Our favorite fiancé/director is in the O.R.!! Hayley is back to finally tell us everything about her directorial debut “Girls Like Girls” (in theaters June 19th wink wink)

Hayley shares her years long journey of bringing the story of Girls Like Girls from song to music video and now a feature film! She takes us through every no, every disappointing call, and we learn how she pushed through and made the film she wanted to make. 

Plus, Tanya and Becca reveal their HONEST thoughts on the movie, and you can buy your tickets TODAY! 

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It’s another round of Dear Banya, with some (almost)(not quite)(far from) expert advice!
We help a single mom looking to step out of her comfort zone and make a connection with her new neighbor, we collectively lose our minds at lack of Mother’s Day posting, and we get into the hard hitting topic of our most used Emojis!

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Tanya had the house to herself this weekend and she’s JUST NOW obsessed with the new Noah Kahan. Find out her top tracks and if Becca ever pressed play on the new Meghan Trainor!
Becca and Tanya share their reactions to the first few Harry Styles shows, and we get into the news of Alex Cooper becoming “Call Her Mommy”.

Plus, love for the new Kacey Musgraves music, and Tanya has a revelation about The CW’s effect on her romantic life. 

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Giulinana Rancic is the ultimate Modern Woman and an ICON from E! Red Carpets, and she’s made it to the O.R. with her husband Bill Rancic to share everything about their relationship and their new podcast!

Bill and Giuliana aim to find the answers to the questions that keep us up at night, from adult ADHD to “why is my **** green?”

Plus, Giuliana shares some memories from her favorite interviews from the Red Carpet and her favorites may SHOCK you!

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Tanya's mindset was totally changed this weekend when Roby surprised her with a deeply meaningful breakfast in bed. But we HAVE to hear about Becca's night out with Hayley at the Gold Gala! 

We debrief about hanging with Stephen Colletti and James Lafferty and take a second to celebrate our favorite unproblematic TV men. 

Plus, Becca has a reformed opinion on men in flip flops while Tanya reveals a "bath aversion", and we break down some of our favorite Noah Kahan lyrics!

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One Tree Hill, Laguna Beach, The Traitors, TAYLOR SWIFT. Somehow, Stephen Colletti and James Lafferty’s web connects them all! Becca and Tanya hang out with two of our favorite guys from OTH and hear all about their new show Everyone is Doing Great!

Stephen spills what he really thought about Rob Rausch on the latest season of Traitors, and Tanya has a crucial admission to share with James that could make things awkward.

We hear about the OTH reboot and how Laguna Beach started as a “networking opportunity” but became a global sensation. 

Plus, Becca has a Nathan/Haley question for James that he’s NEVER been asked before!
Everyone Is Doing Great Season 2 premieres May 11 on Netflix!

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Becca is back from F1 in Miami and now understands the need for speed! We hear all about her weekend on the track with F1 superfan Hayley Kiyoko and what it was like getting behind the wheel.

It’s Met Gala Monday and the rules are weird! We break down the bizarre guidelines for the biggest night in fashion and try to imagine what it would feel like to raw dog the Met Gala.

Plus, Becca presented Tanya with an award (but nearly missed her cue), and we get an update on wedding planning!

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Tanya had an awkward moment at the movies while Becca was captivated by an over-the-top Bachelorette trip! But in between, we’re helping some Scrubbers with a round of Dear Banya!

What do you do if your mother in law is too? affectionate with your kids? And how do you handle a spouse with strong opinions on your hairstyle?

Plus… a Dear Banya first when we hear from a similar scenario but from each side of the argument!

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BREAKING NEWS! Harry Styles is engaged!! Becca and Tanya share what they really think his whirlwind relationship with Zoë Kravitz, and we get a look at how Roby feels about Tanya’s “friend” tying the knot. 

Tanya confronts Becca about a denied FaceTime call, which begs the question… does anyone like being ambushed on FaceTime?? 

Plus, we revisit the Alix vs Alex feud, and how do you know when a trend is over??

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Tanya has to write a speech because she’s accepting a very special award! Becca is involved too, but might not know what’s expected of her yet. 

And we try to help some Scrubbers with another round of Dear Banya! What do you do when your partner is sharing intimate details about your relationship? And how do you handle the WFH vs In-Office dilemma??

Plus, another round of the Birthday Game! Play along!

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BLAZE IT UP! Becca is back from HayleyChella and has so many backstage stories to share! 

