At the age of 15, the filmmaker and actor Kyla Harris had an accident that forever changed what her body could do, and what it couldn?t. From then on, she needed someone with her 24 hours a day to help her with things like going to the bathroom, cooking and showering. 

Family members, friends, romantic partners and personal assistants have all played a role in Kyla?s care over the years. She?s had to learn to communicate, in exceptionally clear terms, how her body feels and what it needs, at any hour of the day or night. 

Kyla is a creator and the star of the BBC TV show ?We Might Regret This,? and her character, Freya, has the same disability that Kyla does. While the show depicts a fictional world, its complex web of remarkably close, interdependent relationships is, in part, inspired by Kyla?s life.

In this episode of ?Modern Love,? Kyla tells Anna Martin what it?s been like to approach every want and need as a group project. This dynamic becomes especially interesting when it comes to Kyla?s thriving sex life, from dance-floor makeouts to long-term partnerships. Kyla discusses getting creative with her body ? and the occasional prop ?  and takes a deep dive into what intimacy can really mean.

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This week on "Modern Love," we're bringing you one of our favorite conversations from our friends at "The Interview." Speaking to host Lulu Garcia-Navarro, the comedian and actor Robby Hoffman says class and the way she grew up inform everything about the way she lives now.

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In 2019, Susie Shaw?s 9-year-old son, William, died in a skiing accident. We talk about grief a lot on this show, but a parent grieving the death of a child is a loss so profound, words don?t feel adequate. It?s hard to know what to say to someone facing this kind of tragedy.

Susie Shaw says: Ask me a question. Ask me about my dead son.

On this episode of ?Modern Love? Susie tells its host, Anna Martin, about loving and losing William ? and shares advice for how to show up for other bereaved parents with compassion.

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Explore the trials and tribulations of love in these deeply personal essays. A collaboration of The New York Times and WBUR in Boston, Modern Love: The Podcast features the popular New York Times column, with readings by notable personalities and updates from the essayists themselves. Join host Meghna Chakrabarti (WBUR) and Modern Love editor Daniel Jones (NYT) -- and fall in love at first listen.

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