This week on the What We Said Podcast, the girls are back with another advice column episode, diving into your dilemmas. Listeners wrote in asking how to deal with gifts you definitely don?t want to keep (and the clutter guilt that comes with them), how to navigate mom guilt in a world where way too much is expected of women, coming to terms with the possibility that your family or future might not look the way you once imagined, and many more juicy questions. Along the way, Jaci and Chelsey also share their thoughts on the latest hit series False Prophet and the devastating realities so many women have faced while living in cult environments like the one depicted on the show.

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It?s been a while since Jaci and Chelsey have taken a trip down memory lane, and this time it?s less about how they met (we?ve covered that before) and more about how their lives ? and the podcast ? have evolved. They get into what it was really like starting What We Said, the blog that walked so the podcast could run, and all the random lore that?s built up along the way. Why pink and blue? Who stole Chelsey?s car? And how does Jaci keep ending up in the middle of scandals? If you?ve ever wanted the inside scoop on the girls, this episode answers it all.

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April has come and gone, which means it?s time for your What We Said hosts to break down their favorite things of the month. Entertainment takes center stage first, with TV show recommendations and a few good old-fashioned book picks. Of course, it wouldn?t be a Monthly Favorites episode without some head-to-toe product recs, including a standout skincare favorite. They wrap things up with an interesting conversation about tension ? and the different ways it can elevate your overall look. Stay chic ladies!!

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Kenzie Elizabeth ? the What We Said girls? favorite hosting queen ? is back for another episode all about the grandma lifestyle. Kenzie, founder of Friend of Mine and host of the House Guest podcast, joins Jaci and Chelsey to chat about everything from her longtime hobbies like mahjong and needlepoint to her newest obsession: actual love (hi, Charlie). They get into romanticizing your routine, embracing slower hobbies, and what it means to lean into the cozy side of life, before rounding things out with a conversation on hosting ? complete with practical tips for anyone trying to channel their inner Ina Garten.

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Would you rather tune in to this week?s episode of What We Said? or?actually, that?s your only option. Jaci and Chelsey are reading through some of the most impossible questions from the classic two-option game, and things get tricky fast. Some start easy, like flying private alone or first class with your friends (What good is first class if my sistas can't sit? - J. Cole I think), but then it escalates to dilemmas like choosing one permanent vacation spot forever or traveling the world in luxury but never returning to the same place twice. Some questions require real thought, most lead to overthinking, and every single one is likely something we?ll never have to deal with. Yay for fake scenarios!!

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This week?s topic is dating nightmares ? and it might be the most relatable episode yet for women. You know those moments that immediately make you rethink dating entirely? Like showing your date a picture of your best friend and him casually responding with ?she?s hot.? How about waiting until ~ spicy ~ time for a confession that he maybe should?ve cleaned up a little better? And of course, it wouldn?t be an episode about men being horrifying without one casually reminding you on the drive home that he could, in fact, unalive you ? just a completely normal thing to say, right? If there?s one thing about boys, it?s that they truly cannot keep thoughts to themselves, and this episode is full of the kind of stories that make you question why we ever give them a chance in the first place.

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This week Jaci and Chelsey are joined by special guest Dr. Suzy Welch, creator of The Values Bridge, to dive into what really drives us at our core. The girls both took the assessment (you should too!) and break down their results with Suzy?s help ? from the values they naturally prioritize to the ones they wish they were living out more fully. The test goes beyond surface-level personality traits, giving a deeper look at how your values show up in real life, where you might feel out of alignment, and how that impacts your decisions, relationships, and overall sense of fulfillment. It even highlights where your values work together ? or clash ? and why that tension can feel so confusing. Whether you?re feeling stuck, curious about your patterns, or just love a good self-discovery moment, this episode is packed with insights you can actually apply.

