Better Progress

11:43 #1: The Pomodoro Technique

13:38 #2: No Tech Zones, No Tech Times

15:56 #3: Go For a Walk, Stay Off Your Phone

20:34 #4: Finish What You Start

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2024-11-15
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Alicia Keys: 5 Ways to Overcome Self Doubt & Build Confidence Within

How do you handle negative self-talk?

What helps you overcome self-doubt?

Today, Jay sits down with Grammy Award-winning artist Alicia Keys as she shares her journey of self-discovery, resilience, and holistic living. Alicia founded Keys SoulCare, a skincare line emphasizing holistic well-being, and is a co-founder of the initiative She Is the Music, advocating for gender equality in the music industry. The conversation sheds light into Alicia's evolution from a young girl with dreams to an icon balancing a multifaceted career. Jay and Alicia discuss the highs and lows of fame, navigating self-doubt, and the pressures of public life, providing listeners with valuable insights on managing stress and fostering a positive self-image.

Alicia reflects on her childhood fears and the challenges of finding self-worth, candidly revealing how these experiences shaped her. She emphasizes the importance of staying grounded through practices like affirmations, journaling, and mindful rituals—habits that help her stay true to herself amid a whirlwind career. 

Jay and Alicia then talk about the beauty of affirmations and the importance of letting go of perfectionism, a journey that led Alicia to adopt a more holistic approach to life. In her partnership with husband Swizz Beatz, she finds a harmonious balance of "flow" and "design," where they support each other's growth and freedom. This dynamic extends to their parenting style, where they teach their children gratitude and self-acceptance while instilling a sense of humility and grace.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Embrace Your True Self

How to Overcome Self-Doubt and Fear

How to Find Confidence Within Yourself

How to Turn Negative Thoughts into Positivity

How to Discover Your Inner Strength

How to Set Boundaries for Self-Care

How to Be Kind to Yourself

How to Trust Your Own Choices

The journey through self-doubt, fears, and external pressures highlights the importance of staying grounded, trusting intuition, and letting go of the need to seek others' approval. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

03:54 What Would You Say to Your Younger Self?

05:34 When You Have the Need to Protect Yourself

09:02 From Being Doubtful to Becoming Curious

13:43 What Is Your Affirmation Today?

15:30 Stop Being Mean to Yourself

19:06 Finding the Will to Love Your Own Skin

26:49 Spend More Time with Yourself

32:14 The Gifts and the Gaps

36:19 What Have You Learned From Your Partner?

38:06 Having Healthy Conflict in Your Relationship

45:53 Finding Balance Between Control and Flow

47:51 The Love for Crystals

51:32 Losing the Ability to Trust Yourself

57:15 What Are Your Go-To Rituals to Feel Better?

01:00:08 Teach Your Children to Practice Gratitude

01:03:45 Allow Other People to Speak and Just Listen

01:05:22 Creating Safe Space for Children

01:09:35 Hell’s Kitchen on Broadway

01:15:19 Be Clear with Your Vision

01:22:12 How Have You Protected Yourself from Fame and Success?

01:26:32 Alicia in Final Five

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2024-11-11
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Can You Be Friends with Your Ex?

Are you open to just being friends with an ex?

Do you think they want the same kind of friendship?

Today, Jay?s diving into a question we've all probably wrestled with at some point: can you really stay friends with an ex? He kicks things off by laying down some ground rules, pointing out that not every ex is friendship material, especially if there was any toxicity or harm in the relationship. For those open to trying a platonic bond post-breakup, he highlights the real-life complexities and the level of emotional maturity it takes to make it work.

Jay also brings in some interesting science, sharing that studies show people stay connected with their exes for reasons like security, convenience, keeping things civil, or even unresolved feelings. But each of these reasons can get messy, and Jay explains that often, the urge to stay friends might have more to do with wanting a sense of safety or familiarity than with genuine friendship.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Decide if an Ex Deserves Friendship

How to Set Boundaries with an Ex

How to Manage Shared Friends Post-Breakup

How to Avoid Using Friendship to Win Them Back

How to Avoid Hurting Your Ex Twice

Sometimes, the boldest and most courageous thing you can do is to walk away, taking the lessons with you and leaving the rest behind. Focus on what makes you feel good and helps you build the life you truly want. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:52 Not Every Ex Deserves Friendship

04:36 Four Core Reasons People Stay Friends with Their Exes

09:30 Four Ways to Know Being Friends with an Ex Won?t Work

13:52 How to Start Being Friends with an Ex?