Tanya had a run-in with a Love Island superstar and exercised a surprising amount of restraint. And we dive into Tanya’s IG live with the Biebs, and what it means when Tanya texts “can I tell you something?”

Plus, we break down a list of what some consider to be the “bare minimum” for dating!

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Becca and Tanya are back with another round of Dear Banya!

What do you do if your friend wants to name her kids the same name as yours?? A Scrubbers asks Becca and Tanya about their relationship with faith, and another needs some advice on how to make a destination wedding extra special!

Plus, we dig deep into Tanya's notes app and uncover some Roby secrets from the past!

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Tanya tried a social media detox…and it was unsuccessful. But how can you try to stay off social media on Coachella weekend?? 
We dive into all the Coachella content and things get tense when Becca and Tanya are split on Justin Bieber’s performance! Are you a Belieber? Or is it giving lazy? 
Plus, a full breakdown on the lore of ‘lix and ‘lex.

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Becca and Tanya are back as the singular “Banya” to share some almost expert advice for real Scrubbers!

How should you handle a new mom friend group when one of their kids is being mean to yours?? We get an update on a Scrubber who wrote in a few weeks ago, and we check in on Tanya and Becca’s dream engagement rings from 2018! Has anything changed??

Plus, should Tanya have to “retake” her driver’s test??

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After a recap of Hayley’s whirlwind birthday celebrations, we find out that Tanya has completely lost her ability for small talk. How will she endure awkward moments at the microwave??

Tanya shares her VIP Disneyland experience with Sophia Carson and we get the whole story on the “Scream Heard ‘Round the World”.

Plus, we dive into the Real Housewives of Rhode Island, the Summer House drama and… do we dare discuss Grey’s???

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Becca and Tanya are ready to help more Scrubbers with some questionable advice!

How should you react to an ex’s flirty comments on an Instagram post? And are you absolutely sure you want Becca and Tanya’s help with a baby name??

Plus, the search for the best “harmless” April Fool’s pranks. 

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Becca and Tanya had a girl’s date at the iHeartRadio Music Awards! The show was great, but we need a FULL report on what it was like sitting six (6) rows from Taylor Alison Swift. 

Tanya lets us in on her hair color debate, her journey of learning how to do makeup, and a rogue mystery hickey.

Plus, we have all officially fallen in love with Rocky. 

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A LOT has happened since our last meeting in the O.R.! We discuss the Bachelorette cancellation and what might happen next! Does Becca have the inside scoop??

Becca is back from her first wedding as a fiancé and she took some notes! 

Plus, a major Grey’s SHAKE UP and Tanya has a new bedtime accessory!

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Tanya is celebrating her one year anniversary! But while she’s basking in her first year of matrimony, Becca fields the non-stop question… when is she tying the knot??

We get into some hard hitting discussions, like should Becca and Hayley pick out dresses TOGETHER? What was Tanya’s one wedding regret? And does anyone actually like the taste of water??

Plus, Becca takes us through the beats of missing a flight, and we dive into the entertainment of Tik Tok comments!

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Becca and Tanya are back to help some Scrubbers with anything-but-expert advice!

What if your partner has no hobbies? Is that a red flag? How should you handle it if a friend left you on read for weeks… after sending a birth announcement?? And Mark and Easton reveal the moment they found out about Hayley and Becca!

Plus, we make a trepidatious return to Grey’s.

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It’s the day after The Academy Awards, and Becca (as the fiancé of a film director) made it to some afterparties! You’ll never guess which celebs she rubbed elbows with and if she invited any to be on the pod!

Tanya has taken on a new role as Hayley’s accountability coach, but how are things going in week 2?? 

We get into the “experiment” that is Age of Attraction on Netflix, and we have more from our chat with Jessica Barrett AND her new boyfriend Haramol Gill!

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Jessica Barrett is trading one pod for another when the Love is Blind star scrubs in!

She spills everything with Becca and Tanya, and we hear the story of how a random DM led her to a life changing experience. 

Jessica gets real about which of her cast mates had soul mate vibes right from the start, she opens up about the devastating words she heard from a failed match, and we get to hear all about the real connection she found after the show!

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The Harry Styles album is out and we are ready to listen all the time! But Becca might be only playing it “occasionally”. Find out what we really think of the new songs and if Tanya inspired one of the singles!

We dive deep into the Love is Blind finale, Rob from Traitors and the Birkin he gifted Maura, and… is it ever okay to take your shoes off on a plane??