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What could possibly be more chic than listening to the What We Said Podcast? Nothing obv, but Jaci and Chelsey are breaking down a few things that might come close. From analog baskets and paperback books to customized jewelry and? being ugly? The girls explore what ?chic? actually means right now. One thing?s for sure: no one?s getting torn down for their preferences. Just because something isn?t your vibe doesn?t make it not chic. If you?re looking for your lifestyle choices to be judged, maybe go read a Substack.

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Jaci and Chelsey have returned from some very fun trips and have some insane stories to share, with some high highs and very low lows. After recapping their travels and touching on the awe inspiring Artemis II mission, they jump right into this month?s advice column, breaking down submissions from What We Said listeners. Valley Girls are struggling across the world with inconsiderate friends asking fertility questions, navigating birth trauma, admitting to lighthearted therapist lies, and more!

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We?re a few months into 2026, which makes it the perfect time to check in on your health + wellness New Year?s resolutions? and whether you?ve been wasting your energy the whole time. Jaci and Chelsey are deciding which popular health trends are actually worth it ? and which might be total scams. From red light therapy, beef tallow, mindfulness practice, and protein in EVERYTHING to more niche picks like vibration plates, ear seeds, and IV clinics. This episode is not medical advice, just very strong Valley girl opinions. Let us know in the comments if you agree, or if we gave one of the treatments you swear by a bad wrap!

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Forgive us, Mother Jaci and Mother Chelsey? it?s been way too long since our last confession. This week, you wrote in your nastiest, vilest, most shocking secrets ? the ones you?ve never admitted out loud ? and the What We Said Podcast is bringing them to light. We?re not talking about a harmless white lie or swiping a stick of gum here? these confessions go way deeper. From unintentional shoplifting to untimely bathroom situations, unending fake identities, and unfortunately more poop stories. Consider this your penance.

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Continuing the spring reset from last week, our What We Said girls are back with all the recommendations you need to fully step into the season. They kick things off very Martha Stewart-coded with elevated bouquet tips and simple handwriting tricks to make your everyday life more classy, then pivot into the digital world with a game-changing app duo that makes graphic design (because it?s somehow a part of everyone?s job now?) way easier for the creative girls. There are also lip product recs, a matcha recipe you?ll immediately want to try, and a little rant about Timothée Chalamet?s recent media moment involving ballet and opera. March favorites, now playing!!

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Spring has officially sprung, and the Valley girls are ready to clean more than just their closets. This week, Jaci and Chelsey share their top spring cleaning tips ? and it goes way beyond dusting and reorganizing your sock drawer. They focus on clearing out digital clutter like spam texts and emails, overflowing camera rolls, and the apps that quietly waste your time. Of course, there?s still a place for the classic refresh, but this episode is really about resetting your mindset, stepping out of winter mode, and opening your eyes to everything the new season has to offer; sunshine, fresh energy, and a chance to start again.

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Clock in, because this week?s episode is all about coworker drama. The girls jump right into your submissions, with nurses getting on each other?s nerves, one man getting caught (again!?) drinking breast milk, and some tyrannical teacher?s assistant deciding they?re suddenly in charge of the entire classroom. We all know going into work can be rough, but after hearing these stories, you might just start thanking your lucky stars for your own job situation.

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The What We Said girls are March-ing into another month?s advice column, and your submissions delivered! They kick things off with a rogue husband confiding in a Valley girl?s best friend, unpack an awkward situation involving an ex-relationship step cousin, and share some helpful tips for moms-to-be entering their nesting era. Whether you?re navigating messy relationships, family dynamics, or a brand-new phase of life, there?s something in this episode for everyone.

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You?ve all been asking for Jaci and Chelsey?s thoughts on the latest season of The Traitors, and the moment has finally arrived. After kicking things off with reactions to Rob Rausch and Maura Higgins? wild season finale, the girls shift into a very different kind of traitor ? the kind who signs a lifelong contract to love someone forever and then completely throws it out the window. Listeners submitted their most shocking divorce stories, and they have the What We Said girls absolutely shaken. From husbands cheating with their sisters-in-law to secret second homes and people packing up and disappearing without a shred of regret. This episode proves people have no problem hiding behind a mask of lies ? and will make you want to keep your eyes peeled on those close to you?