18:33 Friends and Family Can be Casualties of a Breakup

21:41 Establish New Rules of Engagement

22:50 Consider the Welfare of Children

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2024-11-08
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Dr. David Spiegel: 10-MINUTE Hypnosis Hack to Rewire Your Brain & Reduce Stress 80% Faster

How do you usually handle stress?

Have you tried hypnosis for stress?

Today, Jay with Dr. David Spiegel, a leading expert in psychiatry and behavioral sciences, to explore the transformative power of hypnotherapy. Dr. Spiegel, with over 45 years of experience in clinical and research fields, shares profound insights into the science behind hypnosis, dispelling myths and misconceptions. He explains how hypnosis is a natural, self-directed process that allows individuals to tap into heightened focus, manage pain, reduce stress, and address deep-seated traumas.

The conversation begins with Dr. Spiegel explaining the foundations of hypnosis, highlighting its ability to narrow one’s focus, similar to a telephoto lens, and create a dissociative state where one can temporarily suspend self-limiting beliefs. This unique focus enables users to challenge habitual thoughts and reframe experiences. Dr. Spiegel shares real-life success stories, such as a war veteran who found peace with traumatic memories and individuals overcoming chronic pain and stress using hypnosis.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Sleep Better Using Hypnosis

How to Improve Focus by Narrowing Attention

How to Process Trauma Safely with Hypnosis

How to Use Visualization to Relieve Stress

How to Focus Your Attention Deeply

How to Filter Out Pain with Hypnosis

By learning how to access a focused, relaxed state, you can reshape your response to pain, manage stress more effectively, and explore emotions or memories that might otherwise feel overwhelming. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:17 What is Hypnosis

05:08 How Beneficial Hypnosis is For You?

09:14 What Happens to Your Brain During Hypnosis

14:40 Can You Control Other People with Hypnosis?

16:13 Is It Possible to Hypnotize Anyone?

26:14 You’re Still in Control of Your Body

31:28 How Can Hypnotherapy After Memory Recall?

38:29 Guided Hypnotherapy at Home is Possible

40:59 Let Your Brain Heal Your Body 

43:34 The Worst Mental Case Under Hypnosis

50:26 We Lose the Hypnotic Ability as We Age

55:39 How Hypnosis Can Help You Focus More

57:38 David on Final Five

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2024-11-04
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Are Men Less Attracted to Successful Women?

Have you ever felt like success affected your dating life?

Have you ever felt judged for your level of ambition?

Today, Jay addresses the insecurities some men may feel when partnered with highly driven women, shedding light on societal conditioning and personal growth. discusses how societal expectations traditionally placed men in provider roles, which can lead to an unease when faced with a partner who exemplifies drive and independence.

Jay also delves into recent studies, such as the "Clooney Effect," showing that most men actually value intelligence and confidence in their partners. By examining these narratives, Jay dispels myths that successful women are inherently intimidating to men. Instead, he encourages ambitious women not to diminish their goals but to seek partners who celebrate and complement their journey.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to embrace your ambition without guilt

How to address insecurities in your relationship

How to balance mutual respect and personal ambition

How to seek partners who uplift, not compete

How to identify and avoid unhealthy relationship roles

True partnership means valuing each other's journey, working through insecurities together, and building a foundation where both people can grow freely and authentically.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:49 Are Men Less Attracted to Successful Women?

05:15 Men Have Had to Play the Protective Role

06:48 The Negative Dating Mindset You Should Stop Having

13:04 Have an Understanding of What Both are Pursuing

14:29 Are You Making Your Partner Feel Insecure?

18:29 What Makes You a Healthy Partner?

21:04 Respect Each Other?s Ambitions

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2024-11-01
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