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Becca and Tanya are still live from The Studio at Baha Mar! But after some ‘mingo talk and a water slide negotiation, there’s a pressing issue we need to discuss… The Traitors finale! 

Find out what Becca and Tanya really thought of the dramatic conclusion and we try to determine if Tanya would thrive as a faithful… or a traitor. 

Plus, we dive into Survivor 50 and Becca has a shocking revelation that Hayley might be a “Tanya”

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Becca and Tanya are live from The Studio at Baha Mar! The world first resort-based podcast studio! But before we hit the beaches and go down the water slides, we're doing a round of Q&A and nothing is off limits!

Find out how Becca and Tanya protect their peace, their favorite concert memory, and which fictional characters they'd love to have dinner with! Tanya's answer will shock you to your core. 

Plus, we get a full recap of their harrowing red eye flight to the Caribbean, with lost text messages and a dramatic speed-walk race!

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Becca and Tanya are back to help some Scrubbers with their hard hitting questions!

What do you do when someone makes you feel insecure? Is it okay to rehome a pet if you can’t take care of it? And what should you do if your partner wants you to meet their mom… on her birthday??

Plus, Tanya has a revelation about her driving skills. 

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Tanya is an industry leader when it comes to sleepmaxing, but which of the “sleep hacks” really work?? We get into mouth tape, white noise, and everything else to improve your snooze. 

Our heartstrings are pulled when discussing the viral story of Punch the monkey, and we pay our respects to the tragic loss of Eric Dane. 

Plus, a full review of the new Hilary Duff album and we revisit the Valentine’s Day debate!

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We’re back with more Dear Banya questions, and could we be closer to our official jingle?? The audition process has begun!

We try to help a Scrubber with some Maid of Honor duties that are quickly getting out of hand, what to do when your boyfriend is tossing too many “Likes” to celeb bikini pics, and we revisit Tanya’s psychic experience.

Plus… we get into the latest season of Traitors!

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Becca and Tanya are back together and ready to recap their Valentine’s weekend! 

Tanya hit the slopes and realized she’s far from a Lindsey Vonn. Becca found her crafty side and celebrated the trailer premiere of her director fiancé! 

Plus, we discuss how to handle a disappointing man, and could Becca’s phone addiction be solved by a brick??

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It’s the Tanya and Mark show! We do a deep dive into the Big Game, the halftime show, our guy Charlie Puth, but did we love the commercials??

We hear Tanya’s honest reaction to the Girls Like Girls movie trailer, and Roby wants Tanya to start meditating every day… can she do it??

Plus, Mark gives Tanya some advice as she approaches her 1 year anniversary. 

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It's another round of Dear Banya, and we need to LEVEL UP! Becca and Tanya are ready to lock in and answer some hard hitting questions from Scrubbers!

We help a parent trying to raise a modern woman, we help someone dealing with a self-centered friend, and should you go on an overseas trip with family (and a young child)??

Plus... we dive deep into Traitors!

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Becca and Tanya are ready to recap the Grammys with some takes that might be a bit less than “piping hot”… was the show a little snoozy??

Tanya tried the ritual of blowing cinnamon in her front door at the first of the month and we find out how that worked out for her! Maybe some “hocus pocus” should just stay on Instagram…

Plus, Becca shares an update on her basketball league and we revisit Tanya’s noisy neighbors!

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Becca and Tanya are here to attempt to help some Scrubbers with another round of Dear Banya!
A Scrubber is seeing a new guy who is definitely into her… from her head to her toes. How would you handle something “unique” in the bedroom??

What do you do about a nosy neighbor??

And last week we discussed rescinding an invite, but what’s the etiquette on taking back an RSVP as a guest… to a destination wedding!

Plus, how would Becca and Tanya react if “People We Meet on Vacation” happened to them??

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Becca survived a quick, frozen trip to New York, with a return flight that may have transformed her into a plane clapper, while Tanya had a revelation about the lack of audio privacy from her neighbors in the bathroom. There may be something going on!!

Tanya gives us a full rundown of Nick Jonas’ Sunday Best show, we dive into more Harry Styles reactions, and we try to break down the Taylor Swift and Blake Lively texts!

Plus, how should you handle cursing around your kids? Do you have a swear jar or do you let the Fs fly??

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Harry Styles gave ONE interview for all of iHeartRadio… and it was with Tanya and Sisanie! Tanya and Becca need to debrief about how she was HAND PICKED by our savior Harry Styles!