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February is over ? love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no reason. And we?re not talking about basic bad time management ? we mean ignoring the love of your life just because, ghosting a potential employer after landing your dream job, and suddenly deciding to ?work on yourself? by not replying to friends for three months. Tune in this week to commiserate and maybe walk away feeling slightly less called out ? or at least knowing you?re not the only one sabotaging your own happiness.

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Welcome to the second installment of the What We Said Podcast?s monthly favorites. Jaci and Chelsey?s February roundup truly has something for every niche in your life. Chelsey, fresh off feeling sick, introduces her go-to sinus rinse (a superior upgrade to the classic neti pot), plus the Substack articles she?s been loving ? and yes, she released her own. She also shares the ultra-hydrating face mask that saved her skin during a dry Utah trip and tips for keeping your carefully curated wardrobe looking elevated instead of landfill-bound. Jaci brings the heat (literally) with a hot cacao drink that?s been helping clear her hormonal acne, a genius iMessage scheduling hack, and thoughts on Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie in Wuthering Heights. February may be the month of love, but this episode proves there?s plenty more to obsess over than a silly boy.

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We?ve all been there ? witnessing a painfully awkward moment that wasn?t technically yours, but somehow you still felt the full-body cringe. This week on the What We Said Podcast, you submitted your best secondhand embarrassment stories, and the girls are breaking them down. From a rogue husband inviting another couple to sit with them in an otherwise empty restaurant, to a bold ?three finger combo? comment made to a father-in-law that absolutely was not necessary. If you?re not already cringing, just wait ? this episode is equal parts painful and hilarious.

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Whether it?s dating, making friends, or stepping into a new workplace, spotting red flags early can save you a lot of future headache. What We Said listeners submitted their biggest warning signs that someone might deserve a little side-eye ? from the universally annoying ?never takes responsibility? type to more subtle debates like whether not having long-term friends is a reason to think twice before inviting someone to a girls night. Some are obvious, some are controversial, and all of them spark discussion. Tune in to see where Jaci + Chelsey land, and whether you agree with their takes!

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What?s not clocking with these men? This week, Jaci and Chelsey are stepping in to help untangle your toughest relationship dilemmas. Should this listener drop the guy who refuses to leave his hometown with her? Need help with navigating a boyfriend?s suspiciously mysterious past (and wondering if honesty will actually help)? They?ll also get into the chaos of a friend group being shaken up by the dreaded performative male ? because no relationship advice episode would be complete without one. This episode will leave you feeling enriched with that girly guidance you?d want from the group chat. XOXO The Valley Girls!!

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Cover up ? your desperation is showing! This week, the girls are exposing your thirstiest confessions after recapping their very polar-opposite vacations. Listeners wrote in with stories that range from unhinged to downright impressive: stalking a love interest, flying across the world just to ?accidentally? run into someone, faking sleepwalking for a late-night peek, and even staging serious health scares that end with ambulances being called. If this episode proves one thing, it?s that Valley girls will truly stop at nothing to get what they want <3

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After a quick catch-up, Jaci and Chelsey dive into the theme, mantra, anthem ? whatever you want to call it ? for 2026: the Year of the Horse. Known for bold, fast-moving energy, this year is all about confidence and momentum. The girls go even deeper into the fire element of the Horse, a combo famous for turning up the heat and pushing big risks, career pivots, and undeniable main-character decisions. Translation: trust your instincts, move with intention, and stop apologizing for wanting more. In true What We Said fashion, they?ll break down what all of this actually looks like in real life (like ruthless screen time regiments) and how to ride the energy instead of fighting it.

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Introducing the What We Said Podcast?s newest episode theme: Monthly Favorites. Jaci and Chelsey are spilling all the tea on what they?ve been wearing, watching, consuming, and critiquing lately. Topics include the habit that?s had the biggest impact on their daily lives, a nighttime ritual that completely changed Chelsey?s sleep, a deep dive into Europe?s quick and elevated cooking tips, and a movie-of-the-month pick that lived up to the hype. Tune in for those + many more, and see which favorites you might want to steal and apply to your own life.

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Valentine?s Day is right around the corner, and we?re dropping an episode that might make you want to cancel the holiday altogether. You wrote in your most horrifying dating app stories for Jaci and Chelsey to unpack, and the lineup does not disappoint; Henry on Hinge with questionable hygiene, Daniel from Duet delivering unsolicited dong pics, murder threats from Mike on Mutual, and Bumble Ben rounding things out with a blatantly bold catfish move. Names have been changed for privacy, but the stories are very real ? no app is safe, and these are tales from survivors who lived to tell them.

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Another week, another piece of TikTok jargon for Chelsey to break down ? this time, it?s ?being in your essence.? The girls unpack what that even means, recap Jaci?s low-key 31st birthday, share their thoughts on the current season of The Traitors, and check in on how this year?s goals are going so far. Then things get messy as they dive into your family drama write-ins, featuring stolen breast pumps, side pieces accidentally crossing paths, and situations that escalate all the way to serious prison time. It?s chaotic, jaw-dropping, and exactly the kind of episode that reminds you every family has secrets.

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What do toxic mom groups, 2026 to-do lists, and being spiritually chopped have in common? Absolutely nothing ? except they?re all on the What We Said Podcast?s agenda this week. The girls break down Ashley Tisdale?s recent mom-group drama and unpack who?s really at fault (and whether she?s as innocent as she claims), then shift into new-year reset mode as Jaci shares what?s actually helping her step into a clearer, more intentional mindset for 2026. To wrap it all up, Chelsey explains what it means to be ?spiritually chopped,? how to spot it, and why you should avoid being it, at all costs!

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The girls are starting the year real chatty, with a Christmas break recap of Chelsey?s bold ? and very accidental ? ?bricking? from social media. Spoiler alert: it ended up being the perfect way to free up time and energy for baking, movies, and the things they actually want to lean into this year. If there?s one takeaway from this episode, it?s that life is too short to sit around over-planning your days ? it?s time to start executing on the things you?ve been dreaming about doing, even if it?s just learning how to bake sugar cookies?

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Welcome to 2026 ? the happiest, healthiest, funniest, most Valley Girliest year yet. Jaci and Chelsey are kicking things off with a little personal rebranding, starting with a life audit of where they?re at and where they want to go. This year?s plans include getting outside more, finally conquering pull-ups, drafting journal prompts that actually make you think, and reassessing how much a girl can realistically handle in a single day. Normally you?d be invited to kick back and relax, but this episode is all about taking action and stepping into your best self for the year ahead.

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The girls are closing out the year with their very own 2025 awards ceremony, celebrating the moments that brought the most laughs, tears, and confusion on the podcast. They hand out recognition for the year?s most spot-on predictions, the worst advice they accidentally gave a listener, their funniest fumbles as parents, and of course, their favorite episodes of the year. It?s a fun, nostalgic wrap-up that highlights everything that made 2025 unforgettable ? tune in to see how your thoughts on the year stack up!

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The presents have been opened, the eggnog has been drunk, and the decorations are coming down ? but things are only just heating up at the What We Said studio. In this bonus episode, Jaci and Chelsey crack open a fresh batch of your advice submissions, from a sister-in-law stealing your baby name to a boyfriend embarrassing you by splitting the bill. Whether your dilemma involves family drama, relationship woes, or just figuring out how to stand up for yourself, the girls are here to break it all down. Tune in to see if your submission made it in, along with plenty of others.