What happened during the interview?? What do we think about the new song?? And what was Roby’s reaction to Tanya being picked??

We are in a drought and Harry said let me bring them water!

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Becca and Tanya are back to help some Scrubbers with another round of Dear Banya!

What do you do when your ex starts dating someone new… and it’s your next door neighbor?? 
When can you “rescind” a wedding invite?? 

And what’s the best way to handle a partner who doesn’t feel the same urgency to take the next step??

Plus… if you could take on any movie role, what would it be??

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Tanya is vision board-less to start 2026, but a recent obsession with a cooking show could be what she needs to get in the right headspace. 

Have you been following the Brooklyn Beckham drama?? Becca and Tanya have all the info and we (might) know what it means! 

Plus, the return of Harry Styles, how to tell if you’re “micro cheating” and we have a “hot girl of the week” in the O.R.!!

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It’s time for another round of Dear Banya! 

Becca and Tanya try to help a scrubber with the dilemma of a small courthouse wedding or a big blowout dream ceremony, and should you be OBSESSED with your partner?? 

Plus, we get you caught up on the “toxic mom drama”, Tanya’s Golden Globes manifestation, and a behind the scenes report from Becca on our next Bachelorette, Taylor Frankie Paul!

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We’re back in the stu! Tanya opens up about her scary start of the year and how it made her fall even more in love with Roby. 

Becca gets us caught up on her holidays in Florida and what it was like flying cross country with Phoebe. 

AND… we have SO much pop culture to get through! The Golden Globes! Stranger Things! The Traitors! And of course… Heated Rivalry.

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We’re saying goodbye to 2025! Becca and Tanya go through their favorite songs, movies, TV shows and what we’re looking forward to in 2026! 

Plus, an update on Tanya’s natural nail journey. 

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Merry Christmas! Becca and Tanya take us through their Christmas traditions, the struggle of buying gifts for a husband, and the joy of silk pillowcases. 

And Tanya continues her search for the gingerbread man of her youth. 

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It’s almost the end of the year, which means Tanya is working on her “word” for 2026! What will it be??

We get into the unbelievable report that Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce have never? fought. Does that ever happen??

Plus, will Becca have a destination wedding?

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The Mastermind Becca Tilley continues the story of her fairytale engagement to Hayley!

How did the big moment go down?? Did she drop to one knee? COULD SHE KEEP THE SECRET?? All is revealed in this dramatic conclusion!!

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Becca is back from Japan… did anything happen??? She shares all the details from her dreamy proposal and what it took to make it all happen!

Plus, Tanya discovers the joy of rawdogging.

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Roby’s back! We find out what Roby REALLY thinks of Tanya’s “admiration” of Joe Jonas, we relitigate the sleeping habits of men, and it’s time for a round of the Birthday Game!

Plus… a visit to the pages of Tanya’s “Dear Future Husband” journal.  

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Roby is filling in for Becca and he’s coming in hot! Winnie the Pooh with a law degree is ready to defend his bohemian sleeping attire and we learn so much about the psyche of Roby. 

Tanya and Roby take us behind the scenes of their night at Jingle Ball and how Mr. Fantasy stole both of their hearts. 

Plus, we tackle some Scrubber questions about parenting, love after divorce, and the controversial topic of… sunflower seeds. 

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Becca is about to head to Japan! We find out what kind of vacation person Becca is when she's with Hayley. Is she a planner, or a go with the flow?

As mentioned, we love to lay, but a Scrubber writes in with a boyfriend who might be a bit too lazy. 

Plus, Tanya found a December "challenge" to strengthen relationships... will Roby make it through??

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We’re recovering from Thanksgiving, but how did hosting go?? 

Tanya and Becca are working their way through leftovers, the best TV to binge, and a love of laying. Have we mentioned we love laying?

Plus, it’s the year of parasocial and we dive into the clothing items we “can’t wear”!

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Happy Thanksgiving! We’re sharing our favorite traditions, our favorite fits, and we find out if the Yads are truly prepared to host! 

Grab some sweet potato casserole and join us in the O.R.!

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Becca and Tanya are BOTH hosting Thanksgiving… but are they ready?? 

Becca shares every foxtrotting detail of her night at Dancing with the Stars! And you won’t believe which superstar she ended up having dinner with!

We get a full rundown of their GNO at Sabrina Carpenter, which included a run-in with a Grey’s fav and some boys in blue. 

Plus… a shocking revelation from Tanya in the land of Oz. 

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