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This week, the girls are wishing you a very merry Christmas Eve Eve and celebrating with a lineup of festive chaos. They?re diving into your biggest holiday pet peeves, the top dishes that should be on every seasonal table, and some piping-hot family scandals to sip on with your hot chocolate. There?s a lot of ground to cover ? from potlucks with absolutely no rhyme or reason to hiding a family member?s true identity ? making this the perfect mix of cozy, dramatic, and completely unhinged holiday energy.

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This week, Jaci and Chelsey debate your hottest Christmas takes, because the holiday is approaching fast and there is so much to discuss. You sent in everything from whether strangers ? or even straight-up enemies ? should be welcomed into festive gatherings for the sake of holiday cheer, to whether wish lists are turning gift-giving into a consumerist chore instead of something magical. With plenty more cozy controversy sprinkled in, this episode is all about questioning the traditions we?ve accepted and deciding what actually makes the season feel meaningful.

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This week, the girls are chatting about the best part of this season ? the gifts ? until they?re not so great anymore. They dive into your submissions about the worst presents you?ve ever received, and we?re not just talking about a $5 gift card to a store you?d never step foot in. There are gag gifts gone wrong, destroyed family heirlooms, and even stories involving dead pets? yes, you read that right. This episode will make you feel genuinely grateful if all Santa brings you this year is coal.

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The girls are tackling the dilemmas you sent in and deciding who stands where. Things start strong with a classic inconsiderate brother-in-law and quickly spiral into wedding dodgers, family thievery, and a friendship situation so confusing it practically needs a flowchart. The lines between right and wrong will get blurred, but one thing?s for sure: the Valley girls are always correct.

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This week, the girls are diving into the worst kind of chaos - sister-in-law drama. From stealing the spotlight at someone else?s big moment to blowing through their husband?s money for a scandalous getaway, these listener write-ins prove that girls really can do it all? sometimes in the worst possible ways. Buckle up, this one gets messy.

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It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or? is it nostalgia? seasonal depression? honestly, who knows) to handling pushy family members around religion, jealousy when friends start having babies, and what to do when someone keeps copying your every move. They also unpack a very tangled friends-with-benefits situation and plenty more listener dilemmas that prove adulthood is basically one long string of ?wait? how do I handle this?? conversations.

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Get your tissues ready this Thanksgiving, because the annual tearjerker is back. This week, the girls are reading your heart-melting submissions to ?the sweetest thing someone?s ever done for you,? and honestly, we?re not okay. From strangers stopping to help on the side of the road to partners setting the bar sky-high, and even real-life heroes showing up at the perfect moment, this episode is pure serotonin. It?s a much-needed reminder that kindness is alive and well ? and if the Valley girls teach you one thing this week, it?s to never lose hope in humanity.

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The girls just can?t seem to let Halloween go ? but this week?s topic is a different kind of ghosting. ? From one-night stands to full-blown engagements, they?re diving into your wildest stories of people who vanished without a trace. Whether it?s vague texts, sudden disappearances, or awkward run-ins after the fact, no one is safe from this digital Irish goodbye. It?s funny, chaotic, and just the right amount of petty ? the perfect way to officially close out spooky season.

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This week, the girls are joined by the amazing Mimi Bouchard to chat all things manifestation, mindset, and creating your dream life. Mimi even hooked the Valley Girls up with an exclusive 2-week free trial and a 69% discount on her app at activations.com/whatwesaid ! From self-improvement hacks and romanticizing your life to real mindset shifts (and the difference between meditation and Activations), this episode is all about stepping into the version of you who?s already living her dream life. Get ready, Valley Girls?it?s time to feel motivated, magnetic, and totally inspired.

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This week, the girls are feeling extra lucky ? and they?ve got the stories to prove it. It started earlier this week by scoring some unbelievable finds at an estate sale, but then Jaci and Chelsey dive into listener submissions all about good fortune and serendipity. From sneaking into concerts for free to landing dream jobs out of nowhere, these stories will have you believing that good karma is very real. It?s a feel-good episode full of manifestation energy, lucky breaks, and major main character vibes ? because honestly, Valley Girls are just the luckiest girls around?

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This week, the girls are reading off your horrors while traveling ? but first, they make some predictions for their 2025 Spotify Wrapped (spoiler: the mom era is definitely showing in the charts). They reflect on the end of tour season, sharing heartfelt thank-yous to everyone who helped make the live shows such a massive success. Then it?s time for the main event: your travel horror stories. From international mishaps and near-kidnappings to being trapped on a flight with a full bladder and nowhere to go, these tales will have you laughing, cringing, and double-checking your itinerary before your next trip.

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This week, the girls are recapping their Halloween-themed Los Angeles tour stop ? and yes, Jasper and Chester made their grand return, joined by the one and only Tiffany (Tyson French) to bring the drama and seduction to the stage. They share all the behind-the-scenes chaos, from painful SFX makeup and a halftime mixup to the dreamy TEZZA photo booth that stole the show. Plus, they chat about what?s coming up for the rest of October and how they?re keeping the spooky vibes alive through the end of the month.

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Halloween is creeping up, and the girls are out this week ? which means Chester and Jasper are back to take over the mic ? .Their mission: to read your terrifying listener write-ins. From music mysteriously blasting in empty rooms to candles blowing out on their own and strange creatures lurking where they shouldn?t be, these stories will give you chills. Plus, Tyson calls in to spill the tea on his unforgettable (and slightly disastrous) spill at a photoshoot. It?s spooky, hilarious, and perfectly chaotic ? just in time for Halloween.

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Fall is in full swing, and the girls are celebrating the season with a little thrift shopping for cozy decor ? but not without a rant about how checking out anywhere has become a full-blown DIY nightmare. Jaci and Chelsey also dive into the chaos of modern life: finances, gender roles, and the weird realities of working from home. Things take a turn with a round of listener-submitted small-town horror stories that prove truth really is stranger than fiction. From shocking scandals to dark secrets you?d never believe, this episode has it all ? cozy, creepy, and completely unhinged.

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This week, the girls dive into Taylor Swift?s new album The Life of a Showgirl and share their unfiltered first impressions before getting into some of the craziest catfishing stories you?ve ever heard. From fake friend identities that go way too far, to situations that blur the line between funny and disturbing, these stories will keep you guessing until the end. It?s one of those episodes that?s equal parts jaw-dropping, hilarious, and so unbelievably chaotic you?ll have to remind yourself it really happened. 

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This week, the girls are back from their Dallas tour stop and kicking things off with a little travel drama. From the wild emergency that happened mid-flight to the people who cannot wait to jump up the second the plane lands (we all know the type), Jaci and Chelsey have thoughts. After a quick chat about Dancing with the Stars week three, they dive into the main event: your dating horror stories. Getting stood up at dinner to chaotic kissing sessions, and a special golf game ending with a splash ? this episode has it all. Buckle up for secondhand embarrassment, laughter, and stories that will make you so glad you?re not on Hinge this week.

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This week, the girls are officially welcoming fall with special guests Kristin Johns and Jon Volk, hosts of That?s The Point Podcast! Together they chat all things cozy?starting with their hometown of Nashville and why it might just have the best autumn vibes of anywhere. From must-watch fall movies and book recs to seasonal routines that make life feel a little more magical, this episode is packed with inspiration to help you make the most of the season. The group also spills on what?s overhyped (and safe to skip) plus underrated fall traditions and activities you should definitely add to your list. Grab a blanket, light your favorite candle, and get ready for the ultimate cozy fall chat.

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Today, the girls are reading all your stories about your workplace drama. They talk about unhinged teachers, irresponsible daycare workers, toxic bosses, & more! 

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Today, the girls are dishing out their best advice! They talk about differing religious views within a family, finding THE wedding dress, hosting family at your house, & more! 

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